i hate cancer

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that's gotta suck, huh?

socked blender, Wednesday, 8 January 2003 11:31 (twenty-two years ago)

yeah

Trinity K. Love (Trinity K. Love), Friday, 10 January 2003 18:05 (twenty-two years ago)

two months pass...
my aunt died of cancer

wouldn't you like to know..., Tuesday, 11 March 2003 20:05 (twenty-two years ago)

so did my nana...i never got the privelege to meet her

oops (Oops), Tuesday, 11 March 2003 21:19 (twenty-two years ago)

eight years pass...

ok, here goes.
after a long long day i have had a few glasses of red wine, so please bear with me.
on april 6th 2011 my wife was told "in error" that she had stomach cancer.
[long story - but this should have happened in my presence at some later pre-arranged time, but the fact was dropped while i was on childcare duties 30 miles away .. ]
given that my wife had previously been to see her GP for 2 years re ongoing stomach issues this came as no real surprise, but still, 2 years is quite a long time to have such concerns.
[turned out to be a stomach ulcer that had been left untreated .. resulting in the cancerous growth, but still the advise is that it has not spread beyond the stomach]
so after a 3 month stretch of radical chemo, to isolate and focus the growth, the surgeon today removed my wifes stomach, meaning that today is the beginning of a whole new life for us all.
so, the question is : are there ILX'r who have been through this process, as i have no idea as to what happens next !
how will she be able to digest food etc ?
and far more importantly, will red wine be no longer suitable as a method for her to deal with the daily demands of modern life ?
oh, and in the spirit of the thread : fuck cancer.

mark e, Wednesday, 10 August 2011 23:18 (fourteen years ago)


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