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aw LJ.

crut jones (crüt), Sunday, 7 November 2010 19:17 (fourteen years ago) link

again thanks fellas...max i am on it, but it's between her and i

nice email received today, explaining the need for space but forgiving me to a degree...feeling much better

acoleuthic, Sunday, 7 November 2010 19:31 (fourteen years ago) link

ruh-roh

forgiving you for what?

if details ain't for thread then fair enough obv

cant believe you sb'd me for that (darraghmac), Sunday, 7 November 2010 19:39 (fourteen years ago) link

look for christ's sake we had a falling-out ok, don't pry

also can a mod delete d-mac's post, it's fucking horrible

acoleuthic, Sunday, 7 November 2010 19:54 (fourteen years ago) link

sorry man, it wasnt meant so harshly as that.

cant believe you sb'd me for that (darraghmac), Sunday, 7 November 2010 19:58 (fourteen years ago) link

kid glove treatment, d - the breakup is pretty fresh

sarahel, Sunday, 7 November 2010 20:00 (fourteen years ago) link

if details ain't for thread then fair enough obv

not getting into it any further, apology is genuine

cant believe you sb'd me for that (darraghmac), Sunday, 7 November 2010 20:01 (fourteen years ago) link

hahaha that was quick

we've basically patched this up :) and had a great long chat about poetry

but on the proviso that i take anger management classes

you know me etc

acoleuthic, Sunday, 7 November 2010 23:36 (fourteen years ago) link

O_O

Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Sunday, 7 November 2010 23:51 (fourteen years ago) link

I'm sorry this all happened to you and her. I hope things turn out well in the future.

Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Sunday, 7 November 2010 23:53 (fourteen years ago) link

wait what did darraghmacs post say

max, Sunday, 7 November 2010 23:53 (fourteen years ago) link

it wasn't deleted

Unfrozen Caveman Board-Lawyer (WmC), Sunday, 7 November 2010 23:54 (fourteen years ago) link

it's still there, lj was just being a dick iirc

rip whiney g weingarten 03/11 never forget (history mayne), Sunday, 7 November 2010 23:54 (fourteen years ago) link

Well this is confusing.

Sunn O))) Sundae Smile (Trayce), Sunday, 7 November 2010 23:56 (fourteen years ago) link

fucking horrible

crut jones (crüt), Sunday, 7 November 2010 23:58 (fourteen years ago) link

o

max, Sunday, 7 November 2010 23:58 (fourteen years ago) link

you guys

acoleuthic, Sunday, 7 November 2010 23:59 (fourteen years ago) link

<3

Sunn O))) Sundae Smile (Trayce), Monday, 8 November 2010 00:00 (fourteen years ago) link

:-)

crut jones (crüt), Monday, 8 November 2010 00:00 (fourteen years ago) link

this fuckin guy

HOOS tremendo...steen ridically (BIG HOOS aka the steendriver), Monday, 8 November 2010 00:22 (fourteen years ago) link

btw lj did u get my webmail which was sent to yrn✧✧✧@googlem✧✧✧.c✧✧

HOOS tremendo...steen ridically (BIG HOOS aka the steendriver), Monday, 8 November 2010 00:23 (fourteen years ago) link

yeah dude I am gonna reply with a full fucken breakdown ASAP!!!!!! but mah friend aforementioned is on line deux at ze mo so retain your composure for these minutes

acoleuthic, Monday, 8 November 2010 00:24 (fourteen years ago) link

i am in no rush holmes just wanted to make sure it had been received

HOOS tremendo...steen ridically (BIG HOOS aka the steendriver), Monday, 8 November 2010 00:25 (fourteen years ago) link

late evening is when a jagger sits back and engages in poetical colloquy

acoleuthic, Monday, 8 November 2010 00:27 (fourteen years ago) link

we've basically patched this up :) and had a great long chat about poetry

but on the proviso that i take anger management classes

sans poetry, this describes our posting relationship tbph

cant believe you sb'd me for that (darraghmac), Monday, 8 November 2010 00:59 (fourteen years ago) link

fffffffffuuuuuuuu

acoleuthic, Monday, 8 November 2010 01:00 (fourteen years ago) link

i'm hopin :) is appropriate but i mean...

cant believe you sb'd me for that (darraghmac), Monday, 8 November 2010 01:09 (fourteen years ago) link

lord help

HOOS tremendo...steen ridically (BIG HOOS aka the steendriver), Monday, 8 November 2010 01:10 (fourteen years ago) link

haha this has been a weird fucken day

acoleuthic, Monday, 8 November 2010 01:11 (fourteen years ago) link

dmac you are a blessed one

acoleuthic, Monday, 8 November 2010 01:11 (fourteen years ago) link

trippy days are the ones you'll remember later one ime

cant believe you sb'd me for that (darraghmac), Monday, 8 November 2010 01:13 (fourteen years ago) link

