Why are evil people so popular in mainstream music?What about the most loving people in music?

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Who are the most loving people in music?
Who are most giving, most insincere...most humble....

moral, ethical....
and people who really go out of their way to help people in need?

Good people are very unpopular even in Christian music..but Christian music is centered around evil people not God.

Most people are evil....and afraid of good people....

They don't like good people who are loving and honest.

I am a beautiful person inside and out, maybe when I get depressed I think I am not pretty.

but more then outside..I am a beautiful person and a very good person who is extremely sensitive and romantic...only being dumped by men who love evil women who are just like they are.

It doesn't hurt that much because I believe that God creates many evil people and very few good people...

I am not a christian.

I just believe that most men that I meet rejected me because I am a very loving, good and wonderful person.

Demons find other Demons to love and no therapy will ever help them out of being a demon.

Once a demon is born into the world....nothing will change them...

They will never turn around into a born again person who is now a good person.

I believe that people are born good or evil.....

and no therapist can help a good person to become better...or an evil person to become good.

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 14:48 (eighteen years ago)

uhhhhh......check please! LOL OMG FART!

― TynanTynan, Thursday, 29 March 2007 22:56 (eighteen years ago)

If you don't think they are evil..let me know why.

I don't use profanity in my lyrics..

I am a true romantic and have high moral stanards.

I am an extremely loving person and giving.

Why is it that extremely romantic people who are not ugly are not popular with most men?

Because most men feel more comfortable with an unloving woman who is cold, and not that nice a person...
just because most men are not very nice....

They don't love women who are very kind and sincere....they go for people like themselves...
cold.

― marissa, Thursday, 29 March 2007 23:19 (eighteen years ago)

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8====D~~~~~~

― skr0nk, Thursday, 29 March 2007 23:22 (eighteen years ago)

― marissa, Thursday, 29 March 2007 23:25 (eighteen years ago)

Most men get very attracted to women who are very similar to themselves...Since most people are evil...most people feel very comfortable with unloving people who are not that nice.

I stay alone alot because I don't feel comfortable with evil people, since there are so many of them around.

But evil people are not lonely, since the majority of people are very evil.....

and good people have a more difficult time finding people.

Men reject romantics and women with high moral standards....and go for women who are evil....

most...

― marissa, Thursday, 29 March 2007 23:27 (eighteen years ago)

what are your thoughts on rembetika music, marissa?

― Fetchboy, Thursday, 29 March 2007 23:29 (eighteen years ago)

rembetika music

don't know what that is.

― marissa, Thursday, 29 March 2007 23:31 (eighteen years ago)

Try not to change the subject please.
Please try to answer the answer the question.

Why do most men graviate to evil women and reject extremely nice and loving women?

Why do most women graviate to evil men and reject very romantic, sincere and loving men?

― marissa, Thursday, 29 March 2007 23:32 (eighteen years ago)

Gravitate towards evil people I meant to say.

― marissa, Thursday, 29 March 2007 23:34 (eighteen years ago)

Who are the most loving people in music?
Who are most giving, most insincere...most humble....

I think I made another mistake.

"who are the SINCERE, I mean to say."

And why are extremely good and loving people with talent, not popular????

Or if you think they are popular, name some that you feel are really going of their way to help people or the world...
and people who are very moral and very ethical...

Why are very good people not liked by so many people????

― marissa, Thursday, 29 March 2007 23:42 (eighteen years ago)

Youssou N'Dour, do you like him? He seems sincere to me.

― marmotwolof, Thursday, 29 March 2007 23:59 (eighteen years ago)

And Hootie

― Drooone, Friday, 30 March 2007 00:00 (eighteen years ago)

I have heard of him.. I don't know much about him.

O.k...why do you think he seems sincere?

What is he doing to convince you that he is an extremely nice person with high moral standards who is a romantic???...helping the world?? and humble??

Associating with the unfamous?

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 00:01 (eighteen years ago)

Hootie is not popular anymore...did he become too nice and caring ?? lol

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 00:02 (eighteen years ago)

You don't know who is good or bad, only God does. A truly good person wouldn't condemn and denounce the rest of humanity, they would try to help people. "Judge not, lest ye be judged."

