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help. i think about him ALL the time

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:09 (twenty-one years ago)

I recommend E.S.T

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:10 (twenty-one years ago)

eastern standard time? is that a known aphrodisiac?

― Robbie Lumsden (Wallace Stevens HQ), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:11 (twenty-one years ago)

uhhh....no

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:12 (twenty-one years ago)

why E.S.T?

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:12 (twenty-one years ago)

It's the only way to get rid of those nagging thoughts about guys.

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:13 (twenty-one years ago)

I reccomend apostrophes.

― Super-Kate (kate), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:14 (twenty-one years ago)

To clarify I actually mean E.C.T. Bloody acronyms.

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:15 (twenty-one years ago)

http://www.lacunainc.com/

― Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:15 (twenty-one years ago)

i like being friends with him but i dont want to become too good friends. and thats whats happening. we have fun together but we never really TALK. if you know what i mean......... and we take the piss out of each other and basically flirt..but its not enough

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:15 (twenty-one years ago)

Taking Sides: Convulsive v Shock

― Liz :x (Liz :x), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:15 (twenty-one years ago)

Wait, are we talking about Electro Convulsive Therapy or are we talking about psuedo-scientology bio-feedback E.S.T.?

― Super-Kate (kate), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:16 (twenty-one years ago)

Electro-convulsive, that's why I corrected myself ;-)

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:17 (twenty-one years ago)

Biofeedback might be helpful, too.

― Super-Kate (kate), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:19 (twenty-one years ago)

I guess it all depends what measures our friend CAss is willing to take.

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:20 (twenty-one years ago)

i think im in love. i cant stop thinking of him and i associate everything i do with him. im obsessed!!! im quite a shy person so i could never tell him. it gets pretty upsetting sometimes

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:21 (twenty-one years ago)

you may find useful info on these threads...

Taking Sides : BlowJobs vs Sex

Girls who take it up the ass to avoid losing their virginity

― weasel diesel (K1l14n), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:21 (twenty-one years ago)

Abduction and chip implantation.

― Liz :x (Liz :x), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:21 (twenty-one years ago)

So CAss, how many candles on your last birthday cake?

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:22 (twenty-one years ago)

ok i admit it is an immature way to handle it. but thats just me! ive always been like that

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:23 (twenty-one years ago)

HOW MANY CANDLES?

― RJG (RJG), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:23 (twenty-one years ago)

no, it was a serious question.

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:24 (twenty-one years ago)

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:24 (twenty-one years ago)

fair enough. what's greece like this time of year?

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:24 (twenty-one years ago)

I started a thread to this effect about a year ago, (something about how to stop obsessing/crushing) and I'd dig it up except I seem to remember it turned into a rather nasty "let's all take the piss out of Kate" session so perhaps the advice there wouldn't be helpful.

― Super-Kate (kate), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:25 (twenty-one years ago)

i think im in love. i cant stop thinking of him and i associate everything i do with him. im obsessed!!! im quite a shy person so i could never tell him. it gets pretty upsetting sometimes

So what do you want? What are you, 12? If you like him, talk to him, if you can't talk to him STOP BLOODY MOANING THAT YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH HIM, BECAUSE YOU CLEARLY AREN'T!

x-post

― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:25 (twenty-one years ago)

its boiling hot. and u can easily get tanned in the sun.
i need to know how to stop obsessing!!

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:26 (twenty-one years ago)

you can't be in love with someone you don't speak to regularly, PP?

― weasel diesel (K1l14n), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:27 (twenty-one years ago)

we do speak regularly... but as friends.

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:27 (twenty-one years ago)

concentrate on his flaws. tell yourself what a tosser he is.

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:28 (twenty-one years ago)

Slip him a letter telling him how you feel. But write that letter very carefully and read it through before you give it to him.

― the music mole (colin s barrow), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:28 (twenty-one years ago)

i know this wil sound stupid but i dont care about his flaws! im even begining to like them!

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:28 (twenty-one years ago)

I didn't mean that Kilian, I meant that to have the attitude that 'I just can't talk to him really I can't, but I am definitely in love with them' is an immature attitude to have. Fine you can be shy, but if your feelings for someone are not enough to make you overcome your shyness then I doubt it is love.

― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:29 (twenty-one years ago)

boiling hot? Isn't it still early spring in greece?

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:29 (twenty-one years ago)

a letter???

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:29 (twenty-one years ago)

i dont care if im being immature!

