thread to get over a breakup

she was very encouraging when i posted on this thread

After I got you into Wax Fang when we saw them in November you tried to keep me from singing along with their songs by putting your hand over my mouth and making mean faces at me.
WOW

hey as a sidebar - do all guys well not EXPECT so much as want a meal cooked for them as a romantic gesture? Because I gotta tell you it'll be a minnesota day in hell before I do that for anyone. im pliable though

shit i must be crazy - i make my bf breakfast (lol it's just a bowl of cereal) and lunch every day

cooking food with/for someone is fun imo but if yr not into it it's no biggie, and anyone who would find that a dealbreaker is perhaps weird. but in both the above cases it seems of a piece with just general thoughtlessness and self-centredness.

people in different styles of showing love shocker

lol

Okay I will rephrase.

You always promised to make me a pie and you never even made me toast.

To be fair you did make me coffee a couple times.

OH! You didn't tell me you were going to Atlanta for 10 days, I found out when I saw your dad at Krogers the night before you left. WTF.

When you left you took my only tempurpedic pillow!!!!

thank you for the memories foam

ha!

You told my sister that my penis is shaped like a torpedo!

with the fins and everything??>

if you were my brother i would have shut her down before she got as far as 'shaped like'.

i will no longer have to listen to your father snidely chiding me about anderson cooper being bred as a result of a liberal media conspiracy while you sit tacitly

oh, and you were retarded during the pre-election debates

you thought your friend at work visiting and verbally abusing prositutes was a nice loltime story to enjoy over cracker barrel biscuits and apple butter

i think it's pretty hard to find good uses/times for apple butter but that is sure as hell not one.

you thought i had an affair in nyc, which explains one of the items on this thread

you told me once that you thought "blank/idiotic" was a good look on a girl

^this is a paraphrase, but reeeeaaaalllly

this guy texting me today, 3x so far

http://www.ww2poster.co.uk/posters/imagebank/images/DeserveVictoryChurchill.jpg

^this hangs over my amp in practice space

<3<3<3<3

suggest ignore

he knows youve got a new guy?

hm. doubtful, but possible.

unless he is reading this aka HI MATT!!!!!

is he an ilxor?!

no, but i have reason to believe he lurked, documented here: dumpwatch (attn: hoosteen)

uh

he asked me to teach him voice lessons?

actual lol right now

He wants you back?

By the way, what about your cat, was he ever found?

Idea: agree to voice lessons and then give him exercises like "Sing the words 'I'm sorry I was a DIIIICK" to the melody of 'I'm the barber of SeVILLLLE'. Extra points for Bugs Bunny impersonation."

Ughhh Rox I had a bf like yr ex years ago, constantly belittling me, telling me shit like "my friends don't actually *like* you you know, theyre just being nice to you cuz youre with me, stop deluding yourself". And shoving lighters into my face and drunkenly pissing the bed and ringing me after I moved INTERSTATE to escape him and pretending to be my dad (!??!) because I wouldnt answer his calls...

jesus christ trayce

how does this happen to ppl

anyway, i didnt give him the lesson but i did talk to him on the phone today for about 30 mins. i think he mostly just wanted to talk to/see me. it was pathetto.

what happens on march 20th???

I wish I knew how it happens.

Last night I had a bit of a blowup/whinge with my bf cause he got a bit pointed and said "you always say you might make dinner then never do and I'm sick of eating at 10pm I have to start cooking things" ... as if it is ALL MY RESPONSIBILITY TO FUCKING DO EVERYTHING. I do all the cooking, 80% of the housework, and remembering to pay the bills and stuff. He sits in la la land writing his fucking electronic music all day long and is "too tired" to cook or clean as if I'm not as well and the only reason I am ranting about this is because every bf Ive ever had is the freaking same wtf guys?

Ahem sorry, have had a bad couple of days. <3 my boy but there are some drawbacks with dating someone 12 years younger :/

oh no, you cant allow somebody to do this

Last night I had a bit of a blowup/whinge with my bf cause he got a bit pointed and said "you always say you might make dinner then never do and I'm sick of eating at 10pm I have to start cooking things" ... as if it is ALL MY RESPONSIBILITY TO FUCKING DO EVERYTHING. I do all the cooking, 80% of the housework, and remembering to pay the bills and stuff. He sits in la la land writing his fucking electronic music all day long and is "too tired" to cook or clean as if I'm not as well and the only reason I am ranting about this is because every bf Ive ever had is the freaking same wtf guys?

ahh life w/ a musician

Just know that there are plenty of men out there who would be happy to eat dinner at 10 p.m.

LOL sunny tell me about it =) I love him to bits but aaarghhh.

Trayce, get take out. For one.

Eat it in front of him.

lol!

Hee hee hee. Oh I feel so mean now :/

talk up the dinner youre going to make at 6:30 pm and then reveal it to be two packs of ramen

announce 'tonight i might not make dinner' and then don't and at 10pm cordon off the kitchen with crime scene tape.

You know, it's one thing if you enjoy cooking and you get a kick out of making food and presenting it... which is a wonderful and valid thing.

But it's quite another thing when blokes just *expect* like you're going to provide home-cooked meals for them every night. That's just total BS, like, what am I, your mum?

In the LTRs I've been in, I've done the majority of the cooking coz, you know, I *like* food. But if it becomes expected, well.. go on strike. He knows where the fridge is. He knows where the stove is. tell him if he EXPECTS to eat at a certain time, to do it himself. In fact, cooking for you might be bloody nice for a change.

x-post I LOVE ESTELA'S ANSWER

ok say that you might make dinner and do your usual thing, whatever it was that bothered him in the 1st place

whenever he finally breaks down and goes to get arbys or whatever, unveil some magical, fabulous and elaborate meal you have made for only yourself and explain that you know how he just HATES eating at 10pm or you would have made him some also