I dream last night that I ran into my ex-husband at the store, he was buying china, the china in the dream was blue and green. He keep saying she will like it. I ask him who was in buying the china for he said that he had got married. I congradulated him on his marriage. I also told him that the china that he was buying was ugly. He told me that the only colors that I like are silver and gold. Which I agreed with him. I said to him that now I can let people know about my special friend in my life. that it has been a year now since we've divorce. He ask me about the guy. I told him he works for the postoffice and he was really good too me. Then I woke up.
― Emily Thomas, Monday, 20 March 2006 18:37 (nineteen years ago)
one month passes...
I am not a brain surgeon or a neurologist, but from what I understand, the subconcsious mind has alot to do with our concsious mind, and vice versa, and that our memories of physical and emotional experiences can be accessed easily by both concsious and subconscious. Dreams, the way that I percieve them, are made up of memories and extremely minute consciousness, so memories are played out on a seemingly concsious level. Dont look at the word Memories as full events, if u experience anything, it goes into memory, like the touch of grass or the smell or roses, you know, physical experience, and emotional experience is also stored in memory. Now, this dream seems to be full of stored emotion, as marriage and divorce are very emotional experiences. An underlying urge to have knowledge of your ex-husband's affairs may be in play here, as anyone who still has a slight amount of care for the other person would wonder how the person is doing, and in more bitter cases, some would like to know how miserable the other person is. Divorce is a gut-wrenching experience, and like porcelain, relationships sometimes break, and when you repair yourself, you can still feel where the the seams are from the break, and becoming reminded can be very easy. This information may be a no-brainer, as if Im stating the obvious, but understanding why you are having a dream can be tricky if you don't look at all that is involved with the dream.
― andrew fort (sgtdisturbed), Friday, 21 April 2006 07:12 (nineteen years ago)