yeah, even though you seem to worry about it lots on here, i think it always looks vv pretty!
― tehresa, Thursday, 7 August 2008 20:44 (sixteen years ago) link
xpost to bell
OMG I REMEMBER THAT GUY who wouldn't date girls with bangs. He was...kind of otm in that situation, though, as I recall.
― Laurel, Thursday, 7 August 2008 20:45 (sixteen years ago) link
yeah he was. though i felt bad bc i have bangs!
― tehresa, Thursday, 7 August 2008 20:46 (sixteen years ago) link
ooh iirc rrrobyn and jbr were also present that evening!
― tehresa, Thursday, 7 August 2008 20:47 (sixteen years ago) link
anyway, enbb, i like to look at mahogany's (where i got my hair did in the uk) web site for inspiration when i'm bored. how about this:
http://www.mahoganyhair.co.uk/gallery/gallery_view.php?id=10&image=46
― lauren, Thursday, 7 August 2008 20:49 (sixteen years ago) link
was it in brooklyn? around christmas time a couple years ago? was my brother there? if so, then i was there. i don't remember this guy saying stuff about bangs. i don't think i had bangs at the time. i feel like i don't even have bangs now, just, like, a lot of hair that happens to go over my forehead.
― rrrobyn, Thursday, 7 August 2008 20:53 (sixteen years ago) link
enbb wld look good in a haircut like that xpost
ooh i think that would look great on E!
yeah, that night, rrrobyn!
― tehresa, Thursday, 7 August 2008 20:53 (sixteen years ago) link
omg, ENBB, you should get that hairstyle lauren linked! i bet it would look great on you! fuck a long-hair-fetishizing dude!
lol xposts
― horseshoe, Thursday, 7 August 2008 20:55 (sixteen years ago) link
that was a fun night :)
― rrrobyn, Thursday, 7 August 2008 20:55 (sixteen years ago) link
"I saw the ho. . . and assumed it was homo" -- !!
― nabisco, Thursday, 7 August 2008 20:56 (sixteen years ago) link
It was at Daddy's, that's all I remember. I didn't think it was a time when rrrob's brother was around but I must be forgetting something.
― Laurel, Thursday, 7 August 2008 20:58 (sixteen years ago) link
I have nothing else to contribute, what with not really having hair. But I will say that guy comments on hair can be ... somewhere between open-minded and fickle, which is to say that if you have long hair we may sincerely say "oh, that looks so beautiful, don't cut it, it's so nice!" and then if you cut it the next day we may look at that and sincerely say "oh hey, that looks great, you look so different and awesome." Like I think it has less to do with lack of sincerity or lack of judgment and more to do with just going with the flow and not thinking too critically and liking whatever happens to be going on.
― nabisco, Thursday, 7 August 2008 20:59 (sixteen years ago) link
Newsflash: straight guys like girls, not too fussed about the particulars.
― Laurel, Thursday, 7 August 2008 21:01 (sixteen years ago) link
my little sis was also there - she made fun of me for le bangs. xpost
― tehresa, Thursday, 7 August 2008 21:02 (sixteen years ago) link
Umm I don't think that's it at all, Laurel
It's possible that men just have a narrower range of hair options and so we're just not as practiced at conceptualizing big changes and different ways a single haircut can be worn and all that, so there's more likelihood of just seeing things and going "that looks great!" -- kind of like people who don't know what kinds of clothing cuts will suit who, but once it's on will find you magically looking better
― nabisco, Thursday, 7 August 2008 21:09 (sixteen years ago) link
they also are the number #1 offenders in curly hair hate crimes
-- bell_labs, Thursday, August 7, 2008 3:28 PM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Link
really?? every guy ive been out with has been all 'oh leave your hair curly!!" even though it looks like a freakin poodle perm.
i have also noticed they tend to be magnetically attracted to blondes. yuck. (sorry to offend any blondes, it just gets old sometimes).
-- tehresa, Thursday, August 7, 2008 3:30 PM (58 minutes ago) Bookmark Link
TAKE THAT BACK TZA!!!
