thread to get over a breakup

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lol

proprietor of gib (roxymuzak), Monday, 6 September 2010 06:54 (fourteen years ago) link

man, i havent had a breakup in over a year yall

proprietor of gib (roxymuzak), Monday, 6 September 2010 06:54 (fourteen years ago) link

mine was almost a year ago :/

sarahel, Monday, 6 September 2010 06:57 (fourteen years ago) link

i broke up with my business yesterday though

sarahel, Monday, 6 September 2010 06:58 (fourteen years ago) link

I had a semi-re-breakup. Took a nice trip around the south with my most favoritest ex-girlfriend in February and it was two weeks of being a couple again with the full understanding that when she went back home it was back to the status quo. And it was just that, until...she started dating some other guy. We originally broke up in 2004 and she's dated a zillion guys since then and it hasn't bothered me in a long, long time. But all of a sudden it bothered me again, and I stewed about it for a couple weeks at least. I don't regret that fun flirtation with the past (hell, it was my first time going to Mardi Gras in New Orleans), but it almost wasn't worth feeling that way all over again.

I'm glad I didn't bring it up with her, though. I almost did a couple times, but I realized it was just my own mental garbage I'd be dumping on her happiness.

My most recent real breakup (and not a re-breakup) was in 2009. I'm overdue.

Johnny Fever, Monday, 6 September 2010 07:35 (fourteen years ago) link

you later watched it again and realized he was pathologically emotionally detached and began to question your own normalcy

sarahel, Monday, 6 September 2010 08:11 (fourteen years ago) link

I'm glad I didn't bring it up with her, though. I almost did a couple times, but I realized it was just my own mental garbage I'd be dumping on her happiness.

A+ dealing with situation imo

k¸ (darraghmac), Monday, 6 September 2010 08:57 (fourteen years ago) link

now my ex is trying to nudge me towards a girl that I was initially interested in a month ago. part of me is enjoying bachelordom at the moment but I think this could be good for me. no more psychic chicks telling me they had visions of their future child and that i wasn't the father...WHILE WE'RE DATING.

funky brewster (San Te), Monday, 6 September 2010 17:48 (fourteen years ago) link

i broke up with my business yesterday though

Read this too quickly as i broke up with my mistress yesterday though.

commonly referred to as Olde E ,Olde Executioner, Dat Ol' 8hundo and 8-Ba (Eazy), Monday, 6 September 2010 18:20 (fourteen years ago) link

Starting to realize that as much as the last two relationships sucked, being single for the first time in a couple of years has shook me a bit.
Doesn't help that I'm not meeting anyone I really want to date and so many of my friends are in long-term relationships or married.

a cross between lily allen and fetal alcohol syndrome (milo z), Monday, 6 September 2010 22:17 (fourteen years ago) link

been there, milo, been there. you can always do what I do and splurge on/spoil yourself for a little while, take a break from looking, then come back after you've had a little fun and gotten used to it. don't know you so don't know if that'd work for you but it's helped me out.

funky brewster (San Te), Monday, 6 September 2010 22:50 (fourteen years ago) link

Yeah I made a decision today that I'm going to stop looking for the forseeable. I'm in two bands, I'm putting out a book, I'm angling for a promotion. I have more than enough going on.

friends don't understand us, adults don't understand us (zorn_bond.mp3), Monday, 6 September 2010 22:54 (fourteen years ago) link

if this were facebook, dude, i'd be liking that post superfast - and if it were myspace, i'd give you two kudos!

sarahel, Monday, 6 September 2010 23:04 (fourteen years ago) link

yeah i have no idea who u are, mysterious stranger, but right on anyway

k¸ (darraghmac), Monday, 6 September 2010 23:14 (fourteen years ago) link

^

markers, Monday, 6 September 2010 23:17 (fourteen years ago) link

wait - for real you guys haven't figured it out yet?

o sh!t a ˁ˚ᴥ˚ˀ (ENBB), Monday, 6 September 2010 23:41 (fourteen years ago) link

:)

k¸ (darraghmac), Monday, 6 September 2010 23:42 (fourteen years ago) link

OK was about to say damn!

o sh!t a ˁ˚ᴥ˚ˀ (ENBB), Monday, 6 September 2010 23:45 (fourteen years ago) link

I still have no idea

markers, Monday, 6 September 2010 23:51 (fourteen years ago) link

;_;

markers, Monday, 6 September 2010 23:51 (fourteen years ago) link

its hard out here for a you

proprietor of gib (roxymuzak), Tuesday, 7 September 2010 00:55 (fourteen years ago) link

^^^^

k¸ (darraghmac), Tuesday, 7 September 2010 00:58 (fourteen years ago) link

is that a reference to Arrested Development? I've never seen that show.

sarahel, Tuesday, 7 September 2010 00:59 (fourteen years ago) link

suggest watch

k¸ (darraghmac), Tuesday, 7 September 2010 01:01 (fourteen years ago) link

even i have figured it out, so it can't be that big a mystery.

