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I like being read to; my husband likes to read aloud. As we finish a book, the question always comes up - "What next?" Suggestions are appreciated. We aren't daunted much by length, but Moby Dick and Proust are out for reasons of density. Here's a list of some we've happily completed: Dance to the Music of Time, The Regeneration trilogy, Myra Breckenridge, Great Expectations, Pride and Prejudice, Gentlemen Prefer Blondes, Bruno's Dream. Two that were abject failures: Confederacy of Dunces and War and Peace. Does anyone else enjoy this kind of thing, or are we just that weird? What would you recommend for reading aloud?

Jaq, Sunday, 29 February 2004 01:45 (twenty-two years ago)

My girlie girls think it's sexy when I read to them some Henry Miller or Bataille in my deepstronglyconfident manly voice.

B. Michael Payne (This Isnt That), Sunday, 29 February 2004 19:14 (twenty-two years ago)

Reading aloud is good by me. Good read-aloud books tend to have a strong authorial voice, or a set of characters with distinctive voices. You might want to try Innocents Abroad. Twain had a very well-developed voice from the start.

Aimless (Aimless), Sunday, 29 February 2004 21:24 (twenty-two years ago)

I read Gravity's Rainbow out loud to my ex-wife and she loved it and so did I. (Not the reason we're divorced.) But yeah, that might be a wee bit dense. How about The Great Gatsby or The Sun Also Rises? I also just finished a terrific little book I think might be a great out-loud read: Mark Haddon's The Curious Incident of the Dog In The Night-Time.

Glenn Davis, Tuesday, 2 March 2004 05:42 (twenty-two years ago)

I'd recommend Bohumil Hrabal, esp. 'I served the King of England'. He writes seemingly simple, charming first person narratives which grow rich and amazing as you progress.

Jerry the Nipper (Jerrynipper), Tuesday, 2 March 2004 12:33 (twenty-two years ago)

My former spouse enjoyed my reading nonfiction aloud (like Glenn, not the reason we're divorced). One of the few books I read out loud were: "The Emperors of Chocolate," "The Perfect Storm," and "Frank Lloyd Wright: A Biography." He said it had to do with the sound of my voice and the topics I chose. Otherwise, the literature and fiction tomes I read on my own.

yesabibliophile (yesabibliophile), Tuesday, 2 March 2004 17:15 (twenty-two years ago)

One couple I know took turns reading sections of Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix out loud to each other because they both wanted to read it as soon as it came out but they didn't want to buy two copies.

Personally, I don’t feel comfortable reading out load. I can read fast inside my head but when I try to read something to someone, I sound like a second grader stumbling over words like "spasmodic" and "extrication." Plus, it's embarrassing that I don't know how to pronounce common words that I read all the time but never hear. I was laughed out of a room when I pronounced Geoff as "Jee-off." Shucks.

Vermont Girl (Vermont Girl), Tuesday, 2 March 2004 17:47 (twenty-two years ago)

Wonderful suggestions! Thanks to all. I think we'll try Gatsby next. I'm a bit leary of Twain for some reason, maybe too much dialect. Will have to find some Bohumil Hrabal.

Vermont Girl - I'm with you on that, it's a big part of why I prefer to listen, although I did try reading to him once. I'm terribly boring as a reader. Big rushes of words, then huge lapses of silence as I read ahead. We also have a huge dictionary to circumvent bitter fights about pronounciation, which is good for banal and desultory, not so good for Geoff or Bohumil Hrabal.

Jaq (Jaq), Wednesday, 3 March 2004 14:16 (twenty-two years ago)

Read One Hundred Years of Solitude and anything by Milan Kundera. Sensual to read, profound to utter.

