The Softies - Classic or Duddddd

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i've had It's Love for a couple months now and love it. It is so twee it makes me want to claw my eyes out if I'm not in the right mood, but when I am, it is bliss. Should I bother getting more, or is this really all I need?

jonathan - stl (jonathan - stl), Sunday, 11 June 2006 19:33 (nineteen years ago)

Their other albums are basically the same thing -- for better or worse, I can't think of a more consistent band. The last one is maybe a bit more polished/less immediate, but the difference is minuscule. (As opposed to Melberg's work with Tiger Trap and Go Sailor, which is completely different -- yet still massively, inescapably twee.) So I guess the answer depends on whether you want more music that is basically like the music you already have, only with different tunes and lyrics.

And classic, of course. But I would say that.

Pessimist (Pessimist), Sunday, 11 June 2006 19:42 (nineteen years ago)

I like Holiday In Rhode Island a lot.

Zwan (miccio), Sunday, 11 June 2006 19:44 (nineteen years ago)

Classic/Pessimist OTM

marc h. (marc h.), Sunday, 11 June 2006 19:50 (nineteen years ago)

Get the Loveseat 7". And the self-titled EP on Slumberland.

Colonel Poo (Colonel Poo), Sunday, 11 June 2006 20:01 (nineteen years ago)

Right, as though it's possible to find the Loveseat 7".

Pessimist (Pessimist), Sunday, 11 June 2006 20:03 (nineteen years ago)

I did. /smug

Colonel Poo (Colonel Poo), Sunday, 11 June 2006 20:12 (nineteen years ago)

yeah, i need to listen to tiger trap. i think i'll buy holiday in rhode island too.

jonathan - stl (jonathan - stl), Sunday, 11 June 2006 20:32 (nineteen years ago)

I generally can't stand overly-twee stuff, but the Softies is twee dun rite. It's Love and Holiday In Rhode Island are both classics but, as noted above, only suitable while in the midst of certain moods. When feeling moony and melancholy and generally emo as fuck and staring out a window at the rain on an overcast sunday afternoon, pure perfection.

Deric W. Haircare (Deric W. Haircare), Sunday, 11 June 2006 21:02 (nineteen years ago)

Also: yes. Tiger Trap is very very classic as well, if for different reasons.

Deric W. Haircare (Deric W. Haircare), Sunday, 11 June 2006 21:03 (nineteen years ago)

I hate to be the one to say it, but Winter Pageant is totally skippable. It's identical in style to It's Love, but the songs just aren't that memorable (I do like "Tracks and Tunnels" though). The Slumberland mini-album is good, no stylistic surprises there. Holiday in Rhode Island breaks out some different instruments in addition to the 2-guitar approach, and it kinda reminded me of Low, at times; it's worth getting, also. The one I keep coming back to is It's Love, however.

Ernest P. (ernestp), Sunday, 11 June 2006 21:19 (nineteen years ago)

you might want to check out Go Sailor -- it's different enough, but still in the same twee vein. Just more rocking. Slightly.

Alan Bryden (dark floyd), Sunday, 11 June 2006 23:38 (nineteen years ago)

An ex of mine really liked 'Holiday in Rhode Island'. I thought it was cute and sweet enough, a slightly more tuneful Marine Girls.

I.M. (I.M.), Monday, 12 June 2006 01:41 (nineteen years ago)

winter pageant is my fave! god it's been so long since i've listened to the softies though. i used to think rose melberg was the bees knees.

electric sound of jim (and why not) (electricsound), Monday, 12 June 2006 02:21 (nineteen years ago)

Classic, classic, classic, classic. They might be my favorite band. One of the best indiepop groups of the ninties. Now, take it from me, I know the Softies discography backwards and forwards, inside and out.

"Love Seat" is my favorite Slumberland single. Pure twee bliss.

The "He'll Never Have To Know" single is nice, my favorite Softies song is probably one of the b-sides, "Lambretta Boy". You'll understand if you hear it.

Their eponymous album on Slumberland is just as dreamy as it is twee. The guitars are drenched in reverb, and the vocals are low in the mix. Really different from any other music they've made.

'Winter Pageant' is pretty underrated, I'd say. This was my first Softies album, and it's what got me hooked. The best songs on that one are "Over", "No One At All", "The Best Days", "Anywhere But Here", and "Winter Pageant". I guess I understand how someone could say this album is skippable if you're not really into this brand of soft indiepop, but I think it's great. I guess check this one out last if you're not really into this music, I guess.

