two months pass...
arents and all other authority needz 2 lose itz power.my parents abused me and so did my older sister and they got away with it just becauze they hid behind the respect they had as being"parents"or watever.this society haz scewed priorityz if sum1s mean and cruel "adult"type people (even know im actually sum of thier age) tend 2 act like u certainly cant get mad az if itz cruel 2 hurt a dictatorz feelingz or if your mad they want 2 midigate it like"well your thge parent u can kill him if u want but r u sure u want to commit murder?"while where nice and those people would yell at us for sumthing harmless like smoking or wat not.i have a freind on myspace whos parents whip her and tare up nething she drawz if its happy saying this is not permissible cauze god might get mad basically like the mother in the movie carrie.when people started 2 wonder about my parents and olde4r sister all they had 2 do waz hide behind my non comformist viewz,if i asked 4 xanax my severe anxiety my religous anti drug zelot dad and sister would just say"you nwant marijuana 2 dont u"and then the adults i asked 4 help would pat my dad on the back.there should b a new counterculture like the 60s 2 end this.kids r an opressed group intitle 2 equal rights.i tried mobile psting 2day on my new gophone i bought but it didnt work does nebody no how 2 post 2 a community blog on mobile.
current mood: anxious
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Monday, January 1st, 2007
1:26 am - runaway.
overprotected15 what r ur opinions on running away?
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Sunday, December 31st, 2006
8:53 pm - Disgust Post #1
gmwpn8tsr 8:27 P.M. EST
Sunday, December 31, 2006
I enter my father's room to retrieve the telephone and was forcible pushed out of the room into the hallway. He gave me a speach on how I don't respect him and all that garbage. The truth of it is, I think that there was something else going on in that room when I entered. I didn't get a chance to see but apparently he was sitting at the computer. I can only surmise the details of this incident and feel quite perturbed to be forced to live with this degenerate of a man. He is the type of person that cannot be insulted. He is an overweight, fat, slob who does absolutely nothing and blames the bank devoid on everyone else in the house. He is abusive and has hit me several times, without reason. Subsequently, I threatened to call the police. He laughed and said that the phone was sitting on the charger. This is just one of many isolated incidents. My masochistic mother refuses to do anything about him and his foolishness. I feel absolutely no remorse for him. I wish he was flattened by a bus, not just for the insurance gains, but to see him squeal as I watched in total euphoria and intoxication from the spurting blood of his broken body. The only constellation to this conundrum is that he has contracted diabetes. Hopefully from his lavishly gluttonous eating, he will soon be gone. The day he drops dead I'm going to pen a bottle of wine. All dictators fall, and when they do revenge is sweet. In truth, I see nothing wrong with a little overprotection. I am overprotected and I relish in that ignorant bliss. Abuse breeds anger. I guess that's the beauty of money...
current mood: nauseated
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Saturday, December 30th, 2006
11:45 pm
overprotected15 omg. ii`m so glad ii found thiis websiite. my parents are THE most annoying. but the way they annoy me is a little different then these other reasons. they are the most overprotective parents ever. its reallii annoying. im just waiting for the day that i can finally leave and move to my college. hopefully and Godwillingly, i will get into. heres an example of how over protective they are. they dont let me stay at home when my mom is going to the grocery store about 5 mins away from my house. they make me go with them. agh! i cant stand it. get this: since i got my iPod, my dad is so annoying. he thinks that its soooooooo terrible that i listen to it because he thinks im "distancing" myself from the rest of the family!! i mean, come tha fuck on!! itsz a fuckin iPod!!!! agh! they dont let me go to any of my friends house without first knowing:
1. whose gonna be there.
2. how im getting there [[i can NEVER walk anywhere, not even to my OWN MAILBOX without my mom watchin from the door!!]]
3. what time im getting home.
4. what im gonna do.
5. how im getting home. [[once again, i cant walk or take the public bus]]
its sooooooo annoying. also, my mom picks me up every day after skool and doesnt even let me walk home even tho i live like 15 mins away. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i CANNOT STAND IT! i swear....
i really am waiting for the day i can go to college. now its not liike i want them to die at all! but they realii need to loosen up and give me more privileges!! im alreadii 16 fucken years old. damn! but yea, i just really needed to vent that out because NOBODY in my family understands me..
