Ah, first, I must thank you for fixing my typo. What credibility could I expect to garner with a mistake of this sort, eh?
You are correct to say that he is selfish. You have specifically told him that the platonic is unacceptable. That he is trying to maintain a close physical proximity shows that he enjoys the thoughts of re-enjoying the physical comforts that may once have been available. His motivation thusly seems to be a literal mental masturbation.
As he is making you an unwilling and un-enojoying partner in his sexual life, you have every reason to put a Doc Marten through his GI tract. I suggest that you try to avoid the prostate on your way up, thereby avoiding any possible accidental pleasure you may give him.
― Sigmund Freud (SiggyBaby), Monday, 3 March 2003 14:43 (twenty-three years ago)