Where Were You & What Were You Doing when you heard What Became YOUR FAVORITE SONG(s) for the very first time?

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For some, it's a seizmic event like how many remember what you were doing when they heard JFK took one for the team.

"Eighties" by Killing Joke - Sitting in a friend's swelteringly hot apartment on Cornelia Street in the late Spring of 1984, watching some crappy video channel. The video came on (Jaz as frothing politician, Geordie as whipped priest, Raven as badassed pistol-weilding Mark David Chapman) and it really put the hook in me. I ran across the street (literally, to what is now known as Subterrenean Records, but was at the time called Record Runner) and bought the 12" within fifteen minutes of first hearing it. I remember feeling instantly ashamed of the Motley Crue t-shirt I was wearing (black with handcuffs-in-eyesocketed skull design).

I have others but I'll start wit'dat. And Youze?

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Thursday, 22 July 2004 02:52 (twenty-one years ago)

ugh! like how many remember what THEY were doing when blah blah blah....

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Thursday, 22 July 2004 02:52 (twenty-one years ago)

watching a very late night music video show at as a young teenager.

purple patch (electricsound), Thursday, 22 July 2004 02:56 (twenty-one years ago)

what was the song?

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Thursday, 22 July 2004 02:57 (twenty-one years ago)

I was getting high with my brother in Danbury, Connecticut.

scott seward (scott seward), Thursday, 22 July 2004 02:57 (twenty-one years ago)

Titles please, people.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Thursday, 22 July 2004 02:58 (twenty-one years ago)

Oh, sorry. "Goodbye Victoria" by Chubby Checker.

scott seward (scott seward), Thursday, 22 July 2004 03:01 (twenty-one years ago)

"cattle and cane", go-betweens

purple patch (electricsound), Thursday, 22 July 2004 03:01 (twenty-one years ago)

i didnt' actually own a copy for 10+ years

purple patch (electricsound), Thursday, 22 July 2004 03:01 (twenty-one years ago)

Watching MTV. Very anti-climactic, I know.

Probably "Give It Away" by the RHCP, then later "Cannonball" by the Breeders.

Francis Watlington (Francis Watlington), Thursday, 22 July 2004 03:08 (twenty-one years ago)

Plus, we were in my brother's apartment, and after he moved out two college kids were playing with bottle rockets inside the place and one went under the couch and started to burn the couch and then the kids went to bed and the place burned to the ground and the kids died. So the place where I first heard my favorite song is sacred ground guarded by the ghosts of eternally drunk college kids. And I honor their memory everytime I play my favorite song. The song itself is all about going to heaven.

scott seward (scott seward), Thursday, 22 July 2004 03:13 (twenty-one years ago)

I was watering the lawn one day when this radical frat boy was driving around the neighborhood blasting Epic by Faith No More and it was just such a beautiful experience. Oh, man, it seems like only yesterday...

KimberIy, Thursday, 22 July 2004 03:33 (twenty-one years ago)

I was lying on on Hampton Beach in 1969. Beautiful Late summer day with the buds and then I heard La La La La Lola for just about the first time and thought that was it. What would be the purpose of moving on from here?

jim wentworth (wench), Thursday, 22 July 2004 03:47 (twenty-one years ago)

"When Doves Cry." Ok, I'm not sure it's my absolute favorite song, but it comes as close as any these days. It struck me when I was talking to someone about the worst songs ever written, and I started wondering what the best song ever written was. Obviously it's near impossible to come to a satisfying conclusion, given the countless works of art/genius recorded in the past 100 years of pop music, but "When Doves Cry" was the closest I could think of a consensus answer.

Josh in Chicago (Josh in Chicago), Thursday, 22 July 2004 03:52 (twenty-one years ago)

I remember when
"I can't stand the rain" jumped out
of my radio

those pizzicatos,
so soul but so avant-garde,
hit my kid ears hard

I would run to turn
our stereo up full-blast!
I think I was eight

Begs2Differ (Begs2Differ), Thursday, 22 July 2004 04:08 (twenty-one years ago)

Well it's not my absolute favourite (altho close), but I was instantly mesmerized upon first hearing it (and hearing it and hearing it) during a week spent at a campground. Summer '77 and the local AM station seemed to have only four records: "Barracuda" (Heart), "Rock And Roll Never Forgets" (Bob Seger), "Strawberry Letter 23" (Brothers Johnson)...and the wonderwork in question, Donna Summer's (and Giorgio Moroder's) "I Feel Love." The perfectly appropriate soundtrack/high-tech sonic equivalent to a summer that saw the release of "Star Wars" (very important to a 9-year old boy) and the death of Elvis.

