― Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 17:44 (twenty years ago)
― Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 17:45 (twenty years ago)
― mark p (Mark P), Monday, 11 April 2005 17:53 (twenty years ago)
― shookout (shookout), Monday, 11 April 2005 17:53 (twenty years ago)
weird.
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 17:53 (twenty years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 11 April 2005 17:54 (twenty years ago)
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 17:55 (twenty years ago)
― gypsy mothra (gypsy mothra), Monday, 11 April 2005 17:59 (twenty years ago)
― The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:00 (twenty years ago)
― Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:02 (twenty years ago)
― Sym Sym (sym), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:03 (twenty years ago)
I'm pretty sure it was non-penetrative. Can't remember where I heard that, but obviously it was consistent with her philosophies.
― jaymc (jaymc), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:03 (twenty years ago)
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:05 (twenty years ago)
Their sexual ethics seem strangely similar at times.
― Ferlin Husky (noodle vague), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:06 (twenty years ago)
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:06 (twenty years ago)
― cozen (Cozen), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:08 (twenty years ago)
"In my own life, I don't have intercourse. That is my choice."
― jaymc (jaymc), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:09 (twenty years ago)
― Ferlin Husky (noodle vague), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:11 (twenty years ago)
― kingfish, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:11 (twenty years ago)
― andy --, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:12 (twenty years ago)
― scott seward (scott seward), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:12 (twenty years ago)
― g e o f f (gcannon), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:14 (twenty years ago)
― jaymc (jaymc), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:14 (twenty years ago)
― Tom (Groke), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:15 (twenty years ago)
― Felonious Drunk (Felcher), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:15 (twenty years ago)
(i do think speculation abt the HAPPINESS of her sexlife w.her husband is a bit pointless: what couples end up gettin up to and what they get out of one another = the untellable mystery)
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:17 (twenty years ago)
Not exactly gonna win a lot of converts promoting that lifestyle...
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:18 (twenty years ago)
Actually, I'm surprised she got married to him, because her partner was a homosexual, as I recall.
― Vestigial Appendages, Esq. (King Kobra), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:19 (twenty years ago)
The Catholic Church seems to do alright.
― Ferlin Husky (noodle vague), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:20 (twenty years ago)
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:21 (twenty years ago)
― Ferlin Husky (noodle vague), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:25 (twenty years ago)
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:25 (twenty years ago)
― Ferlin Husky (noodle vague), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:26 (twenty years ago)
― rasheed wallace (rasheed wallace), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:27 (twenty years ago)
http://dir.salon.com/books/feature/2000/09/20/dworkin/index.html
― Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:28 (twenty years ago)
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:28 (twenty years ago)
― rasheed wallace (rasheed wallace), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:29 (twenty years ago)
uh, look around you. see all those bazillions of people? obviously humanity's pretty fond of fucking, on the whole.
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:32 (twenty years ago)
― Ferlin Husky (noodle vague), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:34 (twenty years ago)
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:36 (twenty years ago)
xpost yes, i thought her marriage sounded wonderful, frankly. and i like getting laid.
― g e o f f (gcannon), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:37 (twenty years ago)
It's also depressingly fond of territorial invasion, which is what Dworkin compared it to in the hope that fucking would go away. Her book Scapegoat compared women to the Jews as universal scapegoats, and ended up advocating that women found a sort of Gender Israel. Salon:
"Dworkin's most original and controversial conclusion to all this is that "women need land and guns." Women must reject pacifism and literally create their own militant, separatist territory (or Lebensraum?). As a practical concept, of course, the idea is nothing short of nuts. But even as an exercise in rhetoric it is unconvincing, mainly because it is unclear why Dworkin believes that Womanland would be immune to the temptations of structural power she has just been at such pains to illustrate. If the Israelis are practicing the sadism they learned from anti-Semites on the Palestinians, won't women also find their own scapegoats?"
― Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:38 (twenty years ago)
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:38 (twenty years ago)
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:39 (twenty years ago)
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:47 (twenty years ago)
― Eisbär (llamasfur), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:48 (twenty years ago)
"Wandering past the marquees, I paused to read an events blackboard. Sitting next to it was an American woman of enormous girth, a sort of greying mannish hippy with a touch of Jerry Garcia about her. I realised with a start that it was Andrea Dworkin, the ultra-feminist who shook me to my core when, in my late 20s, I read her book 'Intercourse' with its thesis that all penetration of women by men is -- while the sexes remain unequal -- violation, and all literature a graph of rape. I eavesdropped long enough to hear her say '...it would probably just play into my megalomaniacal passion for...' She sounded like a much nicer person than her books suggest, although later I read in The Scotsman that she advocates total separation of the genders and a mother's right to execute paedophiles.
"I went to sit on the grass. The sun was shining and some children were playing. An attractive girl came and sat down right between me and Andrea. I never know what to do in situations like this. Do you look admiringly at a sunbathing girl or do you pretend indifference? This time it was much worse, because Andrea Dworkin was sitting right behind the object of my lust! Thank god my 'male gaze' was hidden behind big bulbous blue ski shades."
― Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:54 (twenty years ago)
If she was happy, then I think that sounds pretty great.
― sugarpants: bea arthur's secret lover (sugarpants), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:59 (twenty years ago)
If she was happy, I'd rather be miserable.
― m coleman (lovebug starski), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:04 (twenty years ago)
― NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:05 (twenty years ago)
― Dr Morbius (Dr Morbius), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:09 (twenty years ago)
-- m coleman (lovebugstarsk...), April 11th, 2005 4:04 PM.
Not that I agree with her politics, but if I'd come from her backgroud, I'd probably equate sex with rape as well.
― sugarpants: bea arthur's secret lover (sugarpants), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:09 (twenty years ago)
― sugarpants: bea arthur's secret lover (sugarpants), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:11 (twenty years ago)
― m coleman (lovebug starski), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:17 (twenty years ago)
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:17 (twenty years ago)
Michael Moorcock: After "Right-Wing Women" and "Ice and Fire" you wrote "Intercourse". Another book which helped me clarify confusions about my own sexual relationships. You argue that attitudes to conventional sexual intercourse enshrine and perpetuate sexual inequality. Several reviewers accused you of saying that all intercourse was rape. I haven't found a hint of that anywhere in the book. Is that what you are saying?
Andrea Dworkin: No, I wasn't saying that and I didn't say that, then or ever. There is a long section in Right-Wing Women on intercourse in marriage. My point was that as long as the law allows statutory exemption for a husband from rape charges, no married woman has legal protection from rape. I also argued, based on a reading of our laws, that marriage mandated intercourse--it was compulsory, part of the marriage contract. Under the circumstances, I said, it was impossible to view sexual intercourse in marriage as the free act of a free woman. I said that when we look at sexual liberation and the law, we need to look not only at which sexual acts are forbidden, but which are compelled.
The whole issue of intercourse as this culture's penultimate expression of male dominance became more and more interesting to me. In Intercourse I decided to approach the subject as a social practice, material reality. This may be my history, but I think the social explanation of the "all sex is rape" slander is different and probably simple. Most men and a good number of women experience sexual pleasure in inequality. Since the paradigm for sex has been one of conquest, possession, and violation, I think many men believe they need an unfair advantage, which at its extreme would be called rape. I don't think they need it. I think both intercourse and sexual pleasure can and will survive equality.
It's important to say, too, that the pornographers, especially Playboy, have published the "all sex is rape" slander repeatedly over the years, and it's been taken up by others like Time who, when challenged, cannot cite a source in my work.
The entire interview can be found here: http://www.nostatusquo.com/ACLU/dworkin/MoorcockInterview.html
Again, I don't agree with everything she said, but I think some of her arguments have been vastly oversimplified.
― sugarpants: bea arthur's secret lover (sugarpants), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:22 (twenty years ago)
― jaymc (jaymc), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:25 (twenty years ago)
I would if I was genetically programmed to do so... biological imperatives run pretty deep.
"ferlin/foucault otm: there's a kind of anxious conformist bullying at the root of it, courtesy ppl apparently made nervous that not everyone shares their tastes and drives"
this has nothing to do with my tastes and drives - I was just pointing up the fact that since the reproductive act is so deeply rooted in the human animal, arguing that it should be completely done away with is inherently marginalizing. This is not a "good"/"bad" value judgment thing on my part - its an observation of statistical reality. Whatever segment of society there is that's willing to/desires to abstain from sex for political reasons is gonna be really, really, REALLY tiny.