LJ - your life is so filled with constant excitement and drama, you might as well be a Robinson sister.

sarahel, Monday, 8 November 2010 03:50 (fourteen years ago) link

the louis family robinson

whiney trollins vs. hipsters (dayo), Monday, 8 November 2010 03:59 (fourteen years ago) link

jesus loves lou more than you can know
wo wo wo

a pun based on a popular ilx meme (forksclovetofu), Monday, 8 November 2010 05:09 (fourteen years ago) link

how old is this girl?

sarahel, Monday, 8 November 2010 05:46 (fourteen years ago) link

99% moved into new loft. had a fun night with friends out and kind of forgetting about you. blasting replacements like only a single man with no real neighbors can do.

jeff, Saturday, 13 November 2010 08:30 (fourteen years ago) link

Awesome to hear, Jeff!

Fetchboy, Saturday, 13 November 2010 08:59 (fourteen years ago) link

seems that i'm a little less over a breakup than i thought i was now that my former long-term girlfriend is dating again. and despite all of my feminist creds i can't help but feel even more ill-at-ease at the fact that her new partner is female.

Antoine Bugleboy (Merdeyeux), Sunday, 21 November 2010 04:03 (thirteen years ago) link

now that my former long-term girlfriend is dating again

imo, ime, you aint over shit until this happens. the rest, i dunno. i have no ime there tbph.

Goths in Home & Away in my lifetime (darraghmac), Sunday, 21 November 2010 04:32 (thirteen years ago) link

that makes sense. i'm in a peculiar state about it because on one hand it's a v good thing and i'm happy for her (not least because she's in the midst of a serious bout of depression and i'm sure it'll be good for her to have that kind of close relationship), but on the other hand... i dunno really. maybe it's time to quickly end my own year-long drought and see how that does me, could be that i'm just an awful testosterone-fuelled man desperate for a good banging. (maybe not.)

Antoine Bugleboy (Merdeyeux), Sunday, 21 November 2010 04:50 (thirteen years ago) link

if govts take action to avoid droughts, that's worth considering in micro level also imo.

ps i dunno why you know anything about a yr long ex, gtfo out of that circle of friendship on the pronto srs

Goths in Home & Away in my lifetime (darraghmac), Sunday, 21 November 2010 05:20 (thirteen years ago) link

just remember: too much rain after long drought = flood. Baby steps :)

That is the stench of tyranny (VegemiteGrrrl), Sunday, 21 November 2010 05:25 (thirteen years ago) link

ps i dunno why you know anything about a yr long ex, gtfo out of that circle of friendship on the pronto srs

IDK, this is often but not always necessary. I'm still friends with someone I was with for years. That said, we did go through a period after breaking up where we didn't speak at all for about a year but after that we were both mostly fine with being friends on at least some level.

ENBB, Sunday, 21 November 2010 05:31 (thirteen years ago) link

<3 vg but nah no such thing as too much rain after a year w/out any sex in the rain the flu is passed on through virus anyway iirc go get rained on

Goths in Home & Away in my lifetime (darraghmac), Sunday, 21 November 2010 05:32 (thirteen years ago) link

i only got ime E, also i got home via a peugeot trunk with 2 others abt an hour ago my advice carries much caveat

Goths in Home & Away in my lifetime (darraghmac), Sunday, 21 November 2010 05:33 (thirteen years ago) link

but caveating that caveat i have never felt that 'friends' with an ex is a good step. i may be on a lower maslow step in ex terms.

Goths in Home & Away in my lifetime (darraghmac), Sunday, 21 November 2010 05:34 (thirteen years ago) link

distance is certainly necessary

sarahel, Sunday, 21 November 2010 05:36 (thirteen years ago) link

Yes, a little distance and time can help a lot.

x-post Yeah well sometimes it isn't and even when it's not an awful idea, it's usually complicated. I just sort of never really understood cutting someone who I once cared that much for out of my life completely. Obv depends on the particulars though and who knows what the details are here. I'm just sayin'.

ENBB, Sunday, 21 November 2010 05:38 (thirteen years ago) link

details are important, s'true

Goths in Home & Away in my lifetime (darraghmac), Sunday, 21 November 2010 05:41 (thirteen years ago) link

just trimmed the hell out of my breakup beard. I feel like the newest of men.

jeff, Sunday, 21 November 2010 05:48 (thirteen years ago) link


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