thread to get over a breakup

^this hangs over my amp in practice space

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he knows youve got a new guy?

hm. doubtful, but possible.

unless he is reading this aka HI MATT!!!!!

is he an ilxor?!

no, but i have reason to believe he lurked, documented here: dumpwatch (attn: hoosteen)

uh

he asked me to teach him voice lessons?

actual lol right now

He wants you back?

By the way, what about your cat, was he ever found?

Idea: agree to voice lessons and then give him exercises like "Sing the words 'I'm sorry I was a DIIIICK" to the melody of 'I'm the barber of SeVILLLLE'. Extra points for Bugs Bunny impersonation."

Ughhh Rox I had a bf like yr ex years ago, constantly belittling me, telling me shit like "my friends don't actually *like* you you know, theyre just being nice to you cuz youre with me, stop deluding yourself". And shoving lighters into my face and drunkenly pissing the bed and ringing me after I moved INTERSTATE to escape him and pretending to be my dad (!??!) because I wouldnt answer his calls...

jesus christ trayce

how does this happen to ppl

anyway, i didnt give him the lesson but i did talk to him on the phone today for about 30 mins. i think he mostly just wanted to talk to/see me. it was pathetto.

what happens on march 20th???

I wish I knew how it happens.

Last night I had a bit of a blowup/whinge with my bf cause he got a bit pointed and said "you always say you might make dinner then never do and I'm sick of eating at 10pm I have to start cooking things" ... as if it is ALL MY RESPONSIBILITY TO FUCKING DO EVERYTHING. I do all the cooking, 80% of the housework, and remembering to pay the bills and stuff. He sits in la la land writing his fucking electronic music all day long and is "too tired" to cook or clean as if I'm not as well and the only reason I am ranting about this is because every bf Ive ever had is the freaking same wtf guys?

Ahem sorry, have had a bad couple of days. <3 my boy but there are some drawbacks with dating someone 12 years younger :/

oh no, you cant allow somebody to do this

Last night I had a bit of a blowup/whinge with my bf cause he got a bit pointed and said "you always say you might make dinner then never do and I'm sick of eating at 10pm I have to start cooking things" ... as if it is ALL MY RESPONSIBILITY TO FUCKING DO EVERYTHING. I do all the cooking, 80% of the housework, and remembering to pay the bills and stuff. He sits in la la land writing his fucking electronic music all day long and is "too tired" to cook or clean as if I'm not as well and the only reason I am ranting about this is because every bf Ive ever had is the freaking same wtf guys?

ahh life w/ a musician

Just know that there are plenty of men out there who would be happy to eat dinner at 10 p.m.

LOL sunny tell me about it =) I love him to bits but aaarghhh.

Trayce, get take out. For one.

Eat it in front of him.

lol!

Hee hee hee. Oh I feel so mean now :/

talk up the dinner youre going to make at 6:30 pm and then reveal it to be two packs of ramen

announce 'tonight i might not make dinner' and then don't and at 10pm cordon off the kitchen with crime scene tape.

You know, it's one thing if you enjoy cooking and you get a kick out of making food and presenting it... which is a wonderful and valid thing.

But it's quite another thing when blokes just *expect* like you're going to provide home-cooked meals for them every night. That's just total BS, like, what am I, your mum?

In the LTRs I've been in, I've done the majority of the cooking coz, you know, I *like* food. But if it becomes expected, well.. go on strike. He knows where the fridge is. He knows where the stove is. tell him if he EXPECTS to eat at a certain time, to do it himself. In fact, cooking for you might be bloody nice for a change.

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ok say that you might make dinner and do your usual thing, whatever it was that bothered him in the 1st place

whenever he finally breaks down and goes to get arbys or whatever, unveil some magical, fabulous and elaborate meal you have made for only yourself and explain that you know how he just HATES eating at 10pm or you would have made him some also

You guys are way better at this passive aggressive thing than I am.

years of practice

Every time I start to think that I miss having a relationship, this thread reminds me why i really really don't.

I <3 youse guys.

you should make us some sandwiches to prove it.

yeah and i aint waitin til 10pm neither

!!

Hahaha I was thinking "oh god this is funny I have to show my boyf... oh wait."

Every time I start to think that I miss having a relationship, this thread reminds me why i really really don't.

― Static Space And The Acoustic Moth (Masonic Boom), Friday, January 23, 2009 2:18 PM (4 hours ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

kate masonic boom 100% otm here^^

this thread reminds me that everyone, including me, is a nuisance.

left me depressed text messages whilst i was making out with new guy

vindicated

will never post on thread again

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trayce you should grab something to eat on the waY HOME AND THEN WHEN YOU GET THERE SAY 'YOU KNOW, I DONT THINK ILL BE EATING DINNER ANYMORE'

SORRRY TOO MUCH COKE IN MY KEYBOARD LAST NIGHT

OH THE EATING ON THE WAY HOME HAS TO BE BE A SECREDCT!!!

dont do coke off your keyboard

LOL i made us dinner tonite ha but in fairness I wz home all day so no big effort.

5 days of 100F+ weather for the rest of the week so fuck a cooking.

it's happening?!?

dude

oh man

sry HOOS

GO HOOS! we're here for u, buddy

good luck buddy. remember, it's just like ripping off a band-aid. a nagging, irrational band-aid.