I'm part of the problem in that I really want her to be sane + to respond sanely to what people say to her, but she isn't and she can't, and the ex-mental-health-care person in me knows that she's making herself crazier/working herself into a real lather by being on IXL. she'll be doing it anyway elsewhere (vide her copying and pasting the exact same "industry is a scam" post to almost 400 youtube videos) but idk I just think it's bad for her to be here but she can't help herself.
― love in a grain elevator (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Friday, 8 July 2011 18:29 (thirteen years ago)
i wonder if we could get everyone to agree to stop fucking with her.
a ban might be 'bad' in this context too, idk
― goole, Friday, 8 July 2011 18:32 (thirteen years ago)
I'm stopping, I should know better than to engage her in the first place but then there's the and what side of me that says "she is an adult and not actually stupid and dealing with the consequences of your behavior is part of being an adult" but I don't know she goes from this is funny to ok wait this is just sad in this super-quick move.
― love in a grain elevator (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Friday, 8 July 2011 18:44 (thirteen years ago)
fucking with crazy people is like kicking puppies -- it's kinda lol, mostly sad imo
― sarahel, Friday, 8 July 2011 18:47 (thirteen years ago)
actually it's not lol at all
― sarahel, Friday, 8 July 2011 18:48 (thirteen years ago)
No, not lol at all. I don't if it's even possible to communicate with her in a normal way so I don't even try anymore, it's like there's a script that spits out the same thoughts and sentences in a random order over and over again (but sometimes there's glimmer of real person in between as well) - it's just too confusing. I don't want to be responsible for any further descent into I don't even know where it is she's going, but I don't know how to help her out of it either - I'm not clicking on the thread anymore, for a start.
― StanM, Friday, 8 July 2011 18:50 (thirteen years ago)
eh idk, i dont think anybody is really going after her, i mean i made some odd jokes about cars and there have been a couple other random comments, but it seems like she is a bit of a self-looping engine all set off by the (uh accurate btw) comments H2 made about her kinda not on pitch singing - and i think its prob something she is doing in like 40 different places right now, so the fact that peeps here are just kinda calmly rolling with it instead of launching into full troll abuse is prob better than banhammer?
― lemon kerrang! (jjjusten), Friday, 8 July 2011 20:02 (thirteen years ago)
yeah you're probably right I just had some remorse, seeing how many youtubes she's copied and pasted the exact same comment on made me think "you pay your money you take your chances"
― love in a grain elevator (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Friday, 8 July 2011 20:54 (thirteen years ago)
(brief moment of panic across the minds of all the women of ILX, then "ohh, so that's what that thread is")
― sticky crisco (a passing spacecadet), Friday, 8 July 2011 21:05 (thirteen years ago)
umm wtf
― love in a grain elevator (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Friday, 8 July 2011 21:07 (thirteen years ago)
a passing spacecadet is a chick, i think, aero!
― horseshoe, Friday, 8 July 2011 21:10 (thirteen years ago)
haha yeah basically this thread is an invitation for every female ILX poster to momentarily freak out before realizing that m-dawg is back
― DJP, Friday, 8 July 2011 21:14 (thirteen years ago)
you-don't know-who
― ((( (Lamp), Friday, 8 July 2011 21:16 (thirteen years ago)
did not freak out
― sarahel, Friday, 8 July 2011 21:21 (thirteen years ago)
no one said it was a mandate!
― DJP, Friday, 8 July 2011 21:23 (thirteen years ago)
horseshoe and DJP otm!
― sticky crisco (a passing spacecadet), Friday, 8 July 2011 21:26 (thirteen years ago)
Wait, this IS about Trayce, right?
― StanM, Friday, 8 July 2011 21:26 (thirteen years ago)
j/k <3 u T
― StanM, Friday, 8 July 2011 21:27 (thirteen years ago)
i must read the wrong threads
― markers, Friday, 8 July 2011 21:27 (thirteen years ago)
her never you
― brazenly frog (bnw), Friday, 8 July 2011 21:28 (thirteen years ago)
does she have an opinion on Tao Lin?
