Dreaming of a Relative who passed away 22 years ago

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My grandfather and I were very close before he passed away when I was seven. My 4 yr old has even spoke about playing with him and describes him with details I've never discussed with her. I dream about him whenever I'm troubled. My son has obstetrical brachial plexus palsy and requires surgery. Two nights ago, I dreamt of my grandfather. He put his hands on my shoulders and kept saying "promise me that you'll make my grandson healthy" until, in tears, I finally said, "I promise." I woke up with my pillow wet with tears. Is my grandfather coming to me in my dreams or is it just my imagination running wild?

Kristie Masilek, Thursday, 11 March 2004 18:39 (twenty-one years ago)

Grandparents opperate in a special zone in our relationship matrix. the represent both authority (they had it over your folks) and fragility. You want to protect your child, yet you feel that his illness/the doctors have auhority over you. All I can say is that you are a woman with a lot of love, that Grandparents don't ever leave you and that I hope your child is ok in the end.

lukey (Lukey G), Thursday, 18 March 2004 17:00 (twenty-one years ago)

one year passes...
It's either your imagination OR your Grandfathers former "familiar" impersonationg him.

Heave Ho, Wednesday, 27 July 2005 00:46 (nineteen years ago)


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