On what grounds do you consider yourself "good", beside being "nice" in day-to-day dealings and following obvious moral laws such as not killing/lying/etc... if that's all you've got, it's a very low threshold. Do you donate money to good causes and volunteer your time for charitable work? If you did, maybe you'd meet a "good" guy there.

― DougD, Friday, 30 March 2007 00:08 (eighteen years ago)

I'm sorry, but I just don't accept the definition of "evil" or even the use of the word "evil" in itself.

― Geir Hongro, Friday, 30 March 2007 00:14 (eighteen years ago)

I have worked with the dying for a few years...
I did alot of volunteer work...

I sang for free in prisons...

and took strangers off the street to sleep in my home who were homeless in NYC.....

I am not haughty....

Yet I am talented...
I give money every week to animal rights orgs and don't have alot of money to give right now..but I do it.
I go out and feed animals in the woods every week in the winter who might be starving.

I used to take this blind girl name Mary E for a walk every week when I was younger ....
and never pursued a modeling career...
even though people thought I could do it.
I wanted to be with sincere people...
...and real people...
I was and I am still am an extremely romantic and encouraging person to many people...
and extremely giving to this day.

NO God does judge...but god also says that most people are evil...that is a fact...

Narrow is the way to God..

not wide.
I believe that statement even though I am not into everything in the Bible.

The world seems to be getting colder by the day...

I met a very talented girl in Nashville we did a concert with her boyfriend...
She was also taking in the homeless off the street...
she had such a good voice...never heard of her again...

She never became popular.
I can't remember her name because we only had one concert together...
and talk briefly...

I am not judging people...I am observant.

It is very difficult to live in a world that is filled with so many uncaring people..
Youssou N'Dour

he sounds like a nice man...i went on his site.

but Youssou N'Dour...he is not popular...and you can see why...

but I don't know much about him....
the whole pic is not there..

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 00:16 (eighteen years ago)

I have never slept with a man....cause no one love me...

and I wouldn't want to sleep with a man who is unloving...not romantic and not very deep..

which is most men.

I have high moral standards...and don't enjoy being in the arms of men who are selfish.....

which is most...and not tender or kind...in the real sensse...

no morals...

I have been tempted to sleep with uncaring men who love no one but themselves...but they could see that I am not their type...I am not evil....and I am not selfish and uncaring...
and not cold...
so it was no go...

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 00:19 (eighteen years ago)

I have never had sex

― g®▲Ðұ, Friday, 30 March 2007 00:22 (eighteen years ago)

tthe men that I meet or dated were cold, callous, self absorbed son of a bitches.

I tried to force myself to have sex...and couldn't do it...beccause I tried to be romantic with this guy and he ended speaking to me like I was trash and a prostitute....

he ended up giving me a black eye.
I just had a guy come over my house who is a flamenco guitarist...
he was not warm...very rude...
and wanted to date me...
but he wasn't a nice person.

I found out that he too is violent...he beats people up on the street...and yet he is very gifted.

alot of women end up being beaten frequently by men..

Evil is a real word.

I just got rejected by a man because I stopped talking dirty to him..and said that want a genuine friendship and love.....

when I talked dirty to him and acted like a loose whore he wanted to meet me...
when I said that I am nice woman who wants to love a man...
he quickly stopped talking to me.

Evil is real.

it is ....

every man I have met or dated was immoral...not kind...not warm..not romantic...
not caring, giving ...or very materialistic.

Most men are very demeaning to women....
and dont' want committments....not many people are marrying today...

Not only demeaning but completely self-absorbed...

I have tested men....
they want very loose women with no morals...or women who are very materialistic...who really are shallow....

evil...

they like women to not expect much of anything....

cause they can't give of their selfish selves.

If think our world is moral think again..

I have met one unkind selfish and evil man after the other for many many many years....

I have never met one man that I could say...wow ...what a guy.....