The only TV-related epiphany I had comparable to Alex's was seeing (& hearing) Jimi Hendrix for the first time during a late-night viewing of "Woodstock". Who knew guitars could sound like that?!

Myonga Von Bontee (Myonga Von Bontee), Thursday, 22 July 2004 04:53 (twenty-one years ago)

The first one that came to mind is too embarrassing to reveal to you judgemental people. So I'll skip to #2:

Vladislav Delay - Anima
Right so its late 2001 and maybe 2 in the morning and I've just come home from a club in San Francisco. Grooverider spun, which is rare for the West Coast, and he spun well, which is rare for every coast. I'm totally exhausted, dehydrated and I've got 6 hours to pound out sixty pages of a screenplay. It's either write right now or pass out and fail this course, go back on academic probation, lose financial aid, die undiploma'd and alone, etc.

More than anything, I realized as I fired up Word, I needed music.

The crinkled yellow Amoeba Records bag is upended onto my bed. Pawing through stack I found the pale blue and white cover that I had spent minutes staring at while I debated the $15.99 pricetag. I knew a little about Mille Plateaux but this was the first time in a long time I had shelled-out for music I hadn't, ahem, previewed online. But who was this Vladislav Delay guy, anyway?

With the throb of a mild case of tinnitus I popped the plastic wrap and pressed play. And... I started writing the damn screenplay.

What struck me about Anima was these beautifully organic drones and loops were overdubbed with what sounded like Delay shuffling around his studio cleaning up the place. How totally in-sync with the way ambient and instrumental music integrates into my life. Rarely am I able to devote my full attention to the activity of listening. But for those brief moments between breathes...

It's like yeah, here we are.

Too bad the screenplay turned out crap.

harshaw (jube), Thursday, 22 July 2004 06:03 (twenty-one years ago)

Tom Waits "Downtown Train" - getting the bus home from a girl's house I'd only just started seeing in the dark and the rain. She became my first major relationship.

dog latin (dog latin), Thursday, 22 July 2004 08:04 (twenty-one years ago)

Watching a completely unknown / unsigned and quite clearly insane bunch of total maniacs who were supporting what had, right up until that precise moment, been my favourite band ever (T-Rex) performing their first (and at the time, only) single, at a gig that my dear old mum and dad had kindly (and to their eternal regret) bought me & my best mate tickets for (and agreed to drive us to and pick us up from afterwards - aaaah!) to celebrate my 14th birthday, March 1977.

"Titles please, people."

Sorry Alex:

The Damned - New Rose.

Fwiw, I believe the first time I heard your favourite song was the first time The Joke played it live; which was at The Lyceum in '84 IIRC.

Stewart Osborne (Stewart Osborne), Thursday, 22 July 2004 08:41 (twenty-one years ago)

Warning: Here Be Cornball Stories

I was about 10, it was Thanksgiving day, and we were en route to a great-aunt's house for the turkey feast. We stopped at a Uni-Mart convenience store so I could run inside and grab something, I forget what (probably cigarettes for my mom -- the store had no qualms selling them to me at that time). "Miracles" by the Jefferson Starship was playing on the piped-in radio. I felt I'd heard it before, that I'd always known it ... and was so in awe of it that I stayed inside the store for the whole 7 minutes (to my family's great annoyance). Still amazed, every time I hear it, by the intricacies of the backing vox and David Freiberg's pearly keys.

Joseph McCombs, Thursday, 22 July 2004 12:12 (twenty-one years ago)

Fwiw, I believe the first time I heard your favourite song was the first time The Joke played it live; which was at The Lyceum in '84 IIRC.

Oh you lucky monkey!

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Thursday, 22 July 2004 12:57 (twenty-one years ago)

(Belle & Sebastian - Century of Fakers)

The radio, my room. Thirteen? Playing some video game, I can't remember what. It seemed like all edges disappeared.

Gregory Henry (Gregory Henry), Thursday, 22 July 2004 15:02 (twenty-one years ago)

I walked in from soccer practice when I heard When Doves Cry coming out of the radio. It freaked me out.