"Holiday In Rhode Island" sounds nothing like Marine Girls. Acoustic guitars, more tuneful songs, more refined, you hear lots of growth as a band in this one. More like Rose Melberg's new solo album. I'd say check this one out after 'It's Love'. I'd recommend 'It's Love' first to anybody, though.

So, I'd say go in this order:

'It's Love'
'Holiday In Rhode Island'
Their eponymous album on Slumberland
singles and compilation appearances
'Winter Pageant'

Also notable is the Three Peeps single. Which was basically The Softies + Peter of Class. Two of these songs are on Rose's first solo album.

Of course, those singles and probably some of the compilions are out of print now, so you'd have to download them. I own it all, though.

andy dale (andy dale), Monday, 12 June 2006 02:43 (nineteen years ago)

dud.

keyth (keyth), Monday, 12 June 2006 02:50 (nineteen years ago)

Also, Tiger Trap and Go Sailor really deserve their own threads. I'm not starting them, though. I'm surprised how well this thread's even going so far. It's just *so cool* now to be *so anti-twee*. And, I don't understand why. It's just too lovely to put on a Softies album and pretend that that's the way the world really is, and even if sometimes just sad, that love is really that simple.

andy dale (andy dale), Monday, 12 June 2006 02:51 (nineteen years ago)

her best song is the one she did with dustin reske.
tiger trap was great, super crush was once one of my fave songs ever.

keyth (keyth), Monday, 12 June 2006 02:55 (nineteen years ago)

i'm kind of suprised its going this well too. i was expecting some backlash, but its kind of nonexistant.

jonathan - stl (jonathan - stl), Monday, 12 June 2006 04:58 (nineteen years ago)

The Softies are the twee Ramones - every album sounds basically the same at first, but you can hear glacial but significant shifts in style the more you listen. Fuck the twee-haters; there will always be room for this kind of stuff in my record collection.

And though many of Rose and Jen's songs are happy, they're capable of hitting you with something scathing, like It's Love's "Charms Around Your Wrist" - an understated indictment of a zine-editor friend. (I think I may know who it is, but there were so many Rose interviews in so many fanzines at the time that it's impossible to know for sure.)

mike a (mike a), Monday, 12 June 2006 13:23 (nineteen years ago)

Tiger Trap/Softies/Go Sailor all classic.

I've got Rose Melberg's new solo album but have not really had a chance to sit down and take a very good listen to it outside of the jaw-droppingly good 'Irene.'

righteousmaelstrom (righteousmaelstrom), Monday, 12 June 2006 13:32 (nineteen years ago)

Winter Pageant skippable? No album with "Excellent" on it could be entirely skippable... that song is as passive-aggressive in its way as "Alaska"...

Douglas (Douglas), Monday, 12 June 2006 15:24 (nineteen years ago)

I've been hearing good things about the new Rose Melberg album. I will have to check it out.

That said, her first solo album is the only really underwhelming thing that she's done.

Deric W. Haircare (Deric W. Haircare), Monday, 12 June 2006 16:02 (nineteen years ago)

no way, i love her first solo album!

andy dale (andy dale), Monday, 12 June 2006 21:37 (nineteen years ago)

I liked the first solo album, but it was a bit inessential, what with all the covers and whatnot. Definitely prefer the new one, no matter what Mr. Hogan might have to say about that.

Pessimist (Pessimist), Monday, 12 June 2006 22:01 (nineteen years ago)

What a co-incidence! 'Irene' was going through my head just now.

The Marine Girls comparison upthread might not be that off the mark. I was playing the Tracy Thorn solo album the other day and thinking about how the sensibility is similar. Rose probably won't have a chart-topping hit, however.

mikef (mfleming), Monday, 12 June 2006 22:14 (nineteen years ago)

tracy thorn's a good comparison. "small town girl" sounds -exactly- like a softies song. i just don't think that the softies or rose solo sounds much at all like marine girls, though.

that pitchfork review, what the wtf? really, were they just trying to be shocking? that has to be one of the most thoughtless reviews i've ever read there. really, he makes no argument whatsoever as to why he thinks it's such a bad record. all he says is that she's not writing them like she did for 'it's love' anymore. of course she wouldn't be writing songs like those anymore. that's ten years ago now. she's married and has a kid. she's probably not going to write anymore naive (i suppose) songs about the newness of love. if she'd had, they would have came off as so insincere. the new album's exactly what it should be. it shows a lot of growth and new maturity as a songwriter, and she sounds just as great as ever. just give "cast away the clouds" a listen. and, "irene", the way that she harmonizes now. sooo perfect. swoon.

andy dale (andy dale), Monday, 12 June 2006 22:47 (nineteen years ago)

"Irene" is probably one of my top five songs of the year so far.