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 00:38 (eighteen years ago)

There is no such thing as Evil.

― Geir Hongro, Friday, 30 March 2007 00:42 (eighteen years ago)

There is no such thing as Evil.

ahahahha, you must be living in denial or not in the real world.

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 00:47 (eighteen years ago)

marissa OTM

― Curt1s Stephens, Friday, 30 March 2007 00:50 (eighteen years ago)

marissa pwns Geir = classic

― marmotwolof, Friday, 30 March 2007 00:53 (eighteen years ago)

Everybody pwns Geir!

― Mark G, Friday, 30 March 2007 00:55 (eighteen years ago)

marissa pwns Geir = classic

don't understand this...at all.

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 00:56 (eighteen years ago)

It means we like what you said to him.

― marmotwolof, Friday, 30 March 2007 00:59 (eighteen years ago)

The men that I met ...I am sure there are some nice men , but I haven't really encountered them...

the guys that dumped me...I assure you that they never took a job to help the dying.....
never took blind and lonely girls for walks....never befriended blind people (for no money) and just wanted to spend time with them because they are nice people....never took homeless people into their home off the street....

The men that I met were status conscience...only thing they care about....
1.MOney
2. Status
3. self
4. sex and lust
5. materialism

I was being rejected for so many years by men who really didn't care about the needy, or animals...
I thiought I met one or two guys that cared about animals and the needy...but it was not true.

A good friend in NYC....was a guy working with the dying..

I am sure that every guy that has dumped me is with a very shallow, materialistic, cold woman.

If I couldn't say"Wow what a guy."
How could I sleep with someone?

I suppose I didn't meet enough people since most men are so shallow that isn't funny.

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:02 (eighteen years ago)

http://i26.photobucket.com/albums/c102/OfMarrow/head.jpg

― circa1916, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:07 (eighteen years ago)

can someone ban this guy? Or do you only ban nice people?

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:10 (eighteen years ago)

can any man or woman talk about what they are doing for the world around them??
no comments?
and why it is that some evil person comes on the board to prove that they glorify in evil.
I assume it is a man.

Not a woman.

Men glorify in evil.

there was a thread here ....who are deadliest men in rock.

they glorify in evil...

That is a fact...
the men I meet glorify in evil women if they have money.

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:13 (eighteen years ago)

We're allowed to post pictures as a reply. Something you said must have made him feel like his head exploded.

― marmotwolof, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:14 (eighteen years ago)

Are you one odem feminists, Marissa?

― Drooone, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:14 (eighteen years ago)

http://i26.photobucket.com/albums/c102/OfMarrow/delusional-md.jpg

― circa1916, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:19 (eighteen years ago)

No ...I am a humanist and animal lover...
and environmentalist.

No feminist...I believe in equality for a living things and very into animal rights and envionmental protection.
if I meet men that are exceptional...I love them as people....

My father doesnt' think much of men....
He works at a college and teaches and sees how very poorly all his female students are being treated by men...

Is my father a feminist?

No a realist.

I have lived in various places hearing women screaming in pain and the police coming to the houses...
I have observed men and their violent, materialistic ...objectifying tendencies...and my father talks me about how men stink all the time.

However, some men are the exception to the rule.

You can't put all men in a box...but with serious social problems...
men seem to feel it is cool to be evil....

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:19 (eighteen years ago)

Marissa!

Music.

― Mark G, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:22 (eighteen years ago)

I am not music.. I am a human being mark...

I am not a wind up doll

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:23 (eighteen years ago)

What is wrong, can't you relate to real humans?

Or is everything suppose impersonal..cold, about music...
not deep...

sorry, I am a human being man.

I am not an object.

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:25 (eighteen years ago)

OK, I think I can answer the question.

People live vicariously through those that are famous. They get to take the drugs, drive badly, shag / swear / damage those people or hotel rooms or whatever, so that the general population don't have to.

People can like nice people, but the bad guys, firstly have the kind of determination to get what they want and sod the rest, and secondly can project a personality and take the audience with them.

I don't believe in 'peer-pressure' but then I see it all around so what do I know about it.

