I dreamed my boyfriend told me he was gay the day before our wedding and then he cancelled the wedding and moved out,I was then taken out of my house by his sister at 3 am to collect someone from the airport and the whole time feeling devastated,what could this mean we are due to get married july 2004 thanks katie
― Katie Beckett, Sunday, 4 April 2004 13:26 (twenty-one years ago)
I understand. I am getting married three days from now on April 16, 2004 to my fiancée Jaclyn. I have heard this before from women. This man is the "one”, you feel it. You care deeply for this guy so much that you love him no matter what.
What this dream suggests is that you possibly may have been hurt emotionally or physically before in a relationship (I hope that I am wrong). This could also suggest that you have had hard relations with your father growing up, or are currently having troubled relations with him.
Trusting men is hard for you to do; it takes a while for you to "open up" to a man. Because it took a while to fully open up to the one and you are not fully trusting with men you are scared that your fiancée will leave you and abandon you like "the others". There is nothing wrong with that.
The truth of the matter is that he has been there for you, even possibly through something major in your life. The fact that his sister took you to pick up someone at the airport (could it be him?) in your dreams suggests that she too sees the real love you and your man have by always being there for each other when it counts. Because of this trust you developed a close relationship with her as well (or closer if you knew her before you met “the one”).
In this dream it shows she could not depend on her brother as well at the time (moved out) and her brother also let her down by letting you down (by him not marring you). Because of this close relationship she has built with you, she chooses you, not someone else to go to the airport with in your dreams (if it’s picking up her brother she could have gone alone to talk to him). You both are hurting. She wants you to comfort her just as much as you want her to comfort you.
Because you choose to go to the airport even though you were emotionally hurt shows that you also know that his sister is dependable and will always be there for you during tough times as well (like having to face him at the airport?), just like you have always been there for her.
Also, in your dream you now need to depend on somebody else by having his sister there for you because you feel the need to fill the “void” of losing “him” by receiving genuine caring from someone to help make you feel alive again.
This dream strongly suggests hope. It shows that you actually don’t need to go somewhere or to someone else to find and fill this void. Someone is already there to fill this void for you as I type.
The “solution” is right here for you, has been here for you, and will always be here for you. Just like his sister, “He” is there, you know it. Just as you know that he will be there for you in July of this year, his hand in your hand, on your wedding day.
Go with that knowledge and take it into your marriage. If you truly love each other as strongly as this dream tells me your marriage will be wonderful and something truly special. Take care Katie.
-Justin
― Justin Norman, Wednesday, 14 April 2004 04:12 (twenty-one years ago)
four years pass...
Um...........Is this the same Justin Norman who killed his wife Jaclyn with a hatchet and jumped off a freeway overpass in 2007 after they'd been married for a few years? It wouldn't be the first murder-suicide perpetrated by an ilxor, but still -- freeeeeeeeaky stuff.
Srsly though, can someone confirm that the Justin & Jaclyn Norman who got married on April 16, 2004 are the same couple who were involved in the crime? My morbid curiosity is killin' me.
― dromedary farsi (unregistered), Monday, 17 November 2008 08:01 (sixteen years ago)