McDowell Crook, Friday, 5 March 2004 06:40 (twenty-two years ago)

No-one ever would read to me, I asked a couple of times but was turned down. This is very depressing to me. I heard someone say the other day that they read aloud to themselves and it made me feel lonely. I mean I would like them to read to me but they live far away. I don't like hardly anything better than being read to. But I don't like reading aloud myself just because I'm lazy and my voice gets tired, so how can I complain. I thought it would be cool to read plays to each other and take the parts, though. Wouldn't that be cool?

a (maryann), Sunday, 7 March 2004 07:55 (twenty-two years ago)

I suppose it wouldn't be the same as hearing it over a CD or tape, would it, a? Some works need to be read aloud though, even if you're by yourself. Especially if you're alone. Neruda, Donne, Rossetti, Mitchell... It just feels good to have the words rise from your throat and rumble, jump, pop, slide, roll off your tongue.

yesabibliophile (yesabibliophile), Sunday, 7 March 2004 14:56 (twenty-two years ago)

I've heard that Moby Dick is read aloud in a community setting
in Fall River (?) Mass, on Melville's Birthday.
Anyone who wants to read just shows up with a copy of the book.
Has anyone attended that event or witnessed similar public readings?

Steve Walker (Quietman), Wednesday, 10 March 2004 03:51 (twenty-two years ago)

"Has anyone attended that event or witnessed similar public readings?"

SJSU does an annual Milton Marathon in the spring where they read Paradise Lost aloud without interruption. Students and faculty take turns at the mike. Everyone who wants to read or just listen is welcome, even if you only have a few minutes.

SJ Lefty, Wednesday, 10 March 2004 04:02 (twenty-two years ago)

"Has anyone attended that event or witnessed similar public readings?"

In Spain, there's a national Book Day sometime in April. Every year, a public reading of Cervantes' "Don Quijote" is done at a national arts center in Madrid. Anyone with a copy can take a turn at the microphone (the reading takes 24-48 hours, I don't remember), and well-known people (writers, politicians, academics, etc.) attend. I don't know how they choose the person who reads the immortal opening lines, but that's apparently the biggest honor. I never attended, unfortunately, but it's broadcast on radio and parts are also shown on television, so I've been able to follow along occasionally.

Marisa Antonaya (marisa), Wednesday, 10 March 2004 08:21 (twenty-two years ago)

I like the idea of reading out loud as part of relationships (or even friendships), but not the reality. I have this chronic shortness of breath (due to anxiety) that kicks in when I'm reading to others, and my voice tires out after not too many pages.
Last summer, my then-girlfriend and I read Frederick Buechner's *Godric* on a road trip to a friend's wedding. In between repeat spins of Stevie Wonder's Talking Book and Rilo Kiley's last album, it "lapped the miles up" (or however that poem goes). It's a very short, very beautiful, heavily cadenced book that reads fast, and (since it's based on the life of a medieval English saint) there's lots of lip-smacking, bardic alliteration. And for an openly religious novel it has some great dick jokes. I recommend it especially as a read-out-loud.

Phil Christman, Wednesday, 10 March 2004 20:31 (twenty-two years ago)

I love being read to. Only problem is that it tends to put me to sleep so I'm always waking-up and wanting to know what I missed.

Once, for a friend who had a cross-country flight and was afraid of flying, I read aloud/recorded the first three books from the "Series of Unfortunate Events" for him to listen to on his flight.

I enjoy reading out loud, but hate it when I come to a word and realize that I've no damn idea how to pronounce it because I've never heard it spoken, only've read it.

My mother still calls and reads bedtime stories to me, over the phone, when I'm sick. Mothers are most excellent people.

I'm Passing Open Windows (Ms Laura), Tuesday, 16 March 2004 09:31 (twenty-two years ago)

To alleviate travel bickering, (the summer my sister and I shared a house) I read/recorded all three of Shel Silverstein's poetry books for my nephews and my daughter. It was a lot of fun for me, a beer, during the summer evenings, kids in bed and reading fun poetry out loud. And it did alleviate the travel bickering!

My lover at the time was so jealous as no one had ever read to him (I later confirmed that with one of his family members), so I made him copies of the tapes, which he loved. Then he bribed me with expensive chocolates to read to him in the evenings (like he had to...but the chocolates were damn fine). Funny, the kids and the lover really got a kick out of the polar bear poem and the crocodile poem.

hey, guys, thanks for bringing these memories back... I'm going to be smiling all day now :)

yesabibliophile (yesabibliophile), Tuesday, 16 March 2004 14:56 (twenty-two years ago)

My boyfriend and I read children's books to each other in bed, because sometimes I have trouble getting to sleep, particularly if there have been scary things on telly (like the ad for Dawn of the Dead). So far we've read the Chronicles of Narnia and The Little Prince, and soon we're moving on to The King of the Copper Mountains, my favourite children's book. We usually do books I've read and he hasn't, so that when I fall asleep I don't miss anything.