― Mark G, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:29 (eighteen years ago)

(dropped a question mark at the end there)

― Mark G, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:30 (eighteen years ago)

I think that people should accept that muscians are people...

and we have serious social problems involved men objectifying human beings...

not wanting to take responsiblity for anyone...

glorifying in evil....thinking it is cool to be tough, evil and uncaring...

and the media is glorifying in nihilism.

You know what Nihilism is?

Men are running the media...they are glorifying in Nihilism.

I am interested in music...but I am a well rounded person.

what do you do outside of talk about music?

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:30 (eighteen years ago)

No that is false..
I have serious determination...
but the bad guy are the majority and form clubs to exclude nice people....

the bad guys are the vast majority...

meaning that they the good people don't have enough support because there isn't enough good people out there.

I don't like any evil entertainers...like other people do.
I don't want to hear their mouth like alot of people I know.

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:33 (eighteen years ago)

What do I do? Go to work, come home, take wife/kids out shopping, listen to music (mostly in-car), currently trying to find a holiday deal, etc.

― Mark G, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:33 (eighteen years ago)

I'm not saying the 'bad boys' are the only people with determination.

― Mark G, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:34 (eighteen years ago)

What do I do? Go to work, come home, take wife/kids out shopping, listen to music (mostly in-car), currently trying to find a holiday deal, etc.

and no interests in anything else...that is why I am not married or with anyone.

typical...

not deep...not involved with the world..
Most men looking for women who are the same way...completely shallow.

Sorry to offend.

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:37 (eighteen years ago)

ah you don't know my kids.

― Mark G, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:40 (eighteen years ago)

and no interests in anything else...that is why I am not married or with anyone.

That's just it. You have to give up so much of yourself in this situation. And not mind it.

― Mark G, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:42 (eighteen years ago)

marissa, you should've contributed a track to Mark G's ILX comp

― Dominique, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:42 (eighteen years ago)

I asked her, she politely declined.

― Mark G, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:43 (eighteen years ago)

what people do you have interests in helping besides your family?

I read in a book...the way to tell if a man is really going to be a good husband or boyfriend...

find out how he treats people he doesn't have to treat well.....

because that is how he will treat you in the end..

If a man doesn't care about the poor, old people..sick people...
animal rights...starving animals...poor women that work as waitresses (and doesn't tip them well)
you will find out how he will treat you in the end...

If a man doesn't have an interest in anything outside of himself or his family...
he will never be a good boyfriend or husband..

The best people i have met were working with the dying....
as a job....the nicest people...
or people involved with helping people or animals and didn't have to....

Atoro was a friend in NYC....if he were more my type in other ways..I would have loved him because was a giving person and kind.

a man.

People who have interests in the outside world....are people who I don't want to talk to....I don't like the self absorbed.

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:52 (eighteen years ago)

I'm in IT, I help loads of people.

To be honest, I can't say "I'm nice" it's not for me to say.

― Mark G, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:54 (eighteen years ago)

I mean people who have no interests in the outside world...NO interest...are people I don't want to talk to...

o.k?

Let them find a person who is self absorbed...

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:54 (eighteen years ago)

Well, I have to go. I have a sudden interest in sleeping (it's 3 in the morning here).

Laters!

― Mark G, Friday, 30 March 2007 01:56 (eighteen years ago)

One time I was sitting in NYC ...Manhattan...eating lunch...
and looking out the window....

I noticed a hunched back old woman..about eighty something years old...

very poor and with a cup....

asking for money....

I sat there observing ...how many people walked by this woman..as if they didn't care..

How many people you ask?

MOST!

Hundreds of people walking by didn't give a cent to this woman or a smile..

Only one person in a long time gave her any attention....
That means that most people really are selfish and evil to the core.

MOST...

So I walked outside and handed her a flower I just bought and gave her some money.

I hate to observe people who don't care about the elderly and poor...

that is why the music scene has declined....
I really believe that heart and soul...and love is almost nowhere to found in the people in that city.

