― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 17:50 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 17:51 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 17:53 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 14 November 2003 17:54 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 17:55 (twenty-two years ago)
what job are u waiting to hear back from?
― Vic (Vic), Friday, 14 November 2003 17:55 (twenty-two years ago)
― jel -- (jel), Friday, 14 November 2003 17:56 (twenty-two years ago)
― hstencil, Friday, 14 November 2003 17:57 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 17:58 (twenty-two years ago)
Vic, do they pay PAs in LA?
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 14 November 2003 17:59 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:00 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:01 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:01 (twenty-two years ago)
mine is more documentary, thought the company does do some reality. it could involve WORLD TRAVEL if the series gets the green light!Good luck Vic.
Also, I should probably quit tying up my line by calling my answering machine every two minutes.
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:03 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:04 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:07 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:14 (twenty-two years ago)
@d@ml - good luck to you too, what's the documentary about?
― Vic (Vic), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:18 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:19 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:20 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:23 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:25 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:26 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:28 (twenty-two years ago)
mann - oh, i guess it's a win/lose thing then! are u certain you can't be an occassional poster?
― Vic (Vic), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:31 (twenty-two years ago)
― suzy (suzy), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:31 (twenty-two years ago)
(x-post: Thanks Suzy. The idea of myself as any kind of "specialist" is somewhat baffling, however...)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:35 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:36 (twenty-two years ago)
― jel -- (jel), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:37 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:42 (twenty-two years ago)
so, about a month ago, or crap, almost two months ago, when our interns were new, one of them asked me what I do."Basically everything that nobody else wants to do," I told him, rattling off a list of my various duties."Oh, so you're kind of like the specialist," he said without a trace of irony or sarcasm.
He now outranks me.
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:46 (twenty-two years ago)
(x-post:Horace, you need to get out of there)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 14 November 2003 18:48 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 19:18 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Friday, 14 November 2003 19:41 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Friday, 14 November 2003 19:42 (twenty-two years ago)
aaah. i think i want to just go to sleep. i'm starting to face the harsh reality by now.
― Vic (Vic), Friday, 14 November 2003 19:42 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 19:50 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 19:55 (twenty-two years ago)
― hstencil, Friday, 14 November 2003 19:56 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 19:57 (twenty-two years ago)
I think I sweat a gallon during that 30 second exchange and I felt like I was pestering.
Happy, Hstencil?
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 20:27 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 14 November 2003 20:30 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 20:33 (twenty-two years ago)
― dyson (dyson), Friday, 14 November 2003 20:39 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Friday, 14 November 2003 20:40 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 14 November 2003 20:40 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 20:45 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Friday, 14 November 2003 20:47 (twenty-two years ago)
I keep thinking about that pause...
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 20:59 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Friday, 14 November 2003 21:06 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 21:41 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Friday, 14 November 2003 21:45 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 21:47 (twenty-two years ago)
― teeny (teeny), Friday, 14 November 2003 21:49 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 21:51 (twenty-two years ago)
(hee hee, i made tinkle)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 14 November 2003 22:07 (twenty-two years ago)
I called again. J3nnif3r picked up the phone, the girl who interviewed me (the current assistant), who was supposed to call me back: Oh hiMe: Hi...so, er, if the assistant position is filled, will you still need PA on the show?Her: Oh we haven't come to a decision yet, one of my bosses [the prooducers] is ill. But even if it is filled there will _definitely_ be PA positions availableMe: Oh. So I called too early then, sorry..Her: No, that's okay...Me: (who was waiting for her to say something like when she would call): so I guess you're going to let us know early next week then? Her:quietly No, we'll know by the end of the dayMe: Oh, okay. But even if the assistant position is filled, I don't have to interview again for a PA positionHer: passivelyThat's right Me:so you'll be calling us later today...?Her:even more passive YesMe Or I actually have your email address, I could email you too..Her: That's fineMe: Thanks!Her: You're welcome..
Bye, bye.
Wtf? It all sounded so half-dead and everything, no I'm-sorry for not calling you yet and explaining the situation or reason on her own, no further directions on what to do even if I want to be a PA. Was it all a lie, the coincidental "sickness," and they just don't go out of their way to call the ones they reject for the assistantship?
