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This is Dr. Phil. It sounds like you're going through a troubling time, but it seems that you have a lot of backbone and can really pull through this. Firstly, the dreams mean nothing. Until you find the perfume on his neck or the unexpected red bump, you won't know for certain what he's up to.

Bev and Brian, what cute names for a couple. Four months is a very short time to be married. Were there sex problems from the very beginning, or is this a recent change? You sound to me like a couple that didn't talk over your sex lives before you tied the knot. Is Brian the go-getter type, who'd like you to be a sweet and submissive Sally in the sack? Or does he want you to play tiger when you are cavorting in the lusty jungle? Dr. Phil knows that a good sex life means switching it up -- and I mean that in the widest sense of the word. Keep your options as a couple open -- WIDE open.

Beverly, I'd like to see you have a talk with your husband. Don't bring up infidelity, because it is only in your dreams so far. Bring up the way you want him to make you feel. Tell him about the last time he made you feel that way. Tell him how he could take you there again. If he responds positively to your talk, this is a great sign. If he acts disinterested, it may be time to give his genitals a once-over while he's asleep.

Here's hoping this helps you GET REAL!

Thanks for being a Dr. Phil fan, Beverly!

Dr. Phil

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