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Chris V (Chris V), Friday, 23 January 2004 15:32 (twenty-two years ago)

I wrote this to a friend after I saw it way back in March:

"On one hand, I found All the Real Girls to be somewhat uneven. The older characters -- Leland and Elvira -- seem underdeveloped, more like sketches. And though I appreciate Green's impulse toward a loose, documentary style of filmmaking, I think his films could benefit from more judicious editing. There's an early scene with Feng-Shui on Leland's shoulders as they walk silently through a field -- the cut to the scene is oddly abrupt, and the camera lingers on them for way too long. These moments add up.

On the other hand, the movie had a profound impact on me, like almost nothing else I've seen. I dwelled on it all last week, writing about it several times in my journal, and coming to new understandings each time. And I saw it again the other day. I'm still thinking about it.

I think it affected me so strongly because it worked on two levels. As a movie fan, I absolutely love anything that's naturalistic and episodic. I smiled at scenes like the conversation between Noel and Bust-Ass about food expanding in the stomach -- it's such a goofy dialogue, but so right on with its small-talk awkwardness. And, as Green says, moments like these are nothing that a "witty screenwriter" could've come up with, or else it'd feel contrived. (He says this, in NewCity, about Noel whispering "hellohellohello" in Paul's ear -- Zooey did it spontaneously.)

So I can champion the film in a "more movies like this, please!" way. But it also emotionally devastated me, which I think has to do with the psychological complexity of the characters. You can see how genuinely Paul and Noel love each other, how well they get along -- but they are in totally different places in their lives, and they can't understand how significantly that affects their relationship. The tragedy of their story is that they are the "best boy and girl for each other" at that moment, and that they do still have feelings for each other, despite everything that happens.

Where these two levels come together is in remarkable scenes like the motel room -- from the tension-diffusing pillow fight to Noel's soul-baring story about her scar. If that's not among the most remarkable performances I've seen from an actress, I don't know what is -- in ten minutes, she goes from nervousness (about being there) to playfulness (the pillow fight) to pain (the scar story) and then joyful love (at being able to share it with Paul). She cries and laughs at the same time. She expresses volumes with just the way her mouth moves. She says lines like, "Tip doesn't even know about this" in an off-handed way, as if she just thought to bring it up.

Now, I'll admit to finding parts of the film uniquely resonant because a) their relationship bears similarities to relationships I've had, and so certain scenes were more poignant than they otherwise might be, and b) Noel is totally my kinda gal (particularly since Zooey is so beautiful), and so I felt like I loved her, too. In other words, there's surely a subjective component to my feelings about the movie. Just so you know. But I can defend it all, too."

jaymc (jaymc), Friday, 23 January 2004 16:07 (twenty-two years ago)

Despite its flaws, it ended up as my favorite film of 2003.

jaymc (jaymc), Friday, 23 January 2004 16:08 (twenty-two years ago)

It killed me emotionally too. The soundtrack helped with that. To me it seemed like a love story that was truly believable. It stirred up all sorts of emotions in me. And your right on with how their relationship bore similarities to some of yours. Mine too. I think I'm going to purchase this today.

Chris V (Chris V), Friday, 23 January 2004 16:19 (twenty-two years ago)

And your right on with how their relationship bore similarities to some of yours.

HOW THE FUCK DO YOU KNOW?

jaymc (jaymc), Friday, 23 January 2004 16:20 (twenty-two years ago)

Haha!

@d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 23 January 2004 17:16 (twenty-two years ago)

haha, my sentence structures are bad.

Chris V (Chris V), Friday, 23 January 2004 17:34 (twenty-two years ago)

I meant that some of it reminded me of past relationships i had. jeez.

Chris V (Chris V), Friday, 23 January 2004 17:37 (twenty-two years ago)

I know, dude ;)

jaymc (jaymc), Friday, 23 January 2004 17:38 (twenty-two years ago)

Jaymc, I know we don't often agree on much, but that part about naturalism and spontaneity is spot on. I guess those qualities get attributed to perhaps too many films, but there is something so easy about the feel of Gordon Green's films, a weird sort of favoring of unconscious human logic over traditional "movie logic". I guess that's why I liked the Lynne Ramsay comparison, too.

@d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 23 January 2004 17:44 (twenty-two years ago)

I think Manic came in the mail today. how is that.