But she was pretty low key during the whole thing, I mean maybe her phone speaking style i s really detached and passive this way. What's hard now is I can't really call again -today at least - this time I have to wait and if I don't get a call by the end of the day, email her and ask her what to do to start the PA process. I think she did sound sincere - and a bit louder - when she said they needed production assistants. But the rest of it...aaargh...the day ends in 3 or 4 hours..I really should have said I'll call again instead of email, but that might come across as irritating
What's off-putting is that she explained that more than a hundred people had applied to the job (I was one of the lucky few given an interiew since i share her alma mater)) - meaning her email must be full and she may not find/reply to mine, like ever. And when I met the one producer who was there in the office that day, even though I interviewed with her and everything, and asked him "oh so you're accepting PAs too," he said yes, and looked at her, telling her to make sure they had my name down for that. That was kind of discouraging, since it seemed like he wasn't considering me for the assistantship, and had already made up his mind since I'm not a voluptuous, big-breasted thing (like she is, btw).
― Vic (Vic), Friday, 14 November 2003 22:21 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Friday, 14 November 2003 23:26 (twenty-two years ago)
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Friday, 14 November 2003 23:29 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Friday, 14 November 2003 23:31 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Saturday, 15 November 2003 08:45 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sean (Sean), Saturday, 15 November 2003 08:48 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Saturday, 15 November 2003 11:46 (twenty-two years ago)
― HuckleberryMann, Saturday, 15 November 2003 20:51 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Saturday, 15 November 2003 21:28 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Saturday, 15 November 2003 21:41 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Saturday, 15 November 2003 21:44 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Saturday, 15 November 2003 21:48 (twenty-two years ago)
but since then, I have agreed to become a regular contributor to yet another publication that doesn't pay very much (though they asked me, and it's nice to be appreciated like that) and I was offered another stand-up gig at the end of the month.So everything's going my way. And I'm going to see George Carlin tonight.
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Monday, 17 November 2003 15:51 (twenty-two years ago)
― dyson (dyson), Monday, 17 November 2003 16:01 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Monday, 17 November 2003 16:03 (twenty-two years ago)
I had my third phone interview (a conference call) on Wednesday the 5th.
They said they'd have a decision by the end of the week.
No calls from them.
Here I go...
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Monday, 17 November 2003 16:09 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Monday, 17 November 2003 16:10 (twenty-two years ago)
I called. The guy was on the phone. I left a very SHORT and sweet message asking if they had filled the position yet and reminding them that I interviewed with them on 11/5. Now I just need to keep checking my answering machine at home.
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Monday, 17 November 2003 16:11 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Monday, 17 November 2003 16:13 (twenty-two years ago)
That was the hard part. I am expecting to get a "Sorry, we hired someone else and didn't call you because it would have been a pain in our collective ass" message at home, but at least I'll know one way or another and won't have to hear that in person.
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Monday, 17 November 2003 16:21 (twenty-two years ago)
― dyson (dyson), Monday, 17 November 2003 16:24 (twenty-two years ago)
― dyson (dyson), Monday, 17 November 2003 16:25 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Monday, 17 November 2003 16:31 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Monday, 17 November 2003 16:41 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Monday, 17 November 2003 16:45 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Monday, 17 November 2003 16:49 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Monday, 17 November 2003 17:00 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Monday, 17 November 2003 17:07 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Monday, 17 November 2003 17:08 (twenty-two years ago)
If they get a busy signal and choose someone else because of that... well in all seriousness fuck that, who would want to work for such chumps? SERIOUSLY.
Fuck phone interviews as well, btw, unless it's in another city. Tell them you prefer doing it in person. Unless you are really really stinky and have growths.
Good luck Sarah!
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 17 November 2003 17:09 (twenty-two years ago)
Ouch!
