yes!
you are heading toward the 'riding toward the sunset with a giant cowboy hat in front of majestic mountains' kind of better place
― 1994 ball boy (Karl Malone), Thursday, 27 August 2015 14:32 (nine years ago) link
yeah this gon be gud
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Thursday, 27 August 2015 16:30 (nine years ago) link
all my best hoos
― 龜, Thursday, 27 August 2015 16:39 (nine years ago) link
ugh pb
do like mountains tho, head for the mts
― deejerk reactions (darraghmac), Thursday, 27 August 2015 16:40 (nine years ago) link
"i don't need you to believe me. it's just over."
I can't think of anything more liberating to say/think/feel. GL Hoos
― Gett Off, Eileen (WilliamC), Thursday, 27 August 2015 19:01 (nine years ago) link
<3 Hoos
― Hammer Smashed Bagels, Friday, 28 August 2015 16:45 (nine years ago) link
you're far away now, two time zones west
I did it all right, but only after doing all of it (and then some) wrong, and I got no one to blame but this yours-truly fuckin asshole, 2.5 years since
I miss you more than the one who left months ago, more by far, because some shit don't happen twice, but I own it cause I deserve it
and I'm still here.
― slothroprhymes, Sunday, 30 August 2015 02:42 (nine years ago) link
hey, it's been five years
(very mel allen voice) how about that
― mookieproof, Wednesday, 2 December 2015 05:14 (eight years ago) link
i am 100% over you so why did i have a dream that was equal parts vivid and mundane last nite that involved me just hanging out with you and being given a tour of your new apartment for what seemed like hours
― gr8080, Thursday, 3 December 2015 20:02 (eight years ago) link
i sometimes have those too. somewhere in our subconscious they're still floating around, even though our waking brains thought they had been compartmentalized and forgotten.
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i'm not sure if the five year anniversary is a happy one or a sad one, but i hope it's the former, or at least that it went better than the 1 year anniversary did.
― Karl Malone, Thursday, 3 December 2015 20:05 (eight years ago) link
http://brokenships.la
― mookieproof, Saturday, 13 February 2016 00:42 (eight years ago) link
you owned books by jack donovan and had terrible taste but at the end of the day you were just a total asshole.
― The times they are a changing, perhaps (map), Monday, 25 December 2017 05:59 (six years ago) link
you're 53 and you left the mormon church years ago but you're still mormon as fuck, lying to everyone who isn't a blood relative, getting upset when i use swear words, making recipes which feature cream of mushroom soup, putting mayonnaise in your guacamole.
did i mention you owned books by jack donovan? you fetishized violence but didn't know anything about it you entitled ditzy cunt.
you kicked me out with nothing on a monday night when it was 20 degrees outside because i told you i was planning on breaking up with you when i got a job. and you accused me of being the mean one. go fuck yourself forever and ever. i will never go to burning man in remembrance of you.
― The times they are a changing, perhaps (map), Monday, 25 December 2017 17:40 (six years ago) link
Okay what the actual dickens *is* going on here
― infinity (∞), Monday, 25 December 2017 18:18 (six years ago) link
Map <3
― remember the lmao (darraghmac), Monday, 25 December 2017 18:39 (six years ago) link
just googled Jack Donovan o_O there's always one more bottom feeding right wing men's rights bullshit artistsorry you're going through this but honestly anyone who would read that....
― Joan Digimon (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Monday, 25 December 2017 18:39 (six years ago) link
i doubt he even read much of it though to be fair it is completely unreadable. thanks guys. i'm in a much better place. ya'll know stevie d. he is the sweetest guy and a total saint for letting me stay with him for a bit. going back "home" across the country on friday. another start from scratch, the third in five years or so. feeling good about this one though. decent mental health, feeling more myself than ever. i know what i want from life. cheers and peace.
― The times they are a changing, perhaps (map), Monday, 25 December 2017 19:00 (six years ago) link
Best wishes matt. Stevie d is indeed the best.
― treeship 2, Monday, 25 December 2017 19:02 (six years ago) link
best wishes, map<3even though these are difficult days the recipes featuring cream of mushroom soup and the mayonnaise in the guacamole made me lol
― estela, Monday, 25 December 2017 19:20 (six years ago) link
:)
― The times they are a changing, perhaps (map), Monday, 25 December 2017 21:55 (six years ago) link
sorry yr going through this matt. good luck.