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:25 (twenty years ago)
― sugarpants: bea arthur's secret lover (sugarpants), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:25 (twenty years ago)
(as a follow-up to my SF suggestion)
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:25 (twenty years ago)
― NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:28 (twenty years ago)
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:30 (twenty years ago)
― David Merryweather (DavidM), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:36 (twenty years ago)
This was long before she was raped and victimized as a prostitute. Sounds like she had an anti-social streak a mile wide. If she'd been born a generation later, she could've shot up a highschool Columbine-style. And that line quoted earlier, "woman need guns and land," echoed vintage Black Panther rhetoric. Another boomer generational voice still trapped in the 60s.
― m coleman (lovebug starski), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:43 (twenty years ago)
x-post
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:45 (twenty years ago)
i wasn't accusin you of doin this shakey
(millie tant has uber-kewl shoes!) (in fact she is v.stylish all over!!)
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:46 (twenty years ago)
i mean one said, all right--thats the case, lets be all transgressive and hott about it and one said, well we need to stop--but there is something almost creepy, and v. obv. violently powerful about the cock in cunt fucking---something in that phallocentrism that keeps women in place.
― anthony, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:51 (twenty years ago)
(has anyone been following the exuses and the lack of discourse, and the forgiving of the soliders and the blaming of the victims that has occured wrt to the ca 150 rapes in colorado--that should be on the cover of the new york times.)
― anthony, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:53 (twenty years ago)
buh?
"v. obv. violently powerful about the cock in cunt fucking---something in that phallocentrism that keeps women in place. "
this is baloney. a physical act developed long before the advent of consciousness (much less ideology) doesnt have any inherent political meaning. get one biology book.
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:58 (twenty years ago)
eg i'm not exactly sure what events calum's charge of exploitation (re linda lovelace) refers to, but one possible way in which AD "exploited" LL is by ventriloquising her, by converting LL's story into grist for AD's mill, into fuel for her movement and nothing more (instead of giving LL a voice, she silences her) (i've no idea if this represents the facts in the case)
anyway, this ventriloquising/silencing as a power strong writers have - and whatever else she is, dworkin was a very strong writer (hence the intensity of reactions against her)
but i don't think she ever really addressed that
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:01 (twenty years ago)
Kinda depends on position and style, no? Man tied up on a bed, woman straddling him: This does not preserve that role for the cock.
That's an interpretive framework, a way of reading the movement of the cock, one that is interesting but does not nec. have any "real" quality to it. It's like associating "green" with "money" and noting how nature displays a lot of green when it thrives and how this indicates that it is natural to accumulate money and wealth.
― Casuistry (Chris P), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:02 (twenty years ago)
Needing guns and land is a theme that resonates through the whole of American history. It fits with so many American tropes and tragedies: radical individualism, right wing libertarianism, the gun lobby, "the security state", litigation culture, Waco, the Unabomber, sexual prudishness, even suburban sprawl and the sprawling American body shape... It's all about post-protestant non-conformity, the rhetorical passion of an extreme (and finally fatal) form of individualism.
Maybe Dworkin was more typically American than even people like Twain and Whitman. This idea that you have to fight all the time, that society is your enemy, that you have to split off and form a radical-puritan-utopian community somewhere because normal folks doing normal things are evil and persecute you. She's there on the Mayflower, speeding away from sex and society, she's there at Salem witch-hunting, victimising and then claiming, in turn, to be the ultimate victim. And there's even a bit of Oprah in her strategic compassion.
― Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:03 (twenty years ago)
"a physical act developed long before the advent of consciousness (much less ideology) doesnt have any inherent political meaning"
get one logic book!!
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:03 (twenty years ago)
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:04 (twenty years ago)
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 20:07 (twenty years ago)
(which is like the most insanely complicated question, but still needed to be addressed)
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:08 (twenty years ago)
I think it's pointless to argue about which came first: sex, politics, or consciousness. Just because a sexual act has a biological basis doesn't mean that it can't also be political.