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Wednesday, December 20th, 2006
10:19 pm - my parents are narcissistic fuckers
x_shadowland you expect your parents to like you if you had good manners, got reasonably good grades and always tried to be pleasant company...no,they love the pretty blonde daughter they were blessed with, even though she's a selfish fucking bitch with an attitude the size of america!
so much as a small difference in the gene you get for hair color [mine being brunette, my two-faced sisters being blonde], or the amazing genes you inherit from your parents that can make you "obviously" pretty [ever heard of inner-beauty or interesting-beauty,it tends to not be so obvious!]...but when you look deeper you see the supposed sisterly love dissolved by the time your seventeen year old sister hit puberty.
but that when you are stuck at fourteen, slammed into a school with all the cliques and you've been there for five months and are still the loner with no friends, you think the least your parents would do is pay the least sign of attention...no they'll just continue to obsess over the daughter that deserves all the attention, because everyone likes her. the pretty little daughter, that is skin deep a pure bred failure...
i don't exist in my family, i never will. my mum and step-dad always argue, and when i yell something like "Can't you guys just shut the fuck up arguing for once!" i receive abuse like "Fuck off this is none of your fucking business, just go back to your fucking room and do whatever it is you fucking do!"
it may not seem the worst case scenario, but it's not the best either...and today really topped it off for me, you know i come home after my parents "forget" to pick me up, and once again they are fighting...my step-dad storms out after giving a shit load of abuse to my mum and me. my mum needs a shoulder to cry on...i never complain to my parents about bringing me out here after having a nice and normal life in england, i never ask for a shoulder to cry on.
when i make the slightest objection it's all "Get out of my fucking face and drop dead!" and whenever i say it back which i only ever did once the perfect-daughter steps in with her tirade "You're a fucking little bitch how can you say that to people who love and care for you...[so on and so forth]"
i wish there was some place i could go and never return from.
current mood: depressed
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Friday, December 8th, 2006
11:49 pm
theskinnyclub I FUCKING HATE MY PARENTS BECAUSE THEY'VE HELD ME BACK, AND ITS THEIR FAULT I CAN'T BE EVERYTHING I WAS MENT TO.
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Sunday, November 26th, 2006
9:24 pm - :-(
red_snake_1105 All this week I've received more put-downs from my parents...
Mom keeps asking me to change my major in college (I'm an English major and I want to become a poet or a journalist). She keeps saying that English majors are useless and that I'll never find a good job. "Your cousin 'Kevin' majored in English when he was in college and what's he doing now? Nothing!"
She also keeps begging me to switch to nursing/science/math "like everyone else in the family. Your older cousins 'Derrick' and 'Michael' are in college and they're taking nursing. They're going to get good jobs. Why can't you be like them?" While I really do respect those professions, it's not what I want. Why can't she just accept that? Other parents love and support their kids even if they disagree with their decisions/dreams. That's what they're SUPPOSED to do. I wish she would do the same.
Also, yesterday while we were waiting for food at In-N-Out, this group of beautiful sixteen-year-old girls walked in and they were dressed in fancy clothes (short shorts, belly-baring shirts, etc.) Mom didn't say anything until we left the restaurant, but when we got into the car, she started telling my Dad about those girls. She spoke to him in Tagalog (Philippine language), but I could still understand what she was saying:
"Those girls in the restaurant were so sexy and pretty. They had nice legs. And they're only sixteen years old! But this one here...She's eighteen years old and she already has a lot of belly fat. She should be skinny and pretty, like Britney Spears."
Thanks a lot, Mom. That's VERY good for my self-esteem. >:(
These two poems describe exactly how I feel about my parents:
http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/mommy-3/
http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/to-my-loving-parents/
current mood: self-hating
current music: Simple Plan--"I'm Sorry I Can't Be Perfect"
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Saturday, November 18th, 2006
6:30 pm - I hate my parents more than anyone
radew I was a deserted child at birth and brought up by my grandparents. My grandparents' daughter-in-law is a flirt and have countless number of affair with men. My grandparents' son is not much better anyway, stupid and same as my grandparents' daughter-in-law , a flirt ... a playboy...
