ils menswear and men's clothing part 2: 2023 until we all need stillsuits

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amen brother, & the mock turt maker better send me an email saying "happy trails" after it's delivered to me.

ꙮ (map), Sunday, 19 February 2023 21:50 (two years ago)

It's the only type of shirt that is also a type of soup

As far as I know

nat king cole slaw (Ye Mad Puffin), Sunday, 19 February 2023 23:37 (two years ago)

two weeks pass...

Red wing and Nintendo have teamed up to bring Super Mario’s Shoes To Life (2023) pic.twitter.com/0yqFdXnpqf

— Outlander Magazine (@StreetFashion01) March 10, 2023

lag∞n, Friday, 10 March 2023 22:57 (two years ago)

lmao

call all destroyer, Friday, 10 March 2023 23:28 (two years ago)

cant wait to stomp on all my enemies

lag∞n, Friday, 10 March 2023 23:40 (two years ago)

one month passes...

https://www.cnn.com/2023/05/09/australia/australia-william-leslie-arnold-cold-case-intl-hnk-dst/index.html

wow chambray double needle workshirt, such authentic, is it selvedge, where can i cop?

the late great, Tuesday, 9 May 2023 15:46 (two years ago)

‘Well, he was an orphan. He didn’t lie about that, but he killed his parents, that’s why he was an orphan.’

👌

Fizzles, Wednesday, 10 May 2023 07:32 (two years ago)

who's looking snazzy for summer

https://img.staticdj.com/0db3f52ccc134a79e32104a267bc5f39_1080x.jpeg

ꙮ (map), Monday, 15 May 2023 19:11 (two years ago)

for real though i got this filson mechanic shirt and i can't wait to cosplay rough trade at the club

https://filson-canto.imgix.net/3qrso6g9vh57785bqmdpdcil37/gs6KD7w7k41qERPg97FERgdWi3Y/original?h=2000&w=2000&bg=ffffff&q=80&auto=format,compress&fit=fillmax

ꙮ (map), Monday, 15 May 2023 19:13 (two years ago)

stussy has done many iterations on this workwear classic

besides the fact that i've never quite been able to pull off hickory stripe, i also have a morbid fear of catching my chest hair when adjusting the zip

the late great, Monday, 15 May 2023 20:57 (two years ago)

i could not make it work personally but it's a cool style of shirt

call all destroyer, Tuesday, 16 May 2023 01:27 (two years ago)

my summer look is “aging crustpunk” or “hippie preppy”

Goose Bigelow, Fowl Gigolo (the table is the table), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 01:33 (two years ago)

The one with the half zip is odd but it is at least comprehensible as clothing for a male adult human in the western hemisphere.

I don't really understand the blue shirt above it with what I guess is a keyhole neckline?

Not my personal thing, but if that is something you wish to wear, go ahead; rock on with your bad selves.

I do not know what crust is so I'm prolly gonna keep dressing like my father, my stepfather, and almost every male person I ever knew who has a PhD in the humanities and a drinking problem. Our collective aesthetic is "louche English professor" and mostly it is working out for us.

We wear tweed nine months out of the year and linen for three months, and we do okay.

gelatinous cubist (Ye Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 02:09 (two years ago)

god bless

i'm also on the lookout for the douchiest sport sunglasses imaginable, i think it might have to be these oakleys

https://assets2.oakley.com/cdn-record-files-pi/c6ca0fe9-4ff1-43c5-8fa3-aefd00ef8cc0/77a5f4ac-6e0d-4929-bd9d-aefd00f83d56/0OO9271__927153__P21__shad__qt.png?impolicy=OO_ratio&width=2000

ꙮ (map), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 02:30 (two years ago)

for the record, the blue shirt was a joke

ꙮ (map), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 02:32 (two years ago)

i used to sling secondhand & vintage clothing as a side hustle and have the kind of eclectic wardrobe that goes with the territory.

my favorite stuff has tended to be postwar era- not too military, not too rockabilly, more outdoor and phys ed apparel. it's blockish and severe and looks good with my buzz cut.