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:29 (twenty-one years ago)

a letter??! that would just seem weird! (x-post)

― weasel diesel (K1l14n), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:30 (twenty-one years ago)

Letters are what people used to write before email.

― the music mole (colin s barrow), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:30 (twenty-one years ago)

Letters are weird? Geez, I am definitely getting old.

― the music mole (colin s barrow), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:30 (twenty-one years ago)

hey CAss, go look up infatuation in the dictionary.

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:31 (twenty-one years ago)

i wouldnt write a letter!! that would seem weird! and anyway i dont think hes that type of person that would appreciate a letter

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:31 (twenty-one years ago)

i wouldn't tell someone i'm infatuated with them via e-mail either!

― weasel diesel (K1l14n), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:31 (twenty-one years ago)

CAss, are you really from Greece? I think you're bullshitting. It's not even remotely boiling there right now.

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:32 (twenty-one years ago)

He can't read?

― the music mole (colin s barrow), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:32 (twenty-one years ago)

it is ! i swear i am really from greece. and it is very hot! im sitting in a t-shirt and im still hot.its a little windy but in the sun its nice. why would i bullshit

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:33 (twenty-one years ago)

i dont care if im being immature!

My point is that if you are not prepared to do anything about it, you shouldn't moan about it!

― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:33 (twenty-one years ago)

http://www.wunderground.com/global/GR.html

Sorry, caught out CAss. The weather is quite mild all over Greece today.

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:33 (twenty-one years ago)

i just want to know how to stop obsessing. what can i do to get over him?

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:34 (twenty-one years ago)

um, get a life?

― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:34 (twenty-one years ago)

look your annoying! i do live in greece. i live in voula and my school is in pallini. !!!

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:35 (twenty-one years ago)

kill him.

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:35 (twenty-one years ago)

look if your gonna come here and just be stupid and rude pink panther then you can fuk off cause i dont open this thread to listen to people like you talking bullshit

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:35 (twenty-one years ago)

is it possible he likes you also?

― weasel diesel (K1l14n), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:35 (twenty-one years ago)

How about posting your dilemma on ILE? Oh hang on, you just did.

― the music mole (colin s barrow), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:36 (twenty-one years ago)

well then CAss your internal themometer is fucked because it isn't anything like hot in Greece right now.

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:36 (twenty-one years ago)

and anyway i dont think hes that type of person that would appreciate a letter

http://www.romantic.finalesimpsons.de/stuff/lisa_nelson.gif

― Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:37 (twenty-one years ago)

bollocks, that's enormous, sorry.

― Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:37 (twenty-one years ago)

it could be possible. the only reason im saying this dilemma here is because i dont know you people and its something i want to speak about.

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:37 (twenty-one years ago)

I'm not being rude (don't post on an open forum for starters!!) but why are you bothering to moan about it if you're not prepared to do anything about it? I am being serious. If you just want to moon over a boy you love, then fine go ahead, but that's not what you have been saying!

― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:38 (twenty-one years ago)

is that because it's highly personal?

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:38 (twenty-one years ago)

why ipsofacto??? im quite hot when i sit in the sun here. especially where i am down by the beach

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:38 (twenty-one years ago)

But thanks for telling me to fuck off!

― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:38 (twenty-one years ago)

I couldn't find my thread, but I found Di's...

how do you stop having a crush on a person you emphatically DO NOT want to have a crush on?

― Super-Kate (kate), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:38 (twenty-one years ago)

its not highly personal but i dont someone to find out and then go and tell him.

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:39 (twenty-one years ago)

kate is today's ilx fairy, she will direct your call!

― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:39 (twenty-one years ago)

i didnt mean for you to fuck off. you just began to annoy me

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:39 (twenty-one years ago)

so what's this guys email address CASs?

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:40 (twenty-one years ago)

thanks super kate

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:40 (twenty-one years ago)

why do you want his email address?

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:41 (twenty-one years ago)

Write a letter to ipso explaining how you feel.

― the music mole (colin s barrow), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:41 (twenty-one years ago)

teehee, please do so i can perform noh rituals on it.

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:42 (twenty-one years ago)

i didnt mean for you to fuck off. you just began to annoy me

Haha, you gotta love the irony!

― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:42 (twenty-one years ago)

haha very funny

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:42 (twenty-one years ago)

this is a bit like jon williams' recent heartbreak thread. except jon is more annoying, and a tool.

― weasel diesel (K1l14n), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:43 (twenty-one years ago)

I suppose sitting in the call centre room is helping me to become more helpful and less judgmental... NOT!