During my time with my grandparents, non of my grandparents' son and daughter-in-law visit me nor gave support to my grandparents.. My bloody grandparents' son even cheat on my grandfather into giving him money. The love of grandfather for him and me is way beyond discription.
When my grandfather passed away, my damn grandparents' son and daughter-in-law are not there at his funeral...
After my grandfather death, I studied oversea for my degree while my grandmother couldn't adopted to the weather stay with my aunt.
Now my grandparents' daughter-in-law wants me back, saying that it is not her fault when she deserted me.. bah bah ... my grandparents' son is a liar ..... bah bah ... my grandparents don't like her ..bah bah....
Shut up and stop wasting your breathe ! I am no longer a three year old kid.. Another a few more years, my grandparents' son would do the same thing... my my grandparents' son and daughter-in-law had scoured my life and my hatred for them have not diminished till this very day ....
I hate you my grandparents' son... i hate you my grandparents' daughter-in-law.. I will not called you mother or father as I have a breathe.. NEVER …. EVER
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Wednesday, October 25th, 2006
8:17 am - My parents killed my dog when i was young
person1nthe3rd Unlike most here, I am not going on a rant. I was always taken journal entries sinceI was young and my parents have made life unbearable. The fact that I can remember most of these things is horrible. But this post will deal with the death of my dog. It was taken from an aim conversation I had last night.
[21:12] Person1nThe3rd: i'm am sad
[21:12] : why?
[21:13] Person1nThe3rd: i just had a really bad memory-flash back from when i was 9. it makes me want to yell at my parents.
[21:14] Person1nThe3rd: when i was 9... my sister and i were living with my grandmother for a while. And we had our dog and her name was mary but she was at the house with our parents
[21:15] Person1nThe3rd: so one day my cousin from the projects called us and told us how he'd saw a dog that looked like mary getting beat up by some other dog but he didn't think to much of it, but was just telling us. And my sister and I were like no way that's mary because she was in the house with my parents
[21:16] Person1nThe3rd: like a while later. it had 2 have been 2 weeks later. My parents had picked my sister and me up and we were going out to eat. And we had asked when could we go home and see mary
[21:16] Person1nThe3rd: and they were just all silent and finally my mom was like oh, I let her go away.
[21:16] Person1nThe3rd: and we were like go away?
[21:18] Person1nThe3rd: she said yeah, go away. and I was like , you mean go away like she ran away and you didnt catch her. and my mom said how she drove mary up to the 104th ( the projects which is like 4 miles away from our old house) and let her go away
[21:18] : thats terrible
[21:18] Person1nThe3rd: and then my sister and I were just bawling because we realized that most likely my cousin had been right. because you dont see that many pure-breed begals around the projects
[21:19] Person1nThe3rd: so I was just reminded about that when i was on the phone and I dont feel to good right now
[21:19] : *hugs*
[21:19] : I'm sorry
[21:21] Person1nThe3rd: thanks. and I just feel bad...mary never deserved that. And worse she was a house dog. she only went touside a couple times of day and I just always knew that she couldnt have survived long.
[21:21] : thats so sad
[21:25] Person1nThe3rd: and its like I never got over it. My sister never had either. because i mentioned it like 2 weeks ago and she was just like "stop.""just stop" and it was like before then I had always just thought about how much that affected me. but at that point i knew it affected her so much more because my sister was basically raised with mary. my sister was 7 when we found out.
but we got mary shortly after my sisters 4th or 5th birthday. we got her on an october 23. my sister b-day is on the 15th
[21:27] Person1nThe3rd: and when my sister was sick alot when she was younger so all her time was spent with mary when i was @ school. so it's just like... grr...
one of the many reasons i dont liek to deal with my parents
was this a good way to start off why I dont hate, but just avoid my parents at every cost.
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Thursday, October 5th, 2006
6:54 pm - fucking parents
patriceaust Thank God I found this community. Something to vent too.
My parents are fucking arseholes too.
