"Courtney Love - The Case For The Defense"

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This thing makes me seethe. I can not understand how anyone can POSSIBLY be such a retard. He says,

"Taking too many drugs, courting controversy, engaging in erratic or even criminal behaviour, and being unrepentant about it: in the male rock star, these are the hallmarks of genius. In a woman, they are the symptoms of hysteria."

GENIUS? I know there are many (male, "rock stars") who have these traits who ARE considered to be brilliant, though not always by me, but this tends to be because of the fuckin' music they make (though perhaps not these days--celebrity-hood seems to come first).

Of course, he goes on to call America's Sweetheart "an astonishing album" so I guess that's all the explanation one needs.

But where do people like this come from? Is this a two-year old accessing mommy's computer and cut'n'pasting thesaurus and pop psyche words or something? How does this guy tie his shoes, let alone do a "blog"? Has anyone ever met someone like this in real life? (I don't mean someone who likes the new Love LP, or thinks she's cool and nut a psycho or whatever--who cares about that!)

John 2, Sunday, 18 July 2004 20:38 (twenty-one years ago)

When the author says

"Taking too many drugs, courting controversy, engaging in erratic or even criminal behaviour, and being unrepentant about it: in the male rock star, these are the hallmarks of genius. In a woman, they are the symptoms of hysteria."

it appears that he is discussing the media perception of such behaviour, rather than making the case himself. However, he could have made this point a little clearer.

Ben Dot (1977), Sunday, 18 July 2004 20:59 (twenty-one years ago)

Can't quite put my finger on it, but the UK press' incessant feting (sp?) and overzealous coverage of that crackhead scruff from the Libertines (whatever he does) springs to mind, as a counter-point to this matter (+ demonstrating the point you highlight as not being wholly untrue, for one). i'm sure the female/male rock hack imbalance rears its ugly head somewhere in there too. hmm..

I've not time to properly read the whole article at the minute but I can't help feel there's a grain of truth buried under whatever blind Love, um, love there may be in what was written. (the media-perception angle did seem to be where it was coming from tho..)
better this than yet *more* sites & blogs of the "Courtney's an evil bitch whore MURDERER who KILLED KURT COBAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!" sort, mind you..

pete badmusik (pete badmusik), Sunday, 18 July 2004 21:20 (twenty-one years ago)

Yeah, I think there's a grain of truth, too. How large the grain is depends on our perspective, of course. The difference with the Libertines fella is one of media fatigue, though. Courtney's just been pulling this shit for longer, and most people (journos, readers, fans, etc) are pretty much sick and tired of hearing about it.

But yeah, there have been some clear attacks on Courtney that reek of sexism, even gynophobia. Cross reference the near universal condemnation by indie fanboys of Liz Phair's last album... there is something to this idea that aging women (it usually shows up when they hit their mid 30s) shouldn't display their sexual desires so nakedly (does Polly Harvey get a free pass, however? Madonna up until she hit 40? And if so why?).

So, it's a confluence of situations and positions that have led to the current near-universal villification of Ms Love (they include resentment of her involvement in the whole Nirvana psychomelodrama, misogyny/gynophobia, ageism, suspicion of rockism on her part, cruelty, boredom, perceptions of her opportunism, societal conflict vis a vis the "Mother" ideal, blah blah).

I don't know what could turn the tide now. I've heard normally compassionate people utter the words "just die already" when yet another clip of her being led away in handcuffs appears on our TV screens.

Maybe it doesn't matter, but to her loved ones (not just Frances Bean) it does.

David A. (Davant), Sunday, 18 July 2004 22:11 (twenty-one years ago)

the world would do well to leave her alone, and vice-versa

amateur!st (amateurist), Sunday, 18 July 2004 22:26 (twenty-one years ago)

Yes.

David A. (Davant), Sunday, 18 July 2004 22:37 (twenty-one years ago)

Yes, people do go on and on about whichever Rock Male being sooo cool cos he trashed hotel rooms, and he's troubled, and whatnot. Meaning he's a JERK--but, somehow, in their eyes, a cool jerk, or one redeemed somehow by his creative pursuits.

But that's stupid. The people who say those things are idiots. I'll be damned if I'm going to base anything off of that!