― Casuistry (Chris P), Monday, 17 November 2003 17:10 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 17 November 2003 17:22 (twenty-two years ago)
I would have opted for an in-person, but I'm so very far away from Chicago. :-(
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Monday, 17 November 2003 17:23 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Monday, 17 November 2003 17:26 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Monday, 17 November 2003 17:27 (twenty-two years ago)
― EMployer (coco), Monday, 17 November 2003 17:27 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Monday, 17 November 2003 17:35 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 17 November 2003 17:42 (twenty-two years ago)
hahaha!
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Monday, 17 November 2003 17:43 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Monday, 17 November 2003 17:45 (twenty-two years ago)
Yikes they called.Oh no, wait, that's an old message.
And another old message from them. I guess I never erased those.
So, no news.Blah.
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Monday, 17 November 2003 18:29 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sean (Sean), Monday, 17 November 2003 18:51 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Monday, 17 November 2003 18:54 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Monday, 17 November 2003 18:55 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Monday, 17 November 2003 18:55 (twenty-two years ago)
The thing is, I really hope I get the job. I've been able to handle my current jobbie only by placing desperate hope that I have a really cool job option. Which I don't have. Yet. Argh, I really feel the pain of fellow waiters-by-the-phone.
― quincie, Monday, 17 November 2003 19:21 (twenty-two years ago)
Anyway, update: no new messages, but I did call an old flame out of the blue.
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Monday, 17 November 2003 20:03 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Monday, 17 November 2003 20:04 (twenty-two years ago)
― hstencil, Monday, 17 November 2003 20:05 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Monday, 17 November 2003 20:17 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Monday, 17 November 2003 20:19 (twenty-two years ago)
― El Diablo Robotico (Nicole), Monday, 17 November 2003 20:19 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Monday, 17 November 2003 20:20 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Monday, 17 November 2003 20:21 (twenty-two years ago)
Just go to a bookstore, sit down with a cup of coffee, and study a book on it. You should find it's pretty straight forward.
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Monday, 17 November 2003 20:22 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Monday, 17 November 2003 20:23 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Monday, 17 November 2003 20:25 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Monday, 17 November 2003 20:26 (twenty-two years ago)
Glasses or contacts?Play up the accent or tone it down?
I think too much.
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Monday, 17 November 2003 20:35 (twenty-two years ago)
x-post: play the accent further, try to affect a really self-congratulatory tone or a really debasing southern drawl. Employers love that shit.
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Monday, 17 November 2003 20:36 (twenty-two years ago)
(Huck, "Oh, you have an accent, you must be from Southern Canada!" "A-yup.")
― Casuistry (Chris P), Monday, 17 November 2003 20:54 (twenty-two years ago)
I would have dismissed such insanity long ago if the job itself wasn't my dream job. I say this even when I know that if I get the job, I'll be taking a wee pay cut from my current job. Perhaps that is where I am most insane.
So please advised. Has anyone taken a superior job for less money and regretted/not regretted it?
― quincie, Monday, 17 November 2003 21:17 (twenty-two years ago)
― quincie, Monday, 17 November 2003 21:19 (twenty-two years ago)
Depends. I took a pay cut to work in the industry I wanted to work in, but I was very bitter about it, and it didn't last long (though there were other "issues"), but there's nothing as terrible as a bad job, whatever the money is.
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Monday, 17 November 2003 21:20 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Monday, 17 November 2003 21:23 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 15:36 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 15:50 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 15:58 (twenty-two years ago)
-- Huckleberry Mann (handsomishbo...), November 17th, 2003.
Cough, cough, ahem. Yeah no one called, yeah I guess the "boss is ill" story was a total lie, yeah I emailed and got no response, yeah I've sent out X # of resumes after that to again no response...
But strangely I don't feel depressed about this now - I think I'm just getting bored of wallowing in frustration - but even more emboldened by all of this..this insanity that's gone on for ELEVEN MONTHS now. I mean, I've just accepted the fact that maybe I was born to work at the supermarket or gas station ("temporarily" or not - it's a matter of survival now), and will find a job like that if it's the second to last thing I do. [The last would be to sell crack, of course, which would _not_ be that difficult to get involved with in my 'hood.]
