Best feminist music of different genres

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Best feminist songs? How feminist music can be moving on a personal level - rather than as political theses. Examples? I know some would say the riot grrrl movement has died out - but what good feminist music has come after it?

Rush Rhees (Rush Rhees), Friday, 9 April 2004 16:28 (twenty-one years ago)

TLC, no doubt.

And I wouldn't call Mariah Carey a feminist by any stretch, but she's about as close as an R&B diva has come to a riot-grrl, with her hyper-femininity. That's the reason everyone hates her, too.

Rich, Friday, 9 April 2004 17:06 (twenty-one years ago)

some missy elliott, some christina aguilera, some northern state, lots of other stuff. "feminist" can mean so many things.

fact checking cuz (fcc), Friday, 9 April 2004 17:10 (twenty-one years ago)

jesus, enough already

roger adultery (roger adultery), Friday, 9 April 2004 17:13 (twenty-one years ago)

2Pac "Brenda Had a Baby"
Alice Cooper "Only Women Bleed"

Patrick (Patrick), Friday, 9 April 2004 17:14 (twenty-one years ago)

Do you have any suggestions as to what would sound a bit like Mazzy star or Cat power?

Rush Rhees (Rush Rhees), Friday, 9 April 2004 17:19 (twenty-one years ago)

Limp Bizkit.

latebloomer (latebloomer), Friday, 9 April 2004 17:29 (twenty-one years ago)

Trina

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Friday, 9 April 2004 17:30 (twenty-one years ago)

I've never heard a feminist song I like.

Mr. Snrub (Mr. Snrub), Friday, 9 April 2004 20:29 (twenty-one years ago)

do you want a medal?

J.D. (Justyn Dillingham), Friday, 9 April 2004 20:46 (twenty-one years ago)

That one Doris Day song.

Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Friday, 9 April 2004 20:47 (twenty-one years ago)

Frank Sinatra - Miss Kittin & The Hacker
You Suck - The Yeastie Girl / Consolidated

Nik (Nik), Friday, 9 April 2004 20:49 (twenty-one years ago)

"Only Women Bleed" by Alice Cooper feminist? Hmmmmmm...... I know a woman who finds that song utterly patronizing. You tell me.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Friday, 9 April 2004 21:17 (twenty-one years ago)

ROXANNE SHANTE!!

M@tt He1geson (Matt Helgeson), Friday, 9 April 2004 21:33 (twenty-one years ago)

how about anti-feminist songs?

Like "Run For Your Life" and the song that goes "You take my self / you take my self control" - I like thet line that goes "I haven't got the will to try and fight..."

Bwahahahahahaaa

roger adultery (roger adultery), Friday, 9 April 2004 21:57 (twenty-one years ago)

Laura Branigan!

Grace Jones also

Nik (Nik), Friday, 9 April 2004 22:00 (twenty-one years ago)

the spice girls!

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Saturday, 10 April 2004 05:27 (twenty-one years ago)

bananarama, eve, hey and surely theres heaps of feminist country music! for starters, dolly parton, and that woman who sang "don't come home a-drinkin' with lovin on your mind".

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Saturday, 10 April 2004 05:33 (twenty-one years ago)

You mean Loretta Lynn.

jim wentworth (wench), Saturday, 10 April 2004 05:34 (twenty-one years ago)

yeah, sorry, i'm a bit patchy on my country knowledge.

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Saturday, 10 April 2004 05:41 (twenty-one years ago)


"TLC, no doubt." -> Esp TLC's Pretty. Spending $$$$ on looking pretty to sing a song about it not being important how you look.

jesus nathalie (nathalie), Saturday, 10 April 2004 05:49 (twenty-one years ago)

that was called "unpretty" < / pedant >

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Saturday, 10 April 2004 05:52 (twenty-one years ago)

Saying that 'uncle tom' girls like Mariah Carey are feminist is equivalent to the act called 'greenwashing' in environmental circles where polluting companies make token gestures towards environmentalism. So there!

