The Sounds of Sadomasochism - S & D

I am going through my collection and trying to compile a list of songs that address the subject of sadomasochism. I want to make a playlist but I own too much music. I already know obvious groups like the Genitorturers. I have obvious tracks like "Dominatrix Sleeps Tonight" and "Master and Servant". Obviously a lot of eighties industrial, goth or synth pop names will come up. What else? Any and every suggestion is welcome.

Thanks!!

BAD BOY
Album : The Very Best Of
Ray Parker, Jr. & Raydio - 1982

I've been a bad boy
Now I wanna come back home
I've been a bad boy
Now I wanna come back home

I admit that I was messin' around
Playin' macho man and bein' cool
But all along you knew right from the start
She was just playin' me for a fool

Now that the love affair is over
Here I come runnin' to you
So go ahead, girl, and punish me
`Cause I deserve to be hurt, too

I've been a bad boy
Now I wanna come back home
Please let me in
I've been a bad boy
If you let me come back home
I'll never do it again

I don't know what came over me
Let my friends tell me what to do
But I swear it'll never happen again
`Cause your love's too valuable to lose

I know it's hard to forgive me
`Cause I acted like a spoiled brat
Soon as the other woman left me
I had the nerve to come runnin' back, hoo

I've been a bad boy
Now I wanna come back home
I know I done wrong
I've been a bad boy
Now I wanna come back home
Where I belong

Bad boy
I'll do the dishes, baby, yeah
Bad boy
Now I got to be punished, so come on

Spank me, whip me
Let me come back home
Break out the leather, baby, go `head
Spank me, whip me
Let me come back home
Where I belong

I was just so young
But I am a man now, baby, mmm
I'm a whole lot more mature
Now I know how to treat a lady, oh

We've been together for so long, girl
Give me one more chance
Never again will I do wrong
Oh

I've been a bad boy
Now I wanna come back home
Please let me in
I've been a bad boy
If you let me come back home
I'll never do it again

Spank me, whip me
Let me come back home
Break out the leather, baby, go `head
Spank me, whip me
Let me come back home
Come on and hurt me if you want to

Bad boy
If you let me come back home
I'll do the dishes, baby, oh
Bad boy
Please, honey, let me come back home
I'll take out the trash, yeah

Bad boy (Hee, hee, hee, hee)
Come back home

'swing low stuart' by tompaulin touches (fnarr) on this a bit

there's also this:

http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x303/dsyn2spin/KIF_2311_edited.jpg

Artist: Willmon Trent
Song: Surprise
Album: Little More Livin

My conscience fin'lly got to me;
Workin' sixty hours a week.
Leavin' her alone, bored to death at home.
So one day, I asked off early.
I drfopped that bottle of wine,
When I flipped on the light,
You can't imagine my:

Surprise: they were havin' a real good time.
Yeah, I nearly lost my mind,
When I saw the leather an' spikes around her neck,
An' he was handcuffed to my bed,
An' I thought he was my friend.
Guess it was all lies: yeah, surprise!

The judge gave her all I had,
An' he did the same for my old friend.
Yeah, his Lexus an' his house all went to his spouse,
So when I moved out, he just moved in.
He went back to get his drawers at the place he lived before:
Guess who answered the door?

Surprise: I hooked up with his ex-wife,
Who's prettier an' sweeter than mine.
Now we're livin' his XRI Jacuzzi bath;
Yeah, we just sit back in them bubbles an' laugh,
While they're livin' in my run down shack.
Yeah, serves 'em right: surprise.

Surprise, surprise: yeah that trip to Mali sure was nice.
Oh, in Vegas we rolled the dice.
Now it's steak an' taters every night.
Next weekend, yeah, we're headed off to Disneyland.
Yeah, I knew he was rich but now,
Hell I can retire: surprise!

crystals - he hit me (and it felt like a kiss)
samantha fox - (hurt me hurt me) but the pants stay on
john cougar - hurts so good
faster pussycat - where there's a whip there's a way
devo - whip it
velvet underground - venus in furs
x-ray spex - oh bondage up yours
andrews sisters - beat me daddy eight to the bar
madonna - hanky panky
jimmy bo horne - spank

Hate to say it, but Dave Matthews Band "Crash Into Me."

dazz band - let it whip

Those are good suggestions so far! I especially like r&b / dance. Dazz Band - I have that.

Gotta have Husker Du, "Masochism World"

olivia newton-john -- tied up
guns n roses - pretty tied up

blue oyster cult - dominance and submission

Berlin: "Torture"
Berlin: "Pleasure Victim"

I NEED that Whipsmen record TODAY!!!

it's hella rare so it'll cost ya

here is a list.