― Vic (Vic), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 16:16 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 17:07 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 17:10 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 17:10 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 17:30 (twenty-two years ago)
― dyson (dyson), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 17:33 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 19:43 (twenty-two years ago)
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 19:43 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 19:45 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 19:45 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 19:47 (twenty-two years ago)
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 19:47 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 19:49 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 19:53 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 19:55 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sean (Sean), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 19:55 (twenty-two years ago)
With a frothy head to show for it.
Fingers crossed, M. Mann....
― Nichole Graham (Nichole Graham), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 19:56 (twenty-two years ago)
― NA (Nick A.), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 19:57 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 19:57 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 19:58 (twenty-two years ago)
Good luck.
― Freddy Beeswax, Tuesday, 18 November 2003 19:59 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:00 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:02 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:02 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:03 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:04 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:07 (twenty-two years ago)
― Freddy Beeswax, Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:08 (twenty-two years ago)
As far as being open to other work, sure I am. I'll do anything I guess. It doesn't even need to pay well. I just need to get out of the house.
― Sean (Sean), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:08 (twenty-two years ago)
(xpost)
― NA (Nick A.), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:09 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:09 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:10 (twenty-two years ago)
I feel you, mate. Try to do things you enjoy (outdoors) to get outside....
― Nichole Graham (Nichole Graham), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:11 (twenty-two years ago)
And I don't think this board is filled with people that Huck "doesn't know" who could offer him no professional help.
― Casuistry (Chris P), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:12 (twenty-two years ago)
hypocrite >
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:14 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:16 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:16 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:17 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:18 (twenty-two years ago)
― Freddy Beeswax, Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:19 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:19 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:20 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:21 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:21 (twenty-two years ago)
― Freddy Beeswax, Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:23 (twenty-two years ago)
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:25 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:25 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:26 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:31 (twenty-two years ago)
sean, what kind of design work do you do & where are you looking. up until 3 months ago i hadn't had full time work in 10 months. after looking very hard for a very long time in 3 different major cities i finally found work. if you want any tips or whatever don't be afraid to ask.
― dyson (dyson), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:33 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:34 (twenty-two years ago)
― dyson (dyson), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:34 (twenty-two years ago)
OK, now to google up this awful poetry.
― Casuistry (Chris P), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:35 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:36 (twenty-two years ago)
That's terrible, Horace!
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:38 (twenty-two years ago)
I went through a Kerouac phase when I was 18 and 19. things look a little less shitty in that context. but still, maybe I should ask them to take that down...if there's anyone at the other end of that...
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:39 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:40 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:40 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:45 (twenty-two years ago)
― dyson (dyson), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 20:45 (twenty-two years ago)
And before a Beeswax of my own emanates here from lurkerdom and chastises at me, he should re-read the thread where I talked about everything I've tried doing since graduation in order to be "productive" while magically awaiting a job to appear, with the exception of making shit up/lying on my resume. I believe the count is almost 160 resumes now that I've sent out
I could complain about choosing this field, or being born in 1980 (=generational bad timing), or etc but i'm too tired, and know that something will sooner or later MUST come of my year-long efforts. Or at least I need to delude myself into believing that simply to keep on, instead of caving in to moving back home, like X # of other graduates. I just know that with my family situation, and how my dad is really putting the pressure on now to go to grad school in a field Of His Choice (MBA, Law, etc) and basically being honest in how he can't help me out anymore (and I'm grateful as to everything he's done so far anyway, while trying to not let the "you have no chance..." "choose a profession that will make your family proud," .."think about our social standing," lines from the last letter get to me), I'm very close to hitting rock bottom here. I don't want to play games, I refuse to be emotionally blackmailed or corralled into being a "good son" to just jump off that cliff of obedience and live life on their terms, and I know I must stay strong here, or else it will set a precedent all of the impending arranged marriage mess that's around the corner. [Must learn from the sibling-situation, etc] I was rationing food for a while, and this is why the thought of working in a supermarket is perhaps subconsciously attractive to me. If I'm going down, it's not without a fight!! [Cue melodramatic horns...:CYMBAL CRASH:...]
