Should I get rid of my books?

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Since I seem damned to continue to move from unsatisfactory apartment to unsatisfactory apartment, I am increasingly tempted to get rid of things until such time as I find a place to live long term (if that ever comes). I would love to have a house with a nice expansive library, but I am more and more tired of dragging books (and other things) from place to place, but books in particular, because they take up a lot of space, and yet I don't actually use most of them so often.

Have any of you done this and how did you feel about it? (I sort of remember some people talking about having done this sort of thing in the past.) Or if not, how do you feel about the thought of such a thing?

Rockist_Scientist (RSLaRue), Monday, 15 May 2006 17:53 (nineteen years ago)

To add some context: I just moved into a new apartment. I feel so sure that I am likely to want to move (either to a different apartment in my building, or to an entirely different apartment building once my lease is up), that I've decided to not even unpack my books. I've pulled out a few of them I think I'm pretty likely to use (books to help me learn Spanish, a couple cookbooks, some books I have gotten recently and want to read in the near future).

Rockist_Scientist (RSLaRue), Monday, 15 May 2006 17:56 (nineteen years ago)

Put them in storage, if possible. You'll really regret selling them.

The Brainwasher (Twilight), Monday, 15 May 2006 18:05 (nineteen years ago)

When we moved from a large-ish house to a much smaller apartment, we culled some of our books in a garage sale and put approx. 1/3rd into storage. We would visit the storage every few months, adding more books and also grabbing a box or two at random to bring back to the apartment. We've since moved across state (300 miles) and so only visit the storage every 6 months or so. But this has worked for us fairly well. We have things other than books in the storage pods (excessively tall bookshelves for one thing), so it's not all books.

We had each sold off all our books at some earlier point in our lives and had both regretted doing so. We also were moving around too much (9 moves in 5 years between us). So this has been a good compromise.

Jaq (Jaq), Monday, 15 May 2006 18:15 (nineteen years ago)

Stop waiting for tomorrow and live in the present. Unpacking books is one of the best parts of moving! You get to touch all your books and reminisce about the good times.

¯\(º_o)/¯ (Chris Piuma), Monday, 15 May 2006 18:40 (nineteen years ago)

I can't forget that I am going to be moving again in less than a year, no way.

Rockist_Scientist (RSLaRue), Monday, 15 May 2006 19:48 (nineteen years ago)

I'm really kind of at the breaking point. I want to live in the present, I just don't want to spend it packing and unpacking books, apartment hunting, cleaning, making adaptations for a new apartment, etc. (Also, I always found Walter Benjamin a chore.)

Rockist_Scientist (RSLaRue), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:00 (nineteen years ago)

Books are a burden. I can't sell them, but I don't have enough room for them, and I hardly ever re-read them. Maybe I can sell them.

Jordan (Jordan), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:22 (nineteen years ago)

What's the point of selling them? they aren't worth any real money. If you absolutely must do away with them, give it to a second hand shop.

The Brainwasher (Twilight), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:29 (nineteen years ago)

What's the point of selling them? they aren't worth any real money. If you absolutely must do away with them, give it to a second hand shop or salvation army.

The Brainwasher (Twilight), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:30 (nineteen years ago)

Selling them to a used bookstore is basically the same as giving them away.

Jordan (Jordan), Monday, 15 May 2006 20:32 (nineteen years ago)

Noooo! Been there, done it, regretted it. For one thing, you will never get their worth back, for another, you WILL want to re-read one of those books, and it WILL be the one which will be totally unobtainable. Uh-uh! Don't do it! Do I know the chore of moving books? Yah! I'm in the forces, in the last 22 years we've moved 9 times and, bind though it may be to pack and unpack books (and everything else) home is where your books are!

Budgie (Budgie1812), Wednesday, 17 May 2006 12:18 (nineteen years ago)

Get rid of anything you're pretty sure you could find again, either in a library or a second hand shop. Get rid of things you don't particularly want to reread.

Keep things you CAN'T easily replace. Keep things you will want to dip into regularly.

Archel (Archel), Wednesday, 17 May 2006 12:49 (nineteen years ago)

i think frequently about getting rid of my books but i don't even know how i would decide what to keep. or how much.

i remember reading somehwere that the oblivio guy only owned like ten books and used the library for the rest. even if not true (not everything he writes is non-fictional, i think?), i've always been impressed by that.

Josh (Josh), Friday, 19 May 2006 02:45 (nineteen years ago)

we have lived in this small house for 3 years and all my books are still in boxes. someday i will free them. it makes me sad though. it is definitely a big reason why i still haven't gotten used to living here. or feel comfortable living here. we have thought about renting a bigger place, and renting out this place that we live in to offset the cost of renting. i hate complaining about it, because we are so lucky in so many ways. the house we live in was GIVEN to us by my wife's grandmother. but it's so so small. and there are four of us. and the storage space we rented was making everything moldy. so now they all sit in boxes with half my records in an uninsulated room with a hole in the roof. okay, i feel better now. other than that, we are fine! and, um, i would never get rid of them. i did sell some records on ebay though.

scott seward (scott seward), Friday, 19 May 2006 02:55 (nineteen years ago)

oh, and meanwhile, i keep buying more. because i'm insane. and they pile up and then i put THEM in boxes and put them out with the rest of my collection. okay, i'm done.

scott seward (scott seward), Friday, 19 May 2006 02:57 (nineteen years ago)

I hardly keep anything these days. It is true that books aren't worth a great deal secondhand, but what money you do make back on them can be spent on new books that you haven't read, or something else.