I'm relieved to hear that we're not the only ones who do this. I also found that reading poems onto a tape and then listening to them back while walking the dog was a great help to me at exam time.

accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Tuesday, 16 March 2004 16:05 (twenty-two years ago)

Most Christmas holidays, someone in the family will get around to asking me to read "The Elephant's Child" aloud. It started when I was a teenager and delighted us all. I always recommend it to kids doing their humor speech in forensic class, but get few takers these days. I'm a complete ham, no embarassment threshold, and read aloud to both adults and children as part of my professional life.

Rabin the Cat (Rabin the Cat), Tuesday, 16 March 2004 19:15 (twenty-two years ago)

I know that the Tufts University Classics department will read the Iliad and the Odyssey out loud once a year. They are great to read out loud, both for the reading and listening. Just get a good translation that's all. They have it all---fighting, love, death, life, gods, mortals, bitchy women, arrogant men, etc.

bookdwarf (bookdwarf), Tuesday, 16 March 2004 19:36 (twenty-two years ago)

someone in the family will get around to asking me to read "The Elephant's Child" aloud.

My sister and I read that aloud to each other, and we've roped her husband into it as well. I can't hear (or speak) that story without smiling.

JuliaA (j_bdules), Thursday, 18 March 2004 20:37 (twenty-two years ago)

I'm sure if you'd tapped my room it would have sounded strange but I've spent quite an enjoyable day raking through articles and essays online and reading poems out loud to myself. this is good for testing the rhythmic comportment and pacing of the poem, I guess, but it's just nice to try and eek out a little bit more from the words by tryin to get them to fit sound I lay down in front of the fire and read a little of jean rhys' 'good morning, midnight' (wowowow!) out to myself. I dunno, does anyone else do this? is it a bit odd? it kinda feels like that time I was talking to geeta on iChat AV which basically consisted of me sat alone in my room talking at my computer.

cozen (Cozen), Saturday, 20 March 2004 23:33 (twenty-two years ago)

uncomfortably.

cozen (Cozen), Saturday, 20 March 2004 23:34 (twenty-two years ago)

I still read aloud, whether there's anyone to listen to me or not. It's about how tangible the ink the page becomes for me... reading aloud is sometimes the only thing I can do... I wallow in words, printed and spoken.

yesabibliophile (yesabibliophile), Sunday, 21 March 2004 16:25 (twenty-two years ago)

It's quite a hard thing to sustain reading aloud for any length without lots of practice or voice training. My girlfriend and I read bits from books, magazines, poetry, etc... to each other. But rarely more than a paragraph, or at most, a page.

Michael White (Hereward), Tuesday, 23 March 2004 20:51 (twenty-two years ago)

one year passes...
I tried this for the first time over Christmas and it was really really lovely, thanks ILB.

(Daftly it ws mostly from 'A Supposedly Fun Thing Etc' which if ever there's a book not written for speaking out loud etc)

Gravel Puzzleworth (Gregory Henry), Thursday, 12 January 2006 23:44 (twenty years ago)

Were you both reading GP, or was one the reader and one the readee? Our reading aloud stopped when I started in on Gravity's Rainbow and hasn't restarted. I miss it though and shall ask for it to please resume. We were about to start Gore Vidal's Hollywood.

Jaq (Jaq), Friday, 13 January 2006 01:28 (twenty years ago)

robert musil aloud has worked well for me.

once i tried a part from 'molloy' where moran was preparing to leave and harassing his son; reading aloud seemed to deprive it of a lot of its humor.

Josh (Josh), Friday, 13 January 2006 02:48 (twenty years ago)

I was the reading one J, it seemed to make sense somehow.

Gravel Puzzleworth (Gregory Henry), Friday, 13 January 2006 19:18 (twenty years ago)

four years pass...

Thought I'd bump this as there was something on Radio 4 a couple of weeks ago about reading aloud for adults.