The worst thing to do is lose hope. If I don't at least fool myself into believing that I am confident and the most qualified for that job when I go into that interview, I really don't have a chance of getting it - and the same goes for receiving a phone call or an email about scheduling that interview in the first place. But this is all easier said than done, when you have so many months of bad experience disproving your crumbling optimism, it's hard to retain an unshakable faith in one's job-procuring powers. Especially when you've never had a "real" -real job before in the first place.
I wish I could, if nothing else, get a job to lose it at some point, so that at least the unemployment benefits would be available! Never mind, i am deranged, but this thread makes me at least feel that I am not alone in my situation. Hugz to ya'll - and may the phone ring for you soon (saying good things, as opposed to what @d@ml heard)
― Vic (Vic), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 21:31 (twenty-two years ago)
― dyson (dyson), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 21:36 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 21:37 (twenty-two years ago)
Ok, everyone, I ask for your professional and not so pro advice.
I left a message with this place yesterday and they haven't called me back. (see history upthread)
Should I call again? Potentially leave another message?
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 21:37 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 21:39 (twenty-two years ago)
― Nichole Graham (Nichole Graham), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 21:43 (twenty-two years ago)
They really haven't made a decision yet! I called and asked for another one of the people I interviewed with on that conference call, since the one didn't call me back after yesterday. She said that most of the people in the office have been on a trip to New York, AND that the decision has been placed in the guy's hands who interviewed me first - and he's the one who really really liked me and said there's be a decision by the end of the month.
Then the woman said she'd try to find out more about where they are in making a decision and call me back.
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 21:44 (twenty-two years ago)
― Nichole Graham (Nichole Graham), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 21:47 (twenty-two years ago)
Wht makes me most irriated at this moment is this Time cover story, talking bout how "new opportunities" are springing up in 'places you wouldn't look" - ooh la la! walmart hired so many people this quarter! 20,000 jobs were created - only 2.1 million to go to break even, George! http://www.time.com/time/covers/1101031124/story.html
Sarah- YES call! Even though I probably shuld have called my own "we haven't made a decision" chick back, but emailed her instead - and now the job posting online has disappeared, meaning it's probably gone...
― Vic (Vic), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 21:48 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sean (Sean), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 21:51 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 21:55 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 21:56 (twenty-two years ago)
― Yanc3y (ystrickler), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 21:56 (twenty-two years ago)
(sorry)
HR people are the worst.
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 21:57 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sean (Sean), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 21:58 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 21:58 (twenty-two years ago)
― hstencil, Tuesday, 18 November 2003 21:59 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 21:59 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 22:01 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 22:02 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 22:05 (twenty-two years ago)
;)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 22:07 (twenty-two years ago)
I called her, and she gave a curt "yes" to when I mentioned who I was, and I said "I assume the assistant position has been filled...so i was calling about the PA position ...?" She said the show hasn't gone into production yet - no mention of her "boss being ill" or the story from last time - i knew she was awkward!! - but that she'd give my resume to "Julia," who would be calling me..."the week before Thanksgiving." Me, in order to say something: "oh the week before December" ...Her: "yes, we will definitely be needing you..she'll give you call" - which wounded like a lie..Me, mustering up more of my aggressiveness: "okay so do you have an email address for her?" Her: blag@blah-blah.com" Me, realizing I may actualy be needing this email address: "okay there's no underscore there" Her: "no"Me: "okay thanks..."< CLICK > before i could get in another "friendly" word...and she hung up. like that. ha
― Vic (Vic), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 22:20 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 22:21 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 22:22 (twenty-two years ago)
― hstencil, Tuesday, 18 November 2003 22:26 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 22:30 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 22:31 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 22:33 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 22:34 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 22:38 (twenty-two years ago)
― hstencil, Tuesday, 18 November 2003 22:57 (twenty-two years ago)
― Vic (Vic), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 23:06 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Tuesday, 18 November 2003 23:24 (twenty-two years ago)
I was out of work for three months in 2001. I do web front-end programming/layout/IA. Nothing very complicated, nothing that THOUSANDS of other equally qualified people can't do as well as me, I think. I fucking freaked OUT because I was getting married in a year and at the time the economy was truly in the shit can, even worse than now. Believe me I didn't sleep for days. I was utterly destroyed and heartbroken and miserable. I was able to apply for a job a day though, but I didn't get anything promising until I went through an old college friend who referred me to a place where I'd already applied through HotJobs (they never even saw the resume I submitted through there because they got over 500!), and even then, even though I had a fucking referral, the HR woman didn't get back to me promptly at all. But I had her name and phone number and I called EVERY DAY. AFter I got an interview, I called every day. They called me back for a second round, and then I called every day after that. I made a complete pest of myself. AFter every interview I wrote thank you letters to everyone I talked to. They finally hired me, although not for the job I interviewed for and not for anything remotely like the salary I wanted. But it wouldn't have happened if I hadn't called them constantly, I'm positive.