― Super-Kate (kate), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:43 (twenty-one years ago)

I don't find CAss annoying in the least. I am merely perplexed as to why others do.

― MarkH (MarkH), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:44 (twenty-one years ago)

thank you

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:44 (twenty-one years ago)

no Cass isn't annoying, JON WILLIAMS is annoying!

― weasel diesel (K1l14n), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:45 (twenty-one years ago)

I don't find her annoying. I'm like a cat with a cockroach. I just keep pawing it when it stops moving so I can play some more.

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:45 (twenty-one years ago)

where are you from?

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:46 (twenty-one years ago)

who?

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:46 (twenty-one years ago)

you

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:46 (twenty-one years ago)

If she says she's from Australia, don't believe her.

― the music mole (colin s barrow), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:47 (twenty-one years ago)

I'm from Sweden, it's boiling hot here right now, especially on the beach.

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:47 (twenty-one years ago)

well, I just can't understand why ppl are so nasty. I think your question is reasonable, plenty of ppl feel confused about their feelings and the last thing they need when it happens is for others to be rotten to them. And as for accusing CAss of lying about where she lived, what justification is there for that? And what motivation would she have for lying?

All I can think is that ppl are filling the gap left by their lack of ability to answer the question with nastiness. Because it is hard question!

― MarkH (MarkH), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:48 (twenty-one years ago)

thanks mark
anyway i have to go
ill be on later

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:49 (twenty-one years ago)

You should go climbing on a railway trestle with him!!

― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:49 (twenty-one years ago)

or: how did you meet/hit it off with/pull/seduce your last/current lover?

― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:49 (twenty-one years ago)

Yeah, i'm a jerk with a very well-developed bullshit detector.

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:49 (twenty-one years ago)

Wow, I hope she gets together with this guy, even if he doesn't like receiving love letters.

So that's it? Love letters are now weird? *sigh* Oh well.

― the music mole (colin s barrow), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:50 (twenty-one years ago)

my answer: flirt!!!! and watch his response!!!

― weasel diesel (K1l14n), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:50 (twenty-one years ago)

I have already answered the question mark, if she talks to him then she will know either way!

― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:51 (twenty-one years ago)

i thought ipsofacto suggested E.S.P. at first! That'd be a great way to find out if he's game!

― ken c (ken c), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:51 (twenty-one years ago)

obvioulsy your wrong ipsofacto. you have a crap bullshit detector since you cant seem to get anything right. which just leaves you being a jerk

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:51 (twenty-one years ago)

I thought you had to go?

― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:52 (twenty-one years ago)

What's ESP? Epistle Sending Process?

― the music mole (colin s barrow), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:52 (twenty-one years ago)

yeah i already said that CAss

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:52 (twenty-one years ago)

everyone else -thanks for the advice
i dont HAVE to go. but i will in ten min

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:52 (twenty-one years ago)

Ah, my mistake, i apologise!

― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:53 (twenty-one years ago)

mark is right. how can one say with any certainty that it's not hot in nay part of greece?

― weasel diesel (K1l14n), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:53 (twenty-one years ago)

start the clocks.

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:54 (twenty-one years ago)

why would i lie anyway about living in Greece?

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:54 (twenty-one years ago)

Kilian OTM..

Don't write a letter.. He'll freak out. Guys don't like to now about your feelings. Make a move on him. Guys love that (or hate it, but at least it'll be over.)

― dave225 (Dave225), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:54 (twenty-one years ago)

you mean to say it's night time in greece at the mo? in which case i'm talking nonsense.

― weasel diesel (K1l14n), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:55 (twenty-one years ago)

yeah i think thats the best way to go about it.
its not night time

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:55 (twenty-one years ago)

uh, in respose to "start the clocks" (my last post was)

― weasel diesel (K1l14n), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:55 (twenty-one years ago)

I would've liked a letter. Just one letter. When I was 17. Instead, all I got was drunk girls making moves on me. But I'm..well..different. For one thing, I like curry for breakfast.

― the music mole (colin s barrow), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:56 (twenty-one years ago)

lol. wel i definately wont be drunk when i make a move on him!

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:57 (twenty-one years ago)

Hello, i'm a cunt. CAss probably isn't lying. But like a dog with a bone I couldn't let go. I apologise.