i've gained a lot of weight in the last few years, though. i resisted buying any new clothes, instead i've tried to squeeze into anything i had that was oversized or less fitted. but it's got to the point where that's no longer an option.

so the first thing i noticed is that used clothes cost as much as new clothes now. not just coveted vintage pieces, i mean absolutely everything. wtf?? i guess i'm glad more people are buying secondhand shit but this is crazy.

i'm not going to buy fast fashion bullshit that falls apart in 3 months and ends up in a landfill. i'm not going invest in heirloom pieces because of my fluctuating weight (i was S/P and could fit into youth sizes, now i'm a true M/L) and also i'm living with uncertainties about my health. and i'm def not paying what ridiculous vintage repro brands charge for basics, holy shit.

digging around the online secondhand market a bit, it's really hard to find anything that justifies the price. Billy Reid stuff is about the best value, with a lot of pieces made in Italy under $30. i'm also seeing some deals for Steven Alan, though the quality and price point is much more variable there. this kind of stuff is a little more "normal guy" than what i usually go for, but i like it well enough i guess. the guys i see on the subway who dress like that always look like they have their ducks in a row. the problem is that as it's sort of blandish no individual piece inspires me to pull the trigger.

i'm through with buying clothes, forever. fashion is the biggest racket going, better drop those pounds fast i guess.

No, 𝘐'𝘮 Breathless! (Deflatormouse), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 02:34 (two years ago)

Not my personal thing, but if that is something you wish to wear, go ahead; rock on with your bad selves.

fixed

No, 𝘐'𝘮 Breathless! (Deflatormouse), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 02:39 (two years ago)

gah

Not my personal thing, but if that is something you wish to wear, go ahead; rock on with your bad selves.

:D

No, 𝘐'𝘮 Breathless! (Deflatormouse), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 02:39 (two years ago)

i doubt this is up your alley because it's very military but i need to evangelize about soffe silkies (or "ranger panties") for a second. if there was a god in heaven more men with nice legs would wear them. they're incredibly short. they're also incredibly comfortable. i wear them to the gym every day, whaddup.

https://cdn10.bigcommerce.com/s-19fkae7/products/361/images/1548/M020_ranger-olive__50494.1563829773.1280.1280.jpg?c=2

ꙮ (map), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 02:42 (two years ago)

i once sold a pair of champion running man herringbone gym shorts in military olive color with a < 3" inseam for like $150.

i have 1940s basketball shorts somewhere that are shorter. alas, my legs have seen better days.

No, 𝘐'𝘮 Breathless! (Deflatormouse), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 02:47 (two years ago)

ftr i am pro gym shorts. on guys with nice legs it's not even a question.

No, 𝘐'𝘮 Breathless! (Deflatormouse), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 02:55 (two years ago)

YMP, “crust punk” is wearing cut-off tees with hardcore bands or cop-fighting anime characters or trains on them with booty shorts . it gets hot in Philly.

“hippie preppy” is wearing nicer clothes but they’re a little too bright and strange and it might seem like i’m on drugs. LL Bean but make it drug-running

Goose Bigelow, Fowl Gigolo (the table is the table), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 11:34 (two years ago)

preppie gone druggy is classic story

lag∞n, Tuesday, 16 May 2023 13:22 (two years ago)

i like ll bean too, but it's a good example of the secondhand market insanity with items that used to reliably fetch $10-15 starting around $50. guess i'm done with ll bean.

Seth from Dufus is the ultimate crust punk. he doesn't wear a ton of black but i saw him on the G train c. 2001 with huge mounds of actual garbage glued to his shoes.

No, 𝘐'𝘮 Breathless! (Deflatormouse), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 14:12 (two years ago)

whats a good bargain on the second hand market these days

lag∞n, Tuesday, 16 May 2023 14:13 (two years ago)

Wow I literally have no idea what you folks are talking about but okay

gelatinous cubist (Ye Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 15:15 (two years ago)

I only shop LL Bean at discount shops or at the outlets in Maine— I save a couple hundred just for clothes on my annual Maine trip.