Daniel, Esq., Tuesday, 7 September 2010 01:02 (fourteen years ago) link

welcome back, cankles!

Daniel, Esq., Tuesday, 7 September 2010 01:02 (fourteen years ago) link

Bahahah :)

queen of the toilets, which is in some ways the worst branch of royalty (Trayce), Tuesday, 7 September 2010 01:02 (fourteen years ago) link

canks and BJO in competition for being most reformed in their new personas

sarahel, Tuesday, 7 September 2010 01:03 (fourteen years ago) link

no way is it cankles

markers, Tuesday, 7 September 2010 01:05 (fourteen years ago) link

str8 up

k¸ (darraghmac), Tuesday, 7 September 2010 01:05 (fourteen years ago) link

sb works

k¸ (darraghmac), Tuesday, 7 September 2010 01:06 (fourteen years ago) link

I think Daniel was making a bit of a lol.

queen of the toilets, which is in some ways the worst branch of royalty (Trayce), Tuesday, 7 September 2010 01:08 (fourteen years ago) link

indeed

markers, Tuesday, 7 September 2010 01:08 (fourteen years ago) link

trayce is right.

Daniel, Esq., Tuesday, 7 September 2010 01:09 (fourteen years ago) link

don't confuse him, Trayce

sarahel, Tuesday, 7 September 2010 01:09 (fourteen years ago) link

my real thought is that zorn_bond is that "lord custos epsilon" fellow.

Daniel, Esq., Tuesday, 7 September 2010 01:09 (fourteen years ago) link

welcome back, lord custos!

Daniel, Esq., Tuesday, 7 September 2010 01:10 (fourteen years ago) link

don't derail the thread, everyone

sarahel, Tuesday, 7 September 2010 01:10 (fourteen years ago) link

fair enough; apologies.

Daniel, Esq., Tuesday, 7 September 2010 01:10 (fourteen years ago) link

lollin @ Daniel's posts tbh

markers, Tuesday, 7 September 2010 01:11 (fourteen years ago) link

<3

friends don't understand us, adults don't understand us (zorn_bond.mp3), Tuesday, 7 September 2010 04:24 (fourteen years ago) link

u cum bubbles, u

friends don't understand us, adults don't understand us (zorn_bond.mp3), Tuesday, 7 September 2010 04:25 (fourteen years ago) link

I hadn't figured out ZBmp3's identity before it was practically spelled out in another thread. But now that I know - good to have you back, sweet ballet dancer.

Tuomas, Tuesday, 7 September 2010 10:20 (fourteen years ago) link

zbmp3 is ben b. bag, fools

also <3 tuomas's post there

proprietor of gib (roxymuzak), Tuesday, 7 September 2010 14:56 (fourteen years ago) link

also that person was bryce

― proprietor of gib (roxymuzak), Monday, 6 September 2010 06:32 (Yesterday)

this is fictioooooonnnnnnnn

and also making me giggle

bamcquern, Tuesday, 7 September 2010 20:54 (fourteen years ago) link

bryce

it happened dro

proprietor of gib (roxymuzak), Tuesday, 7 September 2010 21:53 (fourteen years ago) link

this thread needs the bonsai treatment imo

sarahel, Tuesday, 7 September 2010 21:54 (fourteen years ago) link

It's a romantic idea, this aspie boyfriend thing, but I watched the show on tv a few times before I met you and understood the premise well enough then.

bamcquern, Wednesday, 8 September 2010 01:08 (fourteen years ago) link

it happened dro

― proprietor of gib (roxymuzak), Tuesday, September 7, 2010 10:53 PM (Yesterday) Bookmark

LOVE THIS

friends don't understand us, adults don't understand us (zorn_bond.mp3), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 01:57 (fourteen years ago) link

i was joking that it was u bryce. bc u had been mentioned unwarranted on thread b4

proprietor of gib (roxymuzak), Wednesday, 8 September 2010 17:54 (fourteen years ago) link


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