Melberg's frequently mentioned Thorn (particularly the solo album) as an influence.

Pessimist (Pessimist), Monday, 12 June 2006 23:10 (nineteen years ago)

Listening to this album again, I really like the "plunky" acoustics and strings on 'Orchard' and the coda on 'Spin' is great.

xpost -- Not that I care what pitchfork thinks, I think the low numerical rating can be attributed to the point made that it doesn't sound like the Softies and I agree, it doesn't -- so? It's a more mature album and has taken a few listens to begin to sink in. Someone looking for an immediate tweepop thrill are going to be disappointed. This album requires you to live with it for a while.

righteousmaelstrom (righteousmaelstrom), Tuesday, 13 June 2006 14:08 (nineteen years ago)

It's more mature, all right. But I think the low numerical rating can be attributed to the fact that I didn't like a single song on it, however.

I responded to another outraged reaction at greater length here: http://rawkblog.blogspot.com/2006/06/critical-backlash-why-i-hate-rock.html

...What other "mature" albums do you guys like, anyway? Isn't that just code for "bland"?

marc h. (marc h.), Tuesday, 13 June 2006 20:45 (nineteen years ago)

The Field Music album is mature. I liked it. Didn't you?

righteousmaelstrom (righteousmaelstrom), Tuesday, 13 June 2006 21:29 (nineteen years ago)

The thing is, I don't see this album as that substantially different, in intent or in execution, from Holiday in Rhode Island. Which, I agree, is not quite as good as the first two (and a half) albums, but it is still plenty good for me, and to me, this album is more music in that vein. Maybe not quite so insecure (is it bad that "insecure" = "interesting"?), but I guess that my personal bias balances it out a bit -- "oh, good", I say to myself, "Rose Melberg turned out okay." The one substantial complaint I have about the album, I suppose, is that a few of the songs could have been shortened by a minute or so -- Melberg was always so admirably concise, and almost never threw in an extra verse (etc.) for no apparent reason, and I'll concede that quality isn't quite there any more. But other than that, I just don't see enough of a difference here from the Softies albums to justify such criticism.

This "Elliott Smith comparisons" business seems to me a bit of a red herring -- I haven't heard anyone trying to compare the album to Smith, short of the record company's blurb, which doesn't really count. (I assume that has something to do with the fact that the Softies toured with Smith... but the emotional ranges of the two are almost completely different, to begin with. And also other things.)

In this case, "mature" is code for your "bland" only insofar as your "bland" is code for my "composed, deliberate, and maybe a bit overly crafted at times but not so much as to overshadow the quality of the tunes". The bottom line is, you didn't like the songs, which is your right. You can't expect anyone to like some songs. But the fact that you see such a wide gap between this album and Holiday is a bit baffling -- maybe such a gap is there, but myself, I just don't see it. (What did you go into the album expecting?)

But then again, I will usually enjoy the works of a favorite musician long past his/her prime; Amelia Fletcher still hasn't released an album I don't love, and I continue to like Elvis Costello a lot when he's not messing about with orchestras or Burt Bacharach or the like. Maybe it's a weakness on my part. Ah, well.

Pessimist (Pessimist), Tuesday, 13 June 2006 21:47 (nineteen years ago)

all right kids...can we stop calling rose melbergs bands "twee"? of course all the softies records are going to have a similar sound, but you can obviously hear the the maturity of their sound from album to album. i highly suggest searching for the "he'll never have to know" single. "love seat" is awesome (which is their first single), but it sounds a bit like tiger trap...i think their sound truly developed with the "he'll never have to know" ep. i highly recommend all their records, but be sure to pay close attention to the lyrics. i love how they sing of sadness, love lost, obsession, lonliness, feeling like a loser, and "what could have been"...we have all been there and what makes these girls amazing is their honesty. lyrics like "i wasted all my wishes on you, i have nothing left to gain..." or "i know i never cross your mind, i know i'm not really your kind..." or "i've been under the impression that i mattered to you more..." are all far from twee!

michael aguilar (poploser), Friday, 16 June 2006 16:07 (nineteen years ago)

twee is like porn, i know it when i see it.

M@tt He1geson (Matt Helgeson), Friday, 16 June 2006 16:10 (nineteen years ago)

twee guilt C/D?

marc h. (marc h.), Friday, 16 June 2006 16:52 (nineteen years ago)

The only way I justify using "twee" -- and I do use it -- is to ignore whatever negative/escapist connotations the word originally possessed, and just use in a non-judgmental sense ("this is a band that has been referred to as twee"). Most good bands called twee are a lot more lyrically insightful, and dare I say realistic, about their subjects than people are generally willing to give them credit for. Certainly a good bit more so than -- I don't even know who you'd compare them to these days. Mainstream pop bands talk in cliches deliberately, mainstream rock in rather angrier cliches, and most indie bands have given up trying to make any kind of literal sense. I guess that, to me, "twee" stands not for childishness (which was mostly a red herring to begin with) but for straightforwardness. (And a bit of timidity, maybe -- which I like. I relate to it better.)