Yes, but how many people have sex that way? Not many. But even in the less extreme case of the woman on top, certainly the woman has a lot more agency/initiative than Dworkin is giving her credit for.
― o. nate (onate), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:12 (twenty years ago)
― lolita corpus (lolitacorpus), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:17 (twenty years ago)
implication of the first sentence: that human society will be therefore stratified by the degree to which reproductive sex is deemed present, acceptably contained, in control, out of control etc etc, by those with the ability to deem
the sentences aren't opposites exactly, but they do step on each other's toes
"inherent political meaning" - obv not, if this implies republican vs democrat or whatever - but anthony's point that you were objecting to wz that cock-and-cunt fucking has a deep cultural power to it, and if THAT'S what yr calling an "inherent political meaning", then i think the sentences clash
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:19 (twenty years ago)
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:22 (twenty years ago)
― o. nate (onate), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:24 (twenty years ago)
most of what yr describin just IS protestantism!! (i'm too tired to look it up but tom paulin says somewhere that autobiography is the exemplary form of the protestant political text)
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:35 (twenty years ago)
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:37 (twenty years ago)
I"m just using "post-protestant" to mean "has now or ever been protestant". But you're right, the US is not very post its protestantism. My use follows Geert Hofstede's in his cultural dimensions studies, but actually he restricts the term to places like Germany and Sweden, which are culturally protestant without being very religiously so these days.
Whitman and Twain are seen as the essence of America, but they lack that protestant extremism we see in Dworkin, the Mayflower, Salem, etc. Whitman's sensuality, in particular, seems particularly un-American, don't you think?
― Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:47 (twenty years ago)
"inherent biological inequalities in heterosexual vaginal sex "
there is no inherent "inequality" here - the perception of inequality comes later with the development of a specific point of view. matriarchal societies still managed to exist and reinforce themselves and still "relied" (as much as any political system relies on perpetuation of the species) on ye olde in-n-out. the sexual act can certainly have political connotations, has been used to reinforce power structures, etc., but the sexual act developed as it did for practical biological reasons that are quite separate from any ideology (ie, it is the most efficient way for the human organism to transfer DNA).
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 20:50 (twenty years ago)
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:51 (twenty years ago)
if i have time tomorrow (= mum's illness and work nightmares permitting) and if this thread has not gone all ghastly, i shall and say it more clearly
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:55 (twenty years ago)
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 20:55 (twenty years ago)
― m coleman (lovebug starski), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:55 (twenty years ago)
Do you see Dworkin as an American writer?
― Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:56 (twenty years ago)
― M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:56 (twenty years ago)
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:57 (twenty years ago)
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:01 (twenty years ago)
xpost
― M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:01 (twenty years ago)
As American as violence and apple pie. And I think you're absolutely right about the Janus face of American culture: Whitman greeting the dawn naked and Ashcroft covering up nude statues in the capitol.
― m coleman (lovebug starski), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:04 (twenty years ago)
― Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:05 (twenty years ago)
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:06 (twenty years ago)
― scott seward (scott seward), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:07 (twenty years ago)
Protestant is an awfully lazy term here, but there is something very pre-industrial and Jeffersonian in their desire for connection to the land, manageable local democracy, and for homespun simplicity which has always made me think that part of the hippy impulse is rather nostalgic and reactionary.
see i think the specific cultural expression of the 60s in anti-atomised forms (eg rock bands, rock audiences, rock culture)
This desire for community at the cost of individuality has always scared me at concerts. There is oftimes the echo there of fascist rallies or mobs.
― M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:11 (twenty years ago)
I think the first impulse won out more often in the 60s convulsions, despite mucho lip service paid to the latter.