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:58 (twenty-one years ago)

of course i would have liked a letter from a girl who's infatuated with me, but i would rather they make a move on me in person (drunk or otherwise) or maybe just flirt and hint at it, and leave me to work it out from there

― weasel diesel (K1l14n), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:59 (twenty-one years ago)

ok . im not lying. but i dont care if you chose not to believe me

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 10:59 (twenty-one years ago)

ESP = extrasensory perception

when did this greece stuff come about anyway?!?! i think ipso has got ESP

― ken c (ken c), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:01 (twenty-one years ago)

ispo asked me where i was from and i said greece. and then he chose not to believe me

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:02 (twenty-one years ago)

cass - would you be too shy to flirt and hint at it? that would be the best way. it can develop more naturally, rather than if he is just told "i'm in love with you!" - and nothing will happen at all if you do nothing at all, so...

― weasel diesel (K1l14n), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:02 (twenty-one years ago)

To be honest I was once in a very obessive (on my behalf) relationship. I've probably acted like a huge jerk on the basis that I have some unresolved issues about what happened.

Obsessing about another person is unhealthy and if you can't control it, then you need to remove yourself from the source of the obsession, which in this case would be the guy.

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:02 (twenty-one years ago)

im not too shy to do that. but thats what ive been doing all this time!!!

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:03 (twenty-one years ago)

ok. and what does he act like? does he hint too? does he flirt back? or is he awkward? is he shy?

― weasel diesel (K1l14n), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:03 (twenty-one years ago)

i agree with you for once ispo...it is v. unhealthy and can make a person unhappy. but i cant remove myself from him. we go to the same school.

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:04 (twenty-one years ago)

hes not shy at all!! he does flirt back and we have great times together. but that doesnt necessarily meant that he likes me

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:05 (twenty-one years ago)

But if that's not working Cass, you need to speak to him directly about it.

― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:05 (twenty-one years ago)

ok i know.... what would i say thoug?
and how long should i give it before i speak to him?

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:05 (twenty-one years ago)

Look honey, the girl I went out with went to my school to. I don't mean don't ever see him, I mean stay away from him if you can't control your obession. If you can't do that then perhaps you don't really *want* to control it.

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:06 (twenty-one years ago)

Seize the day, speak to him next time you see him when it's just the two of you. It's not easy, but if it all works out, it'll be great.

― Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:06 (twenty-one years ago)

if you flirt with him and he flirt back - what's the problem?! Go to a bar with him, have a drink, and get it on. Easy! The talking can happen the next morning.

― ken c (ken c), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:07 (twenty-one years ago)

crappy diem.

― RJG (RJG), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:08 (twenty-one years ago)

ok then. your right. i dont want to control it. cause its hard to stay away. and he comes up to speak to me aswell. i cant just walk away
thanks everyone!!!
bye

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:12 (twenty-one years ago)

uhh...bye

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:14 (twenty-one years ago)

the answers on this thread are mean and unhelpful

― gareth (gareth), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:26 (twenty-one years ago)

hey, i tried to right my wrongs AND I apologised.

― ipsofacto (ipsofacto), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:28 (twenty-one years ago)

*checks huge thread that developed overnight*

Huh. Okay then.

― Ned Raggett (Ned), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:52 (twenty-one years ago)

ilx is such a bunch of cocksuckers this week

― strongo hulkington (dubplatestyle), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:54 (twenty-one years ago)

This week?

― Super-Kate (kate), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:55 (twenty-one years ago)

Cocksuckers vs. assfuckers

― Ned Raggett (Ned), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:56 (twenty-one years ago)

no, there are certainly cocksuckers that have been here since the very beginning

― strongo hulkington (dubplatestyle), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:56 (twenty-one years ago)

gareth, pull your head in. jeez there's a stack of hypocrites around here today

― the surface noise (electricsound), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:57 (twenty-one years ago)

"today"

― the surface noise (electricsound), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:57 (twenty-one years ago)

Gareth is right.

― MarkH (MarkH), Thursday, 15 April 2004 11:59 (twenty-one years ago)

and of course the sanctimony makes everything a-ok

― the surface noise (electricsound), Thursday, 15 April 2004 12:00 (twenty-one years ago)

esoj seems to be following dan's new "nothing can save us now, so let's just sit back and enjoy the toboggan ride" theory

― strongo hulkington (dubplatestyle), Thursday, 15 April 2004 12:01 (twenty-one years ago)

THEY LEARNED IT BY WATCHING YOU, DAD

― strongo hulkington (dubplatestyle), Thursday, 15 April 2004 12:01 (twenty-one years ago)

MarkH OTM upthread. The phrase "pick on someone your own size" comes to mind here.