HR people can be dim. But more likely than anything, they are busy and completely buried in resumes. Unless you contact them constantly there is no way they are going to remember you because they are dealing with 100 people exactly like you every day. If they are trying to schedule interviews for you with people who work there, they have to work around everyone's crazy schedule. After those interivews happen, all of those people have to find the time to get together and come to a consensus of what they thought about you, all while still trying to get their shit done. All of this takes time and none of it gets communicated to candidates well, so you have to call and ask what is going on. This is sad and depressing but it's the truth. In almost no case will calling them daily ruin your chances for getting a job, I am quite confident.
― anthony kyle monday (akmonday), Wednesday, 19 November 2003 00:06 (twenty-two years ago)
if you ever need a crash course in excel or access, please let me know!
gygax!
― gygax! (gygax!), Wednesday, 19 November 2003 00:09 (twenty-two years ago)
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Wednesday, 19 November 2003 00:13 (twenty-two years ago)
gygax-I will take you up on that.
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Wednesday, 19 November 2003 00:16 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Wednesday, 19 November 2003 16:43 (twenty-two years ago)
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 19 November 2003 16:46 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Wednesday, 19 November 2003 16:46 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 19 November 2003 16:48 (twenty-two years ago)
actually (and I won't go into all the details), I still feel good about it and there may be further updates in about three months.
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Wednesday, 19 November 2003 16:50 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Wednesday, 19 November 2003 16:51 (twenty-two years ago)
But I'm glad to hear it's not a total wash. And, you know, I'll be in town in two weeks, for what it's worth.
― Casuistry (Chris P), Wednesday, 19 November 2003 16:59 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Wednesday, 19 November 2003 17:01 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Wednesday, 19 November 2003 17:02 (twenty-two years ago)
This is of course assuming we make it past customs.
― Casuistry (Chris P), Wednesday, 19 November 2003 17:05 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Wednesday, 19 November 2003 17:23 (twenty-two years ago)
sorry, horace - hava drink on me. perhaps some poetry will exorcise your demons. sorry.
― dyson (dyson), Wednesday, 19 November 2003 17:29 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Wednesday, 19 November 2003 17:39 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Wednesday, 19 November 2003 17:41 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Wednesday, 19 November 2003 17:42 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 21 November 2003 17:43 (twenty-two years ago)
― dyson (dyson), Friday, 21 November 2003 17:51 (twenty-two years ago)
― NA (Nick A.), Friday, 21 November 2003 17:52 (twenty-two years ago)
More excitement to follow!
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 21 November 2003 17:54 (twenty-two years ago)
― NA (Nick A.), Friday, 21 November 2003 17:55 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 21 November 2003 18:02 (twenty-two years ago)
*zen*
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 21 November 2003 18:24 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 21 November 2003 18:27 (twenty-two years ago)
Here's where it gets complicated. Without naming names, this job is in fact at a school where I was intending to apply for graduate study, beginning next Fall. It pays just (barely?) enough for me to live on, but I would have access to all kinds of goodies and toys that I would otherwise pay for. I can also take one free class per semester whilst working (and they don't come cheap at this place). So far so good, but I would be earning notably less money than I do as a temp, although this is the closest to an "industry" job that I am turning up at the moment. The other (good?bad?) thing is that I would be working on a shift system (I believe this department is open 24 hours) while my wife works 9-5. I would also only be working during each semester, meaning that I would have to find other work during breaks.