Goose Bigelow, Fowl Gigolo (the table is the table), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 15:25 (two years ago)

(or at least I try)

Goose Bigelow, Fowl Gigolo (the table is the table), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 15:25 (two years ago)

i find ll bean made in usa pieces on ebay for $10-15 regularly. usually when sellers don't put it in the title and you gotta scroll the pics to see the tags. 90s era denim/chambray shirts in partic.

not usa but ll bean camp collar shirts are plentiful, affordable, and good for summer. i have two in a pleasingly colonialist batik print that look great with the sleeves rolled way way up for flexing purposes (the default unrolled silhouette is very tommy bahama).

levis 550s (the relaxed fit) are very cheap on ebay and comfortable year round in nyc imo.

adam, Tuesday, 16 May 2023 15:29 (two years ago)

my man!

am i not as patient and resourceful as i used to be or are we looking at different pieces?

not seeing a big price difference between made in usa and imported tbh. i have seen the camp shirts real cheap! i don't want em because tommy bahama silhouette is otm

also i like camp shirts a lot but why does every fucking short sleeve shirt have a camp collar now?

annual Maine trip.

ppl who have figured out how to live

No, 𝘐'𝘮 Breathless! (Deflatormouse), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 16:08 (two years ago)

As much as I like the patterns on a lot of camp collar shirts, I am very much sticking with butch collars; they just sit better on me. I’m currently scouting around for colourful print shirts, but with long sleeves. I never actually wear them long; instead I roll them up high above the elbow, as the shape nicely masks my skinny upper arms.

mike t-diva, Tuesday, 16 May 2023 17:00 (two years ago)

camp collar is code for “i’m available”, can’t believe you guys didn’t know this

Tracer Hand, Tuesday, 16 May 2023 17:05 (two years ago)

deflatormouse, one of my oldest friends comes from some money, her family has a spot on an island off of Maine— dreamy place, but i certainly couldn’t afford such a trip if i were paying for anything besides gas, tolls, and gifts

Goose Bigelow, Fowl Gigolo (the table is the table), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 17:06 (two years ago)

I'm happy that this forest-green Land's End barn jacket, with a corduroy collar -- it was my late dads, from the 80s/90s -- is now suddenly in style.

underwater as a compliment (Eazy), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 17:52 (two years ago)

like a Barbour jacket?

Tracer Hand, Tuesday, 16 May 2023 18:00 (two years ago)

A lot like this one (I guess Lands' End is still making them!).

underwater as a compliment (Eazy), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 18:02 (two years ago)

Oh, and here's the jacket itself on Ebay, though mine is less faded.

underwater as a compliment (Eazy), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 18:04 (two years ago)

that sounds amazing table, my last comment was without irony or judgement, i'm glad you get to experience that place! i've only been to maine once, with a guy i was dating who grew up in the portland area. we went for a visit and hit boothbay, it was insanely beautiful.

as midcentury leisure shirts go i'm into the early 60's italian collar and have one in my rotation currently
https://www.themoviescene.co.uk/reviews/_img/8384-3.jpg

those barn jackets never went out of style.

No, 𝘐'𝘮 Breathless! (Deflatormouse), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 18:07 (two years ago)

i have one, it makes me look hopelessly awful

Goose Bigelow, Fowl Gigolo (the table is the table), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 19:44 (two years ago)

my enormous 80s bean barn jacket--with a waxed poacher's pocket and webbing for shotgun shells--is one of my prize ebay scores. it is best with the collar flipped up

adam, Tuesday, 16 May 2023 19:47 (two years ago)

I've been thinking about what I could contribute to this thread. I bought this pair of shoes a couple of months ago, they're the most comfortable shoes I've ever worn:

Allbirds Men's Tree Dasher Relay

immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 19:56 (two years ago)

How often do you carry shotgun shells adam

gelatinous cubist (Ye Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 16 May 2023 21:01 (two years ago)

better to have extra pocket features today than to be the guy with loose shells rattling around like a fucking dork tomorrow

adam, Wednesday, 17 May 2023 00:02 (two years ago)

I might be tempted to use those shotgun-shell loops for those mini airplane liquor bottles

Or harmonicas in a bunch different keys, like the dude from Blues Traveler

Maybe just go straight-up absurdist and carry like five different kinds of toothpaste or skin moisturizer

gelatinous cubist (Ye Mad Puffin), Wednesday, 17 May 2023 00:08 (two years ago)

i inherited a waxed canvas Barbour-type jacket from my uncle which i absolutely love but am wary about wearing here in the UK because of pretty vivid associations with rich land-owning Tories

something his brother told me that i never knew before is that they were originally invented as motorcycle jackets!