A record is a record. I mean, I've heard, say, amazing songs done by people CLEARLY out of their minds on hard drugs, and at the same time, I've been witness to the the absolute crap that can also result. So if I judge a crap LP to be a great one--no matter my reasoning--a person can call me on it, or disagree, or we can debate, everyone's-a-critic-don't-ya-know. If my reasoning was aided by my own misogyny, ageism, whatever-it-is, it doesn't make my judgement any more or less right or wrong. It's a seperate issue. And this doofus tacks on a glowing review at the end of his little thesis there, sorta tells you something...

Again: this is COURTEY FRICKEN LOVE! I may like her records, or her intelligence, but she's a sad, digusting human being at this point. And when she commits some scummy act, to try to rationalize somehow that she DIDN'T because SOMEONE ELSE just MIGHT be "GYNOPHOBIC" (and yet--or, rather, IN SPITE OF THIS--this gynophobe sees her for what she is) is ridiculous.

Maybe people panned the last Liz Phair record because it was horrible, as are all Liz Phair records. For the so-called fanboys to finally get that one right isn't exactly deserving a pat on the back, but it's a step in the right direction. Maybe the The Next Liz Phair won't be able to get the INITIAL praise that set her up for a fall when she makes a different-yet-equally-poor record. Maybe people'll know better next time, and not fall for the "She's just a woman speaking frankly about sex!" line (which no better disguises her shitty songwriting abilities than someone's attempt to sell a person that she is "Just a stupid woman and shouldn't express her desires" or whatever it is. It's completey besides the point! Two wrongs don't make a right in this case!).

Polly Harvey makes good records IMHO. Why the fuck would _ANYONE_ care about her genitials or age or hair color? Hence at least my reason for a "free pass". But then, I don't see any reason to deny a free pass--to deny anything. There's no mark against her or anyone else--in my mind--because of gender or any other thing. But that's because I'm not a caveman, I suppose.

Madonna gets nothing cos she's fucking Madonna--she's crap. I'm not out there singing the praises of Pat Boone either, yet he has a penis, one would assume.

John 2, Sunday, 18 July 2004 22:59 (twenty-one years ago)

your email address is stupid.

latebloomer (latebloomer), Sunday, 18 July 2004 23:12 (twenty-one years ago)

It's not my email address.

John 2, Sunday, 18 July 2004 23:19 (twenty-one years ago)

Poseur.

latebloomer (latebloomer), Sunday, 18 July 2004 23:39 (twenty-one years ago)

If my reasoning was aided by my own misogyny, ageism, whatever-it-is, it doesn't make my judgement any more or less right or wrong.

If you dislike a record because it was made by a woman, that makes your judgement suspect in my book.

Symplistic (shmuel), Sunday, 18 July 2004 23:43 (twenty-one years ago)

I think the drugged out rock star is an old 70s chiche, I just don't think it is viewed today in the same way. It seems that many of the recent examples are usually portrayed as pathetic like Weiland, Layne Staley (RIP), Tommy Lee or just sad like Ole' Dirty Bastard, Whitney Houston or Cobain. I think people in general know more about substance abuse than in the 70s/early 80s, so it perceived in a different way.

earlnash, Sunday, 18 July 2004 23:44 (twenty-one years ago)

That's not what I was trying to say... OK...

Pretend for a second there is no subjectivity. Record A is good. If I understand/feel/know this, and state it, then my judgement can't be then disproved by the method by which I arrived at this conclusion. Similar to how two people can both love an LP, but one loved it initially, and the other took many plays/years to feel the same way. Either way, the truth is/was there.

To focus on, say, record reviewers and their apparent faults as a method for someone how excusing someone like Courtney's actions (whether it's making a record that ain't so hot--or something serious like the attacking audience members) is desperate. If all the critics in the world were deplorable, it wouldn't make America's Sweetheart an astonishing record, and it wouldn't make Courtney a moral or sane person. This guy he doesn't even try to argue the defense of her actions, just tries to explain away why people might target her--might critique not only her music but her public/private acts.

I guess it is meant to appeal to those who both 1) despise and disagree with (and rightfully so!) sexism, and 2) do so in a myopic, mindless way. Anyone see that South Park the other day with the concentration camp drawing of multiethnic hand-holding...?

