thread to get over a breakup

Can I do this too pretty pls? I think it will be healthy.

You rarely came to see either of my bands play even when you weren't doing anything else and when you did you would completely disappear and often leave entirely. When I said I didn't mind if you didn't like our music but I wanted you to tell me if this was the case you yelled at me for not spending enough time with you. You yelled at me for not spending enough time with you almost constantly for the majority of the hours I spent with you every day for like 5 months straight.

You decided we were broke up when we had a fight (at 3 am) without clarifying this with me and somehow managed to cheat on me with your douchebag yoga teacher before I got out of work the next day (at 3 pm)...you said you thought we were broke up.

You yelled at me for doing stuff around the house for your mom (her mom has MS) because you said now she would expect you to also.

After I got you into Wax Fang when we saw them in November you tried to keep me from singing along with their songs by putting your hand over my mouth and making mean faces at me.

You made out with a girl at that show who had a fake beard and looked like Bono!

I always paid for you for everything because you were unemployed. (<-this one is pretty much on me though)

An unemployed massage therapist who traded massages for yoga lessons from the dude you eventually cheated on me with.

You also never wrote me a letter (I wrote many while you were in Lake Tahoe!), made me a mix CD, cooked me a meal or made me a pie or anything!

Shit I should probably stop. Sorry to steal your thread rox! <3 u!

You refused to go to Nashville AND Chicago with me & my band because you thought I was in love with one of our singers.

haha whoops

Okay now I'm done.

keep it up this chick sounds like bad news its important to vent

i mean i dont want to speak for rox but shes an open hearted person and im sure shed encourage you to keep posting

she was very encouraging when i posted on this thread

After I got you into Wax Fang when we saw them in November you tried to keep me from singing along with their songs by putting your hand over my mouth and making mean faces at me.
WOW

hey as a sidebar - do all guys well not EXPECT so much as want a meal cooked for them as a romantic gesture? Because I gotta tell you it'll be a minnesota day in hell before I do that for anyone. im pliable though

shit i must be crazy - i make my bf breakfast (lol it's just a bowl of cereal) and lunch every day

cooking food with/for someone is fun imo but if yr not into it it's no biggie, and anyone who would find that a dealbreaker is perhaps weird. but in both the above cases it seems of a piece with just general thoughtlessness and self-centredness.

people in different styles of showing love shocker

lol

Okay I will rephrase.

You always promised to make me a pie and you never even made me toast.

To be fair you did make me coffee a couple times.

OH! You didn't tell me you were going to Atlanta for 10 days, I found out when I saw your dad at Krogers the night before you left. WTF.

When you left you took my only tempurpedic pillow!!!!

thank you for the memories foam

ha!

You told my sister that my penis is shaped like a torpedo!

with the fins and everything??>

if you were my brother i would have shut her down before she got as far as 'shaped like'.

i will no longer have to listen to your father snidely chiding me about anderson cooper being bred as a result of a liberal media conspiracy while you sit tacitly

oh, and you were retarded during the pre-election debates

you thought your friend at work visiting and verbally abusing prositutes was a nice loltime story to enjoy over cracker barrel biscuits and apple butter

i think it's pretty hard to find good uses/times for apple butter but that is sure as hell not one.

you thought i had an affair in nyc, which explains one of the items on this thread

you told me once that you thought "blank/idiotic" was a good look on a girl

^this is a paraphrase, but reeeeaaaalllly

this guy texting me today, 3x so far

http://www.ww2poster.co.uk/posters/imagebank/images/DeserveVictoryChurchill.jpg

^this hangs over my amp in practice space

<3<3<3<3

suggest ignore

he knows youve got a new guy?

hm. doubtful, but possible.

unless he is reading this aka HI MATT!!!!!

is he an ilxor?!

no, but i have reason to believe he lurked, documented here: dumpwatch (attn: hoosteen)

uh

he asked me to teach him voice lessons?

actual lol right now

He wants you back?

By the way, what about your cat, was he ever found?

Idea: agree to voice lessons and then give him exercises like "Sing the words 'I'm sorry I was a DIIIICK" to the melody of 'I'm the barber of SeVILLLLE'. Extra points for Bugs Bunny impersonation."

Ughhh Rox I had a bf like yr ex years ago, constantly belittling me, telling me shit like "my friends don't actually *like* you you know, theyre just being nice to you cuz youre with me, stop deluding yourself". And shoving lighters into my face and drunkenly pissing the bed and ringing me after I moved INTERSTATE to escape him and pretending to be my dad (!??!) because I wouldnt answer his calls...

jesus christ trayce

how does this happen to ppl

anyway, i didnt give him the lesson but i did talk to him on the phone today for about 30 mins. i think he mostly just wanted to talk to/see me. it was pathetto.

what happens on march 20th???