Ok i'm single and have been for a while by choice... i keep having these dreams where i'm so unbelievably happy in love.. i've never been in love and seem to always be in meaningless relationships.. is this my unconscious telling me that i'm never going to fall in love?I'm really kind of worried about this thanks for you help!
― jennifer carter, Wednesday, 22 November 2006 14:57 (eighteen years ago)
Hi Jennifer,
My name is Dr. Freud. You may recognize me from lists of history's greatest figures.
I appreciate your message and actually think you already have a lot of insight into your own problem.
You strike me as someone who spends a lot of time on the Internet because you lack social abilities. And this is the sort of thing that people will never tell you, they'll just give you a certain look -- you'll recognize it soon. They will blow you off, or not return your phone calls... that sort of thing.
When you dream and feel happy, this is really the only time you've ever been happy in a relationship. And I'm willing to bet that you feel just as happy when you're running away from your problems on the "Net."
To truly bring you happiness, we're going to have to coax that dream state into your daily life. When you see a man who interests you, talk to him for a moment, then share your most recent dreams about the love you're feeling. Tell him you'd like to pull him into your world, and only good feelings can come of it.
The way to erase the discrepancy between your real life and your dream life is to pull the two together -- and erase the distinction altogether. That way your feelings of love and happiness can last longer than just one night at a time.
And finally, my advice for any aspiring lady: get a fresh new perm. You'd look hot in curls.
Dr. Freud
freudski@gmail.com
― Dr. Freud (Confounded), Wednesday, 22 November 2006 15:50 (eighteen years ago)