thread to get over a breakup

Women aren't black boxes, in general, PP.

What's wrong with just trying to be likable to yr partner huh?

But I prefer my method of just blacking out those memories and pretending they never happened.

yep

fuck this guy forrealz. sorry roxy

"I smell coffee. does beeps need to be changed?" - sunny successor, any given saturday.

Dude it must totally rule to have a kid who shits coffee.

Is that like the coffee beans regurgitated by hamsters?

I'm sorry about this, Roxy, the dude does really sound like a pig, and you deserve something better. Still, it usually takes some time getting used to someone not being around, even if that someone was bad for you. So try to hang on, drink some booze and party, maybe have some rebound sex too (if that helps). And listen to Grace Jones telling the truth about guys like these:
http://www.zshare.net/audio/52681724e6d726f7/

here you go Roxy, one of the coolest songs ever made
Junior Boys - Birthday (hopefully you haven't heard it before)

get pissed and let it all out

Thanks, both of ya'll.

<3!

you didn't complain per se when i put on dauði baldrs to sleep to, but you made it clear that it was a nuisance to you

you were such an ass that time andy met us at urban bar

you never wrote me a letter, as stated above, but yeah you never wrote me a letter even after i wrote YOU one

i don't think i've ever written a girl a letter ("uh oh")

maybe that's just your style. i got the impression it actually was this guy's style, but just not in this relationship where he exercised a strict "no care evar" policy

jordan i bet you have made a girl a mixtape or cd, havent you

well yeah, duh

but just not in this relationship where he exercised a strict "no care evar" policy

that is a controversial relationship policy

well making something was included in the comment! xpost

I hate that this person has made you unhappy, Roxy.

first 5 months = !!!!<3<3<3<3<3
middle 2 = :|
last 5 = :(:(:(:(:(:(

u want me to punch this guy

halp

is that an offer or a request?

lol

hey roxy i just emailed you, i hope i have the right address!

Replied! <3

forever must associate this guy with underworld (was actually worried about this WHEN we went to see them), enslaved, the clash and carcass, probably my four favorite bands.

shit!!!!!!!!!!!

this sucks roxy. there's really nothing for it, it just sucks. it gets better tho! and considering what i've read, it sounds like the right thing long term.

living under no care evar policy is really bad for you

you didn't complain per se when i put on dauði baldrs to sleep to, but you made it clear that it was a nuisance to you

― rox qua rox (roxymuzak)

um to be fair, people like me can't sleep with any music on. insomnia for the win.

ok he sleeps with napalm death on so no

forever must associate this guy with underworld (was actually worried about this WHEN we went to see them), enslaved, the clash and carcass, probably my four favorite bands.

nooooooooooooo:-(

definitely. cause we went to see these together (minus clash -- other reasons for that one though) and the underworld thing was a BIG BIG DEAL

you never really took to my cats!!!!

how could someone not take to them, they're adorable!

funny you should bring them up

my roommate ah i cant even bear to type this out

my roommate called me just now and said pagoda must have jumped into his trunk today at some point (????? how do you not notice this) cause when he got to the recycling center (far from our house) pagoda jumped out of his trunk and ran into the woods

oh no!!!!!!

ugh wtf wtf wtf wtf

nooo!!! that is terrible...did he look for pagoda?

well he just texted me and luckily i live with the most outdoorsy of outdoorsman and he said he dashed home BUILT A TRAP and set it up there with canned cat food and treats and stuff

i really hope he comes to him or gets trapped, lol

i really just dont even have room to be upset about that right now, i just have to keep pushing it down

Oh dear, I hope you'll find your cat and he/she is fine. My mom's cat was once lost in the woods for almost two months, but eventually she was found and she wasn't hurt or anything (just lost some weight). Thankfully cats are quite good at surviving.

Especially in the woods, which I think used to be their natural habitat(?).

awww roxy i hope you find your kitty :(

also, i kind of want to punch your ex-guy too.

YOU VOTED FOR BUSH IN 2000!!!!!!!!!!!!!

what the hell

did he want to have a beer with him

Rox lots of "aww" and "soz, bro" from a dude on the internet you don't know.

This: forever must associate this guy with underworld (was actually worried about this WHEN we went to see them), enslaved, the clash and carcass, probably my four favorite bands. (in my experience at least) goes away. It takes AWHILE, but it goes away, and afterwards the music you associated with the ex becomes even more your own than it ever was beforehand. Kind of cool actually.

in my experience, you have to start forcing yourself right now to listen to this music and listen to it repeatedly, till there's no longer an association (or you get a new association).