Tracer Hand, Wednesday, 17 May 2023 09:51 (two years ago)

wear mine a fair bit in spring and autumn. walk around brockwell park with a shotgun under my arm. bray loudly at the ducks etc.

Fizzles, Wednesday, 17 May 2023 11:54 (two years ago)

a bit of brexit for lunch

Tracer Hand, Wednesday, 17 May 2023 11:56 (two years ago)

xp don’t forget your red cords

Everybody's gonna get what they got coming (gyac), Wednesday, 17 May 2023 12:05 (two years ago)

correct xp

i haven’t got any red cords. i have got a splendid brick-coloured… well what colour are we calling this?

https://i.imgur.com/UPlDBuA.jpg

Fizzles, Wednesday, 17 May 2023 12:10 (two years ago)

Rusty, which is just brown-red

Everybody's gonna get what they got coming (gyac), Wednesday, 17 May 2023 12:18 (two years ago)

The dress sneaker analogy is good - that's sort of how I feel about the Todd Snyder stuff I tried last year and wound up returning, including a shacket.

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Sunday, 4 January 2026 18:58 (one week ago)

This is why I'm drawn to the Wax Kondon ones, I live in a warm climate, but I need not-too-heavy long sleeve shirts for the occasional cool weather, and I want to look like a fancy lad.

whimsical skeedaddler (Moodles), Sunday, 4 January 2026 19:32 (one week ago)

I think the shacket and chore coat are not for me. I briefly tried the latter and my round shoulders and stoop... all looks very droopy, very sad. I want a stiff seam and fabric up there.

80-90% of my year in the English climate is heavy flannel/heavy denim over t-shirt (plain navy/charcoal/black/white for work rather than band/graphic, & I usually stay buttoned anyway). One very very heavy proper aran(*) for exceptionally cold periods, or the heavy hoodie if I don't mind looking slack.

Sometimes I look at something like a very heavy CPO shirt and think 'hmm practical, that could work' but in the end I think if I'm going out I just throw a jacket on. I'm just not comfortable in the shacket and overshirt hinterlands.

* A thing I've learned about myself is that I am dreadful at looking after wool unless it is absolutely critical to look after that bit of wool. I know what to do but I just get forgetful and unless it is a precious item of clothing my attention slips as winter fades and so holes appear. The moths win. I am currently waiting for what is effectively my second jumper, a gansey that I ordered in whitby last summer. Like the aran I will defend it with my life - money is one thing of course but it would also be disrespectful to the people who knitted them.

woof, Sunday, 4 January 2026 23:41 (one week ago)

i need a good wool protection strategy. i do have moths. ive tried traps and they do get tons of the fucking things but i want to get to a place where there just aren't any moths. maybe that's impossible. i live in a terraced house. i don't know. i have considered a "bomb" but i don't like the idea of those chemicals and i read you have to open all your drawers and wardrobes because the moths have to actually get touched by the mist to die. bags? with... something... (not mothballs) inside?

Tracer Hand, Monday, 5 January 2026 00:00 (one week ago)

Can you get predatory wasps there? They absolutely worked for me—I first read about them in a NYT article; let me see if I can link it.

mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Monday, 5 January 2026 02:28 (one week ago)

https://www.nytimes.com/2024/11/26/magazine/moths-clothes-trichogramma-wasps.html

mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Monday, 5 January 2026 02:29 (one week ago)

i picked up a shacket - military olive and with a little shape at the waist at Kestin, which is a really nice clothes shop in Edinburgh. also picked up a lovely brushed wool flannel shirt and a mustard cardie in honour of this look

https://www.brightwalldarkroom.com/2019/10/24/consider-the-spy/

(i misremembered the cardie part but the colour is apt)

the mustard cardie doesn’t get a lot of public service because, well because it’s mustard, but it does go well with a roll neck for a sort of cocktail party murderer look. i may recreate the george smiley look itself for work tomorrow actually now i think of it.