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 02:00 (eighteen years ago)

I make a bet all the men who showed no interest in me...showed interest in the vast majority of women who walked by that woman...

It really showed me....how few people really are kind....

I couldn't believe the amount of people who walked by this woman...she was so obviously there....

that is why there is no music in that city..
that city is a heartless place ...filled with people who don't give a damn about anything....

I was sitting there for so long...and very saddened to see so many people who just don't care about anything but themselves....

I realize that is why my love life stinks...

men go after materistic..shallow women....

but life is not over for me..

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 02:04 (eighteen years ago)

actually, some men go after crazy women too

― Dominique, Friday, 30 March 2007 02:13 (eighteen years ago)

No men mostly go for crazy women....because crazy women love men who think they should rule...dominate and be the head of the household....

crazy women marry men who beat them....

crazy women love men and have sex with uncaring, selfish bastards....

crazy women are not independent....

which are most women...

Most women are groveling at men's feet....
and they are crazy....

they will do anything to get their approval....

I am not like one of these women....

Some women treat men badly, I have seen it...

and i have seen crazy women who find men..who treat men like trash....

In fact I really believe that crazy women are extremely popular with most men....

They don't like stable women who are sure of themselves...

they want desperate women....women who are not stable and not strong....

women who are very materialistic....

shallow and weak women...
to share in their addictions and worship of matierlialism and commericalism.

I love self centered women....cause they are selfish..and shallow...most men...

alot of women find themselves with no husband and children to take care of alone....or the man is deadbeat...and doesn't really give anything and expects alot more.

and women will accept any crumb off the table...

The specifically look for women who are not strong..and think that men who should dominate....

they look for very shallow ..weak and crazy women for the most part....

any woman who is articulate scares them..

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 02:31 (eighteen years ago)

I love self centered women....cause they are selfish..and shallow...most men...
I mean to say...THEY love self centered women....not I...

any woman who is stable and articulate scares most men...

they are looking for very weak women...very unstable....

to share in their instability.

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 02:36 (eighteen years ago)

or maybe they just want an easy lay. but not you, marissa.

― Dominique, Friday, 30 March 2007 02:39 (eighteen years ago)

I tried an easy lay....I tried and asked many men to sleep with me....
believe it or not...
cause I am not that strong in that area....

Not one said yes....

Not very passionate....

I don't really want to reveal that.....

I think they are looking for passionless women who are very materialistic...
there is a difference between sex and passion...
and sensuality...

they are look for cold, matertistic women who are not that great in bed...

I am a scorpio....

Hyper sex drive....

men are not that interested in sex as they are into control..power and domination....

and their idea of sex is not about love and sensuality....

or romance..it is about control....

and if they feel that a woman is not someone they could control...

it is no go...

that is how men think....

they are more interested in control then passion.

And really want sex from women who they can control for the most part....

I have been sort of a sex maniac and I am not unattractive at all...

all the men I wanted to have sex with and that was many...

have acted like they can't put out real passion.

I guess they will end up with a coldfish.

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 02:51 (eighteen years ago)

why can't most men put out?

why can't they deal with a very attractive passionate and sensuous woman?
because men are mostly interested in domination...not passion and romance..

for years..my sex drive was very intense....

I asked men all the time to sleep with me...

I am not a slut...just I have a high libido and can't deal with being single...

tons of men declined my offer and ended up with a less passsionate..cold woman who wants to be dominated not made love to...

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 02:59 (eighteen years ago)

well, too bad, I'm going out tonight to dance and drink. if only I had a passionate and sensuous woman by my side...

― Dominique, Friday, 30 March 2007 03:03 (eighteen years ago)

welll some are passionate and great lovers...who are not sick and looking for domination...

but most are....

I went after a Frenchman resently...he responded to serious passion...

My best date was with a french canadian guitarist....sensuous...

Maybe it is our culture..I am not sure....

this frenchman said that I am too shy to get him excited...
but when I wasn't acting shy..he liked serious and out of control passion....

but I can't take the lead....
and he wants me to take all the action and lead him into the bedroom...

