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Dreaming of a Relative who passed away 22 years ago

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My grandfather and I were very close before he passed away when I was seven. My 4 yr old has even spoke about playing with him and describes him with details I've never discussed with her. I dream about him whenever I'm troubled. My son has obstetrical brachial plexus palsy and requires surgery. Two nights ago, I dreamt of my grandfather. He put his hands on my shoulders and kept saying "promise me that you'll make my grandson healthy" until, in tears, I finally said, "I promise." I woke up with my pillow wet with tears. Is my grandfather coming to me in my dreams or is it just my imagination running wild?

― Kristie Masilek, Thursday, 11 March 2004 18:39 (twenty-two years ago)

Grandparents opperate in a special zone in our relationship matrix. the represent both authority (they had it over your folks) and fragility. You want to protect your child, yet you feel that his illness/the doctors have auhority over you. All I can say is that you are a woman with a lot of love, that Grandparents don't ever leave you and that I hope your child is ok in the end.

― lukey (Lukey G), Thursday, 18 March 2004 17:00 (twenty-two years ago)

one year passes...
It's either your imagination OR your Grandfathers former "familiar" impersonationg him.

― Heave Ho, Wednesday, 27 July 2005 00:46 (twenty-one years ago)


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