The whole job of the DJ is to control the crowd, to forge it into a crowd in the first place. Right now, on the radio, I'm told the mix is "Working You [me] Out" -- I don't have much choice in the matter.
The point being, I think, that its natural and healthy to enjoy surrendering power in certain circumstances (dancefloor, bedroom) and that this doesn't particularly imply a more generalized submission so much as the fufillment of certain innate human impulses.
Individuality never stood in contradiction to the massif anyway -- cf. Eisenstein on the development of his narratives from crowds to the role of individuals in crowds in his "Film and Sense". All this gets to some of the same questions we deal with w/r/t "rockism" and "authenticity" -- in a v.v. broad sense related to a philisophical misconception of "freedom" and "free will" which dates back centuries in most Enlightenment thought.
― Sterling Clover, Thursday, 4 April 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)
My first nomination is Britney's "Slave 4 U".
― ethan, Thursday, 4 April 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)
Every single day Every word you say Every game you play Every night you stay I'll be watching you.
Oh can't you see You belong to me?
― sorry i just had it to hand, Thursday, 4 April 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)
it's rock shows where you're expected to surrender, shut up, face front & do what you're told.
― fritz, Thursday, 4 April 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)
― nathalie, Thursday, 4 April 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)
― SitComs R Us, Thursday, 4 April 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)
― Ess Kay, Thursday, 4 April 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)
The flip side of this is that the dialectic between sub/dom can be particularly false in a situation that is not permanant. If you demand that your Dom beats you harder because you like it, you are not really submissive are you? If you put yourself in that position and create the situation, are you really on the bottom? The relationship between top and bottom is a bit more fluid than you might think.
― mt, Thursday, 4 April 2002 00:00 (twenty-three years ago)