I keep having sex dreams going to sex websites. can someone help. I'm in 6th grade.
― Riley Walsh, Sunday, 6 August 2006 20:36 (eighteen years ago)
Crud, you're at that age when your sex-drive is powering up, isn't it? Shitty for you. It's going to become more a problem, as you've obviously choosen to define it as a problem. Futher, as you've chosen to define it as a problem, you were probable trained to define it as a problem by those around you, which means that if you acutally bring it up, it will be a problem. You are in a no-win senario.
I'd advise getting a hold of an encyclopedia and learning about sex from that - nothing kills my boners like the understanding of what is actually going on - at least, it worked when I was young.
Oh, and by the way, this isnt' really a problem. You've merely been programmed to think it is. I'd advise against taking joy in the fact that doing this is a forbidon activity and just in the activity itself. Taking pleasure in the forbidon nature of it is likely to cause problems as once it becomes mundane - which it must, provided you do not die within the next four years - once it becomes mundane, the pleasure found from the forbiddon will be gone and you'll find sex lacking - leading to trouble with yourself and your partners.
As far as the dreams themselves go; these are for the most part just garbage data floating around your head, waiting to be processed and done so in a random fashion. Emotionally, you find sex delightful, so consicouly you're repressing it, and that self-aggression is just adding to the emotionally delight... uggg... Sex really is not that astounding, emotionally or logically. There's a damn lot of hype surrounding it - so don't buy into it. Instead, get the facts assemebled as quickly as you can.
― zeta, Monday, 7 August 2006 02:47 (eighteen years ago)