Chris V (Chris V), Friday, 23 January 2004 17:46 (twenty-two years ago)

We don't agree on much? To be honest, I hadn't noticed -- I mean, apart from recently, with you hating 21 Grams.

jaymc (jaymc), Friday, 23 January 2004 17:51 (twenty-two years ago)

This movie is great. More emotionally real than most relationship movies. A peotic intellgient movie about emotional maturity. I definitely preferred it to Green's previous, George Washington, which seemed like Gummo + Terrence Mallick = not as good either.

theodore fogelsanger, Friday, 23 January 2004 17:51 (twenty-two years ago)

Haven't seen Manic, although I've been interested in it. (Are you about to get on a Zooey kick?)

jaymc (jaymc), Friday, 23 January 2004 17:52 (twenty-two years ago)

i saw this just a few days ago. i liked it, but there was something callow about it (maybe intentional!)

i agree with jaymc that it needed tighter editing. Greene seems to put too much in there for it's own sake, and often it's just not interesting enough to stand on its own.

objections aside, it was at times very beautiful. and did i hear "Mogwai Fear Satan"? it sounded different.

(x-post: Greene poetic asides have the same akwardness as Malick's, and im not sure yet why i prefer one over the other)

ryan (ryan), Friday, 23 January 2004 17:52 (twenty-two years ago)

Yeah, Geo. Washington didn't do much for me, either. Where that film was perhaps too content to wander, ATRG benefited from an increased focus.

jaymc (jaymc), Friday, 23 January 2004 17:54 (twenty-two years ago)

Ryan -- I'm assuming you mean you prefer Malick's poetic asides?

jaymc (jaymc), Friday, 23 January 2004 17:56 (twenty-two years ago)

Thanks for reminding me of the Ramsay comparison I made. I couldn't remember if we already had a thread on All the Real Girls or not. (It's brief: TS: David Gordon Green vs. Lynne Ramsay)

jaymc (jaymc), Friday, 23 January 2004 17:59 (twenty-two years ago)

yes i do prefer malick, for the most part.

ryan (ryan), Friday, 23 January 2004 18:01 (twenty-two years ago)

Yep, thats FEAR SATAN. The remix version though. I think i'll pick up this soundtrack today as well.

I'm always on a Zooey kick. :)

Chris V (Chris V), Friday, 23 January 2004 18:24 (twenty-two years ago)

ok, i saw this movie on a complete fluke occurance. i was supposed to see irreversible at the gene siskel, but it was sold out. so my friend and i walked down to the esquire and hit all the real girls. i had never heard of david gordon green but my friend said that his influences were quite impressive. after i got out, alls i could do is say wow. i didnt know what hit me and i couldnt really express it in words.
i never got another chance to see it in the theaters, but it haunted me no other movie has. i looked online every day waiting for some news on its dvd release. i counted the days for it to be released for gods sake.
and when i finally watched it again, it broke my heart even more. i think i was just emotionally shocked the first time through, but the second time just broke me down to nothing. this movie is life, it is real. some people want an escape when they hit the multiplex, but that really doesnt do it for me. i want to see life. its just like brian cox says in adaptation in reply to charlie's question about movies having nothing happening in them. surely there are many movies where stuff like this occurs, look at film noir. for example, nothing really occurs in the maltese falcon, no one gets what they want, people die, and you are left with nothing. now, i am not saying that this doesnt happen in real-life, which it obviously does, but it is not the realism that i look for in a movie. i look for the tragic reality of life and human error and regret. this was shown best in the bar scene when our anti-hero was drunk and talking to mary-margaret. "have you ever seen an animal make a mistake?" god, what an amazing line. and it completely shows what paul feels... then the whole mug throwing. powerful stuff there.
surely there were some silly scenes and stuff, but that is real too. who doesnt have silly things happen to them?
dont even get me started on the format or the cinematography, because i could write a book about it. and the constant comic relief of bust-ass... sigh.
i have so musch more to say but i will stop now.

hands down, number one movie of the year for me.

todd swiss (eliti), Friday, 23 January 2004 21:45 (twenty-two years ago)

Thanks, Todd. (I directed this thread to his attn.)

jaymc (jaymc), Friday, 23 January 2004 22:33 (twenty-two years ago)

What do you mean, though, when you say "the format"?

jaymc (jaymc), Friday, 23 January 2004 22:37 (twenty-two years ago)

well, by format, i kinda meant how it was edited together in short, almost dreamlike snapshots. i mean, some shots were longer, but it seemed to jump around alot, showing a lot of different "shorter films" that could have almost stood by themselves, but lived together in perfect harmony. and when i first saw it in the theater, it caught me off guard, esp. the opening scene that almost says: ok, life is always moving and we are just going to peak in on these people's lives for a little while. it was voyueristic and beautiful at the same time.

todd swiss (eliti), Saturday, 24 January 2004 00:38 (twenty-two years ago)

three weeks pass...
REVIVED - Because I finally saw it.