PJ Miller (PJ Miller 68), Friday, 19 May 2006 13:56 (nineteen years ago)

You know yourself better than I do. Most everyone here has agreed that it would be a sad and wrenching affair for you to rid yourself of your books, but I expect they are mostly projecting their own experiences and feelings onto your question. What else could they do? So, allow me to do the same.

I do not have the fetishizing soul of the true book collector. Instead, I have a fetish for simplicity and the ascetic's desire for lack of encumbrances. I hate sentimentality and the way it seeps into objects. But -ahem- I Love Books.

My lifelong compromise has been to keep somewhere between 200 and 500 books at any one time. Presently, I own about 350. These change. Of these, I own perhaps 40 or so volumes that I bought more than 25 years ago. I tend to hang onto the best of the best, and the hardest to replace.

I regret a modest few of the books I have sold, few enough to number on one hand. After a liftime of discipline, I see that individual volumes are much more replaceable and faceless than not. I can't afford the genuine rarities, the $100 and up books, those venerable volumes that have so much character you think of them as people, not books.

So, I guess it's all up to you and how you're built. If you are a lover of this book and that book, each with its individual covers, illustrations, stains and foxing, then you'll want to keep them - all of them - just like friends or pets. Look into your heart.

Aimless (Aimless), Friday, 19 May 2006 14:12 (nineteen years ago)

i'm not hearing enough of an academic viewpoint here!

Josh (Josh), Friday, 19 May 2006 16:35 (nineteen years ago)

Go ahead and take a stab at it, Josh.

Aimless (Aimless), Friday, 19 May 2006 16:51 (nineteen years ago)

Yeah, I think you're one of the few here who can speak to that. Although I sometimes pretend that is a good justification for hoarding books.

¯\(º_o)/¯ (Chris Piuma), Friday, 19 May 2006 18:02 (nineteen years ago)

Most of my books have been in storage for two years now after a great shedding of stuff that I've read. Yes there is the odd chance that I will want to re-read something, but that's always superseeded by the desire to read something I haven't read before - and there is always one of those.

Now, I get a thrill by selling/giving back something I liked because I'm hoping that someone else will run across it and get the same enjoyment out of it. I've had enough HFS! moments in used book stores that it's time for me to let someone else have a chance.

LOL Thomas (Chris Barrus), Friday, 19 May 2006 20:46 (nineteen years ago)

That's like selling children.

Hemoglobin Hummingbird (HemoHum), Friday, 19 May 2006 22:49 (nineteen years ago)

Not really. More like selling sperm, I'd say.

Aimless (Aimless), Saturday, 20 May 2006 01:58 (nineteen years ago)

I'm ditching my books. I've got them stacked and ready to take down to the bookstore for credit I'm never going to use. I'm moving countries in August and the lighter the better.

Navek Rednam (Navek Rednam), Saturday, 20 May 2006 07:57 (nineteen years ago)

I would love to have a house with a nice expansive library

This has been my dream for DECADES. Since I was a child I wanted a library. :-)

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Saturday, 20 May 2006 12:59 (nineteen years ago)

I don't hoard or fetishise books at all (and probably own about 250) but oh my god i saw the most amazingly lovely wooden chair that converted into library steps yesterday, and for a moment I wanted walls lined with bookcases to the ceiling just so I could justify owning it. (Either that or one of the sliding ladder things, they are damn cool too.)

Archel (Archel), Sunday, 21 May 2006 15:59 (nineteen years ago)

A person once told me that if I sell my books I will go insane.

tom west (thomp), Sunday, 21 May 2006 17:29 (nineteen years ago)

Separated from madness by the thickness of a sheet of paper, huh?

Aimless (Aimless), Sunday, 21 May 2006 17:57 (nineteen years ago)

I give away books and sell books all the time. I don't miss them. There are always more books. And if I want them, I can always get them again. That way I can fulfil my longing for the new while calming my fear of the unknown.

accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Sunday, 21 May 2006 20:05 (nineteen years ago)

I suspect maybe a fourth of my books would be difficult-to-impossible-to-expensive to get again.

Casuistry (Chris P), Sunday, 21 May 2006 20:42 (nineteen years ago)

i bought fifteen science fiction paperbacks from a newsagent with a rack - well a buncha racks - of them for 20 pence each, and asked where they were from, and the old ladies behind the till said they did not know and their boss had just shown up with them; anyway i was there a couple weeks later and just thought i'd pick up another one. well, a couple. well, ten - and the old guy looked like he owned the place, so i asked where were they from anyway? from his house. over many, many years. sigh.

tom west (thomp), Monday, 22 May 2006 00:19 (nineteen years ago)

I guess there are those who read the final page and close the book forever. Contract complete.