Besides all this, they would probably realize come february that I am applying to study there. Would this be good or bad? Is it a betrayal of any kind? Perhaps it might help? I would be happy (nay delighted) to carry on working there during the course of my study (SHOULD I get in). This is all probably a bit premature, and possibly bad karmically, but any advice would be welome.
― h@h@ (nordicskilla), Friday, 21 November 2003 19:41 (twenty-two years ago)
― teeny (teeny), Friday, 21 November 2003 19:47 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 21 November 2003 19:48 (twenty-two years ago)
― NA (Nick A.), Friday, 21 November 2003 19:49 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 21 November 2003 19:49 (twenty-two years ago)
Go for it! You'll be happier doing what you enjoy.
― teeny (teeny), Friday, 21 November 2003 19:56 (twenty-two years ago)
― dyson (dyson), Friday, 21 November 2003 20:03 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sean (Sean), Friday, 21 November 2003 20:07 (twenty-two years ago)
Go for it, nordic!
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Friday, 21 November 2003 20:10 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 21 November 2003 20:12 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Friday, 21 November 2003 20:13 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Friday, 21 November 2003 20:14 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 21 November 2003 20:14 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Friday, 21 November 2003 20:15 (twenty-two years ago)
(JOTO is slang trying to replace the perfectly fine OTM, and so therefore I mock this attempt at forced neologism.)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 21 November 2003 20:29 (twenty-two years ago)
Anyhow, thanks to the people on this thread for helping me to find the balls to call and follow up. That was good advice, I think.
― quincie, Friday, 21 November 2003 20:43 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Friday, 21 November 2003 20:44 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Friday, 21 November 2003 20:49 (twenty-two years ago)
― dyson (dyson), Friday, 21 November 2003 20:50 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 21 November 2003 22:16 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Friday, 21 November 2003 22:50 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Saturday, 22 November 2003 03:20 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Saturday, 22 November 2003 03:21 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Saturday, 22 November 2003 03:22 (twenty-two years ago)
(thanks!)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Saturday, 22 November 2003 03:27 (twenty-two years ago)
And yer welcome!
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Saturday, 22 November 2003 03:29 (twenty-two years ago)
― Casuistry (Chris P), Saturday, 22 November 2003 10:08 (twenty-two years ago)
― huckleberrymann, Sunday, 23 November 2003 20:12 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Sunday, 23 November 2003 20:16 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sean (Sean), Monday, 24 November 2003 04:03 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sean (Sean), Monday, 24 November 2003 23:55 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Tuesday, 25 November 2003 00:45 (twenty-two years ago)
― Nichole Graham (Nichole Graham), Tuesday, 25 November 2003 00:59 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 25 November 2003 06:11 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Tuesday, 25 November 2003 20:33 (twenty-two years ago)
After the Thanksgiving weekend I'll be applying for retail jobs. Maybe an arts supply store or Virgin records or something. Unfortunately I'm afraid this will barely cover my bills at the end of the month, but it's better than sitting on my ass. And I'll probably be twice the age of some of my coworkers, but I can't let that bother me.
― Sean (Sean), Wednesday, 26 November 2003 18:46 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 26 November 2003 18:55 (twenty-two years ago)
― Huckleberry Mann (Horace Mann), Wednesday, 26 November 2003 18:58 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sean (Sean), Wednesday, 26 November 2003 19:10 (twenty-two years ago)
― Sean (Sean), Wednesday, 26 November 2003 19:11 (twenty-two years ago)
Ned, you're just bitter because you never got to wear any Gordon Gartrell fashions.
― El Diablo Robotico (Nicole), Wednesday, 26 November 2003 19:26 (twenty-two years ago)
...I don't get it?
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 26 November 2003 19:28 (twenty-two years ago)
― Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 26 November 2003 19:31 (twenty-two years ago)
― El Diablo Robotico (Nicole), Wednesday, 26 November 2003 19:32 (twenty-two years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 26 November 2003 19:38 (twenty-two years ago)
― @d@ml (nordicskilla), Wednesday, 26 November 2003 23:32 (twenty-two years ago)