I've just finished watching it -- moments ago. Perhaps I should give it some more time to sink in, but there are things that are bugging me that I want to get off my chest.

First off -- DGG himself. Having seen this and George Washington I can see why he's often compared to Malick. But let's not lose touch -- neither of the two features comes close to the brilliance of Badlands. It is this Malick film that, unfortunately, kept cropping up in my mind while watching ATRG.

There are a lot of good things to be said for the film. Certainly, he is one of the more interesting indie directors working today, and there's a lot of thought and craftsmanship in his films. The actors he works with (all unknown to me except for Zooey Deschanel) are all fantastic. It's always so refreshing to see great performances without the distraction of major-name stars.

My problem with the film -- perhaps problem is too strong at this stage -- let's say the thing that's sticking in my craw is that there's a certain un-evenness, or unbalance to the film. We're presented with a small town somewhere down south. As the film unfolds, I see a community of people that live pretty far removed (both literally and figuratively) from commercial interests and pop-culture influences. People are born and die in this community, or so it seems. There are a bunch of young men who do....what exactly do they do?...fix cars, sometimes work in a factory, hang around etc. All this is fine, however at times characters break out of that and start uttering dialog that really doesn't seem to fit. Bust-Ass talking about chaos theory, for one. (Don't forget that this is the same character that will later talk about food expanding in the stomach.) Another example that comes to mind is the scene in the bar -- where Paul tells this story to one of his ex-conquests (Heather McComb, I think) and she's dressed and acts like a woman I'd expect to run into in a bar on the upper east side of Manhattan. Every time one of these type of anomalies popped up, I was quickly removed from the flow and 'feeling' of the story. (A story, I should add, that I really enjoyed.)

I think DGG put too much into the screenplay. Was he not confident enough to allow the images and the action tell the story? Characters seem to have too much to say -- think of Badlands as a comparison. The scene in the hotel for example -- while Ms. Deschanel's performance was quite good, how did it add in any way to the character or story? It didn't -- DGG had the hotel scene, needed a scene of dialog, and out came this.

That's probably my biggest complaint with the film -- it's as if he had all these little ideas (and shots) in his mind and they all found their way into the film -- whether they belonged there or not. (I should add that I am a screenwriter and am guilty of doing the same things.) Somebody above described the older characters in the story as sketches -- a very fitting description. For all the soulful shots of Leland and Feng Shui (please!) you'd think that their relationship would bear more on the story, but it doesn't. Even Paul and his mom -- some nice scenes, but they come out of nowhere.

I realize I'm not doing a very good job of explaining myself.

Let me simplify -- DGG is a better director then he is a writer. I wish he would partner with a really good screenwriter because he is clearly interested in making quality films that are character rather than plot driven. Paul and Noel are such interesting characters -- if they just didn't have to talk so much (along with everybody else in that town.) I really felt like he had characters speak for a fear of silence.

Todd, above, commented on how it could have been a bunch of shorter films -- that's exactly right, and that's exactly my problem with it. Unlike George Washington, ATRG does center itself around a couple of characters and a story -- if only it had concentrated more on them and not wandered off needlessly.

Good film, talented director, but I don't think it's worthy of most of the gushing praise it has received.

BabyBuddha (BabyBuddha), Monday, 16 February 2004 03:32 (twenty-two years ago)

"Good film, talented director, but I don't think it's worthy of most of the gushing praise it has received"

I agree--it was definitely one of the more interesting films of the year, but still had quite a bit lacking. I agree with Buddha on the "trying to cram too much in it" thing--I normally love films that add little vignettes or seemingly insignificant additions that add so much to the overall atmosphere, but it seem a bit over-intellectualized and forced in this film (except i have to admit i loved the two-legged dog).