No-one meets my criteria for feminist musicians, but if they did, they'd probably pollute the environment or something anyway, I have to go

Amity (Amity), Saturday, 10 April 2004 05:55 (twenty-one years ago)

Ferrin ?

jim wentworth (wench), Saturday, 10 April 2004 06:06 (twenty-one years ago)

*thump* Yes, Unpretty.

jesus nathalie (nathalie), Saturday, 10 April 2004 06:08 (twenty-one years ago)

I am a little confused why people seem to think feminism could be anything, and why Mariah Carey could be seen as doing feminist stuff. OK that it's not obvious how a song should be interpreted, am thinking of 'Could discovery' by Smog. A song I personally find to be grappling with male violence from a male perspective. Others have seen it as misogynic - which I think is not quite adequate.

Am also a bit sad that some people here seem to have difficulties with taking this kind of question seriously. I think good music, even if it might sound a bit ridiculous, manages to deal with all aspects of our lives. Why should not gender be taken seriously as a theme in pop music. Without starting an argument about legitimizing feminism. I am so **** tired of doing that all the time.

Rush Rhees (Rush Rhees), Saturday, 10 April 2004 07:26 (twenty-one years ago)

Why should not gender be taken seriously as a theme in pop music

yeah, and in any context! sometimes i get paranoid that my tendency to examine gender in most areas of my life is a kind of myopia, but i've come to terms with that because feminism is simply one of many ways in which i view the world, in the same way that marxism or apathy or whatever might function for someone else.

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Saturday, 10 April 2004 07:42 (twenty-one years ago)

i don't quite understand that mariah carey call either, rush, or if it was supposed to be a joke. riot grrrl = hyperfeminine?

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Saturday, 10 April 2004 07:44 (twenty-one years ago)

I think you are right. Feminism doesn't have to be myopia. If you apply a gender perspective you see what you see. That is implied in calling it a certain perspective.

Are riot grrrls hyper feminine? I don't think so. Perhaps they are playing with hyper-femininity sometimes. (Perhaps that is what could make Mariah Carey interesting - she is so feminine the femininity seems absurd ---)

Rush Rhees (Rush Rhees), Saturday, 10 April 2004 11:02 (twenty-one years ago)

anything by CRASS

eleki-san (eleki-san), Saturday, 10 April 2004 11:12 (twenty-one years ago)

anything by CRASS


yeah, really. everyone should own a copy of penis envy. two copies even! Also see if you can find a copy of Flux Of Pink Indian's The Fucking Cunts Treat Us Like Pricks/The Fucking Pricks Treat Us Like Cunts and try to listen to the whole thing in one sitting.

scott seward (scott seward), Saturday, 10 April 2004 11:25 (twenty-one years ago)

Eve: "Love is Blind" & "My Bitches". They're not explicitly political, but they both have sort of proto-feminist conciousness, and you have to remember Eve was 19 or 20 when he wrote those songs. "My Bitches" is especially powerful, it's a version of "My Niggas" by DMX. Here's the lyrics:


My bitches my bitches that'll change the locks
My bitches my bitches that'll cut up your clothes
My bitches my bitches that'll steal your stash
My bitches are bold my bitches are cold
My bitches my bitches that'll smuggle your drugs
My bitches my bitches that'll hold you down
My bitches even when you out of town
My bitches is smooth my bitches is real
My bitches my bitches that take care of they kids
My bitches my bitches that you don't respect
My bitches my bitches that you always neglect
Yall niggas ain't real yall niggas ain't shit
My bitches my bitches let his ass go to jail
My bitches my bitches don't post none of his bail
My bitches my bitches teach him how that shit feel
Don't except his calls don't send him no mail
My bitches my bitches that'll fuck out your brain
My bitches my bitches that'll take the pain
My bitches my bitches that'll play the game
Ya'll niggas is weak ya'll niggas is lame
My bitches my bitches that'll stay in school
My bitches my bitches that can keep a job
My bitches my bitches that can raise the kids
My bitches are strong my bitches will live

Tuomas (Tuomas), Saturday, 10 April 2004 11:44 (twenty-one years ago)

I've got a great single by Sandy Duncan called "I Am A Woman" that is great. Try and find that one.

scott seward (scott seward), Saturday, 10 April 2004 11:47 (twenty-one years ago)

OK. I'll see if I can find it. I don't know Sandy Duncan. Should I be embarrassed not to? Enlighten me!

