I Hate Being Stuck

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Okay, here's the deal. I have an AMAZING girlfriend who I love very very much. We've been together for almost four years, and we're very happy. Trouble is... last summer, we weren't doing so well... and I made a very close friend out of someone I worked with. This girl was great. She's cute, funny...everything and we really hit it off... I mean...a lot...we did everything together. We spent all of our time together, she held my hand when we would walk around places, and we'd cuddle, and hug and stuff, but it was NEVER ever said that feelings were there...not by either of us... so it kinda put a huge strain on my relationship with my girlie, but when my friend went home to college it got better. WE are still friends, and my girlfriend and I are better now...MUCH MUCH better. The thing is... is it's summer again, and my friend has been home since Saturday... and I missed her a great deal...and I don't know what to do. She has a b/f now... but they're kinda doing...eh. So I just don't know how to feel about anything. Regardless of our old feelings or, lack thereof, we're still good friends, so should I stay away to not even RISK hurting my relationship, or keep on cause things may be different this time? Am I a bastard for this?

― Lola Falana, Tuesday, 20 May 2003 05:40 (twenty-two years ago)

too many ellipses and caps, didnt read

― webber (webber), Tuesday, 20 May 2003 08:17 (twenty-two years ago)

the girl you met has a b/f? you should have used like pretend names and i'd have followed better:(

― jonathan gittins (nevermind^), Tuesday, 20 May 2003 09:57 (twenty-two years ago)

Feelings are unnatural. I thought people of the opposite sex--whether you be a boy or girl--are used for sex only. but whatever you say; feelings are just that--feelings. to me, they're artificial and totally inane.

― Lynch (Lynch), Tuesday, 20 May 2003 17:58 (twenty-two years ago)

Well...then you can die alone and unhappy. People like you really piss me off. Go finish reading The Fountainhead.

― Lola Falana, Tuesday, 20 May 2003 19:21 (twenty-two years ago)

Feelings are unnatural?!? What-everr.
Lola, first, you're not a bastard. Second, I think you should hang out w/the 'other' girl. If you like her as much as you say you do then you should be happy just being friends w/her. And if you truly love yr woman, then you won't be TOO tempted to get romantically involved w/the 'other' girl.

― oops (Oops), Tuesday, 20 May 2003 23:28 (twenty-two years ago)

It's your decision how to feel. I've been tempered this way. You see, I don't need feelings, or emotion, or any of that sappy human goodness crap. All I need is to survive, and I'm content with that.

― Lynch (Lynch), Thursday, 22 May 2003 19:00 (twenty-two years ago)

Hah! Content is an emotion!

― oops (Oops), Thursday, 22 May 2003 20:44 (twenty-two years ago)

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!

― Lola Falana, Thursday, 22 May 2003 23:03 (twenty-two years ago)

Right. Still, love's one of the things you don't need to succeed in this world.

― Lynch (Lynch), Tuesday, 27 May 2003 17:59 (twenty-two years ago)

Love is how i measure my success in this world, you cyborg.

― oops (Oops), Wednesday, 28 May 2003 04:28 (twenty-two years ago)

If you don't have love, what the FUCK do you have????
Right on oops, love is how I measure my sucess in the world too.

― Lola Falana, Wednesday, 28 May 2003 06:41 (twenty-two years ago)

You don't need 'love' to succeed. All you need are sufficient funds and maybe a little bit of common sense. The rest are either defined as either optional or unnecessary. it doesn't really matter at this point. Yeah, maybe I am a cyborg. You people have a problem with it? Good. I'm incapable of loving, so there.

― Lynch (Lynch), Wednesday, 28 May 2003 19:20 (twenty-two years ago)

I forgot to finish the statement, but cyborgs > people. If the world was ran by a bunch of cyborgs, everyone would be preprogrammed to do a certain task, and repeat it from day to day, and they would also not complain of it (because their personality matrix is sealed in the program, duh).