Also to add my tuppenceworth. Read a few things aloud to a girlfriend a few years ago... as I recall it was the original French version of Le Petit Prince. She like hearing French spoken, I like speaking it... May have read a few other things too. Walter de la Mare's retelling of Molly Whuppie springs to mind (a book I was read as a child - the pictures are amazing too).

It's dawning on me that I don't think I've been read to since I was young though. Not in real life, and not for the sole purpose of reading something aloud to me (as opposed to, say, having things read out by someone else in my English class).

Thread revive? Tell me about your recent experiences of reading aloud, or being read to!

argosgold (AndyTheScot), Saturday, 16 October 2010 11:32 (fifteen years ago)

I like reading out loud when I'm all by myself, especially with certain dense philosophical stuff (which is often transcribed from lectures anyway, so it works particularly well!), double-especially if I do it with a funny accent. reading Agamben in my best Slavoj Zizek voice, or Habermas as a humorless British professor... I may have already mentioned this, but when I was reading some of Blanchot's fiction recently I found it sounded good in the voice of the "Wizard People, Dear Reader" guy.

in general, I find that reading aloud forces me to slow down and pay attention to the structure of the sentences (and, if I'm doing a silly accent, to the sounds of the words and the letters themselves), which doesn't always necessarily improve my understanding of what I'm reading (because sometimes it's too much fun and I get distracted), but can be made to do so when interspersed with periods of intense furrowed-brow silence.

rmde and dangerous (bernard snowy), Saturday, 16 October 2010 12:55 (fifteen years ago)

oh, I also used to read Donald Barthelme stories to my ex-girlfriend sometimes, which would usually lead to her falling asleep (as people upthread have mentioned, this is a perennial risk) -- although that was sort of the point.

I have a particularly fond memory of a drunken night when a number of people retired to a friend's house after the clubs were closed to smoke w33d and chill, whereupon we found a children's book lying on a table and decided to have impromptu 'circle time', with a 'teacher' sitting in a chair reading + showing the pictures while the rest of us sat on the floor.

and I read all of Holderlin's "The Archipelago" out loud the other day, with much dramatic relish, although I had to take a break halfway through and get some water.

rmde and dangerous (bernard snowy), Saturday, 16 October 2010 13:02 (fifteen years ago)

The idea of being read to sleep is something I find appealing - As a radio 4 listener since I was about 15 (and someone for whom reaching to turn off the radio at night was too much of an effort!) I find being lulled to sleep by someone else's voice... well, just nice. I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing to fall asleep while someone else is reading.

I find I only read aloud to myself if I find a particularly tricky or badly written sentence in order to make sense of it.
Slowing down the sense of it is pretty much what aids my understanding.

As someone who likes funny voices/accents/words, reading stuff out loud can be really fun, although I tend to do it with things people say or texts other than books (posters, menus and whathaveyou). Mexican bandito, Sean Connery and French accents all particular favourites.

argosgold (AndyTheScot), Saturday, 16 October 2010 13:25 (fifteen years ago)

Have quite often read aloud, usually to g/fs, most memorably: Frankenstein in some Vienna gardens, A Warning to the Curious (MR James) in bed in Aldeburgh (where it's set), Dymchurch Flit by Kipling (f'ing hard that one, tho quite rewarding if you can maintain the accent). Mason & Dixon in a tent in France (the cheese rolling episode - the next morning the people in the tent next to us said how much they'd enjoyed it, which was nice, but also could have been a coded 'and don't do it any more' of course). Treasure Island many times, remember reading it to my brothers when they were small and to other people's children as well.

Have always found it's worth reading what you're going to read through first, so there are no nasty surprises, false emphases or rhythms, and maybe to allocate accents (found this useful with TI, otherwise all pirates have the 'argh jim lad' accent).

Terrible, simply terrible at reading poetry, complete clodhopper, blundering into syllables and rhythms like a bull in a china shop.

Loved being read to as a small child (or just having stories made up out loud) and would go some way to crediting it for learning to read all sorts of things very young, as my mum or usually my dad would foolishly leave the book lying around at the end of a chapter, and once they'd left the room, I'd pick it up, no matter how difficult and pore through it, with the lamp jammed against the wall so it barely cast any light (hence glasses now, I'd rather imagine).

