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brownie otm -- untucked is wrong, bad, evil

Biff Wellington (WmC), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:32 (twelve years ago) link

Rayuela otm. As mentioned earlier I don't use a top sheet but I'd be OK with it if it did. I usually sort of sleep with them covers wrapped around me 1/2 in 1/2 out anyway.

I am surprised at the number of tuckers. I am also near certain we've had this conversation before and think I may even recall WMC admitting to wearing socks?

(✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:35 (twelve years ago) link

I like to fold the topsheet over the comforter when I pull it up under my chin, and if the sheet isn't tucked in it slides around and annoys me and I hate having part of me covered with sheet and part of me covered with comforter and there is SCIENCE here, these things must be in place or it's sleep anarchy!

Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:37 (twelve years ago) link

thread to get over bedding

pvmic bellvm (goole), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:39 (twelve years ago) link

Thanks, Grady.

(✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:39 (twelve years ago) link

i had no idea that tucking was so popular. i was always mystified by what I had been interpreting as some sort of hotel bedding convention that made no sense and was only in place for appearance sake!

rayuela, Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:41 (twelve years ago) link

how do your feet not feel all compressed up in the bottom corner of the bed? this i madness.

pvmic bellvm (goole), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:43 (twelve years ago) link

x-psot - Me neither! Being tucked in is such an awful feeling to me that I'm genuinely surprised by the number of tuckers.

(✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:43 (twelve years ago) link

i wish i could grow up enough to make my bed in the morning - not to tuck but just to lay the duvet cover flat (i do not tuck or use a topsheet) but i don't see this ever happening.

john zorn has ruined klezmer for an entire generation (bene_gesserit), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:45 (twelve years ago) link

I do wear socks at night in the coldest winter months. I radiate a crazy amt of body heat everywhere except through my feet.

My feet don't get forced into uncomfortable positions in bed because I sleep on my side and because I leave enough slack in the bedcovers at the foot of the bed to allow my feet to move.

Biff Wellington (WmC), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:46 (twelve years ago) link

do you guys sleep on your back and have your feet sticking straight up?

mh, Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:46 (twelve years ago) link

interesting technique, WmC

pvmic bellvm (goole), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:47 (twelve years ago) link

i sleep any goddam way i feel like and my covers obey

pvmic bellvm (goole), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:47 (twelve years ago) link

not to tuck but just to lay the duvet cover flat (i do not tuck or use a topsheet) *high five*

(✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:48 (twelve years ago) link

The days I manage to lay the duvet cover flat and reposition the pillows are good days. It feels better when I get home. Doesn't happen every day though.

I sleep on my stomach with my arms under my pillow. One leg straight, one bent.

(✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:49 (twelve years ago) link

alternatively you can sleep with your head under the tucked side and your feet hanging out the other

mh, Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:50 (twelve years ago) link

I sleep on my stomach with my arms under my pillow

i kinda do this but usually one of my arms will go to sleep before i do

pvmic bellvm (goole), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:53 (twelve years ago) link

maybe i'm crap at sleeping, idk

pvmic bellvm (goole), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:53 (twelve years ago) link

I wake up with my hands asleep pretty often. :/

(✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:54 (twelve years ago) link

I sleep sort of on my stomach with my head turned to the side, and often end up with one or both hands under my chest...often get awoken by 'dead hand' fuzziness

Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:55 (twelve years ago) link

I'd get one of those body pillows for spooning but I'd probably end up with one that elbowed me in the face

mh, Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:56 (twelve years ago) link

Head to the side, yes. I don't, like, face plant into the pillow.

(✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:56 (twelve years ago) link

yeah there's asleep and there's double super comatose oh god i've really paralyzed my own limb this time asleep

pvmic bellvm (goole), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:57 (twelve years ago) link

if anyone wants to know my bedsheet/duvet situation, just let me know

♆ (gr8080), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 18:59 (twelve years ago) link

gr80 i was just about to ask you

pvmic bellvm (goole), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 19:00 (twelve years ago) link

y'all need bedding suspenders

If there were a way to run elastic under the mattress that would hold my top sheet taut and keep it from ever moving, don't think I wouldn't get some.

how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 19:02 (twelve years ago) link

so interesting, everyone sleeping in beds and all

♆ (gr8080), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 19:06 (twelve years ago) link

I'll go break up with my husband (for wearing socks while sleeping, natch) to keep this threadcount on track for you gr80

she started dancing to that (Finefinemusic), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 19:08 (twelve years ago) link

geez, all the 'good' stuff was hidden by the sheets discussion.

refused to dance, ride a bike, go in the water, or get sand on you.

well, I can't do 2 of these.