Jay Vee (Manon_70), Thursday, 22 July 2004 15:14 (twenty-one years ago)

I remember right exactly where I was when I heard "When Doves Cry": in my friend Sam's pickup truck two days before HS graduation, cruising up to Lake Oswego to hook up with some girls. We maxed that shit out. Later, I made out with one of them even though (or because!) she was not my official girlfriend. I blame (praise!) Prince.

Begs2Differ (Begs2Differ), Thursday, 22 July 2004 15:41 (twenty-one years ago)

I was in a party at my future wifes room (i didn't know her) and nick drakes northern sky came on. i met her we talked about the song. still together 8 years later. sappy story.

Velveteen Bingo (Chris V), Thursday, 22 July 2004 15:44 (twenty-one years ago)

Standing, waiting for a school bus to take me to 6th grade, staring at the crack house across the street, listening to Revolution 9 on my crappy little (but much-beloved) Walkman.

Lukas (lukas), Thursday, 22 July 2004 15:58 (twenty-one years ago)

I'm going to just cite what I wrote on the "Moments when you were awestruck by pop" thread
Like many others are saying, "Laid" and "Atmosphere" may not be my overwhelming faves, but they're up there, and for whatever reason the time I first heard them sticks out.
Interestingly, both times I was standing in the exact same spot in the kitchen in our former house.

Barry Bruner (Barry Bruner), Thursday, 22 July 2004 16:32 (twenty-one years ago)

Around 1991 or so, a photographer friend came over to my apartment and entertained my friends and I with this incredible slide show . The photographs consisted of plants and flowers that were so intensely magnified, all you could make out were brilliant colors and geometric patterns that occurred.

Oh, and we all took mushrooms.

Anyway, the album he brought over to listen to during the slide show was MBV's "Loveless" - the first time I ever heard it. A wonderful introduction to the album. I still see those beautiful pictures in my head when I hear Only Shallow.

Darin, Thursday, 22 July 2004 18:17 (twenty-one years ago)

off my nut on the dancefloor when i heard "the bells"

paulhw (paulhw), Thursday, 22 July 2004 20:15 (twenty-one years ago)

When I was eleven, my family went to Chicago to visit relatives. My cousin drove two of my brothers and I back to my aunt's house for lunch. I remember being very sad because a girl I had a crush on did not know about my feelings for her, even though she publicly stated her fondness for me (I was a shy retard. I'm not shy anymore).

It was a cloudy day all morning, but just as I first heard what I guess is my favourite song on my cousin's radio, the sun came out.

"I Can See Clearly Now" - Johnny Nash

peepee (peepee), Thursday, 22 July 2004 22:02 (twenty-one years ago)

xmas eve eve, '96, 23 yrs old, that year i had been finally getting into the fall, they seemed more and more to be the rome towards which all my musical roads were heading [classic postpunk, 90s lofi and noise & shoegaze, 80s brit synth, 60s garage rock, and krautrock were my interests]. i lived in iowa and had a hard time finding their stuff, especially the good things - back then everything 77-79 was oop. anyway i met up with my family in sacramento for the holidays and spent a very long day on bus pilgrimage visiting record shops in sf. i ended up buying about $120 worth of fall cds, including perverted by language - and i played this first, cos it had the best title, cover art, and date [1983 being the link, supposedly, between their really gonzo stuff none of which i'd heard yet, and the more accessible late 80s stuff].

it was about 8 pm, i was supine up in a loft type area in my uncle's giant cedar cabin-mansion surrounded by govt. land, looking out the windows on 3 sides and ceiling to an endless maw of firs and the stars like bite marks. the first song [eat y'self fitter] was like an andy kaufman joke, alternately funny then not then funny again because it keeps going. its minimalist structure seemed like a narrow chute which i fell down into the harrowing see-the-bruise-colors-whirl-inside-your-retina crash of the next song, the neighborhood of infinity, which became, and still is i think, my favorite song of all time.

i don't really know why that song does it for me, but it just seems to be the most menacing, cryptic, razor-vined inca object at the heart of a borges story left in a jungle, too heavy to lift maybe, or explicative of the future death of someone i have never heard of. i had that feeling then, and still get it, of little chills; we all get this on songs we like a lot, and i get it stronger and more pleasurably with this than with anything else. i also get a sort of rush of dream-associations, like when you remember a face you saw in a dream you had the night before, and that makes connections for you.

mig (mig), Thursday, 22 July 2004 23:00 (twenty-one years ago)


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