2 main dreams that bug me

ok the first one...im NOT in a plane(i do hate planes so i wonder if this dream is because of this)
im always on the ground watching it fly..then all of a sudden it loses control and crashes meters from me or my family...no one gets hurt (on ground) its turned into now..i am watching the sky. i see planes they are shooting at each other i get scared a start telling everyone too watch out and then a plane part falls within meters of us..and i have always dreamed of ghosts in my room//i dream it still now ..but the room is always the one i grew up in..i had one this week and in my dream i was lying in bed and it tryed to take over my body. i have never dreamt of ghosts in any of my other places i have lived in...most of my plane dreams occur on this property too. i dont understand cause i didnt have a really bad childhood