There are also those who sit in front of their bookcases with a glass of wine, adjusting spines or nudging books in and out of rows for aesthetic pleasure. Perhaps this book is more biography than travel memoir? Better move it. Should Richard Brautigan have his own section on top of the fiction bookcase? Yep, he should. Dude's earned it.

You're never going to get rid of your books if you're in the second camp.

Mikey G (Mikey G), Monday, 22 May 2006 14:00 (nineteen years ago)

No I'm not.

Casuistry (Chris P), Monday, 22 May 2006 15:42 (nineteen years ago)

Now I'm all thinking I could skip class today and instead drink wine and rearrange my books all day. Great. Thanks for putting that idea in my head.

Casuistry (Chris P), Monday, 22 May 2006 15:43 (nineteen years ago)

Sorry to get a bit hysterical in my last post above. My biggest worry about all this is that I am targeting my books, when they aren't the primary problem. Packing is annoying, but the biggest problem is apartment hunting. (And the second biggest problem is making everyone who needs to know, aware that I've moved.) Still, packing is added trouble.

I've actually gotten rid of hundreds (maybe as many as a thousand) of books over the last several years, so I haven't been saving every last scrap. In particular, I had a pretty large poetry collection (with a fair number of small print runs), most of which I've gotten rid of now (since I've mostly lost interest). But then I get down to a collection of Whitman's poems, and on the one hand, I don't think I'm going to want to re-read them any time soon, but on the other hand, there's a good chance I will want to re-read some of them at some point. To some extent, being a librarian has made me less sentimental about books (which I consider a good thing).

Rockist_Scientist (RSLaRue), Monday, 22 May 2006 21:50 (nineteen years ago)

chris, i wanted too hear it from someone besides me so i could use it to confirm my prejudices and sicknesses. : /

if i were to suddenly take a job at a relatively small college their library might not have some of the books i rarely have reason to consult but would find myself in need of at pressing times. at least, you know, in theory. rockist scientist, please refute me so i can encourage myself to sell books!

Josh (Josh), Tuesday, 23 May 2006 06:28 (nineteen years ago)

Also, books are the memory of books. If I read a library copy of something and don't own it, I tend to forget the book's contents far, far faster. I mean, often owning a book and not reading it gives you a better impression than reading a book and not owning it!

Casuistry (Chris P), Tuesday, 23 May 2006 07:16 (nineteen years ago)

and the old guy looked like he owned the place, so i asked where were they from anyway? from his house. over many, many years. sigh.

Compare and contrast with people who give us their books sometimes. My eyes very obviously light up at the sight of good books, I tell the donors that I know how hard it is to part with good books, I assure them that I will get a good price for them, and I do.

Sigh. It is the major thing I will miss about leaving my little shop. Only two weeks to go!

accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Tuesday, 23 May 2006 08:42 (nineteen years ago)

What are you going to do instead, Ms Monkey?

Mikey G (Mikey G), Tuesday, 23 May 2006 08:54 (nineteen years ago)

I am going to write abstracts in the social sciences department of a major library services company. For a year I will have to come to the office every day and write my abstracts. After that, I will stay at home with my dogs and write my abstracts. I may lose the power of speech entirely.

accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Tuesday, 23 May 2006 09:12 (nineteen years ago)

I say GET RID OF YOUR BOOKS!

And most other things.

PJ Miller (PJ Miller 68), Tuesday, 23 May 2006 10:30 (nineteen years ago)

I say keep them. Books never make a house look untidy. I used to think the same about my records though and they're all in the loft in my parents garage. Do I miss all those Smiths singles? Jesus, no.

Mikey G (Mikey G), Tuesday, 23 May 2006 13:38 (nineteen years ago)

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/images/009947249X/ref=dp_image_0/103-6572994-3611807?%5Fencoding=UTF8&n=283155&s=books

(hm - will this work?)

Books Do Furnish a Room

Jaq (Jaq), Tuesday, 23 May 2006 14:04 (nineteen years ago)

Every time I move I tend to jettison my books. I used to be a hoarder and would ship books at great expense back and forth from my parents house to where I was living. But those boxes got really heavy to move, the books molded in my parent's basement, and I just bought more and more books. Last time I moved I got rid of all but the most important books--books I read in school that were particularly meaningful/books that I loved. I do have pangs of regret, but everything I got rid of I could easily re-buy if I really needed to. If I lived in the same place all my life and had tons of space, I would keep all of my books, but other than that it's really not practical. Now that I work at a library, it is now easier to just check out the book I want to reread rather than open up the boxes in the garage and look for it. That's what we did when my mom wanted a copy of Ulysses--rather than search for my copy, I just brought her home a copy from work.

Mary (Mary), Thursday, 25 May 2006 15:35 (nineteen years ago)


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