wool is a colossal pita as everyone say. well wool isn’t as such, though remembering to wash after a couple of wears and regularly-ish after that doesn’t always happen, but yeah the moths. i managed to get two years out of my william lockie jumpers by shoving them in the freezer at the end of winter but i’m going to need to get the darning needle out again come spring.

my navy drawstring wool trousers some gigantic moth or bunch of them ate a massive hole in the crotch and they’re done for which is a huge shame as they were great for winter and when your dietary control wasn’t what it should be…

Fizzles, Monday, 5 January 2026 17:56 (one week ago)

kestin btw

https://www.kestin.co/

Fizzles, Monday, 5 January 2026 17:56 (one week ago)

I have the moth problem, think it might be inevitable in London. I've followed all the eradication advice and reduced numbers but can't get rid of them. Get a load of Ziploc plastic bags and put all your nice stuff in those through moth season. This is the only solution I've found and have lost some nice stuff along the way.

Or there are lots of other boxes or bags that will do the trick.

LocalGarda, Monday, 5 January 2026 18:03 (one week ago)

Also don't forget any items, I cannot stress this enough

LocalGarda, Monday, 5 January 2026 18:04 (one week ago)

yes. always one jumper that you leave behind that sits in your hands reproachfully when you dig it out as autumn comes round.

i make do with cotton bags folded over which seem to work but again, you need to actually use them, and not eg take the garment out of the bag and forget to put it back in.

Fizzles, Monday, 5 January 2026 18:11 (one week ago)

Shackets don’t work on me at all, so I rely on cheapo cashmere (see above) which is just the most extraordinary fabric; how can anything so light be so warm. I’m also big into wool; thankfully we don’t have moths, and I use a Lakeland bobble buster to shave the furriest one.

mike t-diva, Monday, 5 January 2026 18:13 (one week ago)

The little shits got the corner of a patch pocket on one of my j keydge slack jackets last year. I can style it out but it still pissed me off. Takes ebay grinding to get them nowadays.

woof, Monday, 5 January 2026 21:36 (one week ago)

Oh man, I used to be huge on shirt jackets — though in retrospect that was probably because I was less huge on getting clothes to the laundromat, and it seemed helpful to just keep throwing the same shirt jackets over things. These days I do have one I love, but unfortunately it's not made anymore — Outerknown, which does the chunky flannel Blanket Shirt, briefly had a jacket version of it with a square hem and side pockets. Wish they'd do that again, but I haven't seen it since 2020 or so. Flannel-wise the shirt's solid, really ropy and substantial in a way that breaks in nicely, though the last time I got one something had changed about the cut and sizing that pretty much ruined it on me!

Also re: Lands' End they sometimes have an extra-chunky "rugged flannel" that, when it's not being made in the absolute ugliest plaids imaginable — like plaids that resemble a hardcore gamer's computer in 2003 — I have considered maybe weirdly superior to that Blanket Shirt for like a third of the price? They do have some real occasional scores on the shirt front! A few years ago my wife and I were walking down a street in Cincinnati and this older guy ahead of us was wearing the most beautiful shirt — an ordinary plaid-ish patterned shirt but just looking flawlessly soft and casual and fitting and hanging ideally — and after I spent a whole block talking about how weirdly perfect this guy's shirt looked, she jogged up and asked him where it was from, and he was like (takes off shirt to look at tag) oh, it's Lands' End. I used to spend way too much time trying to find items where normal or cheap brands ended up producing something better than upscale equivalents, and somehow there's like .01% of Lands' End shirt designs that seems to fall in that bucket.

