thread to get over a breakup

Well this is confusing.

fucking horrible

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you guys

<3

:-)

this fuckin guy

btw lj did u get my webmail which was sent to yrn✧✧✧@googlem✧✧✧.c✧✧

yeah dude I am gonna reply with a full fucken breakdown ASAP!!!!!! but mah friend aforementioned is on line deux at ze mo so retain your composure for these minutes

i am in no rush holmes just wanted to make sure it had been received

late evening is when a jagger sits back and engages in poetical colloquy

we've basically patched this up :) and had a great long chat about poetry

but on the proviso that i take anger management classes

sans poetry, this describes our posting relationship tbph

fffffffffuuuuuuuu

i'm hopin :) is appropriate but i mean...

lord help

haha this has been a weird fucken day

dmac you are a blessed one

trippy days are the ones you'll remember later one ime

LJ - your life is so filled with constant excitement and drama, you might as well be a Robinson sister.

the louis family robinson

jesus loves lou more than you can know
wo wo wo

how old is this girl?

99% moved into new loft. had a fun night with friends out and kind of forgetting about you. blasting replacements like only a single man with no real neighbors can do.

Awesome to hear, Jeff!

seems that i'm a little less over a breakup than i thought i was now that my former long-term girlfriend is dating again. and despite all of my feminist creds i can't help but feel even more ill-at-ease at the fact that her new partner is female.

now that my former long-term girlfriend is dating again

imo, ime, you aint over shit until this happens. the rest, i dunno. i have no ime there tbph.

that makes sense. i'm in a peculiar state about it because on one hand it's a v good thing and i'm happy for her (not least because she's in the midst of a serious bout of depression and i'm sure it'll be good for her to have that kind of close relationship), but on the other hand... i dunno really. maybe it's time to quickly end my own year-long drought and see how that does me, could be that i'm just an awful testosterone-fuelled man desperate for a good banging. (maybe not.)

if govts take action to avoid droughts, that's worth considering in micro level also imo.

ps i dunno why you know anything about a yr long ex, gtfo out of that circle of friendship on the pronto srs

just remember: too much rain after long drought = flood. Baby steps :)

ps i dunno why you know anything about a yr long ex, gtfo out of that circle of friendship on the pronto srs

IDK, this is often but not always necessary. I'm still friends with someone I was with for years. That said, we did go through a period after breaking up where we didn't speak at all for about a year but after that we were both mostly fine with being friends on at least some level.

<3 vg but nah no such thing as too much rain after a year w/out any sex in the rain the flu is passed on through virus anyway iirc go get rained on

i only got ime E, also i got home via a peugeot trunk with 2 others abt an hour ago my advice carries much caveat

but caveating that caveat i have never felt that 'friends' with an ex is a good step. i may be on a lower maslow step in ex terms.

distance is certainly necessary

Yes, a little distance and time can help a lot.

x-post Yeah well sometimes it isn't and even when it's not an awful idea, it's usually complicated. I just sort of never really understood cutting someone who I once cared that much for out of my life completely. Obv depends on the particulars though and who knows what the details are here. I'm just sayin'.

details are important, s'true

just trimmed the hell out of my breakup beard. I feel like the newest of men.

New beard! ready for life! Yess!

I just sort of never really understood cutting someone who I once cared that much for out of my life completely.

yeah, v much so. i don't know if it was just the particulars of our relationship, but cutting each other out... wasn't an option, i guess? in the most positive sense of it. that even with romance aside we were (and are) still too close to just go our separate ways. it's certainly an advantage that she's currently abroad and so not acting out the new relationship in my face, and as soon as i get out the scuba gear and bring on the flood (or something along those lines) all will be harmonious.

blasting replacements like only a single man with no real neighbors can do.

<3 this fucken guy

seems that i'm a little less over a breakup than i thought i was now that my former long-term girlfriend is dating again. and despite all of my feminist creds i can't help but feel even more ill-at-ease at the fact that her new partner is female.

You might have the "if a woman becomes a lesbian after being with a man, it's the man's fault" trope lurking somewhere in the back of your mind.

sounds like it's more the basic my ex has moved on and i haven't yet thing.

He said that he was especially unnerved by the fact that her new partner was female.

ya. even though i know it's ridiculous. but anyway that was mostly sweet beautiful drunk talk there, in the best of mental shape i am 98% fine with it and that other 2% will i'm sure be resolved once i manage to direct my annoying physical desires elsewhere.

xp - oh ok, i think i missed that line.

I'm glad you feel better about it now, Merdeyeux.

in the best of mental shape i am 98% fine with it and that other 2% will i'm sure be resolved once i manage to direct my annoying physical desires elsewhere

Sometimes that 2% is the most stubborn part. You'll eventually get past it, but it will hang around and annoy you like a fly for a while.

otm

Hmm. Now, how do I spell schadenfreude again?

poetic justice? or repeat offender?