An open letter to ILX & mods re: an alternative to the current system

I don't see any issues with the sb system and I see no reason to change it. This is like the tenth thread we've had about this, and I would prefer not to do all this over again, but if we have to, I'll go ahead and bring up the same arguments we have every time.

cosign with jjjusten

arguing abt it is completely pointless tho, people who hate SB are resolute & people who don't see a problem with it think the objectors minimize the problems created by people who constantly attack, derail, obstruct, etc

i do think though that anybody who coded an alternate system would get a fair hearing tho. not described what the code might do, but coded it themselves. it would be a lot of work, but not really much more work than participating in heated anti-SB threads.

n/f jaundy slobs on mod's knobs

i mostly wish that the mods hadnt implemented an expiration d8 on sbs - wouldve been lol to see who the last non mod standing was as all regs slowly got 51. as it stands nowwwww feel like you have to be p socially retarded not to get why ppl h8 u but i guess 'being socially retarded' may well be the reason so many ppl h8 u

wld LOVE to force ppl to give reasonings behind sb - this is only for lulz - wld sb p much everyone of this was the case fyi

I like Lamp's stance on this because it's this very benign sort of berzerker sociopathy

I think the SB system is better than nothing, but I also think KDT makes legit points.

yeah, i've seen post flagging (v user flagging) work well on other boards. makes a ton of sense imo

foursquare with jjusten here. not sure what new points have been raised, though it's useful to start a new thread for each poster who has a problem with the sb system, definitely.

maybe tuomas can start his own one when w're done here, then whiney then gabbneb then lj twice, then etc

not sure what new points have been raised,

flagging posts instead of posters has been brought up before?

Re: post flagging - that's how sb works tho, mods can see which posts have been sbed - so not really sure what the difference here would be.

because there's no accumulated point system to notifications.

the difference is the user is aware of flag not just mods (xp)

i would hazard the guess that most of the people who get 30 day timeouts don't really give a shit if they piss people off, because ILX isn't that crucial a part of their well-being.

and - so if we implement this post flagging thing, we can have clusterfuck threads about flagged posts!

simply letting people see how many sb's they have would address a lot of the complaints about the current system with minimal extra work (as compared to a whole new system, flagging posts, etc)

i would hazard the guess that most of the people who get 30 day timeouts don't really give a shit if they piss people off, because ILX isn't that crucial a part of their well-being

i guess thats why so many of them still read it all the time & use intermediaries to post shit

there's a difference between a habitual distraction and crucial part of one's well-being

just sb'd you in the interest of field testing this theory

LOL!

idk a clusterfuck about the content of a flagged post would at least be more interesting and productive than another clusterfuck about the validity of abstract sbs

4 billion xps to sarahel

limited no of sb's you can give in 6 months, say 51?

but i'm pretty sure all of this has been discussed.

the 'flag a post, not a poster' idea just throws it back on the mods to do what they've always done, and there were neither fewer bannings nor fewer dramas back then.

well, yeah, it would definitely be more interesting, hoos, but some people want there to be as few meta clusterfucks as possible.

but we're having them anyway! give the kids the condoms!

^ the pope

Just as long as it all goes in the Admin Log

we were having them before anyway, ffs. we'll have them anyway under any system. but this way a fairly large number of board users each register the decision, as opposed to jjusten or hi dere getting dog's abuse for perfectly legit bannings from a message board.

do you honestly believe i'm arguing against the proliferation of meta clusterfucks?

as your pope i think yes

forgive me your holiness for i have sinned ...

do you honestly believe i'm arguing against the proliferation of meta clusterfucks?

wait, are you arguing FOR them?

i will let my pope speak for me.

yes

claro que si

I love this argument that clearly the SB system continues to work completely perfectly, because we have clearly absolutely 0 clusterfucks any more, no problems, everyone comes back from their 30 days perfectly behaving themselves and no one ever gets SB'd multiple times because they have magically via ESP been completely reformed and come back as magically better people (not at all bitter or angry or even just repeating the same things.) Yes! This is completely the truuuuuuuuuuuuth. In a magical wonderland that has nothing to do with ILX as it is right now.

The inherent denial of this kind of conservatism - "everything is working perfectly, there is no reason to change it!" - is almost comical. Because this is seriously just classic right-wing authoritarianism "this is the way it is, it works just fine, and we have to follow it, and never change it, because this is the way the authority made it."