Anyway, L, just let me vet the next one early on.

(and by 'vet" I don't necessarily mean "spay")

Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 19:12 (twelve years ago) link

if only we all had the convenience to have our dates vetted by Morbs

mh, Tuesday, 26 June 2012 19:19 (twelve years ago) link

I'm genuinely surprised by the number of tuckers

^^^ I don't understand this phenomenon either. It must be like sleeping in a straitjacket?

Jeff Goldblum is watching you, pope! (snoball), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 19:21 (twelve years ago) link

I just tuck the end, not the sides! sheesh

mh, Tuesday, 26 June 2012 19:22 (twelve years ago) link

I couldn't even stand having the end tucked.

Jeff Goldblum is watching you, pope! (snoball), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 19:26 (twelve years ago) link

Wait that sounds like something else.

Jeff Goldblum is watching you, pope! (snoball), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 19:27 (twelve years ago) link

Morbs! You would only let me date Mets fans!

how did I get here? why am I in the whiskey aisle? this is all so (Laurel), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 19:30 (twelve years ago) link

just not a bunch of mothertuckers.

Pangborn to be Wilde (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 19:35 (twelve years ago) link

- I like having my feet covered.
- Tucking the end (not the sides) of the sheet ensures foot coverage.

Biff Wellington (WmC), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 19:42 (twelve years ago) link

Bedding layout doesn't seem to matter, no matter how neatly the bed is made, the other person always winds up with all the covers by the morning.

Lee626, Tuesday, 26 June 2012 20:50 (twelve years ago) link

Try using separate sheets; works for my husband and me.

Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Tuesday, 26 June 2012 20:59 (twelve years ago) link

what happened to this thread?

sarahell, Tuesday, 26 June 2012 21:02 (twelve years ago) link

sheet hit the fan

that's why Love made the weirdos (brownie), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 21:03 (twelve years ago) link

We're all three sheets to the wind.

Jeff Goldblum is watching you, pope! (snoball), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 21:21 (twelve years ago) link

I miss a top sheet - since the lady, it's been duvet's only, one for me one for her. I could get a sheet out only for the half the week that she doesn't stay here, but to be honest I don't even make the bed (fold the duvets in half lengthways, put all the pillows at the head of the bed) unless she's coming up.

I go to sleep face sideways / belly down, and wake in any of several poses - though if I'm on my back then I'm probably being elbowed awake for snoring.

Andrew Farrell, Tuesday, 26 June 2012 21:56 (twelve years ago) link

http://i.imgur.com/gWVzh.gif

♆ (gr8080), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 22:15 (twelve years ago) link

top sheet, untucked, no comforter/duvet except for one or two months a year
with current spooning partner, I'm actually uncovered most of the night when she stays but she radiates enough heat that it doesn't matter

Kiarostami bag (milo z), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 22:40 (twelve years ago) link

With the mr. out of town, I have re-discovered that I am, in fact, the world's tidiest sleeper. I climb out of bed after eight hours having barely disturbed the sheets and coverlet; I make the bed in one motion with a single hand. When the bed has dual occupancy, it is another story altogether.

quincie, Tuesday, 26 June 2012 22:46 (twelve years ago) link

yes but gr080 do you tuck your sheets in or not

Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 22:47 (twelve years ago) link

I must confess I wasn't even sure what a top sheet *was*. Duvets only, thanks.

(NB: I might only be posting this because I find annoying gr80 a little amusing)

emil.y, Tuesday, 26 June 2012 23:02 (twelve years ago) link

Post that effortlessly sum up ILX.. ;) I can harp on about anything when it's comically annoying someone!

she started dancing to that (Finefinemusic), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 23:03 (twelve years ago) link

you know you're doing something right when you get a gr080 facepalm

Peppermint Patty Hearst (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 26 June 2012 23:05 (twelve years ago) link


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