Picking A Roomate

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One of the most stressful activities to go through. Its wonderful when you live with people that you truly like and appreciate as friends and roommates. It's been such a good year and 3 months with my current roomates. There's no drama. They are considerate and fun to be around and make living where I am at feel so much like a home.
Sometimes it's hard to judge how a person would fit into your place without really just having them move in. I just don't like the feeling when you finally figure out that this is the wrong person to live with. I guess I'm just a believer in balance-So much has been right in this situation that its time to deal with and workout the wrong...... I feel like I'm due for another psycho.......

brg30 (brg30), Friday, 6 September 2002 20:38 (twenty-three years ago)

CraP I ment to post this on ILX but anyway say something to make me laugh.....

brg30 (brg30), Friday, 6 September 2002 20:41 (twenty-three years ago)

Actually, I do think this question belongs on I LOVE MUSIC, because your prospective roommate's musical taste ought to factor in your decision, no? Believe me, my junior year of college roommate subsided strictly on a steady audio diet of late-career HEART, for chrissakes (I'm not even talking about semi-bearable Heart, like "Barracuda," but big poofy-haired 80's Heart like "These Dreams" and "What About Love?" shit). It was pure hell, I tell ya!

I'm sure he was no less enthused about my predeliction for Skinny Puppy, Killing Joke and the Dead Boys, but still! We found a semi-happy middle ground (one doesn't torture the other with his musical choices when both are around), but it definetly made life difficult at times. If the person you're thinking of co-habitating with is a big fan of music you find distasteful, that ought to give you pause!

Alex in NYC, Friday, 6 September 2002 20:46 (twenty-three years ago)

I used to have roomates from hell in NYC, who happened to be good friends in high school. One was screwing my friend and telling him that she was pregnant with his kid. I would get frantic calls from him late at night, and I would have to explain "my female roomate uses tampons, and she just bought a new box, which is open, and closer to empty than it used to be, so she is not pregnant!"
He didn't believe me.

Aaron Grossman (aajjgg), Friday, 6 September 2002 20:47 (twenty-three years ago)

I win!

Aaron Grossman (aajjgg), Friday, 6 September 2002 21:02 (twenty-three years ago)

I guess I can tell one of the more net friendly ones. My roommate and I were at this party and she wanted to go home. She decides to just take off w/o telling anyone. I get home the next morning and there's a woman in our driveway trying to break into a car with my housemates clothes on. She had obviously been crying and turns to me and says "Can you smash in my car window?? Do you like Tori Amos??" My loon-dar is going off pretty good by this time so I go inside to see my house mate going about her usual daily routine not fazed by the fact that someone has been outside in our driveway with her clothes on all night.She says "I got everything under control. Go to work." I leave and go to work. When I get home that evening there is big tire tracks in the drive way where this persons car was. My downstairs neighbor asks me "Who was that crazy women who jumped on the front hood of lanlords truck screaming 'You know where Tori Amos is?'" My lanlord calls and says that he had to call the police on this crazy women and how we should never accept rides from strangers,then blurts laughing,"You folks aren't selling umm marijuana are you?" This is why I don't hitchhike :)

brg30 (brg30), Friday, 6 September 2002 21:56 (twenty-three years ago)

Living alone is the best revenge.

Mary (Mary), Saturday, 7 September 2002 02:26 (twenty-three years ago)

hell it doesn't matter what music they like! do they seem like nice people, my last proper house, everyone hated my music, but it didn't matter. people you think you can get on with, thats the key man!

gareth (gareth), Saturday, 7 September 2002 09:58 (twenty-three years ago)

I had the complete opposite problem. I had a roommate that would not leave my record collection alone. I swear he did not buy a record for six months that I did not already own. It just gets annoying because you can't dig through his crates, because they are the same as your own. ;)

mt, Sunday, 8 September 2002 00:11 (twenty-three years ago)


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