Actually, ever guy ive know has had a thing for brunettes or redheads. i dont know any blonde fans :(
― sunny successor, Thursday, 7 August 2008 21:33 (sixteen years ago) link
Wow I really like that haircut Lauren!! I wonder if it would work. I think I'm going to serioulssy think about printing that out and ask my hair dresser next week. Thank you!!
― ENBB, Friday, 8 August 2008 02:46 (sixteen years ago) link
you're welcome! i hope it works for you.
― lauren, Friday, 8 August 2008 14:21 (sixteen years ago) link
i really think you should go for it, e!
i am officially over my hair today. keep wearing it up bc it looks so crappy. down today but even after a brief blow dry it's looking idiotic again because of the heat/commute. how do all these people keep their hair so perfect while commuting in the summer? it boggles me. since i told myself i would grow it out and i never last this long, i may keep growing but dye it (which i haven't done since december). also i wish it would be less hot so i can have the cool fringe bangs again bc i combed them that way this morning and liked it but they completely cover my eyes right now and it's too hot to keep them looking good. ugh. i feel vain right now.
― tehresa, Friday, 8 August 2008 14:26 (sixteen years ago) link
also i realized this am that i am in flat iron withdrawal but it is just too hot to deal with that + blow dryer right now.
― tehresa, Friday, 8 August 2008 14:27 (sixteen years ago) link
Hey rrrobyn (or anyone else who remembers), iirc you got some kind of bitchin' hairdryer a while back. what kind was it again?
― sunny successor, Monday, 11 August 2008 14:33 (sixteen years ago) link
ooh yeah and bell what was that straightener-dryer thing you got and how is it working out?
― tehresa, Monday, 11 August 2008 14:36 (sixteen years ago) link
this is the one i have, sunny - elchim pro - not that i have even turned it on in the last couple of months... lol summer hair
― rrrobyn, Monday, 11 August 2008 18:31 (sixteen years ago) link
do you love it?
― sunny successor, Monday, 11 August 2008 18:35 (sixteen years ago) link
i hate the flat iron i got, i think it has ruined my hair. i have never had so many split ends. it's this one here: http://www.overstock.com/Health-Wellness/Turbo-Ions-Croc-Wet-to-Dry-Flat-Iron/2387100/product.html?cid=123620&fp=F&ci_src=14110944&ci_sku=10623869
i never really use it on wet hair because it makes a sizzling noise that scares me. it worked fine for a couple of weeks but since i have been using it the texture of my hair has actually become more coarse.
― bell_labs, Monday, 11 August 2008 18:37 (sixteen years ago) link
i miss the crappy old iron that i have, which i think worked well with my hair because it didn't get as hot. now even all of the cheap ones at the drugstores advertise that they get super, super hot. so i'm not really sure what i should use.
― bell_labs, Monday, 11 August 2008 18:39 (sixteen years ago) link
I think a lot of them have dials where you can turn the temp to where you like it.
― sunny successor, Monday, 11 August 2008 18:47 (sixteen years ago) link
mine has a digital heat setting - but the lowest heat it allows is 290 degrees, which is apparently still too hot for my hair.
― bell_labs, Monday, 11 August 2008 18:50 (sixteen years ago) link
yes i totally love the elchim! it's greatness - hot & v fast. i'm just into my 70s style curly summer hair these days, plus it's been too hot/humid for blowdrying, for me. xposts
― rrrobyn, Monday, 11 August 2008 18:51 (sixteen years ago) link
i have been trying the past couple weeks to stop using a flat iron because it seems like it is just frying my poor hair. i have some heat protectant coming in the mail though, so maybe that will make a difference.
― bell_labs, Monday, 11 August 2008 18:54 (sixteen years ago) link
i'm still lusting after the solano platinum that my hairstylist uses. i've found for as low as $85, but i can't quite bring myself to purchase it.
― lauren, Monday, 11 August 2008 18:54 (sixteen years ago) link
yay, rrrobyn! ill check it out.
bell, i think my flat iron has a max temp of 200 degrees. Ill check later.