I figure that he would not be good in bed if he can't take action ...and expects me to do all the work....

I met alot of passionless men...

O.k...ONE guy from Venice sent me roses via email..dancing roses in a gif..and was writing poetry....and he seemed passionate...

I couldn't understand him ...we had a lanuage barrier.

I suppose it could be our culture...where the men look for less passionate and sensuous women who are not that pretty....

alot of men I meet are like dead fish....

passionless....
I have kissed many though...more then i said in the past....
most of them can't kiss....
so why go all the way?
they are so passionless...

do I sound disappointed?

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 03:11 (eighteen years ago)

what I think scared men off ...is my libido..

I have or had an intensely high libido...
and extremely passionate and sexually and sensuously obsessed..and if they didn't put out and I was impatient..I would get very angry....

and hostile...

dealing with my intensity and passion is what cause alot of men to run or just find a woman who is less passionately obsessed....

I am not into porno..and not a slut...

it sounds like i am....

I am an attractive woman...but not cold...

I had a friend in nyc...she was a slut....

but not passionate...no lips...

no body....
but she liked sex....
but passion?
no.
she liked sex..because she could get what she wanted ...which is a guy with money...

she wasn't romantic..or loving..and said that she never loved a man...but men liked her...because she wasn't good in bed...

how do I know this..???
by the way she talked about sex and men...
she was not warm and not loving and very popular with men...and extremely materialistic..

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 03:16 (eighteen years ago)

My best date was with a french canadian guitarist....sensuous... this guy

was not a temptation to me...

he kissed well though..but I didn't feel the chemistry

oh well....

Most men that I met...don't kiss well....

so why should I want sex with a man who won't satisfy me.

they need a woman who is cold and not good in bed so the chemistry is right....

and men want an easy lay.....
EASY>>>..not something filled with emotions..passion...love and tenderness....

something unemotional....passionless and dead...perfunctory kind of sex....dead fish kind.

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 03:36 (eighteen years ago)

Tiny Tim was the last loving person in music.

― shieldforyoureyes, Friday, 30 March 2007 03:36 (eighteen years ago)

If I asked Joachin home that night and gave him impersonal...passionless and unemotional sex.....

he would like it because it was an easy (dead fish ) kind of lay.

Easy lay= dead fish lay

Something that isn't easy is having love ..emotions....depth....
romance and tenderness....

involved with serious passion...

Which means that most men are not good in bed and not great lovers....

I can't even remember the countless men that I kissed who were the most unpassionate men ...and then they got upset because I didn't want to have sex with the...they weren't good at foreplay...why be disappointed..???

Men can put out sex...but not great sex....

I tried to force myself...he wanted it...but the way he wanted it...he was ice cold...and wanted an easy, unemotional lay with no passion...and no tenderness...nothing romantic...

boy was he bad in bed...
and we couldn't do it...because he couldn't kiss well..and wasn't a romantic man...and unemotional...impersonal....
not exciting....

Joachin..the guy on the ferry.....couldn't give me a good lay if he tried....
even if his parents were well....
he was a very unpassionate ..unloving man....dead fish...dead wood kind of guy.

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 03:45 (eighteen years ago)

my friend sarah...was ice cold and treated me poorly...
she was extremely materialistic..superficial...
and very easy to get in bed....

very popular with men...

Easy lay....
she was impersonal..unemotional...unromantic...
cold....fake....
and after men for what they had in their wallets....

She confessed that she never loved a man in her whole life....

That is what men love.....
EAsy LAy....

a woman who can't love a man...isn't romantic...is ice cold..and impersonal and superfical..

men was after her left and right...to have and easy lay and ignored me...becasue I was romantic...loving, caring..passionate....sensuous and everything that she wasn't...

she was not prettier then I am..and much shorter then I am..with a flat chest...
but being superfical..cold ..and impersonal..is what alot of men are after...

cause they also stink in bed....