ን (nabisco), Monday, 5 January 2026 22:23 (one week ago)

lol my favorite plaids from LE all look like somebody took a picture of a malfunctioning computer screen and hit invert in photoshop, it is true

trm (tombotomod), Monday, 5 January 2026 22:37 (one week ago)

i like Land's End henleys fwiw

Tracer Hand, Monday, 5 January 2026 22:56 (one week ago)

Pendleton is good for flannels and wools. Full price is kinda steep, but they have sales often. I live near their factory store, luckily, and have found some good deals there. (And maybe I was the last to learn that The Beach Boys originally called themselves The Pendletones because of their matching flannel board shirts.)

the way out of (Eazy), Monday, 5 January 2026 23:11 (one week ago)

Who is wearing all the neon plaid from LE, I wonder? Only plausible answer I can imagine is working guys trying to match their hi-vis vests.

BTW if anyone was in suspense I’m pleased to
say my foot went back to normal, though I’m still spending a lot of days in Oboz Bridger boots. I think the trick with modern hikers as everyday wear is actually to avoid any of the ones that make you think “oh nice, that mostly looks like a normal boot,” because those will indeed seem like you’re wearing normal boots you have really bad taste in. You want something that is confidently up-front with technical details like toe kicks or speed lacing or different materials — everything that says “hello yes I am 100% a hiking boot” apart from garish sneakerish colors. Also helps to get them scuffed and dirty as quickly as possible; half of what can make them awkward is looking unnaturally fresh

ን (nabisco), Monday, 5 January 2026 23:35 (one week ago)

(PS Pendleton sometimes has a really good pearl-snap western shirt, both in trad poly-cotton and wool, with top-notch color schemes.)

ን (nabisco), Monday, 5 January 2026 23:38 (one week ago)

Also helps to get them scuffed and dirty as quickly as possible

so relatable, also one of those things that makes me feel that i'm a grown man who has not progressed past the mentality of my nine-year-old self

budo jeru, Tuesday, 6 January 2026 00:17 (six days ago)

re wool, we have these vacuum storage bags that work wonders.

a tv star not a dirty computer man (the table is the table), Tuesday, 6 January 2026 02:19 (six days ago)

Aww, I don't consider it juvenile or superficial to say some things look awkward when new! Daily-wear hiking boots actually hit all three of the main categories I can see for such stuff: things meant to be broken in and molded (leather, raw denim, waxed canvas), things where part of the aesthetic goal is to feel like you're casually throwing on an old practical favorite (trucker jackets, certain flannels, old-school puffers), and things built for a purpose specific enough that it looks actively odd if they've clearly never been used for that purpose (outdoor gear). But I dunno, I guess I may be too much of a fan of the old WASPy "wearing nice stuff that's been absolutely beat to hell" thing ... not to a cracked-shoes Adlai Stevenson level, but my favorite sweaters definitely feature some 20-year-old holes

ን (nabisco), Tuesday, 6 January 2026 16:28 (six days ago)

Those cherry Merrell 1trl's posted above are beautiful. Picking up a pair today.

My daily wear Tasmanian Laincot pants have acquired a purple hue from sunbleaching. Mixes well with a vintage Australian made flannel (still plenty of beauties to find in this nations rural op shops) + my cherry Salomons. Summer is set. No desire to wear anything else

H.P, Wednesday, 7 January 2026 01:30 (five days ago)

xp me neither but to me there's something quite mature about being able to lean into it, "yup, i know looks a bit off but it's brand new and that comes with the territory, they'll develop wear soon enough but in the mean time i'm wearing them anyway" yknow rather than scuffing them up shamefully in a corner

budo jeru, Wednesday, 7 January 2026 02:00 (five days ago)

Washing machines and dryers on no-heat / air fluff mode are astounding at making your good new things look beat up fwiw

trm (tombotomod), Wednesday, 7 January 2026 03:38 (five days ago)

I find it hilarious that my friends and colleagues consider me a stylish person despite the fact that I thrash hard against all the orthodoxies espoused in this thread. It has to be because I live where I live, where the ability to match colors and wear outfits that aren’t just brown and navy blue or gray and black is like some flagrant expression of individuality people can barely get their head around

trm (tombotomod), Wednesday, 7 January 2026 03:42 (five days ago)

getting called a hidebound traditionalist from the guy who only wears one type of shoes ever, designed in the 1920s smh

Tracer Hand, Wednesday, 7 January 2026 08:31 (five days ago)

ouch, well zung

trm (tombotomod), Wednesday, 7 January 2026 12:54 (five days ago)

My mother is a violinist; a while back she bought a new violin case to replace the one she got in like 1953.

