thread to get over a breakup

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I guess my natural reaction is to place myself in this guy's shoes and think about what I would've done based on past experiences, and it makes me think about shit like "always wanted to stay at my place" that I hadn't even thought about in a hundred years.

There's a thread I could start. Asshole moves you pulled that resulted in a break-up. But I prefer my method of just blacking out those memories and pretending they never happened.

өөө (Pleasant Plains), Saturday, 13 December 2008 04:02 (sixteen years ago)

I have never made sunny coffee.

өөө (Pleasant Plains), Saturday, 13 December 2008 04:02 (sixteen years ago)

Has she asked for it?

TEENAGE DIALECTICS (libcrypt), Saturday, 13 December 2008 04:02 (sixteen years ago)

dude you gotta try it, it's great.

Mr. Que, Saturday, 13 December 2008 04:02 (sixteen years ago)

i hope you have a 12" dick then xopst

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Saturday, 13 December 2008 04:03 (sixteen years ago)

Women aren't black boxes, in general, PP.

TEENAGE DIALECTICS (libcrypt), Saturday, 13 December 2008 04:03 (sixteen years ago)

What's wrong with just trying to be likable to yr partner huh?

TEENAGE DIALECTICS (libcrypt), Saturday, 13 December 2008 04:04 (sixteen years ago)

But I prefer my method of just blacking out those memories and pretending they never happened.

yep

Minister for Compression Issues (electricsound), Saturday, 13 December 2008 04:06 (sixteen years ago)

fuck this guy forrealz. sorry roxy

mookieproof, Saturday, 13 December 2008 04:09 (sixteen years ago)

"I smell coffee. does beeps need to be changed?" - sunny successor, any given saturday.

өөө (Pleasant Plains), Saturday, 13 December 2008 05:33 (sixteen years ago)

Dude it must totally rule to have a kid who shits coffee.

TEENAGE DIALECTICS (libcrypt), Saturday, 13 December 2008 05:36 (sixteen years ago)

Is that like the coffee beans regurgitated by hamsters?

snoball, Saturday, 13 December 2008 11:11 (sixteen years ago)

I'm sorry about this, Roxy, the dude does really sound like a pig, and you deserve something better. Still, it usually takes some time getting used to someone not being around, even if that someone was bad for you. So try to hang on, drink some booze and party, maybe have some rebound sex too (if that helps). And listen to Grace Jones telling the truth about guys like these:
http://www.zshare.net/audio/52681724e6d726f7/

Tuomas, Saturday, 13 December 2008 14:10 (sixteen years ago)

here you go Roxy, one of the coolest songs ever made
Junior Boys - Birthday (hopefully you haven't heard it before)

❤ⓛⓞⓥⓔ❤ (CaptainLorax), Saturday, 13 December 2008 20:57 (sixteen years ago)

get pissed and let it all out

❤ⓛⓞⓥⓔ❤ (CaptainLorax), Saturday, 13 December 2008 21:00 (sixteen years ago)

Thanks, both of ya'll.

<3!

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Saturday, 13 December 2008 21:13 (sixteen years ago)

you didn't complain per se when i put on dauði baldrs to sleep to, but you made it clear that it was a nuisance to you

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 00:36 (sixteen years ago)

you were such an ass that time andy met us at urban bar

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 00:36 (sixteen years ago)

you never wrote me a letter, as stated above, but yeah you never wrote me a letter even after i wrote YOU one

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 00:37 (sixteen years ago)

i don't think i've ever written a girl a letter ("uh oh")

Tracy Michael Jordan Catalano (Jordan), Sunday, 14 December 2008 00:47 (sixteen years ago)

maybe that's just your style. i got the impression it actually was this guy's style, but just not in this relationship where he exercised a strict "no care evar" policy

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 01:05 (sixteen years ago)

jordan i bet you have made a girl a mixtape or cd, havent you

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 01:05 (sixteen years ago)

well yeah, duh

Tracy Michael Jordan Catalano (Jordan), Sunday, 14 December 2008 01:23 (sixteen years ago)

but just not in this relationship where he exercised a strict "no care evar" policy

that is a controversial relationship policy

Tracy Michael Jordan Catalano (Jordan), Sunday, 14 December 2008 01:23 (sixteen years ago)

well making something was included in the comment! xpost

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 01:25 (sixteen years ago)

I hate that this person has made you unhappy, Roxy.