― Lynch (Lynch), Wednesday, 28 May 2003 19:23 (twenty-two years ago)

for all we know, lola, the other girl may be using you for her homosexual desires because she is in another relationship, and of course she's probably just gonna come to any woman with a decent sized pussy to fuck in and out, and stuff like that
reading around in this shit really gets my spirits uplifited. tahnk you. aihfddsafdsfdsilasfjeoidsusaoiueignfeghtwoeeosahgodiunsopigiodoidsjfaiodjfsodihfsoidhfaodihfasodiafhdsahfaihfdsihfihfdoihfsoihfhoifaoihafdoifsihofdihafdisiahfdihafhiofdhisafdihfsdaihfdsaifdihoihfdsihfdsihofdsihofdihodfihosfdihofdohapfdsfdioahoifdaiofdiohfdaihofdohpfdasafdihofafdsfksnkfdksfnsfnnnv.,nznx.zcvklnxz.vcn.,vxnvlkxnoivnfpifvsepghewagt8h4ehy08h46v43hw6v 9hq06h42363h02v0h9h9h9 4tqhh qh 9t4eh9 4th 94e99heh9h9r9hrh9 ohh yeah that was an orgasm i love you lola be a good lesbian and breka up the relationshiop

― Gaylord Fokker (Lynch), Wednesday, 28 May 2003 19:27 (twenty-two years ago)

Lynch, what is the purpose of you living? Your definition of 'success' is warped. You MUST be American.

― oops (Oops), Wednesday, 28 May 2003 23:30 (twenty-two years ago)

Hm let me guess...Adrian? How original. Well, considering I haven't valued your opinion since 2 minutes before I met you, I really don't give a fuck about what you think about my relationships. I'm glad my story could get you off... but im busy having the real thing. Peace.

― Lola Falana, Thursday, 29 May 2003 02:34 (twenty-two years ago)

Ha! did he know he was still signed on as 'Lynch'?

― oops (Oops), Thursday, 29 May 2003 04:34 (twenty-two years ago)

...

― The Man they call Dan (The Man they call Dan), Friday, 30 May 2003 01:22 (twenty-two years ago)

three weeks pass...

hey lynch, you're not a cyborg you're just angry. I hear your cry for help and I hear it loudly. Hang in there, and forget about the rejection in your past. I find it puzzling when people on message boards argue with people like you. "i am a cyborg, I don't feel emotion, you don't need love to survive, all you need is some money" You find meaning in being full of shit: that's cool, you're assumptions are correct, I like you.

― billy, Wednesday, 25 June 2003 14:22 (twenty-two years ago)

and why do i care if you read that post or not?

my advice: everyone has wandering feelings and they are valid; but they are also just that, wandering feelings. dont take them too seriously unless they become more serious. hope that makes sense.

― black plastic (black plastic), Wednesday, 25 June 2003 16:40 (twenty-two years ago)

this is an old thread, sorry. the situation is probably dealt w/ by now.

― black plastic (black plastic), Wednesday, 25 June 2003 16:41 (twenty-two years ago)

three weeks pass...

You don'thate it. You love sharing your story. You crave the attention. Oooooh, poor you.

― julei (julei), Saturday, 19 July 2003 04:45 (twenty-two years ago)

julei, it's also blatant that you hate your life, self, and job too:)

― jonathan gittins (nevermind^), Saturday, 19 July 2003 16:36 (twenty-two years ago)

whats the point of coming to a message board if yr just going to make fun of everyone? i don't get it.

― black plastic (black plastic), Monday, 21 July 2003 02:04 (twenty-two years ago)

Some people like to hear the sound of their own keystrokes?

― The Man they call Dan (The Man they call Dan), Monday, 21 July 2003 04:26 (twenty-two years ago)

It's a way to try to get over their self esteem issues. It's like... we're anonymous...but we respond...so some people *Adrian* find it necessary to degrade us because he knows in real life he's safe... he's far away from us...and we'll never put out a contract on his ass with some old school piano strings, the cement shoes and the like.

**In best Joey Fatone from "My Big Fat Greek Wedding" voice**

Hey Adrian, we're gonna kill ya!

― Lola Falana, Monday, 21 July 2003 15:34 (twenty-two years ago)

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