if an ilx beef threatens to take over a perfectly innocent thread you can politely direct people here.

yo is it true vordul got realnamed

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ug8nHaelWtc

this beef thread got a little pink slimey

if an ilx beef gets out of hand on the beef thread come here to look at trees

by this logic, I should have been tempbanned for the last argument I had with Morbius

which, you know, you can tempban me now for it I guess but I think it's maybe a bad move in general?

― set me on fire RAAAAH (DJP), Friday, September 28, 2012 3:48 PM (3 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

u only get tempbanned if the person u realnamed is man enough to request u be tempbanned

one beef, two parody threads. that's gotta be a record

are you strong enough to temp my ban

i see what you are saying djp but pretty much everyone on the board knows that aero has particularly strong feelings abt real name use which he has made abundantly clear, so i see it as a more specific attack/fuck you vibe.

haha iirc Morbius requested pretty incessantly that DJP be banned (xposts)

anyway I agree w/jjjusten that we drop this.

maybe we should just acknowledge that the rules are different for some people

the object of issue has been edited, offending poster is taking a brief timeout
soylent green is beef
go look at trees

I am sorry if anything I have ever posted caused this, I feel bad about this whole thing and I'm still not sure why this happened.

*waits for k3v k to show up*

lol

http://rlv.zcache.com/img/imt-prd/pd-137299890145917137/isz-m/at-238560305421145726/realview.jpg?urbanimage_url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.urbandictionary.com%2Fproducts.image.php%3Fdefid%3D1140745%26greeting_card_outside%3D1&urbaninside_url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.urbandictionary.com%2Fproducts.image.php%3Fdefid%3D1140745%26greeting_card_inside%3D1&urbanword_txt=Picking+Fruit+Off+The+Beef+Tree

http://i166.photobucket.com/albums/u120/kingkonggodzilla/tyler.jpg

i'm surprised because i've never seen turangilia act like this. he always seems really mellow on ilx but maybe i've missed things. i enjoy his facebook posts a great deal. i feel bad about the whole thing. having said that, i flagposted his restraining order post and i've flagged about 2 posts the whole time that thing as existed. not acceptable at all in my opinion.

u only get tempbanned if the person u realnamed is man enough to request u be tempbanned

I do consider my willingness to demand a tempban an expression of my profound virility

keep it in your pants aero, no 'baiting

I was just playing I thought flopson and me get along p well nowdays

is that what you call it

I think I'd cry if scott ever flagged a post of mine :(

oh, you old hound xp

ummm so i think scott is otm and the tempban is pretty gross.

yeah

i'm surprised because i've never seen turangilia act like this. he always seems really mellow on ilx but maybe i've missed things. i enjoy his facebook posts a great deal. i feel bad about the whole thing.

^^^

I don't think the tempban is gross though.

Beach House - Bloom

if yr going to get all juridicial abt it then u have to consider specific intent as well as victim's specific feelings and i don't think turangalila was trying to cause offence on that scale, evidenced by prompt apology

tbh I don't think there's a hard and fast rule about banning due to real name-dropping, not even really an offense unless that person has expressly said not to use their real name previously, which wasn't the case in the DJP/Morbius incident, I think. I know I've used DJP's name occasionally but I don't think he cares?

I've previously argued that using a person's /first/ name, and that alone, on a thread isn't really that big of a deal even if they want some semblance of anonymity, unless they have a name that's either uniquely identifiable on the board or uniquely identifiable in the world at large. For instance, googling nabisco's first name definitely leads you to him pretty quickly, whereas googling "mike" isn't going to do much to track me down on ilx, let alone in the world at large.

I think it's reasonable to account for the fact that some ILXors have actual IRL overenthusiastic/creepy fans and others don't when making these sorts of decisions.

still not sure how i feel about realnaming = ban tbh (ftr nobody ever needs to be banned for realnaming me unless they're posting something libelous, etc), think tempbans are good idea in general and maybe could be deployed more liberally, like if you are posting just way too much etc. i remember the greenspun outages back in the day could be helpful in keeping this place fresh and in perspective. would argue this thread is useful as a quarantine and as a punctuation mark on the silliness of 'beefs', forcing whoever is shitting on whatever thread to consciously go to another thread and do their little internet fight there. think yellowcarding should be brought back (though that was just a noize thing right?) and used.

the suggestion is that sal (realnaming permission sought) was not trying to solicit creepy superfans, if that were demonstrably the case then it would be a different matter

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lnx7r6XRzI1qccm2fo1_400.gif

i'm generally against the tempban in this case -- it was a total dick move, really nasty and uncalled for, and as jj said deployed in a different way than the DJP/morbs one, but turangilia caught enough shit from other posters that he(?) probably feels terrible about it now so idk. agree with djp

what is the collective noun for board lawyers

when the entire 'harm' of a post can and is immediately undone by editing the offending post so it's googleproofed, a ban of any length of time does seem very extreme. do we still do yellowcards? that's totally yellowcard territory. that's fuckin' ocean avenue right there.

i think the context of the "irl zing" should be taken into context and suggests the need for a time-out. but then if i got temp-banned for typos and overposting i'd probably be grateful.

it's really going to be hard to make a decision about this issue until every single person who posts on ilx weighs in with their opinion

this is amazing

k3v you let me down :(

bringing back yellowcards would be a delight.

err on the side of forced vacations, imo

do approve of 'ocean avenue' entering the ilxecion as a synonym for yellowcarding, though.

be careful what u wish for crut

http://userserve-ak.last.fm/serve/500/299803/Yellowcard.jpg

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haa i didn't even get that

g/j ja-- er

if i could find you now things would get better :(

i got yellowcarded like two weeks ago

heard how's life bought ocean avenue two weeks ago.

Edit offending post, deliver brutal penile thrashing to offending poster.

genuine lol at some dude's username btw