― sarahel, Friday, 8 July 2011 21:28 (thirteen years ago)
Not just you, I did a little freak in my head, too, APS.
― Karen D. Tregaskin, Friday, 8 July 2011 21:30 (thirteen years ago)
Where is you-don't-know-who posting? ILM?
― in an arrangement that mimics idiocy (Michael White), Friday, 8 July 2011 21:33 (thirteen years ago)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CUCO7WI7obw
― gucci mande (J0rdan S.), Friday, 8 July 2011 21:35 (thirteen years ago)
michael, 1) she's gone off the net because of you; 2) you never her; 3) has provided us with a new board description.
― love in a grain elevator (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Friday, 8 July 2011 21:37 (thirteen years ago)
IRE, the v1rg0 n01r thr34d
― StanM, Friday, 8 July 2011 21:39 (thirteen years ago)
Ok lol, bit too enthusiastic with the l33t googleproofing there :-)
― StanM, Friday, 8 July 2011 21:42 (thirteen years ago)
alright, yeah, this isn't jay batman category lols
― markers, Friday, 8 July 2011 21:45 (thirteen years ago)
guilty lols at "m-dawg"
― sleeve, Friday, 8 July 2011 21:48 (thirteen years ago)
Is it wrong that I am secretly a bit proud I've been called nuts instead of just scum like everyone else?
― StanM, Friday, 8 July 2011 21:50 (thirteen years ago)
why not just ban everyone but MM from the Vyrgo Nior thread?
― why delonge face? (unregistered), Friday, 8 July 2011 21:55 (thirteen years ago)
Wouldn't she notice eventually?
― StanM, Friday, 8 July 2011 21:57 (thirteen years ago)
her. you? never!
― brazenly frog (bnw), Friday, 8 July 2011 21:57 (thirteen years ago)
Actually... Pretty good idea, face.
― StanM, Friday, 8 July 2011 21:58 (thirteen years ago)
What's with the Satanism stuff? That's kind of scary in a paranoid way.
― in an arrangement that mimics idiocy (Michael White), Friday, 8 July 2011 22:24 (thirteen years ago)
(some reading later)
oh dear :(
― sticky crisco (a passing spacecadet), Friday, 8 July 2011 22:45 (thirteen years ago)
I'm conflicted: I've always got on pretty well with her. She's been off ILX for a long time, so it's good (in a way) that she's still 'alive' and not locked up someplace..
I can't say 'she seems OK' as obviously a lot of the same old issues are there, and a bunch of new ones too.
I'd say "There's nothing wrong in her putting lots of youtube links on one thread"
and "She's keeping it to one thread"..
I'd councel "please don't wind her up: the likening a bowl of shit with one of her songs was uncalled for and surely was only done to lol at her reaction"
and yet, all the above could prove to be wrong.
OK, here's my take: She often pops up here, and eventually things go a bit crazy after a week or so. I understand the point of the thread question. Let's just let it be for a while, so far very little has happened really.
― Mark G, Friday, 8 July 2011 23:42 (thirteen years ago)
is this uhm....k3rry?
― estimate the percent chance that i break my foot off in your ass (Neanderthal), Friday, 8 July 2011 23:51 (thirteen years ago)
no
― sleeve, Friday, 8 July 2011 23:52 (thirteen years ago)
oh....
― estimate the percent chance that i break my foot off in your ass (Neanderthal), Saturday, 9 July 2011 00:15 (thirteen years ago)
wh1ney?