"Clear gay (or male alone) sexual themes are comparatively common, if notorious and not often played on the BBC: Relax - Franke Goes to Hollywood; My Little Ukelele - George Formby; Sexomatic - The BarKays; Tainted Love - Marc Almond; He Whipped My Ass In Tennis (Then I Fucked His Ass In Bed) and almost every other track by Pansy Division; So many men, so little time - Miquel Brown; Rough Stuff - Adam Ant
Ambiguity is a fudge... who is kidding who? Submission - Sex Pistols, superficially about a submarine mission or is that muff diving? I Want Your Sex - George Michael"

"Clearly SM:
* Masters and Servants - Duran Duran
* Masochism Tango - Tom Lehrer
* Music in 12 Parts - Philip Glass (although terifically suitable and popular for SM activities, it appears it was not the intention of the composer to depict SM in music, the same could be said of many Tangerine Dream albums)
* The Seven Last Words of Christ on the Cross, op. 51 - Haydn
* The Martyrdom of St. Sebastian - Debussy
* Spartacus - Khachaturian
* Slave to the Rhythm - Grace Jones
* Hit Me With Your Rhythm Stick - Ian Dury & The Blockheads
* Do you Really Want to Hurt Me - Culture Club
* Macho Man - Village People
* I'm a Scatman - Scatman John
* Hurt So Good - Jimmy Somerville
* Hurts So Good - John Mellencamp"

xpost You're not kidding. Results 1 - 1 of 1 for whipsmen "sounds of discipline".

Do YOU own it? If so....(shuffles foot)....ya know...ysi and all....

PETE TOWNSHEND lyrics - Rough Boys

Tough boys
Running the streets
Come a little closer
Rough toys
Under the sheets
Nobody knows her
Rough boys
Don't walk away
I very nearly missed you
Tough boys
Come over here
I wanna bite and kiss you

I wanna see what I can find
Tough kids
Take a bottle of wine
When your deal is broken
Ten quid
She's so easy to find
Not a word is spoken
Rough boys
Don't walk away
I'm still pretty blissed here
Tough boy
I'm gonna carry you home
You got pretty pissed dear

Gonna get inside you
Gonna get inside your bitter mind

Rough boys
Don't walk away
I wanna buy you leather
Make noise
Try and talk me away
We can't be seen together
Tough kids
What can I do?
I'm so pale and weedy
Rough fits
In my Hush Puppy shoes
But I'm still pleading

Tough boys
Running the streets
Come a little closer
Rough toys
Under the sheets
Nobody knows her
Rough boys
Don't walk away
I very nearly missed you
Tough boys
Come over here
I wanna bite and kiss you

I wanna see what I can find!

@KJB: sadly no, i have never heard it either. apparently cult jesus folkie d4ve b1xby was involved in it somewhere, tho that might be me misunderstanding things

Jesus Christ Superstar - 39 Lashes

But nothing from the Pogues' Rum Sodomy and the Lash, right? Weird.

lyrics to "Walk The Night" by Skatt Brothers:

(evil laugh)
Chorus:
Awwww, Hey! walk the night
Hey, gonna walk the night
(repeat 4 times total)

Creeper/reeper gonna creep and walk the night
all right--look out night
creeper got mad and angry eyes
one look from him can paralyze
resist at any time or place
creeper done slap right cross your face

LOOK OUT
Take care
gonna getcha good

Awwww, Hey! walk the night
(repeat chorus 4 times)

Upon his lips the taste of pain
venom kiss of love insane
he's got a rod beneath his coat
he's gonna ram right down your throat
make your grovel on the floor
spit up and scream and beg for more

He'll whip ya and strip ya down
a hotshot
Gotcha!!! (screeeeeaammm)

come on
lay down
love it-love it-love it
Take it

xxpost then the hunt is on! thanx!

Music in 12 Parts - Philip Glass (although terifically suitable and popular for SM activities

Did not know this....

Also, there's that "hurt me hurt me I'm sure no way" part in "Valley Girl."

S&M Lyrics:

Let the beatings begi-i-i-i-in!

(excerpt from the cheech & chong track "pedro and man at the drive-in,"
In which a man is whipped and gives cries of satisfaction)

"listen all you motherfuckers!
Callin’ alllll freaks!
Bull-daggers!
Pussy riders!
Shit eaters!
Dick beaters!
Fags!
Sissies!
Asshole fuckers, or just plain ol’ fuckers!"