― call all destroyer, Tuesday, 26 December 2017 02:22 (six years ago) link
wishing you the best, the initial "dodged a bullet imo" in this thread seems appropriate here as well
― sleeve, Tuesday, 26 December 2017 02:27 (six years ago) link
mayo in guac is the devil, go in peace map
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 26 December 2017 03:52 (six years ago) link
love you vegemitegrrl
― The times they are a changing, perhaps (map), Tuesday, 26 December 2017 08:40 (six years ago) link
<3
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 26 December 2017 18:27 (six years ago) link
making recipes which feature cream of mushroom soup, putting mayonnaise in your guacamole.
this is triggering memories of my upthread ex's family, but you are awesome, and go in pizza! if you ever visit the SF Bay, I owe ya!
― sarahell, Tuesday, 26 December 2017 19:55 (six years ago) link
map rules y'all
― the masseduction of lauryn hill (Stevie D(eux)), Wednesday, 27 December 2017 02:02 (six years ago) link
ty for being the awesome guy to help through a breakup <3
― mh, Wednesday, 27 December 2017 05:32 (six years ago) link
sometimes i still miss her so much
― you shoulda killfiled me last year (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 4 January 2018 14:30 (six years ago) link
Hey nv
― remember the lmao (darraghmac), Thursday, 4 January 2018 14:52 (six years ago) link
<3 to you NV
― Benson and the Jets (ENBB), Thursday, 4 January 2018 15:23 (six years ago) link
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 4 January 2018 16:37 (six years ago) link
you thought 4ndrew sulliv4n was brilliant. you always chatted him up whenever you saw him out walking his dogs. one time you guys stopped right in the very narrow entrance to the gym locker room for a conversation. i squeezed by to go work out, which is what you're supposed to fucking do at a gym. you were one of those annoying queens who couldn't see the gym as anything other than a social club.
― The times they are a changing, perhaps (map), Friday, 12 January 2018 19:07 (six years ago) link
misogynistic gays with daddy issues, fuck off 4 lyfe
― The times they are a changing, perhaps (map), Friday, 12 January 2018 19:09 (six years ago) link
let me just say that you have always seemed like an awesome dude
and also most of these anecdotes make me want to go screaming for the hills
― mh, Friday, 12 January 2018 19:33 (six years ago) link
Missed this before, 💜Matt
― very stabbable gaius (wins), Friday, 12 January 2018 19:35 (six years ago) link
aw u too boo
― The times they are a changing, perhaps (map), Friday, 12 January 2018 23:56 (six years ago) link
Today is 5th wedding anniversary.
My last 3 wedding anniversaries (including today) - two years ago: on my way home from work my wife calls me upset as the cat has gone into a catatonic state with hugely dilated pupils. This lasts for a week - during which we start discussing putting the cat down as he is not eating, sleeping, or drinking fluids - we take the cat to the vet a few times and visit a veterinarian neurologist, none of them have a clue other than it is something neurological. The cat eventually suddenly snaps out of it, never for the conditions to reoccur.
Last year: I have a doctor's appointment as I have been having numbness of the extremities, chest pain and tightness, sweating, tachycardia, trouble breathing etc. I have a panic attack in the doctor's room. Wife has a meeting at work.
This year: wake up in my new place for the first time having separated from my wife yesterday. This is by far the least shitty of the last 3 anniversaries ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
― khat person (jim in vancouver), Thursday, 1 February 2018 21:56 (six years ago) link
― mookieproof, Thursday, 1 February 2018 21:58 (six years ago) link
fight the good fight
― Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 1 February 2018 22:00 (six years ago) link
We are going to hang out tonight and watch riverdale and eat some edibles
― khat person (jim in vancouver), Thursday, 1 February 2018 22:01 (six years ago) link
Ah Jim. Sorry.
― Alderweireld Horses (darraghmac), Thursday, 1 February 2018 22:07 (six years ago) link
I'm doing surprisingly well, and there is very little acrimony :)
― khat person (jim in vancouver), Thursday, 1 February 2018 22:09 (six years ago) link
thanks for the kind words
Realness. Very glad to hear you woke up ok man <3
― Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 1 February 2018 22:14 (six years ago) link
<3 glad yr doing ok & that it is not super-acrimonious
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 1 February 2018 22:38 (six years ago) link
sorry man, big changes are hard
― mom tossed in kimchee (quincie), Thursday, 1 February 2018 22:52 (six years ago) link
How many times are you supposed to feel sure that you've found the person you'll spend the rest of your life with before you do?
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Tuesday, 27 February 2018 21:44 (six years ago) link
Ah hoos <3
― Simpson L. (darraghmac), Tuesday, 27 February 2018 21:45 (six years ago) link
― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 27 February 2018 21:47 (six years ago) link