My mum: Left me to live with someone else *overseas* then comes back and goes my place is with her. Fucking too late dont ya think? Then she stays at our house and GOES THROUGH ALL MY FUCKING THINGS. resorts them everything. all my school papers so come exam time i had no fucking idea where any of my shit was. I asked her not to and she promised she wouldn't touch my stuff but every time i fucking came home all my stuff was moved. She doesn't want me to go to university, she wants me to move interstate. She wants to live with me if i do go to uni *no fucking way* and if I tell her otherwise she starts bawling her fucking eyes out calling me an ungrateful child.
My dad: is a total dickhead. I moved with him when my mum has left, and on our first night in another state he was yelling at me. The only way he has ever been able to win a fight has been calling me shit and when i say something back he threatens me with kicking me out of home. Im only fucking 17. every single dollar he has ever spent on me, its like he keeps a log book in his head, constantly reminding me how much trouble i am. and whenever i do get money he wont spend a dime on me, even though i need this money to go to school. He says shit about all my friends, he listens in on all my phone calls *sometimes even listening on the other line*. EUGHH. I absouletly hate it.
current mood: crushed
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Sunday, September 24th, 2006
2:27 pm - Motherfucking Fucking Mother
red_snake_1105 GOD my mom is such a fucking bitch! All weekend long last week she ordered me around like I was some stupid slave girl. She knew PERFECTLY WELL that I needed to study for my history midterm, and yet every three seconds she kept calling me downstairs just so she could ask me to thread her stupid sewing needle for her. Why the fuck doesn't she just stop gambling, save up her money and buy herself some stupid glasses? That way she'll be able to thread needles and read package directions by herself and stop bothering me!
Also, she keeps on scolding me and nagging me even though I didn't even do anything to deserve it. All this weekend she kept shouting at me, "You're so irresponsible! You're so irresponsible!" And I didn't even do anything wrong! Jesus Christ, she drives me CRAZY!!! I just wish my stupid mother would put a sock in it, fuck off, and leave me alone!!!
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Saturday, September 23rd, 2006
1:16 am
saynotoparents Poll #828000 whats the worst thing about your parents?
Open to: All, results viewable to: All
whats the worst about your parents?
View Answers
there too controlling
14 (70.0%)
there stupid and they dont know it
9 (45.0%)
they treat a sibling better
5 (25.0%)
they exist
8 (40.0%)
i hate them so much i cant think of respone!
7 (35.0%)
current mood: artistic,anxious
current music: fight 4 your right 2 party
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Saturday, September 9th, 2006
2:04 pm - You've got to detest control freaking parents >_
titchy54321 Testing... testing... 1,2,3.
As you may already know... we're here to rant about how annoyingly frustrating our parents are, for whatever reason.
Do you find that the older you become, the more they try to restrict you? I'm not entirely sure if they're even remotely aware of this, but regardless, they need to back the fuck off!
My mother constantly looks through my phone, my bags, my drawers etc... And when I confront her about this and have legit proof that she was doing this, she'd laugh and deny it. I have absolutely NO privacy!
The next nine months is going to kill me because I'm having to do this one year intensive A Level course, to guarentee that I get to Uni next year (and hopefully leave this death dungeon). But I'm afraid that my mother will put me off and de-motivate me. She'll constantly check to see whether I've done my work or not (as if we were in nursery school) and it seriously unmotivates me. I rebel! Therefore, it doesn't do any favours on my behalf if I'm desperately wanting to leave here.
What would you suggest?
current mood: aggravated
current music: Rise Against - Black masks and gasoline
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Saturday, September 2nd, 2006
6:08 pm
poke_ur_eye AGH. DDDDDD: FFS -trys not to throw a psyhco*-
Today She KNEW i wanted to go to town to get my photos SHE KNEW and She just drove off
THEN now Because i'm a vegetarian she made ALL meat containing food Just so i couldnt eat it.
Yesterday she ripped up my Painting i'd worked on for about a month
She hides my stuff from me D: Like my guitar tabs she hides them in draws and other things.
When i go to have a shower she turns on the hot water in the bathroom
If i was my clothes she'll take them out and loose half of them
If i'm writting an important email or letter then she'll get on the computer after i've finished delete it and then save it.