Rush Rhees (Rush Rhees), Saturday, 10 April 2004 18:30 (twenty-one years ago)

she was an actress with one eye. she used to sell triscuits on tv. she was also on that show with jason bateman, but i can't remember the title. i think it was jason bateman.

scott seward (scott seward), Saturday, 10 April 2004 18:32 (twenty-one years ago)

she also played peter pan on broadway. (maybe that's why she felt the need to cut a single where she stated emphatically that she was, in fact, a woman, since she was famous for playing an ageless boy-child.)

scott seward (scott seward), Saturday, 10 April 2004 18:33 (twenty-one years ago)

Sincerely, I can enjoy lots of music by women and appreciate its contribution to my possible emancipation, but if I look at it through the framework of the ultra-radical perfectionistic feminism I subscribe to I'm always disappointed.

For example, Bjork/Cyndi Lauper/Ari Upp/ other 'child of nature' semi-experimental performers: yes, there is a liberation in what they do, some departures from social mores, but why do they have to wear uncomfortable shoes? I have the same problem with eg the writer Colette

The Slits/Babes in Toyland/riot grrl/Courtney Love and others in the punk chronology - it's good that they are in touch with their anger and sexuality etc, but why do they have to wear uncomfortable shoes, and 'get their tits out' as reviewers of the period crudely put it about the Slits?

TLC/Salt'n'Peppa (sorry, I've forgotten the exact spelling)/Missy Elliot/others in the hip hop sorority - great music, but why do they have to wear uncomfortable shoes, and make-up, and not complain constantly about the version of women presented by hip hop?

Bessy Smith/... /Janis Joplin and others in the blues/country chronology, some brilliant and witty lyrics about the problems of being a woman, but again, why the shoes? Not to mention the cheesy airbrushed made up pictures, the lack of resistance across the body of the lyrics, etc.

So from my point of view, bands like The Breeders would be 'more feminist' in terms of appearance, but then there is the problem of the actual music. Music in the country and blues tradition might be the most satisfying sonically, but there is the problem of the overall lack of resistance. So I suppose what my problem boils down to is that only emancipated, university educated, brave women are likely to grasp the need to resist the superficial trappings of femininity, but these women aren't necessarily the most likely to make lively music, perhaps partly because the amount of time and energy required to educate and gird yourself 'against society' and posit your own values precludes a strict dedication to practising and playing music.

amity (Amity), Saturday, 10 April 2004 21:52 (twenty-one years ago)

what kind of shoes are uncomfortable?

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Sunday, 11 April 2004 00:05 (twenty-one years ago)

maybe i'm a weirdo but i've always found platforms and high heels quite comfortable. in fact, after a week of wearing any kind of raised heel i find flatter shoes uncomfortable.

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Sunday, 11 April 2004 00:08 (twenty-one years ago)

oh hey more about the blues! bessie smith and ma rainey had some pretty strong protofeminist themes going on. angela y. davis has written extensively on this topic, i've just been reading about it and its making me really wanna go home and dig out my bessie smith tapes.

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Sunday, 11 April 2004 01:12 (twenty-one years ago)

Footbinding ... high heels. Not that I don't wear high heels myself, it's just not feminist, it's a pragmatic and anti-utopian move and a 'backwards step', ha ha.

'Shoes' is just metonymy for all the ways in which society encourages women to compete against each other to be the most valued object rather than most powerful subject (in the sense of subject as actor and object as acted upon).

