thread to get over a breakup

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Women aren't black boxes, in general, PP.

TEENAGE DIALECTICS (libcrypt), Saturday, 13 December 2008 04:03 (fifteen years ago) link

What's wrong with just trying to be likable to yr partner huh?

TEENAGE DIALECTICS (libcrypt), Saturday, 13 December 2008 04:04 (fifteen years ago) link

But I prefer my method of just blacking out those memories and pretending they never happened.

yep

Minister for Compression Issues (electricsound), Saturday, 13 December 2008 04:06 (fifteen years ago) link

fuck this guy forrealz. sorry roxy

mookieproof, Saturday, 13 December 2008 04:09 (fifteen years ago) link

"I smell coffee. does beeps need to be changed?" - sunny successor, any given saturday.

өөө (Pleasant Plains), Saturday, 13 December 2008 05:33 (fifteen years ago) link

Dude it must totally rule to have a kid who shits coffee.

TEENAGE DIALECTICS (libcrypt), Saturday, 13 December 2008 05:36 (fifteen years ago) link

Is that like the coffee beans regurgitated by hamsters?

snoball, Saturday, 13 December 2008 11:11 (fifteen years ago) link

I'm sorry about this, Roxy, the dude does really sound like a pig, and you deserve something better. Still, it usually takes some time getting used to someone not being around, even if that someone was bad for you. So try to hang on, drink some booze and party, maybe have some rebound sex too (if that helps). And listen to Grace Jones telling the truth about guys like these:
http://www.zshare.net/audio/52681724e6d726f7/

Tuomas, Saturday, 13 December 2008 14:10 (fifteen years ago) link

here you go Roxy, one of the coolest songs ever made
Junior Boys - Birthday (hopefully you haven't heard it before)

❤ⓛⓞⓥⓔ❤ (CaptainLorax), Saturday, 13 December 2008 20:57 (fifteen years ago) link

get pissed and let it all out

❤ⓛⓞⓥⓔ❤ (CaptainLorax), Saturday, 13 December 2008 21:00 (fifteen years ago) link

Thanks, both of ya'll.

<3!

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Saturday, 13 December 2008 21:13 (fifteen years ago) link

you didn't complain per se when i put on dauði baldrs to sleep to, but you made it clear that it was a nuisance to you

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 00:36 (fifteen years ago) link

you were such an ass that time andy met us at urban bar

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 00:36 (fifteen years ago) link

you never wrote me a letter, as stated above, but yeah you never wrote me a letter even after i wrote YOU one

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 00:37 (fifteen years ago) link

i don't think i've ever written a girl a letter ("uh oh")

Tracy Michael Jordan Catalano (Jordan), Sunday, 14 December 2008 00:47 (fifteen years ago) link

maybe that's just your style. i got the impression it actually was this guy's style, but just not in this relationship where he exercised a strict "no care evar" policy

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 01:05 (fifteen years ago) link

jordan i bet you have made a girl a mixtape or cd, havent you

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 01:05 (fifteen years ago) link

well yeah, duh

Tracy Michael Jordan Catalano (Jordan), Sunday, 14 December 2008 01:23 (fifteen years ago) link

but just not in this relationship where he exercised a strict "no care evar" policy

that is a controversial relationship policy

Tracy Michael Jordan Catalano (Jordan), Sunday, 14 December 2008 01:23 (fifteen years ago) link

well making something was included in the comment! xpost

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 01:25 (fifteen years ago) link

I hate that this person has made you unhappy, Roxy.

Pashmina, Sunday, 14 December 2008 01:25 (fifteen years ago) link

first 5 months = !!!!<3<3<3<3<3
middle 2 = :|
last 5 = :(:(:(:(:(:(

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 01:27 (fifteen years ago) link

u want me to punch this guy

what is my attitude (gbx), Sunday, 14 December 2008 01:31 (fifteen years ago) link

halp

very very serious (gabbneb), Sunday, 14 December 2008 04:30 (fifteen years ago) link

is that an offer or a request?

very quotatious (tehresa), Sunday, 14 December 2008 04:33 (fifteen years ago) link

lol

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 04:40 (fifteen years ago) link

hey roxy i just emailed you, i hope i have the right address!

it's always funny until someone gets hurt and then it's just hilariou (Rubyredd), Sunday, 14 December 2008 05:47 (fifteen years ago) link

Replied! <3

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 05:55 (fifteen years ago) link

forever must associate this guy with underworld (was actually worried about this WHEN we went to see them), enslaved, the clash and carcass, probably my four favorite bands.

shit!!!!!!!!!!!

