thread to get over a breakup

kind of the most dickish way to show you're in control is to get someone who dumped you back and then dump them

LOL I did that to someone once many years ago after he'd considered leaving me for another chick. I talked him out of it, built everything back up, then got the shits and bailed.

good relationship hardmanning

I will not get back with this person. i guess it is the end of irony.

kind of the most dickish way to show you're in control is to get someone who dumped you back and then dump them

― space is deep (mh), Thursday, September 5, 2013 7:08 PM

this is classic

aww markers

what?

I was appreciative of your endorsement

Well, but at the same time, don't ever do that, what I said

hahaha

real key is to never CEDE control

unleash your inner fuhrer

damn

this is not comedy thread

I didnt do mine on purpose, lest anyone think I'm even more of a bitch than they already do, heh.

i've never not done this after being dumped.

did not email my ex to wish her a happy birthday yesterday

gold star

wtg!

props 2 u

I fucking love this thread. It makes me happy to read roxy's OP every time.

holy shit, I forgot this was the thread where I probably elaborated on a lot of the shit in my life at the time, and let me say... it seems like a lot more than four years ago

here's to moving on and getting over, rinse and repeat if necessary

I look forward to several more serious exes

― mh, Monday, February 21, 2011 8:53 AM (2 years ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

still working on this tbh

Exes get axes.

I went grocery shopping with one over the weekend, it's cool to have relatable people around.

I just broke up with someone who suited me perfectly in every way and I did not dislike one thing about him. It's annoying.

it still makes me happy to read my OP tbh

xxp

i see that guy sometimes and he's miserable

lol

YAY!!!

:D

I kind of hope for the best for all people and that they can learn to be functional humans

that said, the person I posted about years ago is an even worse trainwreck and thank god my life is cool

I am not actually *breaking* *up* w/ ppl per se but there is a person who I have overinvested in and a person who has overinvested in me and I need to retract from both and it is a thing that is kind of real

relationship management should be a certified course somewhere

you hate opeth

<3

my current boyfriend who i intend to marry also dislikes opeth, but its not combined with all that other stuff so its not unsavory

uh oh

if we broke up that would be the only thing i could write here. you disliked opeth, but went to see them with me anyway and in fact bought the tickets

i love that.

:)))))))

had a really rough day of missing her like crazy. just chatting about parenty stuff over FB and for a second i want to just mention, casually, that i do miss her very much. but it's finished isn't it and i shdn't do that. right? just back me up here plz.

Correct.

you're allowed to feel things, just don't linger on it

thanks. just needed reinforcement. :/

Yeah fraid not man.

:/

oh nv <3

it passed

there shd be like an AA for ex-partners in moments of relapse

i will be yr sponsor, NV

cheers :)

it's a less onerous task than watching out for my booze lapses

for me they often go together

I'm not sure why its a bad thing to tell an ex you miss them? :/ I still tell J I miss him, from time to time (and we still hang out a lot so its a silly thing to say!)

I mean you dont want to be all sobby and PLEASE COME BACK TO ME OR I WILL DIIIIIIIIIIIIE, but surely a wistful fond "I miss what we had" is acceptable when it was a marriage with kids ffs