Verse 1:
I’m a part of this, just like you
I’m a disciple of satan, with work to do
I’ll ride you to your death and squeeze blood from your breast
And work you like a sex slave, you gets no rest
I can see it in your eyes, the devil’s deep inside
You’re a masochistic freak in disguise
Your love is your pain, and pain is your gain
You’ll force the fit just to feel the strain
You worship the bed with your life
Holding sessions of confession every moonlit night
You do it so good, tasting every ounce
Until the last drop, leaving nothing out!

S & m!
Bring yo’ dick-suckin’ friends!
S & m!
Let the beatings begin!
S & m!
Bring yo’ momma and her friend!
S & m!
Bring all your horny friends!

Verse 2:
I wear my leather in the summer to every show
With my whip around my neck, I control the hoes
My sexual fantasies must be fulfilled,
Or my tensions will increase, and then I will ill
So I pulled a little girlie, this is what I did
Jumped in the ride, took her to the crib
Rushed her in the room, sat her on the bed,
Grabbed her by the ass and she gave me head
Then I turned her over, got it from the back
The pussy was sorry, so the bitch got slapped
Then I took my dick out, laid it on her chest
She put it in the middle, then she squeezed her breasts
As I got some feeling, this is what I said:"
Baby, baby, please! just a little more head!"

S & m!
Bring yo’ sister and her friend!
S & m!
Bring all your hoey friends!
S & m!
Bring yo’ momma and her friend!s & m!
Let the beatings begin!

"piss dinkers ... overseas ... back off ... fuck off ...
Make yo’ dickstand or put yo’ pussy in yo’ hand!
You want it, we got it!"

S & m!
Bring yo’ dick-suckin’ friends!
S & m!
Let the beatings begin!
S & m!
Bring all your horny friends!
S & m!
Let the orgy begin!!

There's gotta be some Accept and Leather Nun and Judas Priest songs, too -- probably lots of them.

"Hurts So Good" is a great example and has a great ass-slapping beat. I'm looking through late 70s early 80s power pop for more examples.....

Joan Armatrading - I Love It When You Call Me Names

"Big woman and a short short man / And he loves it when she beats his brains out." Plus you get an Adrian Belew guitar solo.

Red Cross-S&M Party
Adam & the Ants-Beat My Guest
Lou Reed-Kicks
Bonnie Pointer-Free Me From My Freedom (Tie Me to a Tree/Handcuff Me)
David Bowie-Sweet Thing ("And isn't it me/putting pain in a stranger/like a portrait in flesh, trails on a leash...")

killer pussy: "teenage enema nurses in bondage"

Shel Silverstein - "Masochistic Baby"

Oh ever since my masochistic baby went and left me (she had left you a kiss)
I got nothin' nothin' to hit but the wall (poor wall)
She loved me when I beat her (oh they do love that)
But then I started actin' sweeter (ooooh mistake)
Oh and that ain't no way to treat her at all

She is the one that I'm dreaming of and you always hurt the one you love
And ever since my masochistic baby went and left me
Nothin' to hit but the wall (what you know)
Nothin' to belt but my pants (get some suspenders)
Nothin' to whip but the cream (and you're so messy)
Nothin' to beat but the eggs (oh a dollar a dozen)
oh nothin' to punch but the clock (???)
Oh nothin' to strike but a match (light my fire)
Oh nothin' nothin' to hit but the wall

You've Got Foetus On Your Breath - "Wash It All Off"

The chorus is "Supercalifragilistic-sadomachism! *whip crack* WOOO!"

Bad Boys Get Spanked - Pretenders

"Love Is Not Love" - Redd Kross

99% of the whitehouse back catalog

Frank Zappa - "Carolina Hardcore Ecstasy"

Also by FZ:

"Penguin In Bondage"

Perhaps these as well:

"Bobby Brown Goes Down"
"He's So Gay"
"Punky's Whips"

Various others too...

Big Black - "Precious Thing"

37-Year-Old Goth Dude and His Fat 23-Year-Old Girlfriend - Compensating For A Lack of Emotional Contact During Their Childhood

There's a brief whipping section in the White Noise's "My Game of Loving" from 1968's "An Electric Storm" album. Bonus: it's rumored to be a "field recording" to boot.

