thread to get over a breakup

well he just texted me and luckily i live with the most outdoorsy of outdoorsman and he said he dashed home BUILT A TRAP and set it up there with canned cat food and treats and stuff

i really hope he comes to him or gets trapped, lol

i really just dont even have room to be upset about that right now, i just have to keep pushing it down

Oh dear, I hope you'll find your cat and he/she is fine. My mom's cat was once lost in the woods for almost two months, but eventually she was found and she wasn't hurt or anything (just lost some weight). Thankfully cats are quite good at surviving.

Especially in the woods, which I think used to be their natural habitat(?).

awww roxy i hope you find your kitty :(

also, i kind of want to punch your ex-guy too.

YOU VOTED FOR BUSH IN 2000!!!!!!!!!!!!!

what the hell

did he want to have a beer with him

Rox lots of "aww" and "soz, bro" from a dude on the internet you don't know.

This: forever must associate this guy with underworld (was actually worried about this WHEN we went to see them), enslaved, the clash and carcass, probably my four favorite bands. (in my experience at least) goes away. It takes AWHILE, but it goes away, and afterwards the music you associated with the ex becomes even more your own than it ever was beforehand. Kind of cool actually.

in my experience, you have to start forcing yourself right now to listen to this music and listen to it repeatedly, till there's no longer an association (or you get a new association).

awesome part of my last breakup is now i have a good reason to not watch grey's anatomy or the tudors

cat unfound

also, forgot that our first real date was to see ian curtis movie, and the first convo we had was about joy division

lol, my actual favorite band you DICK i'm taking them back you don't even like new order

Oh dear, hope the cat will be found eventually... At least it's not cold there in the winter, right?

It's pretty cold, but he's a Norwegian cat.

A Norwegian Forest Cat, actually, is his breed!!

Well, he should manage in the forest for a while then.

poor kitty :(

that cat went on some kind of buddhistic soul journey for 6 weeks when i lived downtown and came back very thin and covered in leaves, acting very serene

He learned a lot about himself, out there.

texted me for no reason. i asked a question back to no repsonse. what a weirdo.

not the cat, but the ex

"ROX - IN FORST 4 XMAS VAC - C U L8R <3 CAT"

awwww <3

Can I do this too pretty pls? I think it will be healthy.

You rarely came to see either of my bands play even when you weren't doing anything else and when you did you would completely disappear and often leave entirely. When I said I didn't mind if you didn't like our music but I wanted you to tell me if this was the case you yelled at me for not spending enough time with you. You yelled at me for not spending enough time with you almost constantly for the majority of the hours I spent with you every day for like 5 months straight.

You decided we were broke up when we had a fight (at 3 am) without clarifying this with me and somehow managed to cheat on me with your douchebag yoga teacher before I got out of work the next day (at 3 pm)...you said you thought we were broke up.

You yelled at me for doing stuff around the house for your mom (her mom has MS) because you said now she would expect you to also.

After I got you into Wax Fang when we saw them in November you tried to keep me from singing along with their songs by putting your hand over my mouth and making mean faces at me.

You made out with a girl at that show who had a fake beard and looked like Bono!

I always paid for you for everything because you were unemployed. (<-this one is pretty much on me though)

An unemployed massage therapist who traded massages for yoga lessons from the dude you eventually cheated on me with.

You also never wrote me a letter (I wrote many while you were in Lake Tahoe!), made me a mix CD, cooked me a meal or made me a pie or anything!

Shit I should probably stop. Sorry to steal your thread rox! <3 u!

You refused to go to Nashville AND Chicago with me & my band because you thought I was in love with one of our singers.

haha whoops

Okay now I'm done.

keep it up this chick sounds like bad news its important to vent

i mean i dont want to speak for rox but shes an open hearted person and im sure shed encourage you to keep posting

she was very encouraging when i posted on this thread

After I got you into Wax Fang when we saw them in November you tried to keep me from singing along with their songs by putting your hand over my mouth and making mean faces at me.
WOW

hey as a sidebar - do all guys well not EXPECT so much as want a meal cooked for them as a romantic gesture? Because I gotta tell you it'll be a minnesota day in hell before I do that for anyone. im pliable though

shit i must be crazy - i make my bf breakfast (lol it's just a bowl of cereal) and lunch every day

cooking food with/for someone is fun imo but if yr not into it it's no biggie, and anyone who would find that a dealbreaker is perhaps weird. but in both the above cases it seems of a piece with just general thoughtlessness and self-centredness.

people in different styles of showing love shocker

lol

Okay I will rephrase.

You always promised to make me a pie and you never even made me toast.

To be fair you did make me coffee a couple times.

OH! You didn't tell me you were going to Atlanta for 10 days, I found out when I saw your dad at Krogers the night before you left. WTF.

When you left you took my only tempurpedic pillow!!!!

thank you for the memories foam

ha!

You told my sister that my penis is shaped like a torpedo!

with the fins and everything??>