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 04:23 (eighteen years ago)

The greatest love of all is pretty easy to achieve. It's inside of you...learning
to love yourself...it is the greatest love of all.
People need someone to look up to. If you never found anyone to fullfill
your needs, it's a lonely place to be and you learn to depend on yourself
and not walk in anyone's shadows. But if you fail, if you succeed, at least you'll
live as you believe. No one can take away your dignity.

― Suikinkutsu, Friday, 30 March 2007 05:05 (eighteen years ago)

Too many people just love themselves and no one else.
That song is bad, and I don't like the lyrics..
this song would appeal to people who don't find joy in loving others.

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 05:09 (eighteen years ago)

o.k..i re-read this...
I like it now..

It is better then I thought...good lyrics.

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 05:10 (eighteen years ago)

somedays..I just say...MY God..I am such a nice person...such a great lover and I am attractive....

I am such a romantic loving person....

I tell myself...that I feel that these men who didn't want anything to do with me....I doubt they found better...if they did, they are lucky...
but I doubt they could give me an equal relationship...
cause I have alot more to give then these men had to offer...

If a man has little to offer, or he wants to offer very little or not much to a woman...
he will find someone who accepts this...because the woman also has very little to offer...
and is incapable...

I do love myself...
but I also loved and love other people....

I realize that they missed out and i didn't....

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 05:16 (eighteen years ago)

Marissa, you say you are not a Christian, yet you do believe in God. I wonder if you have tried meeting men who are similarly inclined? I mean, if you are looking for a man who shares your values of caring for others etc., then it seems to me some type of religious group (even if it's not Christian) or even a group of volunteers might be a very good way to meet someone who is dedicated to those values.

You say you are a Scorpio, and that comes through in what you say. Many folks find Scorpios hard to deal with or understand, but there are also plenty of folks out there who are quite suited to them, that's the way the zodiac works. I see no reason why you should give up.

― Bimble, Friday, 30 March 2007 05:55 (eighteen years ago)

yea, because I am a cultured type of artist and even if they are caring...most people do not relate well to people in the arts...especially someone who is into the way I have been....
they have little in common with me...

I feel most comfortable with people in the arts.....

yet they are some of the most self absorbed people on the planet....

I was thinking of joining some group that helps animals...or the environment...
but I still don't have alot in common with people because I am an artist and most people would rather be with an uncultural woman who has no interest in the arts or aesthetics...

that is a big part of my life....
I believe it is a calling...
I better get some good sleep....to finish my projects....

I suppose men in world music are people who are a little more gentle...
yet...music is a calling...like helping the poor ......
It is giving something to the world..

music is also healing...
music therapy....
music is very healing to people...

or it hurts.ahahahha.
I really should give up though....
cause I met too many too many men already...in church too...
all over....
The disappointments..and the continuous self absorbtions....

I have met too many people who are are horrible..and like i said on the street in NYC...the people dont' care about little old ladies who are hunched over....and poor....

I have grown way too bitter and cynical about people.....
I used to hope...untill I realized how many people don't give a damn about other people....

in a real way....

In my mind...it just kept growing year after year....with every man who treated me like dirt and cold as ice favouring materialistic and fake women....
and cold women....
and who were drunks and drug addicts ....
It seems to difficult to weed out all these evil people....
I really dont' want to weed anymore...looking for a flower.
When you are weeding and weeding and you don't find a flower ever...
you final say.....Gosh.....there is nothing there....and never will be....

I am getting to the point that I actually believe that it is meant for me to be alone.....

So I can contine taking blind girls for walks and taking in the homeless..so seflish and superifical men can ask out women who are materialistic and fake.

There is nothing wrong with giving up....

I haven't gone out for years...dont' write nicolas anymore...
I actually don't think Joachin is on this board...or ever has been..it must have been someone else playing this game...
He probably found his materialistic ..fake and commericalized woman in NYC....who is as cold as ice...so they could be compatible..

Sorry this is so long.

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 06:33 (eighteen years ago)

Sorry that was sooo long..

I dont' feel comfortable with religious groups....

I don't feel comfortable with religion....

I have my reasons....

― marissa, Friday, 30 March 2007 06:34 (eighteen years ago)

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