I often have dreams that I catch my husband cheating on me with other women. Usually these are women I know, but not always. If I am in a bar in the dream and walk up to him, he and the other woman act as if it is no big deal that they are together and even laugh at me when I get upset at my husband. Other times I find out that he has already cheated on me and I confront the woman and end up in a physical fight. The women that I know in my dream are not even women that I have ever thought he found attractive before, but usually for some other reason I have a dislike to the women. There has been a couple of dreams about him and his ex wife, but in my dream I never saw this, I just knew that she wanted to continue with the relationship.
I usually wake up feeling jealous & hurt and tell him of the dream. He is upset of course because he feels I must not trust him to continue with these kinds of dreams.
― Brenda Crom, Thursday, 26 February 2004 03:14 (twenty-one years ago)