friend troubles

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I have given a realy good friend everything i have, my heart, soul, and whatever else i can put into a friendship. Rescently, she has been well hooking up with this guy that i have been sleeping with for the past 9 months, i love him and told her that but she bruitally said, "you will get over it." what should i do? i have low self asteem and need reasurance that not speaking to her is the ight thing to do. It hurts beacause i have stoodby her through some of the worst times or our lives, times that she treated me like dog shit. but there was reason for it so i forgave her. i dont think i can do that this time. is that normal? What should i do, please help me. I'm 17 years old. Thankyou

― Catherine Hardy, Sunday, 2 October 2005 15:38 (twenty years ago)

three weeks pass...

this guy nor this girl have YOUR best interests at heart, and until you show the world to respect you, you will often find yourself in this situation. if this friend is a friend then she will make the effort to show it. if this guy wants you he wouldnt be with her. you need to sit back and start investing your time with people who appreciate it. DONT WAIT ON OTHERS - live your life whether they are in it or not!

― Leeanne (Leeanne), Saturday, 29 October 2005 06:58 (twenty years ago)

two months pass...

My friend and i have always been so close...up until about seventh grade...i have been there for her for a long time...but now when ever i try to talk to her,she doesnt listen...or says she is busy...when she isnt...she is always dressing in black and never wants to do anything with me...she goes on the internet and talks to guys she doesnt even know...i am so scared for her,i wish she went back to the way she was in like...5th or 4th grade,but i know i cant make her...i just wish she was happy again cause i know she isnt.

She writes down ways to die...i dont understand why she is doing this to me...this may not sound that serious but it really is...i love her like a sister and i dont want anything bad to happen to her.my relative is very ill and when i want to talk to a real friend i talk to her but it turns out she could give a rats ass what my problems are...i just want to know what i can do or say to her that will help her get out of this shell she has been trapped in for the past 3yrs. i know she is in there waiting to come out cause i can see it in her eyes...my friend...my sister...but i just need to know how to let her know that she doesnt have to be this way...please help me i would greatly appreciate it...

― Trinity Cooperr, Friday, 30 December 2005 06:52 (twenty years ago)

two weeks pass...

well me and my friend were realy close like and when ever we had a drink together she would say dont ever hurt me i luve u to bits and kisses me and hugs me alot and starts crying but she aint like it in frount of people and shes diffrent like one day she said she was porley in bed thats why she said she carnt text me and she dont want to speak or see anyone the next day she went to the pub so i texted her and said if ur to bad to talk or text me why u gone to the pub and she said wats it got to do with u and now she wont talk to me or 2 weeks now we had afight before and she always spoke the next day so i dont think its cause of that please help wat do i do and wats wrong lucy x

― lucy, Monday, 16 January 2006 16:25 (twenty years ago)

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