― Markelby (Mark C), Thursday, 15 April 2004 12:01 (twenty-one years ago)

and yet you lot are more than happy to hassle Aja or deny she is who she says she is, i'd say "shocka" but it seems redundant somehow

― the surface noise (electricsound), Thursday, 15 April 2004 12:02 (twenty-one years ago)

haha i'd believe aja if she wasn't constantly slipping up!

― strongo hulkington (dubplatestyle), Thursday, 15 April 2004 12:03 (twenty-one years ago)

surface otm, but i have been in mean-spirited form on ilx the last week so apologies.

― weasel diesel (K1l14n), Thursday, 15 April 2004 12:03 (twenty-one years ago)

Gareth being right doesn't make Jim's point any less valid.

― Super-Kate (kate), Thursday, 15 April 2004 12:04 (twenty-one years ago)

not unlike our new friend upthread

(xp)

― the surface noise (electricsound), Thursday, 15 April 2004 12:04 (twenty-one years ago)

it's like when bart, milhouse, and martin stand on each others shoulders to be a grownup. BUT THEY ALWAYS WOBBLE AND FALL AT THE END. except, you know, in reverse.

― strongo hulkington (dubplatestyle), Thursday, 15 April 2004 12:04 (twenty-one years ago)

don't get me wrong - i'm all for niceness across the board. all for it.

― the surface noise (electricsound), Thursday, 15 April 2004 12:05 (twenty-one years ago)

perhaps we have fallen into bad habits

― the surface noise (electricsound), Thursday, 15 April 2004 12:05 (twenty-one years ago)

let's just hold hands and not talk then

― strongo hulkington (dubplatestyle), Thursday, 15 April 2004 12:05 (twenty-one years ago)

http://www.alligator.org/edit/news/issues/02-spring/images/hands16.jpg

― the surface noise (electricsound), Thursday, 15 April 2004 12:07 (twenty-one years ago)

alright, that was nice, see. i have to go listen to snow patrol and franz ferdinand against my will again now.

― strongo hulkington (dubplatestyle), Thursday, 15 April 2004 12:08 (twenty-one years ago)

it'll keep you down with the kids

― the surface noise (electricsound), Thursday, 15 April 2004 12:09 (twenty-one years ago)

oh and dwell on the moral implications of fucking girls with boyfriends for eight hours

― strongo hulkington (dubplatestyle), Thursday, 15 April 2004 12:11 (twenty-one years ago)

sorry that "for eight hours" was badly placed. i'm not sting, you know!!

― strongo hulkington (dubplatestyle), Thursday, 15 April 2004 12:12 (twenty-one years ago)

there were three potential meanings tehre

― the surface noise (electricsound), Thursday, 15 April 2004 12:12 (twenty-one years ago)

u guys suck. great advice

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 12:58 (twenty-one years ago)

How long have you known him? How old is he? Does he talk about any other girls?

ie, we need more details, but letting him know your feelings is U&K.

― Ste (Fuzzy), Thursday, 15 April 2004 13:29 (twenty-one years ago)

no. thanks but it doesnt matter anymore.

― CAss (CAss), Thursday, 15 April 2004 13:33 (twenty-one years ago)

my gf was in this situation when we were friends. she wrote me a letter. do as the mole tells you, write him a letter.

― kephm, Thursday, 15 April 2004 15:19 (twenty-one years ago)

you guys r all gay!! my advice was so great. if you guys like each other and he comes and talk to you what's the problem? why do you want to resist it? bone him!

― ken c (ken c), Thursday, 15 April 2004 15:23 (twenty-one years ago)

How has Aja "slipped up"?

― jaymc (jaymc), Thursday, 15 April 2004 15:31 (twenty-one years ago)

there was that time when no matter what we said she answered with "what?", and thus revealed the fact that she is actually the texas rattlesnake stone cold steve austin.

― ken c (ken c), Thursday, 15 April 2004 15:34 (twenty-one years ago)

Oh no, I fear CAss has followed our advice, told him how much she likes him and he gave her that uncomprehending look, which is either followed in my experience with the embaressed laugh, or the look of revulsion.

― Pete (Pete), Thursday, 15 April 2004 15:42 (twenty-one years ago)

Aja is the most genuine person on ILX, Strongo.

― Markelby (Mark C), Thursday, 15 April 2004 15:44 (twenty-one years ago)

CAss, did you see upthread? Kephm met his gf when she sent him a letter.

