Aspie_Chav
Phoenix
Joined: Feb 07, 2006
Age: 34
Posts: 1635
Location: Croydon
Posted: Sat Sep 22, 2007 11:27 am Post subject:
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I know many people find people of who look similar to themselves attractive. It is plain romantic. Similar in looks, age, body fat, bla bla bla….. I have never seen a black aspie, if I did, I would probably very reluctant to let her go.
There are genetic health benefits in having dating someone of different race. That probably goes to explain why I am less fussy about the attractiveness of other races.
Example there is a Aspie white girl, who works in an office next to me. According to my workmates, she is not attractive at all, they often have comments of her not changing her clothes much or wearing no makeup. But I find her very cute. I love her youthful upper-class accent.
I part of why people choose attractive mate is because they want healthy attractive children. If I had children with her our genetic differences will cancel each other out. I suffer from dry skin, she suffer from greasy skin, the child is likely have healthy skin. She has a fin longish nose, but I have a wider one so the child will look just right. She ain’t got no ass..you get the point don’t you.
― gershy, Friday, 22 February 2008 03:52 (eighteen years ago)
two months pass...
one year passes...
neves
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Fri Feb 12, 2010 3:57 pm
Post subject: Black and an aspie. I'm so screwed.
So, that title probably drew in some curious people?...
I just took the bus home from the train station (I'd just finished my very last therapy session with my therapist), and I was feeling positive about my future knowing that I have AS. It was snowing very heavily, there was this carnival thing going on that made the busses leave from a different point, and the train was delayed. As the bus driver pulled up I and an Arabic young man walked up to the door. He asked if he could get in, and the bus driver said "No, that's on the other side" (the bus had to turn around). Then I asked if he was stopping a certain point, and he closed the door, going "No, you can GET IN ON THE OTHER SIDE I SAID!". The boy and I looked at each other, both raising an eyebrow.
Once I stepped into the bus (at this point I was furious with my mom for not picking me up and leaving my wallet at home to pay for a cab) I briefly showed the bus driver my student travel card. I never do that, but I wanted to show him how I felt he treated me. As I passed on to the seating area he rudely called me back. He requested to see my card again, which I showed him, and then I said "and thank you, sir, for answering my question just then". As I walked away he went "Goddamn idiot, act like a human being, []." Then I decided I was going to cry. A couple of minutes later, the young man and his four friends were made victim to the bus driver's mood.
I'm half Portuguese, fairly light-skinned for a black person (though I look more black than Portuguese). This is on occasion, but at times like these I can literally kick my mother in the teeth for ever deciding to choose a black mate instead of a white one. It made me sick to my stomach to see a person who is in essence providing you with his service, talk to 'ethnic' people the way this one did. I don't want to get into it further, because I just came home and said some things about bus drivers and people of equal socioeconomic-educational level that I don't ever want to say again.
I feel so royally screwed right now for not ever being able to present myself the way I am. If it's not being looked at as an under-schooled sassy black girl (I am the complete opposite), it's a rude autistic idiot who can't communicate.
I promise to never again post something so negative, but I really, REALLY need to know:
is there anybody on this forum who has a disorder and an ethnic background other than caucasian who is feeling they are screwed doubly?
― velko, Wednesday, 19 May 2010 07:06 (fifteen years ago)