― sunny successor, Monday, 11 August 2008 18:56 (sixteen years ago) link
guys: i think i may have HYPERKARITOSIS like the neutrogena t-gel commercial says. actually, i've had persistent dry scalp for over a decade but it comes & goes depending on weather & the length of my hair. medicated shampoos make my hair as dry & manageable as straw so I refuse to use them on a regular basis, besides which they make one's head smell like a nursing home.
any help? i'm don't think i'm allergic to anything that would cause this and no dermatologist has ever given any diagnosis of what might be causing this. i'd prefer to solve this by taking supplements or adjusting my diet rather than medicating my head.
― elmo argonaut, Tuesday, 12 August 2008 18:03 (sixteen years ago) link
you know lauren, i've spent at least $50 on two dryers in the course of the last year, so if it is a good dryer that won't break maybe it's worth it?
― tehresa, Tuesday, 12 August 2008 18:05 (sixteen years ago) link
use devacurl! xpost
or a less stripping sulfate-free shampoo? perhaps? might help?
― tehresa, Tuesday, 12 August 2008 18:06 (sixteen years ago) link
OK. I bleached my hair and I think it's sort of too brassy but just a little. I want to fix it before Friday when I get a haircut so the stylist doesn't yell at me!
― ENBB, Tuesday, 12 August 2008 18:09 (sixteen years ago) link
i don't think it has to do with my current shampoo use -- i only shampoo every 3 or 4 days so i don't think i'm stripping my hair
― elmo argonaut, Tuesday, 12 August 2008 18:09 (sixteen years ago) link
try a toner? you can find them at beauty supply stores.
― tehresa, Tuesday, 12 August 2008 18:10 (sixteen years ago) link
Yeah that's what I think I need. I wonder if they come in diff colors or if toner is just toner.
― ENBB, Tuesday, 12 August 2008 18:11 (sixteen years ago) link
they come in different shades so you can pick the right blonde you are aiming for - ashy, strawberry, etc. - iirc
― tehresa, Tuesday, 12 August 2008 18:13 (sixteen years ago) link
persistent dry scalp for over a decade but it comes & goes
This is what I had until I recognized it was the SLS doing it. The coal tar in the T-gel (which I used daily for years even though you shouldn't) would numb the itching and keeps the flakes down, but since I quit that, went to SLS free shampoo and only shampoo once a week or so (but rinse every day), my scalp is so much happier.
― Jaq, Tuesday, 12 August 2008 18:16 (sixteen years ago) link
hm!
― elmo argonaut, Tuesday, 12 August 2008 18:24 (sixteen years ago) link
i had never heard about the perils of shampooing with sulphur compounds! do a lot of shampoos include them? thanks tza & jaq, i will look into this
― elmo argonaut, Tuesday, 12 August 2008 18:27 (sixteen years ago) link
wait does this mean that shampooing with selsun blue (which is v. sulphated iirc) has actually exacerbated the problem rather than helping??
― elmo argonaut, Tuesday, 12 August 2008 18:28 (sixteen years ago) link
possibly - that's what was happening to me with the T-gel. Some people are sensitized to SLS, but it's in so many things. Toothpaste is another major one that can cause trouble for some.
― Jaq, Tuesday, 12 August 2008 18:34 (sixteen years ago) link
SLS is sodium laurel sulphate, which is really a cheap detergent btw, not the same as the stuff that lets go of free sulphur ions. You'll also see SLES (sodium laureth sulphate) which is milder than SLS.
― Jaq, Tuesday, 12 August 2008 18:35 (sixteen years ago) link
what kind of shampoo do you use again, jaq?
i've gotten down to washing hair once a week! it is better, hair hardly looks oily by the end of the week too but i do need to rinse a couple times in btwn b/c of biking and exercise. scalp still dry in places, however :/ and i don't use sls or anything. i think that taking salmon oil really helps! i just remembered that! and i haven't taken it in months - ahaa
― rrrobyn, Tuesday, 12 August 2008 18:36 (sixteen years ago) link