I think harmony korine pulls off the "little things" better in his films ("gummo" especially comes to mind--the bugs behind the picture frame the little kid takes off the wall, etc.)

but give DGG time--god, how old is this guy? he looked like he was about 14 in the "making of" documentary on the DVD. I'd love to see what he's doing in another 3-5 years (maybe an adaptation of bradford's "dogwalker"?)

jay blanchard (jay blanchard), Monday, 16 February 2004 16:12 (twenty-two years ago)

It's been a while since I've seen this film, so my memory may be a bit rusty. Like some others have mentioned, the film resonated with me personally because it bears a strong resemblance to my first relationship. This personal resonance is what made the film powerful for me and seems to be an oft-repeated sentiment from those who respond strongly (and positively) to the film. I don't think it's a perfect film (I thought Tip and a few other characters were somewhat underdeveloped, some cuts were abrupt, and I remain ambivalent about the ending). I agree that a few scenes are superfluous, but I find some of what Buddha calls inconsistencies or anomalies to be some of the real paradoxes and complexities of contemporary small town life. And I thought the dialogue in the hotel scene added to the soul-baring confessional nature of Paul and Noel's new intimacy.

As the film unfolds, I see a community of people that live pretty far removed (both literally and figuratively) from commercial interests and pop-culture influences...however at times characters break out of that and start uttering dialog that really doesn't seem to fit. Bust-Ass talking about chaos theory, for one. (Don't forget that this is the same character that will later talk about food expanding in the stomach.)

I found that entirely plausible. It reminded me of actual conversations I had with my first boyfriend and his friends. (I grew up in a mid-sized town in the midwest; my boyfriend was from the boonies about 45 minutes from the center of things--he lived in a farm house, fixed cars, drank tall-boys, routinely failed classes in school, made ignorant/misinformed comments all the time, but he also read books about science and philosophy and loved to talk those ideas with surprising sophistication.)

I really felt like he had characters speak for a fear of silence.

I think there are moments when the dialogue springs from the characters' fear of silence. The characters themselves are very self-conscious and I think much of the chatter comes from that. Maybe there are instances where I'd agree that silence would be called for, but I can't think of any off-hand.

I didn't feel that any of the wandering detracted from the central relationship's development, though perhaps some of the side-stories could have been more carefully drawn. Also, I think that much of the gushing praise comes in anticipation of what DGG will do in the future because this film shows so much potential. I can't wait for whatever's next.

alexandra s, Monday, 16 February 2004 16:41 (twenty-two years ago)

What's next

jaymc (jaymc), Tuesday, 17 February 2004 02:54 (twenty-two years ago)

Alexandra -- point well taken. I must admit that I was born and raised in Manhattan, so everything I know about small-town America I learned from the movies. (Ok, and novels.)

Listening to the commentary on the DVD confirmed some of what I thought -- DGG and Paul Schneider mention that a lot of the ideas and dialog were things that they had been saving up for years. It showed.

I have to admit I'm a bit nervous about how he will handle Confederacy of Dunces -- is he fit for the challenge? My god -- that's one of the most brilliant comic novels ever -- there will be a lot of people pretty pissed off if he screws that up. Is he strong enough to pull the reins on Will Ferrell? I think Ferrell is very funny, but I don't really see him as Ignatius, and I worry about him being to "big". I see that Soderbergh co-wrote the screenplay, so that's a good sign.

BabyBuddha (BabyBuddha), Tuesday, 17 February 2004 03:08 (twenty-two years ago)

i personally like how the movie kinda drifted. yeah, i noticed a lot of the different things they had been saving, but i felt that the drifting nature of the story worked well with the small town setting where things do change quickly, they drift and nothing is "sharp."

todd swiss (eliti), Tuesday, 17 February 2004 05:34 (twenty-two years ago)

ending was bad

scene where he dressed up as clown was too much, also poorly put together (why slow motion?)

framing was not always inspired

overall conception of rural working class was somewhat condescending

film was pretty good

amateur!st (amateurist), Wednesday, 18 February 2004 12:01 (twenty-two years ago)

DGG is adapting A Confederacy of Dunces with what might be the strangest (one hesitates to say worst) cast ever:

Drew Barrymore .... Darlene
Mos Def .... Jones
Olympia Dukakis .... Santa Battaglia
Will Ferrell .... Ignatius J. Reilly
Lily Tomlin .... Mrs. Reilly

amateur!st (amateurist), Wednesday, 18 February 2004 12:05 (twenty-two years ago)

Undertow looks promising (I haven't seen Jamie Bell in anything since Billy Elliot).