Pork Pius V (GamalielRatsey), Saturday, 16 October 2010 15:38 (fifteen years ago)

We've read so many books aloud since I started this thread. The Good Soldier, The French Lieutenant's Woman, Bleak House (I cried and cried), Dud Avocado and The Old Man and Me, The Great Gatsby, something by Peter deVries that was so funny, Don Quixote, Lucky Jim, A Meaningful Life (which started out so promising and had me hating the world and everyone it it at the end), half of Tom Jones (rollicking but so much of the same sameness at the midpoint - much like the Tale of Genji). We've taken a major break since about April though (after we finished A Meaningful Life, now that I think of it), but now it's cooler and the nights are drawing in we are going to start Olivia Manning's Fortunes of War.

Jaq, Saturday, 16 October 2010 20:59 (fifteen years ago)

one year passes...

I like this.

Laura Lucy Lynn (La Lechera), Wednesday, 8 February 2012 19:03 (fourteen years ago)

Great book for this:

http://www.amazon.com/Return-City-White-Donkeys-Poems/dp/0060750022/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1328735273&sr=8-1

‘Neuroscience’ and ‘near death’ pepper (Eazy), Wednesday, 8 February 2012 21:08 (fourteen years ago)

one year passes...

Mr. Jaq and I were talking this morning about how the reading aloud has gone by the wayside - we stalled out in the middle of Olivia Manning's Balkan trilogy. We started listing all the books we had done and plotting what to start back up with. It's been a dozen years or more since we read Dance to the Music of Time.

Jaq, Monday, 16 September 2013 22:15 (twelve years ago)

I hate the sound of people reading aloud! I especially don't like it if it's something I've written and someone else reads it - can't stand it for some reason

Pingu Unchained (dog latin), Tuesday, 17 September 2013 01:08 (twelve years ago)

when lxy and i drove around iceland we started'journey to the center of the earth.' and then we read some more of it on road trips since. i wish i liked to do this at home as much as when i'm driving and she reads to me.

one divine hamburglar (anky), Tuesday, 17 September 2013 01:34 (twelve years ago)

As the nights draw in, it seems to be the right thing for us to turn to. Whereas in the car...well, let's just say I'm untrusting and hypervigilant and no way could I deal with it. I can barely listen to the radio while I'm driving (or being driven).

Thinking of that, dog latin how do you feel about going to plays or listening to the radio or tv news? Is it a completely different thing from being read to, for you? I can't bear listening to tv or radio news/talk shows. Though I think it's the subject matter vs. the being read to.

Jaq, Tuesday, 17 September 2013 13:57 (twelve years ago)

i loved the part in that stephen king family profile in the nyt sunday magazine about how he would make his kids record true crime books and horror books on tape! when they were kids! so cool. and completely inappropriate too which just made it funnier. having his young daughter read out loud and record a grisly book about the jonestown massacre onto tape. you gotta love the kingmeister.

scott seward, Tuesday, 17 September 2013 14:24 (twelve years ago)

i can't believe this thread is nine years old. hope you are well, Jaq! ten years of ILB in december.

scott seward, Tuesday, 17 September 2013 14:25 (twelve years ago)

Hi Scott! I'm well; hope you and Maria and your boys are doing great. Crazy isn't it, how long it's actually been. I started this thread 2 weeks after finding ILB via Bookslut. So glad it's still here.

Jaq, Tuesday, 17 September 2013 15:19 (twelve years ago)

Perhaps dog latin doesn't like being read aloud to because many people read aloud in a halting voice, or a toneless one, or simply read aloud in a somewhat awkward manner. Doing it well requires both a text that lends itself to a fluent reading and a reader capable of delivering correct intonations while sight-reading.

There is plenty of writing out there that is tortuous and clunky. I find it mostly in newspapers, in histories, in biographies, and in 'literary' fiction. Ironically, it shows up very frequently in modern poetry and I've taught myself to overlook a lack of fluency in poetry in order to enjoy its other qualities, but poems that can't be read aloud always seem to me to be a sin against poetry.

Aimless, Tuesday, 17 September 2013 15:26 (twelve years ago)


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