(Not that I think women should compete to be the most powerful subject either. Especially not as in the horrible formulation 'I use my sexual oppression to gain power'.)

My conclusion above was silly, - eg that only educated women see the need to abandon superficial femininity. Surely the cause of the problem is just that 'unfeminine' women can't get much media access.

But I oughtn't moralise, of course, I wear high heels and make-up and all that, I just wanted to present some ideals.

Amity (Amity), Sunday, 11 April 2004 05:43 (twenty-one years ago)

i definitely agree that it is a problem that "unfeminine" women don't get represented much. bring on the butch! but i disagree with your more rigid pronouncements about shoes. in the cases of a lot of performers you name, surely its more about them trying to be powerful sexual subjects than the most valued sexual object. i don't think being sexy is inherently feminist OR playing into the hands of male sexual dominance - it depends on how it is used by the performer in question. re: punk women wearing uncomfortable shoes, check out the raincoats, they liked to wear orthopedic shoes!

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Sunday, 11 April 2004 06:49 (twenty-one years ago)

hey and its worth taking into account the performativity of some female musicians, eg dolly parton, who is presenting, i think, a conscious send-up of a feminine ideal rather than an out-and-out adherence to it.

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Sunday, 11 April 2004 06:51 (twenty-one years ago)

patti burn your bra don't do your underarms smith?

mullygrubber (gaz), Sunday, 11 April 2004 07:48 (twenty-one years ago)

Patti Smith and the Raincoats, they're like, yeah, they're 'morally acceptable' I guess! And trying to get power as a sexual subject, that's pragmatic, pragmatism is important ... I read someone saying in their 'blog', you know, I guess I thought by the 21st century we'd all be living in silver spacesuits being buddies ... strawberry fields forever and all that (I'm listening to 'Strawberry Fields' right now - it's on TV, John Lennon looks like an intellectual. 'Intellectual Personae'?)

Amity (Amity), Sunday, 11 April 2004 07:52 (twenty-one years ago)

Re: feminist country songs - I've never quite worked out where 'Born a Woman' by Sandy Posey fits in...

It doesn't matter if you're rich or poor
Or if you're smart or dumb
A woman's place in this old world
Is under some man's thumb
And if you're born a woman
You're born to be hurt
You're born to be stepped on, lied to, cheated on
And treated like dirt
Ah if you're born a woman
You're born to be hurt
A woman's lot is to give and give
And go on giving
A woman's got to love and lose
And go on living
Well I was born a woman
I didn't have no say
And when my man finally comes home
He makes me glad it happened that way
Because to be his woman
No price is too great to pay
Yes I was born a woman
I'm glad it happened that way
Oh I was born a woman

Critique or capitulation? Nick Lowe covered this song...

Andrew L (Andrew L), Sunday, 11 April 2004 08:49 (twenty-one years ago)

girl singer jokes:

-  Why are concert intermissions limited to 20 minutes ?

A -  So you won't need to retrain the singers.

 

Q -  What do you call a girl that hangs around with musicians?

A -  A singer.

 

Q -  How do you know when there's a female vocalist at the door?

A -  She can't find the key and doesn't know when to come in.

 

Q -  How do you know that it's the lead singer knocking at your front door?

A -  You open the door and she still doesn't know when to come in.

 

Q -  How many female vocalists does it take to sing the song "Crazy"? (by Willie Nelson, made famous by Patsy Cline)

A -  All of them.

 

Q -  What's the first thing that a female singer does after she gets up in the morning?

A -  Puts on her clothes and goes home.

 

Q -  What's the first thing that a female singer does after she gets up in the morning?

A -  Looks for her instrument.

 

Q -  What does a girl band vocalist's mother say to her before she goes out?

A -  "If you are not in bed by midnight you have to come home".

 

Q -  What´s the difference between a female lead singer and a terrorist?

A -  You can negotiate with a terrorist.

