'queening'/'facesitting' what the hell?

I was very surprised to find the vast majority of vids of a dude eating a chick's pussy are of this genre – which involves the woman in a dom role administering some very mild humiliation, gentle face slapping and spitting and some half-assed dirty talk, vinyl boots or something, and the guy in Martin Gore lite wear. I guess going down on a girl is hard to film but that hasn't stopped dozens of equally obscured sex acts from being filmed. I know porn ≠ reality but why is going down on a lady portrayed as a NASTY thing you have to be FORCED to do because you are a LOWLY SLAVE? Is going down viewed by so many people as intrinsically humiliating? If there are other interests in it, why isn't there other porn of it?
Also, "queening"?

There's plenty of pretty vanilla cocksucking portrayals, you know? In addition to the ones with the choking and dick-slapping and fake-eyelashes-shot-off-with-jizz ones.

WORST of all the dudes in these videos do NOT seem into it at all, probably because of the artifice + being sat on
in conclusion porn is boring and shitty

hmm looks like I misused the word 'artifice,' I guess I meant because of how ridic and artificial the situation is, totally look like they're waiting to cash a paycheck

first page of search results would seem to refute this but er

idk GIS for queening is a lot of dom stuff on my end

going that way round, yeah, i meant i just typed 'cunnilingus' into a video site.

what board is this on again

ILTMI

i meant i just typed 'cunnilingus' into a video site

yeah see that didn't really work for me? ???

there have been other genres of porn in which the predominant relationship dynamic is dominance vs. submission/humiliation, where I would have thought "gee, why can't people just enjoy this one as equals, ya know? just working together in the mutual pursuit of pleasure?"

yes it's truly confusing

idk GIS for queening is a lot of dom stuff on my end

clue is in the question

I googled CBT and got lots of pictures of girls in high heels treading on nutsacks instead of caressing balls with tongues?!

oh you

i don't watch porn nearly enough, but this sounds pretty awesome tbh

porn is so weird

I have never been able to get off on straight porn only girl-girl. That James Deen guy we were talking about on another thread is pretty good though from what little I've seen.

This was amusing to me at the time so I will share. I had literally never once searched for porn online until homo2 brought it up once in a chatz session last year and there was talk of uporn or something similar. Until then it had never (not even once) occurred to me to do so. I guess I just assumed that it would all be expensive or something. idk.

I tries watching some of that James Deen guy after that thread, couldn't get more than 30 seconds in, it was just too aggro.

"that looks like a lot of work" is usually my first thought when watching modern pron

the vast majority of vids of a dude eating a chick's pussy are of this genre

I watch nearly enough porn and this just isn't the case

ok I guess I took a tiny and inaccurate sampling and got sucked into some rabbit hole

i would say the vast majority would be depictions of it as something that happens for no less than 45 and no more than 150 seconds and only ever immediately before penetrative intercourse

yeah I guess I meant the majority of vids that are devoted exclusively to a dude eating pussy, like the act as the star of the show

Believe it or not, a lot of dudes are into this.
Hence the porn portraying it.

James Deen eats excellent pussy! He smiles when he does it. I love Deeno. But on the other hand, a lot of a certain kind of sex videos is "(X) is your punishment" whether you're being 'forced' to go down on a woman or man, there are faux-consensual and faux-forced videos of every type!

James Deen's blog makes me laugh: "I banged so and so today. She has a beautiful ass! I can't believe I get paid for sex" rinse, repeat. But I can see how some of his stuff may come off as too aggressive.

Man, women love James Deen. He's all over my tumblr feed. Has anyone seen his Public Disgrace videos on Kink.com? That man is sadistic. It's pretty hot.

I'm too cheap to get a subscription but I've seen some clips! :)

"@JamesDeen: A gentleman will always hold a ladies hair when she is giving him a blow-j #pornoromance"

Okay I am kinda starting to like him too now after reading his silly tweets!

He quoted bikini kill last week. :)

!!!

wait facesitting is supposed to involve domination/humiliation? i thought it was just about me being lazy and not wanting to get up

Facesitting is just one of a few ways to engage in cunnilingus, imo. I guess some people relish the dom/humiliation aspect of it, but everyone else just enjoys it as another way to twist two bodies around each other.

I keep trying to rewrite that Harvey Danger song into "Face Sitta", please help

i'm not sick but i'm not well
and i'm so hot
cause someone's sitting on my face

paranoia paranoia everybody's coming to sit on my face

been around the world and found that only submissives are queening

lol

'Queening' is new to me. Facesitting less so.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Facesitting

wikipedia seems to be using it as a dom fetish term
I always thought sitting on a dude's face was a stupid position for that because my legs get tired really fast. I feel like I have to not crush the guy's face and worrying 'am I suffocating this guy?' is a big distraction. Plus I really only have one or two physical positions in which I can actually get off and that sure ain't one of them.

Cosign on all of that, Crabbs! Too stressful for me.

yes

spent a long time w/someone for whom this was the only position - not a dom thing at all for her, she just found it inestimably better than any other thing

huh

'Queening' is new to me. Facesitting less so.

― sive gallus et mulier (Michael White), Tuesday, July 31, 2012 10:56 AM (9 hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

braggin'

http://www.royal.gov.uk/List%20Images/Homepage%20relaunch/The%20Queen%20in%20Green.jpg

http://femdomartwork.net/femdom-facesitting-art/2/japanese-femdom-ass-smothering-artwork.jpg

haha pvmic

Sometimes special furniture is used, such as a "queening stool" or "smotherbox".

NEW BAND NAME

yeah I was thinking the same thing, why isn't there some brutal noisescape outfit called SMOTHERBOX

outkast - smotherboxxx/the love below

I always thought sitting on a dude's face was a stupid position for that because my legs get tired really fast. I feel like I have to not crush the guy's face and worrying 'am I suffocating this guy?' is a big distraction. Plus I really only have one or two physical positions in which I can actually get off and that sure ain't one of them.

― Crabbits, Tuesday, July 31, 2012 8:56 PM (Yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Cosign on all of that, Crabbs! Too stressful for me.

― she started dancing to that (Finefinemusic), Tuesday, July 31, 2012 9:03 PM (Yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

yes

― (✿◠‿◠) (ENBB), Tuesday, July 31, 2012 9:22 PM (Yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

bummer! it is my preferred position most definitely (and not just cause i'm lazy). no worries of getting crushed. tho i guess it's more chest/neck-sitting, so maybe i'm not on the right page

idk man maybe I'm doing it wrong, like trying to preserve some imaginary forcefield of safety around the dude but still close enough for contact
it takes a lot of effort because it's not actually sitting but like nervous hovering
but maybe
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Za5CtKBkJOE

i'll ask my gf if she has the same worries. it's v comfortable for me, no pain

but again, the sitting isn't directly on my face it's my upper chest/neck. i might just not be hardcore enough for real facesitting.

I've liked it the few times it's happened with a girl and myself, but those times were brief due to simple positioning issues.

Crouching over a partner's face could be tough on the hamstrings, calves and knees, but as zachlyon mentions where there's chest or neck sitting and both people are moving to kind of meet in the middle I figure it's probably less stressful(?).

Personally I find this more erotic if I can feel pressure from the sitter. If somehow I started suffocating I'd soon let them know about it.