John 2, Sunday, 18 July 2004 23:50 (twenty-one years ago)

But you can criticize her new album without using misogynistic language ("fucking inflatable sex doll"). If you do use misogynistic language while criticizing her album, then you just might be a misogynist.

Symplistic (shmuel), Monday, 19 July 2004 00:22 (twenty-one years ago)

...it's COURTNEY...LOVE!!!

I suppose if she took the stage, said, "I AM AN INFLATABLE SEX DOLL" and then did her set, someone calling her such would still be misogynist.

Do I need to give a run down of the things she's done? (Note that I don't really take issue with any of them!). It's not that far off.
Hell, someone brought up Madonna--she has videos where she's basically moving around on a bed as if you, the MTV viewer, are about to engage her sexually. THAT's not that far off.

Courtney was a stripper, a groupie, tossed plenty of underwear into her crowds. I mean, I wouldn't equate that with being a sex doll, but she's using these concepts, that imagery (her lyrics!), all this stuff, HER sexuality, as part of her art. If someone wants to insult her--with the basic point being she is nothing BUT the sex vibe, hence, her being LIKE a sex doll, but supposedly without musical talent/ability--I see no problem with this referencing the, uh, facts in evidence.

Infering something like woman-hating I'd tend not to do unless it was out of left field. I wouldn't say that, say, Hillary Clinton was a inflatable sex doll, but I could say other things...see? But Courtney, come on!

But we can't say these things, can we. The minute someone's noble political correctness starts to shit all over reality is usually when I start to pipe up...

John 2, Monday, 19 July 2004 01:29 (twenty-one years ago)

Good lord, another Courtney Love thread? Even I'm tired of bashing her.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Monday, 19 July 2004 01:35 (twenty-one years ago)

This IS a C-Man thread, right?

Symplistic (shmuel), Monday, 19 July 2004 02:09 (twenty-one years ago)

Oh, god, why is it that people get so bent out of shape over political correctness when really all we'd like is for them to not be obnoxious jerks.

daria g (daria g), Monday, 19 July 2004 03:02 (twenty-one years ago)

Using sexuality in your art = not being THAT FAR OFF from being an inflatable sex doll???


Daniel_Rf (Daniel_Rf), Monday, 19 July 2004 09:43 (twenty-one years ago)

Wow, there's so much I could say here, but I just don't want to get involved in it.

"Taking too many drugs, courting controversy, engaging in erratic or even criminal behaviour, and being unrepentant about it: in the male rock star, these are the hallmarks of genius. In a woman, they are the symptoms of hysteria."

I've said and believed something like this for a long time now. Hatred of CL is very rarely based around her music, but her lifestyle. A lifestyle which would be evidence of being a rock star in a male. That is very, very true.

Ma$onic Boom (kate), Monday, 19 July 2004 09:48 (twenty-one years ago)

I mean, fer crying out loud - "she has videos where she's basically moving around on a bed as if you, the MTV viewer, are about to engage her sexually." Yes, quite obviously an inflatable sex doll then, because there's no way for a woman to express her sexuality through art without becoming a sub-human sex object!

Daniel_Rf (Daniel_Rf), Monday, 19 July 2004 09:54 (twenty-one years ago)

(well actually, tragically enough, that might even be true on some level, but that's the viewer's/listener's fault, not Madonna's or Courtney's)

Daniel_Rf (Daniel_Rf), Monday, 19 July 2004 09:58 (twenty-one years ago)

What is "gynophobia?" That's a new one. I'm assuming fear of femile genatalia or something?

Not as funny as "heteronormative," but getting there.

shookout (shookout), Monday, 19 July 2004 11:54 (twenty-one years ago)

"heteronormative" is a great word. I have no idea what it means, though.

I can't beieve anyone gives a shit abt c love or gets bothered when someone goes off on one about her, pro- or anti-

Pashmina (Pashmina), Monday, 19 July 2004 11:56 (twenty-one years ago)

Love's male equivalent is Ol' Dirty Bastard, and it's true that people didn't hate him for his obnoxious behavior. Instead they chuckled a bit or maybe felt sorry for him. As far as neglecting parental duties, ODB has a dozen kids he's ignoring instead of just one.