As for Confederacy of Dunces, I agree that Will Ferrell seems a strange choice for Ignatius. I suppose any film adaptation of such an epic book would have to take enormous liberties to make any sense on its own--we'll see.

alexandra s, Wednesday, 18 February 2004 15:58 (twenty-two years ago)

oh, come on people--Will Ferrell is a god amongst men! If he pull off harry carry hosting a television space program and robert goulet singing gangsta rap, i have complete confidence he can handle Ignatius.

"If you had to choose between being the top scientist in your field, or contracting mad cow disease, which one would you choose?"

"Well, of course I'd choose to be the top scientist in my field."

"Oh, that's good. I thought you were gonna choose mad cow!"

God amongst men, people. God amongst men.

jay blanchard (jay blanchard), Wednesday, 18 February 2004 17:36 (twenty-two years ago)

oh i don't know about this one at all - i think it's uneven and (dare i say it) BORING (and i generally like "boring" films). Paul Scneider is good and the last scene is nice -him trying to get the dog to go for a swim - but it seems to forced and strains tooo hard for meaning in those small scenes. Its seems to me to be the work of someone who has seen alot of Malick but only borrowed from the surface of his films (the dawn/dusk lighting, the loose structure) but Days of Heaven is so striking because it packs so much into such a tight running time and simultanously seems incredibly slow moving. Theres not enough in All the Real Girls plotwise and yet there are too many "meaningful" moments.

jed_ (jed), Thursday, 19 February 2004 18:44 (twenty-two years ago)

the only things I didn't like about this film were someof the scenes with Leland, which did seem forced and fake; and I couldn't figure out if she'd killed the kid with the boat or not, and if so, why wasn't her dad in jail....it just seemed like to big an event to have covered up.

anthony kyle monday (akmonday), Saturday, 21 February 2004 00:15 (twenty-two years ago)

I don't remember all of the particulars of that scene, AKM -- I remember being similarly confused but ultimately deciding that she didn't kill the kid.

jaymc (jaymc), Monday, 23 February 2004 03:09 (twenty-two years ago)

All she said was that they thought he was dead, so I assumed he survived. Even if I agree with some of the flaws mentioned, I'm still in kind of a state of shock and awe. The bar scene on until he breaks the window were just incredible, the tension that just builds and builds.

The Chaos Theory stuff wasn't rocket science - Bust-Ass might have seen Jurassic Park recently. And I didn't find the view of small-town America condescending in the least, and the point about the characters being afraid of silence up above is spot-on.

miloauckerman (miloauckerman), Saturday, 28 February 2004 09:16 (twenty-two years ago)

I was surprised that I had so much sympathy for Paul, since clearly before meeting Noel he was a womanizing asshole. If I think it through in my head, it doesn't seem like a credible situation (the asshole -> sensitive guy transformation). But on screen, it didn't bother me. I read that Paul's character is supposed to be 22. When I watched the film, I thought Paul was older than that - which would lead me to believe that he was mellowing out a bit, and would show a greater distance between Noel and Paul (being at different stages of their lives). But if he was a frisky 22 year old, then the amount of sexual restraint that Paul had was pretty astounding.

Ernest P. (ernestp), Saturday, 28 February 2004 17:06 (twenty-two years ago)

Anyone have access to the Chicago Reader archives? I'd like to read Rosenbaum's review since it was a top-10 for the year, but not so much I'd pay.

miloauckerman (miloauckerman), Sunday, 29 February 2004 05:15 (twenty-two years ago)

this movie had a two legged dog walking about on it's front legs like an acrobat. It was amazing.

anthony kyle monday (akmonday), Monday, 1 March 2004 21:15 (twenty-two years ago)

nice one anthony! you definitely win the "ralph wiggum award" for most out-of-place, surreal post of the day!

jay blanchard (jay blanchard), Monday, 1 March 2004 21:19 (twenty-two years ago)

ROTFLMAO!!!

BabyBuddha (BabyBuddha), Monday, 1 March 2004 22:16 (twenty-two years ago)

one month passes...
I enjoyed it. Reminded me of small town life in NC. I came from a significantly poorer town, but you see a lot of the same characters.

Jeff-PTTL (Jeff), Saturday, 10 April 2004 21:26 (twenty-two years ago)

five years pass...

Anthony picks out the highlight

Niles Crane (Niles Caulder), Saturday, 21 November 2009 13:00 (sixteen years ago)


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