Pablo Cruise (chaki), Sunday, 11 April 2004 09:17 (twenty-one years ago)

Bessy Smith/... /Janis Joplin and others in the blues/country chronology, some brilliant and witty lyrics about the problems of being a woman, but again, why the shoes? Not to mention the cheesy airbrushed made up pictures, the lack of resistance across the body of the lyrics, etc.

Wha? Isn't a vital part of *any* opressed group's emancipation a pride in its historical acheivements, even if they don't own up completley to their current ideologies? I mean, context, context, context. I think that, even seeing things through the eyes of radical feminism, you can't really criticise *Bessie Smith* for succumbing to the pitfalls that you mentioned: her socio-cultural environment made it almost impossible for her not to, she didn't have the tools to do otherwise. What she *did* manage to do is astonishing if you take in consideration her time and place.

Daniel_Rf (Daniel_Rf), Sunday, 11 April 2004 11:13 (twenty-one years ago)

I would say Sleater-Kinney, but I'm pretty sure they're not on ILM's Cool List so I doubt anyone would back me up.

Ditto Tori Amos, her shit's just fierce, sometimes I think she goes a little too far in indicting men but she's almost always compelling nonetheless.

My girlfriend is the biggest feminist I've ever known, so pretty much if it passes muster with her then it must be good. She's a huge defender of Courtney Love, in spite of her self-destructive behavior/frequent toplessness, I do agree that her new album is pretty balls to the wall at least lyrically.

Best feminist song I've heard recently : Nellie McKay's "It's a Pose"

Josh Love (screamapillar), Sunday, 11 April 2004 12:16 (twenty-one years ago)

Someone in a Slipknot hoody once told me only girls listen to Radiohead. Are they feminists, or just feminine?

Stupid (Stupid), Sunday, 11 April 2004 13:39 (twenty-one years ago)

Well, if you think Slipknot have first hand knowledge on all radiohead fans, then all I can say to your post is that your name is OTM.

:)

Jonathan (Jonathan), Sunday, 11 April 2004 15:25 (twenty-one years ago)

Yeah, that Sandy Posey song is good ... but I guess I listen to it with a bit of irony. If I listed some of my favourite feminist songs, that I think are deeply moving emotionally/good musically/make me feel 'emancipated', like eg ANSWERED THE QUESTION, it would maybe include

Skinny Leg Blues - Geechie Wylie (cos she kills her boyfriend!!?)
Kitty Wells - Backstreet Affair (answer to masculine version, outlines hypocritical attitudes to women)
Boy, What Will You Do Then - Denise and Co. (off Girls in the Garage)
The Girl He Needs - a couple of versions
The Slits - Typical Girls
The Raincoats - Odyshape
Yoko Ono - Kiss Kiss Kiss
Perversion - The Trashwomen

That's not counting eg pop songs like 'Unpretty' or 'Born a Woman' that I like but sort of partly ironically, or songs like "Rock N Roll Nigger" that I don't enjoy etc

Amity (Amity), Sunday, 11 April 2004 21:03 (twenty-one years ago)

Everyone always forgets about Queen Latifah.

djdee2005, Sunday, 11 April 2004 21:12 (twenty-one years ago)

"she was also on that show with jason bateman, but i can't remember the title."

It was Valerie's Family (and then The Hogan Family) the show with Valerie Harper (Rhoda from Mary Tyler Moore) only she left and they made like she died and then Sandy Duncan played her sister-in-law and replaced her.

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Sunday, 11 April 2004 22:22 (twenty-one years ago)

Only she left = she got fired (even though her name was the SHOW's title.)