Pessimist (Pessimist), Friday, 16 June 2006 17:13 (nineteen years ago)

Most good bands called twee are a lot more lyrically insightful, and dare I say realistic, about their subjects than people are generally willing to give them credit for.

OTM. I don't mind using the word, because it conveys a certain sound and sensibility, and because I don't think it's something for which people should have to keep apologizing. Genre labels are inherently nebulous, subgenre labels even more so, but they're helpful to people, and they describe broad swathes of music that include both good and bad. Twee guilt should have ended with Tullycraft.

In sum: Softies = Classique!

marc h. (marc h.), Friday, 16 June 2006 18:44 (nineteen years ago)

two months pass...
The Softies are my favorite band.
Andy Dale, you are 1000 x OTM.

Marc H., if you do happen to read this, just how long have you been into indie pop/twee? I remembered The Softies' 'It's Love' being featured in Pitchfork's "Found Sound" article in 2004, and sure enough, it was you that did the write up; on The Softies' 'It's Love', in Pitchfork's "Found Sound", in just 2004. Also, in that article, you said this: "The Softies' debut is all acoustic guitars..." Those really sound like acoustic guitars to you, buddy? And, you keep using the term 'cuddlecore'. 'Cuddlecore' has always been used to describe more *punk rock* sounding twee bands, and was always a very derogatory term, (except for in the case of cub, who only used it in good fun, but that's it). You also said a couple of other stupid things in that little blurb that I'm not bothering to mention, right now. What I'm getting at though is, what are you? some kind of hipster nu-tweeist? Really, Rose Melberg's not allowed to mature as a songwriter and branch out a little? You've really given her new album a -Pitchfork- 3.9 beacause she's legendary twee pop princess, Rose Melberg, and her latest album isn't quite full-on holding hands and smiles (well, her albums never were before really, but they did *sound* like they were) and she's taken on a more refined, introspective approach? Please. The hooks are still there, the harmonies are even sweeter than ever, the new songs just have a new sense of confidence that was never there before, and that's what bothers you about it. It wasn't what you were hoping for, and you don't know how to handle it; you don't *get* it. i.e., you're not into it because it's not really cute-sey. I'm calling you a tweeist in the most negative sense you can imagine. You're a hipster nu-tweeist and you gave Rose Melberg's new album a bad review because it's not cute-sey. Man, what are you into, nothing but crappy bands on Shelflife? Get over the past and let artists like Rose Melberg grow.

Anyway... It's great that I'm starting to see The Softies get the wide recognition and wide approval that they've always deserved. And, Rose Melberg is an angel sent from heaven. She could just never set a foot wrong. She and The Softies are just too good to be true.

blood bitch (blood bitch), Wednesday, 16 August 2006 19:04 (nineteen years ago)

Are there really "hipster nu-tweeists?" Because that would be awesome. I look forward to any chance I get to be all, "Listen, kid, I was carrying a Strawberry Shortcake lunchbox back when you were still ... carrying a Strawberry Shortcake lunchbox."

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 16 August 2006 19:22 (nineteen years ago)

'Irene' is still a great song.

righteousmaelstrom (righteousmaelstrom), Wednesday, 16 August 2006 19:28 (nineteen years ago)

Obviously, my opinions on music are irrelevant because I wasn't there when the Beatles appeared on Ed Sullivan, when Amadeus was more than a movie and a funny synth-pop song, when cavemen started banging rocks on their heads, etc.

Seriously, though, that "acoustic" line makes me cringe now, too. Sorry about that.

marc h. (marc h.), Wednesday, 16 August 2006 19:32 (nineteen years ago)

"Nu-tweeist" sounds like a plausible explanation for how to pronounce the name of that one German band.

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 16 August 2006 19:40 (nineteen years ago)

It's a pretty impressive turn of phrase.

marc h. (marc h.), Wednesday, 16 August 2006 19:43 (nineteen years ago)

Einsturzende Nu-tweeist?

righteousmaelstrom (righteousmaelstrom), Wednesday, 16 August 2006 19:50 (nineteen years ago)

Man, what are you into, nothing but crappy bands on Shelflife?

