Are men mentally disturbed? why do they prefer sluts to extremely loving and romantic women?in music?

why are afraid to answer this?
why are all the women so hardened...cold looking?
tough...materialistic?
in music today...
why are they not soft ..romantic and loving in their lyrics and why don't they have very warm and lush voices...mostly a cold sound...and very cold looking women who are tough....
hardened women...

Why are hardened women who are cold so popular with men and in music?

are men mentally disturbed?