thread to get over a breakup

Noodle, it's been over 2 months! In fact, the other night saw her send a really chilled-out, non-bitter email of conciliation and ice-breaking "right, silence is silly, and I wanna hold my head high and deal with this maturely by voicing my friendly concerns...how you doing?"...followed by a pleasant, life-establishing MSN conversation, so I think I've pretty much achieved closure. May even get a friendship out of it! Pretty much A+ exit strategy for all-time IMO, regardless of how painful the moment of departure was. Furthermore I feel absolved from whatever I'm about to do, lolz

As for a HOOS, well, I can only hope similar results accrue. Keep it zingy by all means but yeh honesty is always the best policy in the instant of cut-off.

head up, hoos.

loujag- i would wait until i've seen her with a fat biker dude before i proudly proclaim my 'over it like an adult' stage, if past experience is anything to go by.

at what point to we send in a search party?

http://www.tvshowsondvd.com/graphics/news3/JAG_S6.jpg

Hoos - well done. It'll get better. Just know that you've made the right choice.

I also almost "liked" your status on FB then decided that probably wasn't appropriate.

i liked it and then decided it wasn't appropriate and unliked it!

wtf none of you people can spell 'licked'

yeah hoos, was gonna post last night: 'wait till the lolz wear off and she realises you aren't gonna kiss and make up this time'

hope you got out of there ASAP, and can manage to stay out - DON'T CAVE!!

good luck hoos!

can you please somehow impart this information in the brane of one of my best friends, as they've been denying this to be possible for a couple of years now

HOOS, this is absolutely none of my business BUT you are talking about your relationship in as public a forum as is available so I guess I'm entitled to throw in my twopence worth, right?

I absolutely understand the need for catharsis but is it not likely/possible that, sooner or later, you're gonna regret revealing so much in such a public way? Tbh none of your grievances about her strike me as being anywhere near as potentially condemnable as sharing them with 10,000+ people you may or may not know on the internet.

Just an isolated thought, yo. Otherwise keep up the good work. And keep fighting :)

i fully support lolz in all their forms and since I don't know this girl... carry on. but still, for your own sake:
http://www.whistlerblackcomb.com/NR/rdonlyres/D70D82AC-699B-47F5-BDF1-751768D3344B/0/check_wreck.gif

har

HOOS this is just an observation but based on this list i could never, ever, ever date yr ex.

i think our only common ground would be walking in memphis and we probably like it for different reasons.

HOOS, congrats for extricating yrself from the poison clutches, that's all I'm gonna say.

"i value my opinion less because of you" - sad, but i felt the same way at the end of my last relationship. worse yet, i had been convinced that this was good for me.

http://www.srpublications.com/tools/drama_theater/images/renaissance_music.jpg

Aye was en Memphife a-walking.

Man up hoos & avoid romanticizing any of it

word

^^^ Crank that shit, homes

missed all this

hoos i am proud of you

keep ya head up

that was pretty o_O

"puma"?

i don't even remember what it's an acronym for, people united something america or something but they were basically butthurt hrc fans and my ex was one of them

party unity my ass

lol

u got it

-you got ridic heated when i joked that "walking in memphis" is a song about how transcendent it is to hang out with black people

― 14 karat gold steen computer wizard (BIG HOOS aka the steendriver), Tuesday, March 17, 2009 6:27 AM (Yesterday) Bookmark

^^^^^^^^ truthbomb zing and lol trifecta in excelsis

Urrrrhh I regret ranting about mah man on here, he's good people, I just needed to remind him to pick up the pace and he did, so hey :/

i regret nothing

aw :(

<4 back at u

wow never saw this thread but man, it makes me genuinely happy to see folks like roxy and HOOS get out of bad situations and move on, maybe it's cathartic because i've watched so many friends and cool people stuck in shitty relationships.

i have a friend who is on the cusp of getting married but he's told a mutual friend that he's not really feeling it anymore, but he's not backing out. : /

will never settle again. DNW

well done hoos!

Kinda awful thing, it seems like if someone goes thru enough shitty relationships they end up sorta subconciously wanting to be treated that way and having difficulty not encouraging it in partners who wanna be really nice to them.

http://vice.typepad.com/vice_magazine/2009/05/new-york-relationships-are-for-assholes.html

This thread heightens my paranoia that I'm being a bad/inconsiderate boyfriend.

all boyfriends need a little of that paranoia

It's true. I'm sure a lot of us mean well, but it's so easy to be bumbling and oblivious. At least for me it is.

Also I'm 8 brazilian miles away and I don't really know what protocol is, which is primary source for paranoia.

BIG HOOS you can see this as a below the belt insult or you can look at it as an opportunity to start a tumblr called passive aggressive tweets and get a six figgo book deal

whatevs fuck that 'friend'

uh, max otm

sounds like she's trying to guilt trip you so you won't ask for the $$

invite her over for nostalgia sex and demand the money in exchange for her clothers

loool

Hoos get yr $$$ is you can and then no mas w/her, eh?

Roxy, u killin' me, boo.