― m coleman (lovebug starski), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:15 (twenty years ago)
ie it is anti-hierarchical, and expressive rather than submissive
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:27 (twenty years ago)
― M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:30 (twenty years ago)
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:37 (twenty years ago)
― M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:38 (twenty years ago)
(ps i didn't mean sad in the "loser" sense, which i hate: i mean genuinely struck-to-its-depth w.something sorrowful - that everything shared is tainted amd corrupting)
rock culture's dream of itself wz that this wz a vast joyful unity taken on as an active choice: rockbands as little marriages, band-and-audience as a two-way lovematch etc etc
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:42 (twenty years ago)
― M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:49 (twenty years ago)
Meat eating = objectification = pornography and women = cattle
It's as if she's saying "It's much worse than you think. Women are even more abject than anybody imagined. Cattle. Offal. Hamburgers." I mean, who does that analysis help? Where does that metaphor lead? It makes the image of a leggy hamburger on her book jacket look positively chivalric in comparison.
― Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:50 (twenty years ago)
but the bondage scenario above is queer sex--or at least sex informed by knowledge of power dialectics.
― anthony, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:05 (twenty years ago)
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:09 (twenty years ago)
WTMFF?
― M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:12 (twenty years ago)
― m coleman (lovebug starski), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:18 (twenty years ago)
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:21 (twenty years ago)
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:24 (twenty years ago)
but i realize i cant be seduced.
― anthony, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:25 (twenty years ago)
Dworkin just never got any. That was her problem - who would go down on THAT?
― NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:25 (twenty years ago)
― anthony, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:29 (twenty years ago)
― g e o f f (gcannon), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:30 (twenty years ago)
― lolita corpus (lolitacorpus), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:32 (twenty years ago)
― Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:33 (twenty years ago)
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:34 (twenty years ago)
Blah blah blah 'hatred of women' blah blah blah. Never met a woman who hated me as a person funnily enough and have plenty of them as friends and, shockingly, was brought up by them too. Blah blah blah - this is nonsense. Dworkin was a pig ugly obese nutcase and if someone only laid her back and gave her some fine oral she'd probably have revised her views a long time ago. As it is she was no worse than a KKK member telling us all blacks are the spawn of satan - only her enemy had a penis.
― NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:35 (twenty years ago)
― M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:37 (twenty years ago)
― Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:39 (twenty years ago)
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:41 (twenty years ago)
What makes SF great is just how sexually liberated it is. The Castro district is - like - now one of my fave places ever.
― NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:42 (twenty years ago)
― M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:43 (twenty years ago)
oddly, I still find yr sub-literate masturbatory fantasies really really REALLY boring.
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:44 (twenty years ago)
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:45 (twenty years ago)
― Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:46 (twenty years ago)
A) Noticed you on this board the whole time I've been here
And/ Or
B) Could tell you one post you've made.
So you're clearly a very memorable guy.
― NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:47 (twenty years ago)
― Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:48 (twenty years ago)
All I can say to that is that I'm glad you didn't crash our party in SF after all because if you can't join in on such things then you gotta be freaking boring.
― NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:48 (twenty years ago)
― Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:49 (twenty years ago)
― M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:50 (twenty years ago)
― Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:50 (twenty years ago)
Whoa! This very person is caricatured in the first issue of Bob Fingerman's brilliant Minimum Wage. I knew the comic was drawn from a lot of things in his life but I hadn't realized that person was one of them.
Anyway, back to Calum's attempt to think. Oh wait never mind.
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:50 (twenty years ago)
By the way - you'll find the nastiest post was at the top when someone volunteered 'pissing on her grave' but I said far worse than that clearly.
Or maybe it's just open fire on me again season. Let me break it to you bozos - if Dworkin had managed to change laws, which IS what she campaigned for, then you'd be living in a very sorry society indeed. Hilariously, everything about ILX's "right on" psuedo left-leaning BS is proven exactly that - because Dworkin really stood for sexual regression.
But never mind eh?
Oh - and if she had listened to my advice and lost some weight - as any doctor will advise anyone of her size - maybe she wouldn't be dead. Cos looking like THAT is not healthy.
P.S. Ned - are you still sitting behind your PC in LA?? Sheesh man, do you want some of my party invites? Get you out and stuff?
― NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:54 (twenty years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:56 (twenty years ago)
In three months I had invites to all the cool shit. What have you been doing wrong man?
― NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:57 (twenty years ago)
― NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:58 (twenty years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:59 (twenty years ago)
― M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:59 (twenty years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 11 April 2005 23:00 (twenty years ago)
"Is suicide a rational decision"
Comes... Ned Raggett. Online 24 hours a day.
― NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 23:01 (twenty years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 11 April 2005 23:02 (twenty years ago)
― NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 23:04 (twenty years ago)
Our congratulations go to the winner, Danielle Fitzpatrick, who lives in Middlesex.
Well done also to the runners up, who are: Charlotte White from Leicestershire, Joseph Matthews from Merseyside, Amy Fieldhouse from Humberside, Alex Sanderson from Suffolk, Callum Waddell from Aberdeen, Jake Baudet from the West Midlands, Lauren McFarland from Cumbria, Jamie Black from County Down, Ailsa Floyd from Argyll, Alexander Strettle from Tyne and Wear, Pippa Jolly from Devon, Sara Chan from Merseyside, Raisa Tariq from Surrey, Anoushka Patel from London and Andrew Gofton from Hertfordshire.
― Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Monday, 11 April 2005 23:05 (twenty years ago)
P.S. Someone else posting as "NamC" - obviously - though the confusion rocks.
Dom - wrong spelling, wrong city. Not me. Sorry.
― Namc, Monday, 11 April 2005 23:06 (twenty years ago)
Pretty poor imitation of the real one here.
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 11 April 2005 23:07 (twenty years ago)
― Namc, Monday, 11 April 2005 23:08 (twenty years ago)
― Inferir Musseum Facist, Monday, 11 April 2005 23:08 (twenty years ago)
"I've got lots of fabulous press flacks who ADORE me...*heaves sobs*...I'm sorry but I just moved myself."
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 11 April 2005 23:10 (twenty years ago)
― Namc, Monday, 11 April 2005 23:26 (twenty years ago)
I don't guess this is really worth responding to, but I figured I'd state the obvious: If all Dworkin needed was "some fine oral," I don't think it would've done anything except reinforce her core beliefs. In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if she were an oral sex fan! I'm not well-read as far as her work goes, but I'm fairly sure her problem wasn't with individuals' sex drives. (Although if anyone can refute/elaborate on this, feel free.)
― sugarpants: bea arthur's secret lover (sugarpants), Monday, 11 April 2005 23:40 (twenty years ago)
I'll always remeber the book's argument that a gay porn book was offensive because (among other things) it "presents male-male sex as superior". Like, what else is it supposed to do?
― Sym Sym (sym), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 00:29 (twenty years ago)
As I said above:
"If Dworkin had managed to change laws, which IS what she campaigned for, then you'd be living in a very sorry society indeed. Hilariously, everything about ILX's "right on" psuedo left-leaning BS is proven exactly that - because Dworkin really stood for sexual regression."
But no one listens on ILX. As usual.
― NamC, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 00:40 (twenty years ago)
Yes! After rereading her stuff a few years ago, it reminded me a lot of dave q.
I like her more now than I did when when in college. I am rather saddened to hear about this.
― tokyo nursery school: afternoon session (rosemary), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 00:53 (twenty years ago)
"Iraq was way better than the West, it is where the first civlizations were. Separation of Chruch and State is different son. Pornography doens't have to do anything with that. It is clear: It is against women. In porn, women aren't paid that much either. They are treated worse than animals in porn. The guys make them do anything, very nasty things. And all the poor women get is money to go to college. I feel sorry for those women. I wish I could send everone of them to college."
GIVE THIS MAN A ROSE SOMEONE! HE FUNNY!
― NamC, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 01:00 (twenty years ago)
― Lurker23, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 01:28 (twenty years ago)
― hstencil (hstencil), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 02:53 (twenty years ago)
― mark s (mark s), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 06:31 (twenty years ago)
in any case, this speculation on her sex life is fucking pea brained, and that's a charitable interpretation (actually it could be seen as a bullying, nastly frat style attempt to discredit her and not have to think coherently about her ideas)
― debden, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 07:59 (twenty years ago)
― k3wl, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 08:18 (twenty years ago)
http://books.guardian.co.uk/departments/politicsphilosophyandsociety/story/0,6000,327399,00.html
― Jonathan Z. (Joanthan Z.), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 08:59 (twenty years ago)
― Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 09:20 (twenty years ago)
― Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 09:22 (twenty years ago)
― nathalie doing a soft foot shuffle (stevie nixed), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 10:17 (twenty years ago)
only if it's necessary for you to define "american" as that which you can comfortably loathe and mock. what was it whitman said about multitudes? perhaps america is that, too. but it wouldn't make as facile of a subject for a blog entry if it were!