If i go for a job she'll "accidently" have my resume and then lose it.
IF I GO TO GUITAR LESSONS SHE BOOKS THEM EARLY SO I CANT PRACTICE
She screams At me to get up for the bus even though she doesnt for my brother.
D: Once i asked her if she'd like me to die in which she replied "I Dont care thats up to you"
AGHHHHHH SHE LIES TO MY DAD SO HE'LL BELIEVE HER. YEAH INNOCENT HER.
Who is she? She was my mother but now she's just there to torture me.
I WISH SHED JUST.. >______< GET A DIVORCE THEN I COULD LIVE WITH MY DAD.
current mood: aggravated
current music: Satan - Young And Restless
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Thursday, August 31st, 2006
11:19 am - grrrrr
red_snake_1105 my parents are such goddamn motherfucking bitches. All they ever do is bitch and whine and nag. it drives me CRAZY! And they're always ALWAYS comparing me to my smarter, prettier cousin "Jane." "Ooooh, look at Jane, she takes hard classes. She's a hard worker. She's smart. But you, you only want easy easy classes. You're lazy" and blah blah blah! Why the fuck do parents always think that other people's kids are better than their own???
And another thing: I love art and theatre, and of course my stupid mom and dad always disapprove of them. They think I should take more "useful" classes like science and math. I HATE science and math!!! Whenever mom and dad talk about my artwork or my theatre classes, they always make it sound like I'm committing a horrible crime or a deadly sin. I mean, what's wrong with the fine arts?! it's not like I'm hurting anybody. It's not like I'm going to go to Hell just for drawing pictures of flowers and fish, or for playing Titania in a scene from Midsummer Night's Dream! God!!! >:-(
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Thursday, August 17th, 2006
12:18 am - My Dad is Pissing me off!!! : (
kings241 Hi I'm new here and let me start of by describing my parents.
I have a step dad and a mom. My mom isn't really a problem but it's my dad. I'm 18 years old and they are supporting me by letting me stay at their house but I do have a job and income.
First of all I hate the way my dad treats me. He randomly comes to my room at around 12:15 am - 1:00 am and checks to see if i'm awake or asleep. When i'm awake he yells at me and tells me to go to sleep right away. Hello? I'm fuckin 18 years old, i don't need anyone telling me what time to go to sleep. Then in the mornings when i'm gone he checks my room for any mess. T
Today he treated me like a bitch and yelled at me for eating upstairs. He was making a big deal over me eating some bread with water upstairs. He kept yelling no matter what I told him and than he made me so angry to the point where I just yelled back. He almost grabbed me but I told him not to fuckin touch me. He got furious and told me to get out of the house. Then my mom comes to my room and tells my dad to calm down and let me stay. I was very mad at this point and simply said just kick me out and let me take my shit but my mom holds me back. I'm upset and mad at the same time and I don't know what to do.
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Tuesday, August 15th, 2006
9:32 pm - Wow Lovely place. =]
poke_ur_eye
I hate my mother.
All she every does is yell at everyone she doesn't listen or give a crap about anything. [Besides her cats].
Today i got angry at her because she wouldn't leave me alone. So I yelled at her "Would you like it if i died!?!?!" And whaaat did she do? She Shruged and said "Thats up to you." I mean wtf. seriously. She Screams at me if i don't have three meals a day and she screams at me if i do because i'm "Eating too much and my clothes won't fit me anymore"!?! D:
Dads just as bad he compleatly ignores me or yells at me for nothing THEN he acts like everythings a big joke and trys to be funny.
Both of them think i'm going to turn out like my older brother Danial who like most 18 year olds Drinks/smokes and he has an anger problem.
Needless to say the way he acts is a result from my mother. but he doesn't seem to mind my dad much..
I could be here for the rest of my life and rant about it but it wouldn't help anyone.
p.s
I spilt Boiling hot water on my hand today and now its burnt D: And mom just yelled at me to hurry up and go to school.
Why do parentals have to be so freaking selfish.
― pabs (Pablo A), Monday, 5 February 2007 07:13 (nineteen years ago)
two years pass...