Thread When You Look at Naked Photos of You & Your Last Lover (Or, Ex) Together

OK. I'm about to jump off a bridge.

(Not gonna jump off a bridge.) But, in the spirit of this thread: Holy Fuck, that was depressing. I was just cleaning up my desktop. Jesus Christ.

Sorry, I always delete that shit.

were these photoes taken before or after u slayed him?

I never delete "that shit". I don't think it's "shit" either. Not that I look at it, ever really, but I prefer having conserved it over not having it? Still been part of my life, nothing to be ashamed of iirc.

But not worth jumping off a bridge about tbh

Wait, people actually do this?

Ew.

Actually do what? Save photos from the past, or jump from bridges?

Take photos of themselves naked.

Oh that. Yes, people do.

Is that ew?

I don't think so. More like "seemed like a good idea at the time" tbh

I can think of nothing less sexy than looking at a naked photo of myself. Humans are weird.

^

(I mean me, obv.)

There have been times when my ex and I took photos of us together, naked. I wouldn't say it is "sexy", but it happened nonetheless.

Humans are thoroughly weird though, granted.

I understand why people would take naked photos of themselves to send to their bf/gf, but what's the appeal of taking naked photos of you with your bf/gf? do people actually save the photos as keepsakes of their relationship, or is it a drunken impulse that usually results in deleting the offending photos from their phones/hard drives as soon as they've sobered up? I feel like people only do this because they want to "make their own porn" but they feel too sheepish to take it to the next level and shoot a sex tape.

yeah, people are weird.

I am just boggling at the concept of this thread

The biggest question I have is "who took the picture"

"i wanna see how cute we look together lemme see lemmOH JESUS MY EYES TURN IT OFF "

To clarify: in my case it had nothing to do with "making porn", rather it was that I was in a long distance relationship. With the ex I was, and am now again (international) too. Makes a diff tbh. But the thread title refers to two lovers *together* on a photograph. Yes, that has happened. Defo. Why? I have no idea. It just did.

this is really not weird at all

I get that 'I do not like pictures of myself' is a p common sentiment but it does not have to be all powerful. like there can be a lot else going on with a picture.

O. T. M.

i wd say if there's a weirdness the weirdness is that we can't bear to look at pictures of ourselves.

but that's not weird so much as (torn between sad and fucked)

and i wonder what's the "I" that hates the sight of its(elf/own body)

and why

I understand the following:

- let me take nude sexy photos of my other half because rowr
- let me send a naughty nude picture of myself to my other half because rowr

I don't get this:

- hey let's get naked and take a sexy picture together

This may be my hang up and mine alone but there is a level of premeditated thought there that simply never has occurred to me and is likely never to occur again now that I've read this thread title.

I mean generally speaking there is some other goal at hand when I'm naked with a romantic partner that is gonna preclude a photo shoot (including non sexual things like the morning shower relay, etc)

Four ppl in a shower with a baton. Niiiice.

*loofah

http://slog.thestranger.com/files/2008/07/spencer_nude.jpg

whoa. but re. the thread topic, DON'T DO THIS.

what, don't look?

yeah don't look at naked photos of your ex because it is depressing, it reminds you of the intimacy you once had with this person and lost

I don't get this:

- hey let's get naked and take a sexy picture together

Different strokes...

there's nothing in the OP that says sexy picture either imo

yeah don't look at naked photos of your ex because it is depressing, it reminds you of the intimacy you once had with this person and lost

― Treeship, zondag 12 mei 2013 19:58 (48 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Au contraire tbh. Can be very nice to look at them, and remind you of the good times you had. But it all depends if you are over it or not?

this is really not weird at all

there's nothing in the OP that says sexy picture either imo

lol "hey honey, I had an idea for this year's Christmas card photo"

i don't mind coming across (:/) naked pictures of exes at all, i mean, unless we broke up like a week ago. then of course it's upsetting. but then everything's upsetting.

i don't think i have naked pictures with any exes and it would be a hurdle for me cuz i hate the way i look but that has a lot of the telltale signs of an m.p.

Pop your top off love, I have an idea

i came across CERTAIN photos. i am not sure what to do with them.

i cried, slightly.

i deleted the photos and 'their' phone number.

i'm not sure why. i love looking at myself naked with other naked people. i'm not kidding. i'm a little drunk. i am young and thin and beautiful in my CK underwear. i love being a little naked in University of Michigan dorms.

Cue someone trashing me and posting some naked fat guy. I just like taking photos of me and partners naked. It is awesome. Exceppt when things go south. Nothing matters. I just wanna smoke. Fucking hell. Like, I even remeber who it was those phtos of myself were with.

I mean, I do certainly remember. But... summer is near, I will live a block away from South U. I will do school on GOD MODE, and have so much sex. YES. YES. this is sooo easy and fun.

the University of Maryland, sorry.