Pashmina, Sunday, 14 December 2008 01:25 (sixteen years ago)

first 5 months = !!!!<3<3<3<3<3
middle 2 = :|
last 5 = :(:(:(:(:(:(

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 01:27 (sixteen years ago)

u want me to punch this guy

what is my attitude (gbx), Sunday, 14 December 2008 01:31 (sixteen years ago)

halp

very very serious (gabbneb), Sunday, 14 December 2008 04:30 (sixteen years ago)

is that an offer or a request?

very quotatious (tehresa), Sunday, 14 December 2008 04:33 (sixteen years ago)

lol

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 04:40 (sixteen years ago)

hey roxy i just emailed you, i hope i have the right address!

it's always funny until someone gets hurt and then it's just hilariou (Rubyredd), Sunday, 14 December 2008 05:47 (sixteen years ago)

Replied! <3

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 05:55 (sixteen years ago)

forever must associate this guy with underworld (was actually worried about this WHEN we went to see them), enslaved, the clash and carcass, probably my four favorite bands.

shit!!!!!!!!!!!

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 07:04 (sixteen years ago)

this sucks roxy. there's really nothing for it, it just sucks. it gets better tho! and considering what i've read, it sounds like the right thing long term.

living under no care evar policy is really bad for you

kuntrie/hardrock-tributes (goole), Sunday, 14 December 2008 07:11 (sixteen years ago)

you didn't complain per se when i put on dauði baldrs to sleep to, but you made it clear that it was a nuisance to you

― rox qua rox (roxymuzak)

um to be fair, people like me can't sleep with any music on. insomnia for the win.

❤ⓛⓞⓥⓔ❤ (CaptainLorax), Sunday, 14 December 2008 21:40 (sixteen years ago)

ok he sleeps with napalm death on so no

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 21:42 (sixteen years ago)

forever must associate this guy with underworld (was actually worried about this WHEN we went to see them), enslaved, the clash and carcass, probably my four favorite bands.

nooooooooooooo:-(

You go, Squirrel TM (latebloomer), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:07 (sixteen years ago)

definitely. cause we went to see these together (minus clash -- other reasons for that one though) and the underworld thing was a BIG BIG DEAL

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:08 (sixteen years ago)

you never really took to my cats!!!!

how could someone not take to them, they're adorable!

You go, Squirrel TM (latebloomer), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:12 (sixteen years ago)

funny you should bring them up

my roommate ah i cant even bear to type this out

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:14 (sixteen years ago)

my roommate called me just now and said pagoda must have jumped into his trunk today at some point (????? how do you not notice this) cause when he got to the recycling center (far from our house) pagoda jumped out of his trunk and ran into the woods

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:15 (sixteen years ago)

oh no!!!!!!

very quotatious (tehresa), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:16 (sixteen years ago)

ugh wtf wtf wtf wtf

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:21 (sixteen years ago)

nooo!!! that is terrible...did he look for pagoda?

You go, Squirrel TM (latebloomer), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:47 (sixteen years ago)

well he just texted me and luckily i live with the most outdoorsy of outdoorsman and he said he dashed home BUILT A TRAP and set it up there with canned cat food and treats and stuff

i really hope he comes to him or gets trapped, lol

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:51 (sixteen years ago)

i really just dont even have room to be upset about that right now, i just have to keep pushing it down

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:51 (sixteen years ago)

Oh dear, I hope you'll find your cat and he/she is fine. My mom's cat was once lost in the woods for almost two months, but eventually she was found and she wasn't hurt or anything (just lost some weight). Thankfully cats are quite good at surviving.

Tuomas, Monday, 15 December 2008 07:52 (sixteen years ago)

Especially in the woods, which I think used to be their natural habitat(?).

Tuomas, Monday, 15 December 2008 07:53 (sixteen years ago)

awww roxy i hope you find your kitty :(

also, i kind of want to punch your ex-guy too.

RADNESS UNLIMITED! (sunny successor), Monday, 15 December 2008 15:49 (sixteen years ago)


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