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 07:04 (fifteen years ago) link

this sucks roxy. there's really nothing for it, it just sucks. it gets better tho! and considering what i've read, it sounds like the right thing long term.

living under no care evar policy is really bad for you

kuntrie/hardrock-tributes (goole), Sunday, 14 December 2008 07:11 (fifteen years ago) link

you didn't complain per se when i put on dauði baldrs to sleep to, but you made it clear that it was a nuisance to you

― rox qua rox (roxymuzak)

um to be fair, people like me can't sleep with any music on. insomnia for the win.

❤ⓛⓞⓥⓔ❤ (CaptainLorax), Sunday, 14 December 2008 21:40 (fifteen years ago) link

ok he sleeps with napalm death on so no

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Sunday, 14 December 2008 21:42 (fifteen years ago) link

forever must associate this guy with underworld (was actually worried about this WHEN we went to see them), enslaved, the clash and carcass, probably my four favorite bands.

nooooooooooooo:-(

You go, Squirrel TM (latebloomer), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:07 (fifteen years ago) link

definitely. cause we went to see these together (minus clash -- other reasons for that one though) and the underworld thing was a BIG BIG DEAL

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:08 (fifteen years ago) link

you never really took to my cats!!!!

how could someone not take to them, they're adorable!

You go, Squirrel TM (latebloomer), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:12 (fifteen years ago) link

funny you should bring them up

my roommate ah i cant even bear to type this out

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:14 (fifteen years ago) link

my roommate called me just now and said pagoda must have jumped into his trunk today at some point (????? how do you not notice this) cause when he got to the recycling center (far from our house) pagoda jumped out of his trunk and ran into the woods

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:15 (fifteen years ago) link

oh no!!!!!!

very quotatious (tehresa), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:16 (fifteen years ago) link

ugh wtf wtf wtf wtf

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:21 (fifteen years ago) link

nooo!!! that is terrible...did he look for pagoda?

You go, Squirrel TM (latebloomer), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:47 (fifteen years ago) link

well he just texted me and luckily i live with the most outdoorsy of outdoorsman and he said he dashed home BUILT A TRAP and set it up there with canned cat food and treats and stuff

i really hope he comes to him or gets trapped, lol

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:51 (fifteen years ago) link

i really just dont even have room to be upset about that right now, i just have to keep pushing it down

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Monday, 15 December 2008 07:51 (fifteen years ago) link

Oh dear, I hope you'll find your cat and he/she is fine. My mom's cat was once lost in the woods for almost two months, but eventually she was found and she wasn't hurt or anything (just lost some weight). Thankfully cats are quite good at surviving.

Tuomas, Monday, 15 December 2008 07:52 (fifteen years ago) link

Especially in the woods, which I think used to be their natural habitat(?).

Tuomas, Monday, 15 December 2008 07:53 (fifteen years ago) link

awww roxy i hope you find your kitty :(

also, i kind of want to punch your ex-guy too.

RADNESS UNLIMITED! (sunny successor), Monday, 15 December 2008 15:49 (fifteen years ago) link

YOU VOTED FOR BUSH IN 2000!!!!!!!!!!!!!

rox qua rox (roxymuzak), Wednesday, 17 December 2008 02:13 (fifteen years ago) link

what the hell

pretty impressive war skills (gbx), Wednesday, 17 December 2008 02:59 (fifteen years ago) link

did he want to have a beer with him

♪☺♫☻ (gr8080), Wednesday, 17 December 2008 02:59 (fifteen years ago) link

Rox lots of "aww" and "soz, bro" from a dude on the internet you don't know.

This: forever must associate this guy with underworld (was actually worried about this WHEN we went to see them), enslaved, the clash and carcass, probably my four favorite bands. (in my experience at least) goes away. It takes AWHILE, but it goes away, and afterwards the music you associated with the ex becomes even more your own than it ever was beforehand. Kind of cool actually.

en i see kay, Wednesday, 17 December 2008 05:54 (fifteen years ago) link

in my experience, you have to start forcing yourself right now to listen to this music and listen to it repeatedly, till there's no longer an association (or you get a new association).

just1n3, Wednesday, 17 December 2008 06:00 (fifteen years ago) link


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