That would be me. Actually, just the good bands on Shelflife.

mike a (mike a), Wednesday, 16 August 2006 20:05 (nineteen years ago)

one year passes...

the lyrics to 'sleep away your troubles' give me the absolute creeps for some reason. these really are lovely sounding records though

electricsound, Friday, 22 February 2008 06:40 (eighteen years ago)

man Winter Pageant is far and away my favorite Softies album. Oh the great things that can happen when you pair a genius and a nave.

wanko ergo sum, Saturday, 23 February 2008 02:35 (seventeen years ago)

I think the Slumberland mini-album is my fave.

Colonel Poo, Saturday, 23 February 2008 02:45 (seventeen years ago)

also search the Gaze cover of "Nine Lives to Rigel Fave" but don't buy the whole album.

wanko ergo sum, Saturday, 23 February 2008 02:47 (seventeen years ago)

Rigel Five, sorry

wanko ergo sum, Saturday, 23 February 2008 02:47 (seventeen years ago)

The Gaze albums aren't really up to much really. I have one of them, but the only reason I haven't sold it is because I wouldn't get shit for it.

Colonel Poo, Saturday, 23 February 2008 02:52 (seventeen years ago)

really? i like both, i guess i didn't expect them to set my world on fire and they don't quite but that's ok

electricsound, Saturday, 23 February 2008 03:07 (seventeen years ago)

I think I like the album I don't have better than the one I do (Mitsumeru)

Colonel Poo, Saturday, 23 February 2008 03:12 (seventeen years ago)

eleven months pass...

I've been listening to Go Sailor on spotify. I don't know if they're that good but I just can't say no to the gorgeous white-on-purple sailor chick on the cover.

the pinefox, Saturday, 14 February 2009 22:11 (seventeen years ago)

I wish I had some Softies records; they're not on spotify; I guess the CDs are available from somewhere?

the pinefox, Saturday, 14 February 2009 22:12 (seventeen years ago)

"Listen, kid, I was carrying a Strawberry Shortcake lunchbox back when you were still ... carrying a Strawberry Shortcake lunchbox."

that is quite witty!

the pinefox, Saturday, 14 February 2009 22:14 (seventeen years ago)

man Winter Pageant is far and away my favorite Softies album. Oh the great things that can happen when you pair a genius and a nave.

― wanko ergo sum, Friday, February 22, 2008 9:35 PM (11 months ago)

Waht does this even mean?

Blimey G. Blamegarten (unregistered), Sunday, 15 February 2009 00:30 (seventeen years ago)

Not a lot, by the look of it.

the pinefox, Sunday, 15 February 2009 09:38 (seventeen years ago)

three years pass...

Listening to nothing but Softies, a lot of the time.

the pinefox, Thursday, 19 April 2012 16:49 (thirteen years ago)

Softies, Lois, Spinanes, Beanpole, Crabs, Lida Husik, Crowsdell, etc.

Is there a name for the spare, sweet side of girly indie pop?

Evan, Friday, 20 April 2012 15:45 (thirteen years ago)

Oh, Linda Smith too, etc. etc.

Evan, Friday, 20 April 2012 15:46 (thirteen years ago)

two years pass...

Just discovered them yesterday night and I feel like I have found something that I've been looking for a long long time. They sound perfect at the moment. I'm only at It's Love right now. I'll get Holiday soon.

Van Horn Street, Wednesday, 7 May 2014 05:18 (eleven years ago)

ten years pass...

https://thesofties.bandcamp.com/album/the-bed-i-made

The Softies, comprised of Rose Melberg and Jen Sbragia, embody timeless themes of friendship and self-discovery through their minimalist pop soundworld. Since their formation in 1994, they've created uncluttered and fearlessly vulnerable music, contrasting with prevailing trends. The Bed I Made, The Softies’ first new studio album in 24 years, showcases growth while reflecting on life's complexities with lyrics drawn from real experiences. Despite individual pursuits and personal losses, Melberg and Sbragia reunite, channeling grief and rejuvenation into an album that captures the essence of their enduring friendship and offers hope and renewal amid life's challenges. Through their perfectly-paired harmonies and telepathic playing, they navigate the present, past, and future, offering a poignant continuation of their musical legacy, resonating like time spent with an old friend who knows you best.

linee, Sunday, 4 August 2024 22:15 (one year ago)

I see a show booked here in SF in late Oct.

fajita seas, Monday, 5 August 2024 01:15 (one year ago)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iJNCEwzxImA

linee, Monday, 5 August 2024 10:28 (one year ago)

In the photo on the inside sleeve of the new album Rose looks exactly like Velma Dinkley. Exactly.

Anyway it's super cool that they're back

Evan, Wednesday, 14 August 2024 18:46 (one year ago)


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