― VIRGIN ROO (darraghmac), Saturday, 9 July 2011 00:21 (thirteen years ago)
it's jay batman's wife
― estimate the percent chance that i break my foot off in your ass (Neanderthal), Saturday, 9 July 2011 00:21 (thirteen years ago)
http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4084/5021767689_96a4821b3a.jpg
― VIRGIN ROO (darraghmac), Saturday, 9 July 2011 00:25 (thirteen years ago)
irl lols
― estimate the percent chance that i break my foot off in your ass (Neanderthal), Saturday, 9 July 2011 00:25 (thirteen years ago)
http://www.marissamarchant.com/
― police steady askin me who did the plussin (Edward III), Saturday, 9 July 2011 00:26 (thirteen years ago)
she-who-cannot-be-banned
― police steady askin me who did the plussin (Edward III), Saturday, 9 July 2011 00:31 (thirteen years ago)
LOL, Stan!!!! >:|
― Bloompsday (Trayce), Saturday, 9 July 2011 10:56 (thirteen years ago)
k it's really just getting ridiculous in there now. like most everyone is ignoring her but she's just typing paragraphs of screeds....
― Neanderthal, Saturday, 9 July 2011 22:19 (thirteen years ago)
why not just ban everyone but MM from the Vyrgo Nior thread?― why delonge face? (unregistered), Friday, 8 July 2011 21:55 (Yesterday) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
― why delonge face? (unregistered), Friday, 8 July 2011 21:55 (Yesterday) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
I'm coming round to this idea, btw.
― Mark G, Saturday, 9 July 2011 23:45 (thirteen years ago)
http://www.lionking.org/imgarchive/Act_2/ItIsTime.jpg
it is time
― bros -izing bros (k3vin k.), Sunday, 10 July 2011 01:56 (thirteen years ago)
so, idgi is this some beloved old ilx poster u all saw slowly & painfully become mentally or just someone who showed up posting long crazy rants that u tiptoe around 2 b nice? lookin for some narrative structure
― flopson, Sunday, 10 July 2011 02:04 (thirteen years ago)
iirc just a career weirdo
― bros -izing bros (k3vin k.), Sunday, 10 July 2011 02:05 (thirteen years ago)
i dig that prog youtube
― flopson, Sunday, 10 July 2011 02:06 (thirteen years ago)
Lonely crazy who has a persecution complex and paranoia, mistakes lack of mainstream praise for her work and her favorites for a epic conspiracy. Incapable of engaging in conversation. Has had several pseudonyms, denies it all. A few ilxors had off-board email conversations.
― mh, Sunday, 10 July 2011 04:30 (thirteen years ago)
How old is she, has anyone established? She sometimes comes across like a 12 year old who doesnt quite comprehend how dialog flow on the internet works.
― Bloompsday (Trayce), Sunday, 10 July 2011 05:24 (thirteen years ago)
― brazenly frog (bnw), Friday, July 8, 2011 9:28 PM (2 days ago) Bookmark
ty
― BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Sunday, 10 July 2011 06:21 (thirteen years ago)
Is she real or not? I mean, does anyone know anyone like her in real life? There are artificial intelligence scripts that can communicate more naturally.
― StanM, Sunday, 10 July 2011 11:35 (thirteen years ago)
In 1972, at the Stanford Artificial Intelligence Laboratory, Colby built upon the idea of ELIZA to create a natural language program called PARRY that simulated the thinking of a paranoid individual. This thinking entails the consistent misinterpretation of others' motives – others must be up to no good, they must have concealed motives that are dangerous, or their inquiries into certain areas must be deflected - which PARRY achieved via a complex system of assumptions, attributions, and "emotional responses" triggered by shifting weights assigned to verbal inputs.
(sorry for lolz post, not really a laughing matter, but that was what Stan's post immediately set me thinking of)
― sticky crisco (a passing spacecadet), Sunday, 10 July 2011 13:26 (thirteen years ago)
in what way do you feel Stan's post immediately set me thinking of?
― Neanderthal, Sunday, 10 July 2011 13:28 (thirteen years ago)
― sarahel, Friday, July 8, 2011 2:47 PM (2 days ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
guys the important thing here, sarahel thinks kicking puppies is lol
― ice cr?m, Sunday, 10 July 2011 14:01 (thirteen years ago)
omg sb
― VIRGIN ROO (darraghmac), Sunday, 10 July 2011 14:23 (thirteen years ago)
She always did remind me of a badly programmed chatterbot, actually, but she does seem to exist.