John Justen's "I don't have any problem at all, with this thing - that I am, by the way, totally exempt from ever facing - therefore we do not have to discuss it ever again" is just the very essence of totally blind conservatism, and to me, seems perhaps a sign that he is facing some kind of moderator fatigue if he blindly resists any change or discussion over moderation policy.

No, I am not completely "socially retarded" (nice ablism there) - I am certainly aware that people "H8" me. However, attempting to detangle the threads of those who H8 me for things I cannot change (I am a woman, I'm mentally ill, I might even be a bit autistic by Lamp's lofty standards) from those who H8 me for ridiculous things (because I like Aphex Twin a bit too much, before I think Madonna is better than the Beatles, because I think Slowdive are worse than Hitler) from those who H8 me for politically motivated opinions I foolishly believe should be covered by free speech (because I am not an atheist, because I believe all-male all-white canons are socially rather than aesthetically motivated, because I believe in crazy things like feminism and resisting rape culture and HAES and fat acceptance and neurodiversity and am suspicious of psychopharmaceuticals) - I'm sorry, but if you can manage to detangle the valid "can you not do this, please?" H8 from the yapping tools "OMG crazy cat lady masonic boom tin hats oh noes!" H8 that gets handed on casually on ILX then - mister, you're a better man than I. There is no way to please everyone on ILX. Save maybe for never, ever venturing an opinion, and what kind of messageboard would that create?

From the mere fact that the same people get banned again, and the same behaviour recurs again and the same threads get started again - it seems perfectly clear that it doesn't do what you think it does. And "it works just fine, we're not changing it" is simply not an adequate response when it does not work.

I'm not saying "get rid of suggest ban, bring back the permabanned posters, let's have anarchy" - I'm saying "this could be a better system which might actually be more effective at controlling destructive behaviour while keeping ILX interesting and vibrant, not a paranoid popularity contest."

You're right, you don't have to listen. After all, you can vote me off, but I can't vote you off, John Justen. But it is not an invalid conversation because you are "bored of it."

i mean - who really thinks that scrapping sb for flagging posts is going to result in fewer meta clusterfucks? Instead of "why was dude banned?" it'll be "why did that post get flagged?"

i'm pretty sure that flagging posts vs. suggest ban will likely have the same effect -- if someone feels attacked/targeted/disliked by being sb-ed, then having their posts flagged, and the community response to that will probably result in the same feelings. Like, "How come when I posted that I got flagged, but when another ilxor posted the same thing, that post didn't get flagged?"

well given that "why was dude banned?" has often been answered with "here look at this post right here", i'm not sure that really stands up. i mean, the nice thing about flagging posts is that, generally, the offense is pretty clearly spelt out, with words and letters and everything.

xp

i will let my pope speak for me.

― sarahel, Sunday, November 21, 2010 3:13 PM (5 minutes ago)

I really would like the answer straight from you.

obv it won't -- obv the idea that multiple sb victims like jagger/whiney/cankles etc would be 'reformed' by a post flagging system is absurd -- the sb system does that better because after your second sb you get threatened w/ being kicked off the board

yeah, gbx, but how often is that the end of the discussion/clusterfuck?

I love this argument that clearly the SB system continues to work completely perfectly, because we have clearly absolutely 0 clusterfucks any more, no problems,

the response to that is that those things always happened, under any system. you'll need more justification than that, because i'm pretty sure that there's been lass clusterfuckery since sb came in?

everyone comes back from their 30 days perfectly behaving themselves and no one ever gets SB'd multiple times because they have magically via ESP been completely reformed and come back as magically better people (not at all bitter or angry or even just repeating the same things.) Yes! This is completely the truuuuuuuuuuuuth. In a magical wonderland that has nothing to do with ILX as it is right now.

it's unfortunately not the truth, but tbh it's not up to the rest of us how anyone wants to behave on ilx. we do have the sb utton though, maybe people should take that into account? i dunno.

altho tbf i sb kate and every woman on the board because i hate women -- somehow i wish they would understand this better

i feel like everyone should have to enter demographic info, and then we could just across the board sb all users that based on demographic info that we find distasteful, because of how everyone sbs kate because she's a woman

WmC - I was previously banned for engaging in meta-clusterfuckery. I was making a joke based on my "reputation"

altho tbf i sb kate and every woman on the board because i hate women -- somehow i wish they would understand this better

― J0rdan S., Sunday, November 21, 2010 3:26 PM (1 second ago)

I would like to request a conversation of civility and earnestness, not snark.

those who H8 me for things I cannot change (I am a woman)

earnestness!