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Sunday, 11 April 2004 22:24 (twenty-one years ago)

lesley gore "you don't own me"

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Monday, 12 April 2004 00:29 (twenty-one years ago)

Re: TLC...are we talking feminist STATMENTS, as in whole-package, career-as-politics, or feminist songs? Because "Hat 2 Da Back" is quite feminist in itself. But you can argue that in reality it isn't, since Dallas Austin has top writing credit. But "Creep," "Ain't 2 Proud 2 Beg," "No Scrubs" and "Girl Talk" all have similarly empowered messages. I don't know what TLC did when they went home and I don't know to what extent they were puppets, but the image that they projected was feminist (especially compared to their peers ESPECIALLY the new jill swing groups like En Vogue, Jade and SWV...it's probably just charisma that made them outlast those girls, but I'd like to think there was a sassier power at work).

Re: Mariah. She's not particularly feminist. I said that. But her overwhelming femininity, I think, turns stomachs in exactly the same way as the baby doll dresses and the "Slut"-scrawled bellies of riot-grrlism. This is just to point out an unlikely parallel made even more unlikely by the politics of Mariah's music.

Rich, Monday, 12 April 2004 03:01 (twenty-one years ago)

I'm not sure how it matters whether or not TLC wrote their songs...if the songs are feminist, the songs are feminist.

djdee2005, Monday, 12 April 2004 04:55 (twenty-one years ago)

i want to say en vogue were feminist, but that might just be cos i love them. some of their songs, while not overtly feminist, expressed female strength. "my lovin'", "the riddle", "giving him something he can feel"... and i'm not sure that TLC outlasted them, en vogue must've been going for at least ten years.

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Monday, 12 April 2004 06:35 (twenty-one years ago)

PJ Harvey sometimes writes very fierce stuff. 'C'mon Billy' is a marvelous song about clinging to Men. Ironic as hell. And concerning the debate about shoes above: I'm sure you've seen her way of wearing high heels.
Anticipating the next album excitedly.

Rush Rhees (Rush Rhees), Monday, 12 April 2004 08:14 (twenty-one years ago)

About the shoes thing...not that I have a fetish or anything...

but why is women wearing heels (or adopting any other appearence traditionally regarded as feminine or sexy) inherently un-feminist?

I know plenty of women who like heels and sexy clothes, on themselves AND other women.

mei (mei), Monday, 12 April 2004 09:39 (twenty-one years ago)

"I Am Woman" by Helen Reddy. And that "I can bring home the bacon/fry it up in a pan" song.

shookout (shookout), Monday, 12 April 2004 14:10 (twenty-one years ago)

re the shoe thing - my mom used to refer to high heels as 'victim shoes' and saw it as some reflection of foot-binding in our culture. the older generation seems to think women wore sexy shoes just for men, at their own discomfort. now we realise women wear sexy stuff for themselves and for other women. it's all about choice. women had to stop shaving their pits for a while to make it a choice. now most women don't choose stinky pits.

Being raised by two mommies, i was subjected to some pretty horrible 'feminist' music. i will still always love Ferron, though. And Chris Williamson for nostalgic reasons.

Maria D., Monday, 12 April 2004 14:17 (twenty-one years ago)

Did you have to listen to Holly Near?

shookout (shookout), Monday, 12 April 2004 15:07 (twenty-one years ago)

Too too much Holly Near

Maria D., Monday, 12 April 2004 16:02 (twenty-one years ago)

women had to stop shaving their pits for a while to make it a choice. now most women don't choose stinky pits.

hmmm women's hairy armpits aren't actually smelly unless they don't wash em. when i was a teen - not all that long ago, i didn't know i had the choice! i thought it was something all women did! maybe thats because i wasn't very strong as a teenager and/or cos of the way i was brought up...

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 01:37 (twenty-one years ago)

My mom never shaved anything and she got really mad when I started shaving my legs. She's the most weirdly feminist conservative Christian I know

Donna Brown (Donna Brown), Tuesday, 13 April 2004 01:49 (twenty-one years ago)

ten years pass...

I have a suggestion

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kut2xkhEPK4

Self-righteous, or Righteous, Dude?

Michael M., Sunday, 22 June 2014 15:18 (eleven years ago)


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