― Christine Green Leafy Dragon Indigo, Sunday, 10 July 2011 16:51 (thirteen years ago)
admit I was pasting her into cleverbot at work last week.
― brazenly frog (bnw), Sunday, 10 July 2011 16:54 (thirteen years ago)
She posted her cellphone number here, and some ILXors were daft enough to ring her.
― Mark G, Sunday, 10 July 2011 19:36 (thirteen years ago)
My comments about the pitch were clearly a mistake, but they were well-intentioned, if naively so. I really was listening to those songs thinking "damnit, this is actually a good melody and I wish it were in key" -- I mean I went very easy on her, that shit is WAY out of tune. And I was trying to suggest how she could hear herself better while recording.
― relentlessly googling hipster (Hurting 2), Sunday, 10 July 2011 19:53 (thirteen years ago)
Ten years ago, "paranoid brunette singer/songwriter who enjoys prog" would probably be how I would have described my ideal woman. Glad that I've gained some life experience.
― relentlessly googling hipster (Hurting 2), Sunday, 10 July 2011 19:56 (thirteen years ago)
there's a difference between a little twitchy and totally off the deep end
and then there's this one
― mh, Sunday, 10 July 2011 20:26 (thirteen years ago)
How old is she, has anyone established? She sometimes comes across like a 12 year old who doesnt quite comprehend how dialog flow on the internet works.― Bloompsday (Trayce), Sunday, July 10, 2011 6:24 AM (15 hours ago)
― Bloompsday (Trayce), Sunday, July 10, 2011 6:24 AM (15 hours ago)
the pictures on her new site are the same ones she had on her old site 7 years ago, and they were probably outdated even then. imho a person with a visceral hatred for Bela Fleck can only have been born before 1975.
― tmi faye bakker, Sunday, 10 July 2011 20:44 (thirteen years ago)
I'd say 35 or older, yeah
― mh, Sunday, 10 July 2011 22:11 (thirteen years ago)
Yeah thats what i figured/feared.
― Bloompsday (Trayce), Sunday, 10 July 2011 22:24 (thirteen years ago)
(I think she's mid-forties, if her DOB I found once on a long forgoten site was any indication)
― Mark G, Monday, 11 July 2011 08:24 (thirteen years ago)
I think it's time for the mercy ban.
a. she's incapable of rational conversation
b. absent rational conversation, the only reason to let her hang around, imo, is to gawk at the slo-mo mental health train wreck, either with amusement or pity
c. we can't help her
d. the Marchant-denialism is NAGL
― Josef K-Doe (WmC), Monday, 11 July 2011 13:36 (thirteen years ago)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=guqlhpKgxFs
― Let Them Eat Rickroll (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 11 July 2011 13:56 (thirteen years ago)
Suggest Ban Permalink― StanM, Sunday, July 10, 2011 11:35 AM (Yesterday) Bookmark
unf, my Dad is a Schizophrenic and at 55, his typing/online communication is a little stunted; she gives me the same vibe. Too much bad acid in the 70s imo :(
― she started dancing to that (Finefinemusic), Monday, 11 July 2011 14:05 (thirteen years ago)
Okay - didn't mean to offend - but how DO we react to her without making it worse/sending her off into directions we can't predict with our simple one-person brains?
A mercy ban would only strenghten her belief that IXL is a fascist hive mind conspiracy out to get her.
We've let it come this far, I say we ride it out - looks like the next big abandonment/reincarnation is coming up any day now (since we won't be able to do what she demands - we don't control the google archive of encyclopedia dramatica's page about her, nor can we delete articles from SF Weekly that have been online for years).
It still feels like we're guinea pigs in a weird social psychology experiment, but maybe that's her paranoia rubbing off or something.