OK, I admit it may not work for you though.

― the music mole (colin s barrow), Thursday, 15 April 2004 20:34 (twenty-one years ago)

thanks everyone who gave me advice!! i decided to simply speak to him about it and it went pretty well! we are now going out!

― CAss (CAss), Saturday, 17 April 2004 00:50 (twenty-one years ago)

Aja is the most genuine person on ILX, Strongo.
-- Markelby (boyincorduro...), April 15th, 2004 9:44 AM.

Uhh, thanks. How did I come up on THIS thread??

we are now going out!

Congradulations! You must be very happy.

― Aja (aja), Saturday, 17 April 2004 00:57 (twenty-one years ago)

thanks. yeah i am!!!

― CAss (CAss), Saturday, 17 April 2004 01:01 (twenty-one years ago)

That's great.

Who asked who to go out?

― Aja (aja), Saturday, 17 April 2004 01:03 (twenty-one years ago)

no one really asked. i told him basically that i liked him and it just happened..
im really happy and grateful to those who said i should go tell him. otherwise i would have never done it

― CAss (CAss), Saturday, 17 April 2004 01:11 (twenty-one years ago)

So sometimes it is good to take advice from strangers. Well, people you don't know personally. That's the way it seems here.

― Aja (aja), Saturday, 17 April 2004 01:13 (twenty-one years ago)

ILE-ers: Should I do this thing, that I want to do anyway?
ILE: Yes! Go for it! Other people be damned! They don't post anyway!
Non-"us" people, on ILE: So, should I do the the thing I want to do anyway, too?
ILE: No, look, fuck off, your kind have ruined our lives, etc...

― Gregory Henry (Gregory Henry), Saturday, 17 April 2004 01:35 (twenty-one years ago)

Did you read the Hassidic clothing thread, greg? It's a blast.

― N. (nickdastoor), Saturday, 17 April 2004 01:37 (twenty-one years ago)

I take everything back.

― Gregory Henry (Gregory Henry), Saturday, 17 April 2004 01:47 (twenty-one years ago)

Yay CAss!

― the music mole (colin s barrow), Saturday, 17 April 2004 04:28 (twenty-one years ago)

This thread makes me cry with joy

― Sym (shmuel), Saturday, 17 April 2004 05:33 (twenty-one years ago)

But how did ipso know she was from Greece, anyways?

― Sym (shmuel), Saturday, 17 April 2004 05:33 (twenty-one years ago)

I can't believe she did it without a letter and everything.

― the music mole (colin s barrow), Saturday, 17 April 2004 06:36 (twenty-one years ago)

while cass seems very nice, i doubt her letter-writing abilities are very advanced

― Sym (shmuel), Saturday, 17 April 2004 06:45 (twenty-one years ago)

Mate I wasn't suggesting a letter that went, "My Dear Alfred, I can hide my feelings no longer" or anything..."I think ur cute :]" would've been fine.

Anyway it's a moot point cos she was right - a letter wasn't necessary. And all's well that ends well.

― the music mole (colin s barrow), Saturday, 17 April 2004 06:51 (twenty-one years ago)

can you do emoticons in letters? it seems wrong.

― Sym (shmuel), Saturday, 17 April 2004 06:53 (twenty-one years ago)

Hahaha, why not? I predict we'll be seeing them on wedding invites in ten years. Maybe even funeral announcements! Eg:

With deepest commiserations :[

― the music mole (colin s barrow), Saturday, 17 April 2004 06:57 (twenty-one years ago)

hahahaha
the internet has ruined humanity etc

― Sym (shmuel), Saturday, 17 April 2004 07:16 (twenty-one years ago)

I think it should be :[.....

but anyway, well done CAss!

― MarkH (MarkH), Saturday, 17 April 2004 07:31 (twenty-one years ago)

Greek love ;)

― MarkH (MarkH), Saturday, 17 April 2004 07:31 (twenty-one years ago)

one year passes...

Scouring the DATES/RELATIONSHIP archives for the thread title that best matches your situation and finding one that nails it precisely classic or classic?

Can we have an update cass? How did this work out?

Brilliant! Yes!

― Nothingtoseehere, Saturday, 14 May 2005 09:48 (twenty years ago)

Somebody having a question in mind and actually using ILX as a source of information: Classic, or nearly unheard of?

― mark grout (mark grout), Saturday, 14 May 2005 22:32 (twenty years ago)

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