-Flagging a post means that a problem is dealt with, there and then, rather than up to 6 months later, which the current SB system allows

-Flagging a post tells the "culprit" that "it was this post here, where you called Poster X a hairy goatfucker which made 17 people flag you for bestiality" instead of them desperately thinking "what was it? was it that time I told Dan he had dangleberries? was it the time I picked Revolver over Sgt Pepper? was it the time I got a bit heated over Cameron/Clegg slash? Or something I've completely forgotten I even said?" You can pretend people know exactly what the problem was. They don't.

-Flagging a post not a poster means that the focus is on *behaviour* not on the individual. Because even me, crazy cat lady that everyone HAAAAAAAAATES, starts threads about Astronomy Picture of the Day or shit that lots of people enjoy. Almost every poster on this board is capable of *both* clusterfuckery *and* good fun threads with pithy posts. The SB system as it is makes no differentiation. It could, and it should.

god grant me the serenity ...

if you annoy 51 different ppl in any 'community', seems fair that those 51 ppl can have a break from you for a month or so

Hey, I've just given my first SB in this thread. I wish I had been able to just flag up "I find this post unacceptable" instead, but I don't have that option.

Now I'm going to go, because you are really getting on my damn fibroids, Jordan.

http://www.avatarsdb.com/avatars/dog_sunglasses.gif yeah give him a few days, he'll just clock SBs otherwise

http://www.avatarsdb.com/avatars/dog_and_butterfly.gif endorse j0hn's gif, but for Geir

http://www.yourspacenow.com/img/animated183.gif I think this one's going to run and run
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http://i122.photobucket.com/albums/o273/ubi82/shit%20i%20made/SUPPLIES.gif wait what happened to tuomas??

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You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves.
Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.
Meanwhile the world goes on.
Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain
are moving across the landscapes,
over the prairies and the deep trees,
the mountains and the rivers.
Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,
are heading home again.
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
the world offers itself to your imagination,
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting--
over and over announcing your place
in the family of things.

Poems better than avatars. Thx for that, gbx.

mandatory avatars AND mandatory poem sigfiles

problem solved

it was the wisdom of Lamp and the lol of ENBB that brought me over

― aerosmith: the acid house years (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Wednesday, November 24, 2010 7:46 AM (56 minutes ago) Bookmark

I just wanna step in here to take credit for finding that "PIMPIN BITCH" avatar for ENBB

credit crut pimpin the enbbconomy

LOL. OH NO should I have given credit for that? That was all curtis.

The fact that this thread went off the rails again was entirely countered by Noodle's use of the word 'blanketly'.

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"FAHGEDDABOUT IT!"

should I read this thread or

skim it for the avatars

go volunteer at a soup kitchen or something

J0rdan teaching me how to live

Hi,
I want to edit or take down a post I made years ago which reads all wrong (not at all like I meant) but my old user name "does not exist in DB", how can I get rid of it?
It is here: Which language has the best swearwords?
CT

hahahaha

im 'avin that

pack it in you fucking joeys

am not condoning the use of those words, more laughing at CT's predicament and retrospective shame

ahem

?

We've all said silly shit under our govt names in the past

my choice of rebuke may have indicated a lack of sincerity in its intention

1. Joey 1966 up, 893 down

buy joey mugs, tshirts and magnets
The hottest sexiest thing alive. I wanna lick his face off.
I wish my boyfriend was a Joey.
I know don't we all?
smexy fishy hawt joey martin

ah wait, definition 4 brings it

ha

glad I cd do my little bit to keep 1980s hate speech alive

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Do you know what beef is?

beef is when I SB you
guaranteed to number 52

― aerosmith: the acid house years (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Sunday, November 21, 2010 5:31 PM bookmarkflaglink

Beef is when yr mods aren't safe up in the street

― a ticker tape of "must not fuck up" (Noodle Vague), Sunday, November 21, 2010 5:32 PM bookmarkflaglink

beef is when your socks roll several log-ins deep

― aerosmith: the acid house years (underrated aerosmith bootlegs I have owned), Sunday, November 21, 2010 5:32 PM bookmarkflaglink

helluva run here, bravo

did we ever get this sorted

suggest bank