Also, Grizzly Bear do a nice cover of "He Hit Me" on an ep from last year if it's guy on guy discipline you're after. Also, Joanie Sommer's "Johnny Get Angry" might fit the bill. And then there's Cole Porter's "Find Me a Primitive Man":
Find me a primitive man,
Built on a primitive plan.
Someone with vigor and vim.
I don't mean a kind that belongs to a club,
But the kind that has a club that belongs to him.

Tim Buckley, Make It Right

Make It Right

And those diesel rigs
Aw they're ramblin' by
Now if I go lame I just flag a ride
I'm lookin' out for
For a street corner girl
I'm lookin' out
For a street corner girl
And she's gonna beat me whip me spank me
Aw make it right again,
Come on and beat me whip me spank me
Mama make it right again

Afghan Whigs - "I'm Her Slave"

« Fais-moi mal Johnny »
Alain Goraguer, Boris Vian

Il s'est levé à mon approche
debout il était plus petit.
Je me suis dit : « c'est dans la poche,
ce mignon là c'est pour mon lit »
Il m'arrivait jusqu'à l'épaule
mais il était râblé comme tout.
Il m'a suivi jusqu'à ma piaule
et j'ai crié « vas-y mon loup ! »

Fais-moi mal Johnny, Johnny, Johnny !
Envoie-moi au ciel... Zooouuu !
Fais-moi mal Johnny, Johnny, Johnny !
Moi j'aime l'amour qui fait boum !

Y va lui faire mal. (quater)

Il n'avait plus que ses chaussettes
des vert-jaunes avec des raies bleues.
Il m'a regardé d'un oeil bête.
Y comprenait rien le malheureux.
Et il m'a dit l'air désolé :
« Je ne ferais pas de mal à une mouche ».
Y m'énervait, je l'ai giflé
et j'ai grincé d'un air farouche :

Mais fais-moi mal Johnny, Johnny, Johnny !
J' suis pas une mouche... Zzzzzzz !
Fais-moi mal Johnny, Johnny, Johnny !
Moi j'aime l'amour qui fait boum.

Vas-y fais-lui mal (quater)

Voyant qu'il ne s'excitait guère
je l'ai insulté sauvagement.
J'y ai donné tous les noms de la terre
et encore d'autres bien moins courants.
Ça la réveillé aussi sec
et il m'a dit : « arrête ton char.
Tu m' prend vraiment pour un pauvre mec ?
J' vais t'en r'filer d' la série noire »

Oh tu m' fais mal, Johnny, Johnny, Johnny !
Pas avec les pieds... Si !
Tu m' fais mal Johnny, Johnny, Johnny !
J'aime pas l'amour qui fait bing.

Il lui a fait mal (quater)

Il a remis sa petite chemise
son petit complet, ses petits souliers.
Il a descendu l'escalier
en m' laissant une épaule démise.
Pour des voyous de cette espèce
c'est bien la peine de faire des frais.
Maintenant j'ai des bleus plein les fesses
et plus jamais je ne dirai :

Mais fais-moi mal Johnny, Johnny, Johnny !
Envoie-moi au ciel... Zooouuu !
Fais-moi mal Johnny, Johnny, Johnny !
Moi j'aime l'amour qui fait boum !

Oh Johnny...

Oh la vache... Oh j'en ai marre alors...

These guys sorta kida go there, more so in look than sound:

http://www.glyphjockey.com/pix07/leathernun.jpg

Betty Davis - "He Was A Big Freak"

Of course, you can't -- er um -- beat Lady Day's Ain't Nobody's Business:

I would rather my man would hit me
Than to haul right up and quit me.
It ain't nobody's business if I do.

You know that I won't call no copper
If I get beat up by my poppa.
It ain't nobody's business if I do, Lord no.
Well, it ain't nobody's business if I do.

Last one, I swear: "Love on the Beat" -- Serge Gainsbourg

Are there really no Stones songs that fit here?

http://www.jahsonic.com/BlackBlue.jpg

There are a few titles that would fit, but I don't know if the lyrics are specific enough:
Under My Thumb
When the Whip Comes Down
Slave
Tie You Up (The Pain of Love)

I once had a friend who had a Leather Nun record, they always sound better in theory than practice. Or maybe I'm wrong?

Joan Jett - Fetish

'useless man' by fetisch & me

Belle & Sebastian - Sukie in the Graveyard

She took a bijou flat with the fraternity cat
She hid inside the attic of the sculpture building
She had a slut slave and his name was Dave
She said, "Be my photo bitch and I'll make you rich"
He didn't believe her
But the boy revered her
He got her meals, he got her a bed
He watched behind the screen, she started to undress
He never got far
Just looking and playing guitar