Apparently she thought the new one looked incongruous and possibly dorky (like the other violinists were gonna give her shit about it and call her teh noob).

Anyway she had me take it outside and kick it around in the driveway for 10 minutes

calmer chameleon (Ye Mad Puffin), Wednesday, 7 January 2026 13:05 (five days ago)

Hahahaha, sorry that tickled me

Jonk Raven (dog latin), Wednesday, 7 January 2026 13:17 (five days ago)

Are there any orthodoxies in this thread? I can't remember any.

LocalGarda, Wednesday, 7 January 2026 14:01 (five days ago)

Not really. I do feel like the tendency here seems to be somewhat conservative? I’m still grumpy that nabisco suggested that some of my favorite flannels look like alienware laptops.

trm (tombotomod), Wednesday, 7 January 2026 15:34 (five days ago)

I've always been a little on the conservative side myself. I grew up with a dad who wore suits to my little league games. We have a photo of him as a young child in a suit on the beach. His dad made suits.

I also work in a field that tends to be more conservative, although my office is casual now. I still feel a little weird when I wear jeans to work even when they're "nice" jeans. I had an argument with my family about how I don't think there's such a thing as "nice sweatpants."

Most of my dressing is either for the office or just weekend bumming around. I'm a suburban dad and have no reason to not dress like one. I like wearing my patagonia jacket (actually the inside of a 3-in-1 coat) everywhere not so much because I love the way it looks, although I like it, but because it says "I'm here to pick up my kids." No one will ever doubt that I'm there to pick up my kids when I'm wearing my patagonia jacket.

longtime caller, first time listener (man alive), Wednesday, 7 January 2026 16:14 (five days ago)

There are pairs of sweatpants that cost as much as 2-3 pairs of decent jeans, and they’re better constructed than those jeans, too.

in my world, jeans and suit pants and pretty much all other forms of long pants other than sweatpants are simply not even part of the thought process. this world sucks, why do i need to be uncomfortable in it just so i can fit into some bourgeois ideas of propriety?

a tv star not a dirty computer man (the table is the table), Wednesday, 7 January 2026 18:04 (five days ago)

It's prob a life's work to define our own personal relationship to menswear or streetwear or both, lol

LocalGarda, Wednesday, 7 January 2026 18:12 (five days ago)

I would completely agree with that

trm (tombotomod), Wednesday, 7 January 2026 18:49 (five days ago)

yeah, agreed. i only came around to sweats a few years ago, now i wear them most of the time in the colder months and actively resent when i have to put proper jeans on. i even bring an extra pair of sweats with me so if i have to run errands after teaching, i don’t have be uncomfortable.

a tv star not a dirty computer man (the table is the table), Wednesday, 7 January 2026 20:21 (five days ago)

I received my overshirt, and I'm very happy with it. I'll probably wear it as a shirt rather than a jacket for the most part. Very lucky to nab one at a steep discount that is an actually nice, non-garish color combination.

whimsical skeedaddler (Moodles), Wednesday, 7 January 2026 21:06 (five days ago)

Probably the most comfortable pair of pants I've ever owned is my tailored wool pants from Suit
Supply. But... almost as inappropriate for everyday use
in my life as sweats.

beard papa, Thursday, 8 January 2026 17:12 (four days ago)

Moleskin pants have been the most comfortable ones I've ever worn. Had a Gap pair in the 90s and then a few from the Canadian brand Caban...All wore out from heavy use, but loved 'em and still keep an eye out for similar ones.

the way out of (Eazy), Thursday, 8 January 2026 17:15 (four days ago)

Ok but do you have any idea how many moles need to die to make those pants

calmer chameleon (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, 8 January 2026 17:25 (four days ago)


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