― StanM, Monday, 11 July 2011 14:11 (thirteen years ago)
lol are you serious
― call all destroyer, Monday, 11 July 2011 14:13 (thirteen years ago)
I assume so
― Let Them Eat Rickroll (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 11 July 2011 14:14 (thirteen years ago)
but how DO we react to her without making it worse/sending her off into directions we can't predict with our simple one-person brains?
We can't.
Nothing we can do would prevent that.
We've let it come this far, I say we ride it out -
too late.
― Josef K-Doe (WmC), Monday, 11 July 2011 14:15 (thirteen years ago)
I think just ignore? I mean when my Dad starts ranting I just kinda say 'yeah Dad' and various non-confrontational things and back away, and later he sometimes realizes I'm not an asshole :D
― she started dancing to that (Finefinemusic), Monday, 11 July 2011 14:16 (thirteen years ago)
Serious about what exactly? (none of that was meant to be funny or wrong or something, if it was then that was accidental)
Ok, ignore it is.
― StanM, Monday, 11 July 2011 14:21 (thirteen years ago)
serious about the idea that speaking with her could possibly accomplish something
― call all destroyer, Monday, 11 July 2011 14:37 (thirteen years ago)
People keep trying, hope springs eternal.
― Let Them Eat Rickroll (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 11 July 2011 14:47 (thirteen years ago)
You're making the assumption she's not menacing other communities, which we know is untrue due to her obsessive youtube comment posting
― mh, Monday, 11 July 2011 14:57 (thirteen years ago)
"menacing" is not the right word for what she does on the internets
― Josef K-Doe (WmC), Monday, 11 July 2011 14:59 (thirteen years ago)
Feel sorry, but don't think anybody on this board reaching out, saying hi, helping her fine tune her logic, etc. is going to help her.
― Let Them Eat Rickroll (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 11 July 2011 15:01 (thirteen years ago)
Lorax versus the dragon was an entertaining battle for the first five seconds
― mh, Monday, 11 July 2011 15:02 (thirteen years ago)
I know Adobe Photoshop....All I need to do is start over and
You will never find me.
poetry
― duke of irl (Edward III), Monday, 11 July 2011 15:19 (thirteen years ago)
marisa is real, mercy ban was the right call imo
― brooklyn's complicated relationship with bacon (forksclovetofu), Monday, 11 July 2011 17:14 (thirteen years ago)
Oh, it already happened - hadn't seen the admin log and the good luck posts yet.
We'll continue this discussion in a couple of years when we find out her new name :-)
― StanM, Monday, 11 July 2011 17:29 (thirteen years ago)
Maybe she will adopt this name: this is the thread where you impersonate other ilxors
― Let Them Eat Rickroll (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 11 July 2011 17:31 (thirteen years ago)
i oppose this ban.
― gr8080, Monday, 11 July 2011 18:32 (thirteen years ago)
no one cares
― DJP, Monday, 11 July 2011 18:33 (thirteen years ago)
I do.
― bnw, Monday, 11 July 2011 18:34 (thirteen years ago)
i don't have much of an opinion on this ban
it was getting kind of grim reading her but i have no idea if it will be 'good for her' to kick her off
― goole, Monday, 11 July 2011 18:36 (thirteen years ago)
it's either that or give people a week to get tired of interacting
she was already getting to the point where she was grinding the same two posts out ad nauseum
― mh, Monday, 11 July 2011 18:53 (thirteen years ago)
i care what grady thinks!
― ☂ (max), Monday, 11 July 2011 21:23 (thirteen years ago)
me 2
― bros -izing bros (k3vin k.), Monday, 11 July 2011 22:27 (thirteen years ago)
http://i.imgur.com/qb8UC.gif
― gr8080, Monday, 11 July 2011 22:50 (thirteen years ago)
is that gr80 howser writing in his journal at the end of his episode?
― mh, Tuesday, 12 July 2011 00:51 (thirteen years ago)