Mark (MarkR), Monday, 19 July 2004 12:09 (twenty-one years ago)

And let's not even mention Scott Weiland or the Gallaghers!


Rick Massimo (Rick Massimo), Monday, 19 July 2004 14:06 (twenty-one years ago)

Yeah because Courtney Love is like, sooooo Snow White's stepmother. She's so evil and malicious and wooo!she's a witch who gives out poisoned apples.

"this is COURTEY FRICKEN LOVE! I may like her records, or her intelligence, but she's a sad, digusting human being at this point"

Yeah, she's got to be in control because she's female, right? Her husband killed himself and she went off the deep end but instead of saying she's hurt and damaged and needs help she's "sad, disgusting". I think that says it all. What the hell is wrong with you?

You know when you go into a club and everyone there is so straight it hurts? And they're looking at each other like cattle? That's heteronormative.

Anna de Logardiere, Tuesday, 20 July 2004 14:04 (twenty-one years ago)

Anna,

A roomful of people wanting or hoping to hook up? Say it ain't so! How terrible! How dare they!

(That 'cattle' feeling happens in all kinds of places, gay or straight. Haven't you ever been in a gay bar?)

shookout (shookout), Tuesday, 20 July 2004 14:32 (twenty-one years ago)

Shookout, you're missing her point. Intentionally, I suspect.

Matthew Perpetua (Matthew Perpetua), Tuesday, 20 July 2004 14:45 (twenty-one years ago)

Yeah, she's got to be in control because she's female, right? Her husband killed himself and she went off the deep end but instead of saying she's hurt and damaged and needs help she's "sad, disgusting". I think that says it all. What the hell is wrong with you?

I think it's worth pointing out that the Sainted Kurdt did something 100X more hurtful towards his child than Courtney ever did by killing himself...

M@tt He1geson (Matt Helgeson), Tuesday, 20 July 2004 18:14 (twenty-one years ago)

Y'know, honest, no one here dislikes Courtney Love -- her music, her "persona", her antics, etc. -- more than me, but latest development just paint her as a truly sad, damaged individual, and even I feel bad about talkin' smack about her at this point. The car wreck is nearing fruition and it's not even amusing anymore.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Tuesday, 20 July 2004 18:21 (twenty-one years ago)

"The car wreck is nearing fruition"

This is a nice malapropism

amateur!st (amateurist), Tuesday, 20 July 2004 22:54 (twenty-one years ago)

Anna, it's called telling it like it is. She's sad, disgusting...AND hurt, damaged, out-of-control. That's just the truth as I see it. I could care less--she's not a part of my life. And while a sucide-victim husband is pretty rough, she's done plenty of things I have a problem with before and since then, and I don't think Kurt being dead excuses it somehow. Makes me sympathetic, to a degree...? Yes. But this was never about attacking the woman--I find that sad, as well--just calling the carpet the bullshit way this writer "defended" her.

She needs to be in control because she's female? Excuse me? Where are you getting that--I'm very curious. She needs to be in control, cos, like, she's a bad mother, she attacks her fucking audience members. That behavior needs to be nipped in the bud. It has absolutely nothing to do with her sex--I'll go you one more and add that I never assumed otherwise, that somehow her actions were guided by her genitals.

John 2, Tuesday, 20 July 2004 23:15 (twenty-one years ago)

I could care less--she's not a part of my life.

Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Tuesday, 20 July 2004 23:19 (twenty-one years ago)

She can be a part of my life any day. I would feed her chicken soup and listen to death metal with her and tell her it's all going to be all right.

edward o (edwardo), Wednesday, 21 July 2004 02:21 (twenty-one years ago)

four years pass...

Yeah, she's got to be in control because she's female, right? Her husband killed himself and she went off the deep end but instead of saying she's hurt and damaged and needs help she's "sad, disgusting". I think that says it all. What the hell is wrong with you?

But the problem is, she was sad and disgusting long before she met Kurt - take it from someone who knew her.

deedeedeextrovert, Sunday, 19 April 2009 18:13 (sixteen years ago)


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