seriously, momus, what so persistently bugs me about you is that you're smarter than this! you're engaging in reductionism quite wilfully... why?!?!
also momus: A talent for metaphor can be a dangerous thing.
indeed.
anyway, dworkin, yeah. i ignored her while she was alive so...
― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 16:56 (twenty years ago)
All I was saying there was that on a scale that runs from Puritan to Sensualist, America would be seen by most people in the world as at the Puritan end. (Perhaps not Americans, however. But you need to be outside America to see these sorts of perceptions. Google "Etats Unis puritaine" and you'll get a lot of results.) So a writer as sensual as Whitman would be a strange candidate to be "typically" or "archetypally" American", although that's what he gets called. I think Dworkin fits the bill much better, although I haven't seen her early writings, which apparently have some quite sexy scenes. She's like a politician who found that she could move her electorate with raw and emotive issues tied up with humiliation, fear and disgust. Some kind of Milosovic of the gender Balkans.
― Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:05 (twenty years ago)
perhaps, this was all you MEANT, but as usual, your *rhetoric* had more than a hint of the essentialist.
i'm not sure why it should be of any interest to define a "typical" American at all. are you writing a travelogue for a latvian tourist magazine?
― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:09 (twenty years ago)
As a francophile, I feel particularly entitled to say that I'm not particularly interested in what the French may think of us. The real issue regarding Whitman is not whether he's an important American writer or whether he's a 'typical' American writer but how broad and deep hin influence is on America. There is certainly an America out there that doesn't give a rat's ass about Walt and would despise him if they knew more anything about him, especially that he was an Oscar Wilde kissing, opera crazy queer from New York.
― M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:16 (twenty years ago)
― Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:16 (twenty years ago)
so you're saying that dworkin in some sense is upholding a certain strain in american thought? ok, sure. you express yourself in hyperbolic terms, though, which you're now carefully backing away from.
― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:19 (twenty years ago)
― jocelyn (Jocelyn), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:21 (twenty years ago)
― Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:24 (twenty years ago)
Isn't this true of just about anyone, including Mark Twain? Not least because there isn't just one America out there.
― Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:25 (twenty years ago)
Google "French smelly" and you'll get a lot of results also.
― The Mad Puffin (The Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:25 (twenty years ago)
can you agree that you were stating things hyperbolically earlier? or am i asking too much?
― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:26 (twenty years ago)
(sorry for typo)
― Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:26 (twenty years ago)
I too was shocked by this but I think she was simply pointing out that she had not been engaged in any risky behavior as a way of pointing out that this doesn't just happen to foolhardy risk takers but can happen to any woman.
― M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:26 (twenty years ago)
Momus is being insanely reductive about both american puritanism (which includes the pacifistic free-thinkin Roger Williams AND Cotton Mather) and the reasons for the foundation of the country.
― Shakey Mo Collier, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:27 (twenty years ago)
uh, Black Panthers, the Weathermen, Nation of Islam, separatist cults...
― Shakey Mo Collier, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:29 (twenty years ago)
Tell that to the Weather Underground, Malcolm X and the Black Panthers.
Shakey, OMG!
― M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:30 (twenty years ago)
you seem to have a strong interest in taxonomies: creating them, reformulating them. i rarely apprehend what you're getting at besides the pleasing symmetry of a well-ordered taxonomy though.
― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:30 (twenty years ago)
― Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:33 (twenty years ago)
― Shakey Mo Collier, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:33 (twenty years ago)
now we're into a "showbiz = american" meme, i see.
to clarify: i *do* think the correspondence between dworkin's radical views and certain puritan/radical individualist ideas that form a big part of american history is interesting (and it's been noted by a lot of people!). i wouldn't posit those ideas as *the* american ideas nor would i posit dworkin or her ideas as "typically american."
please allow america to be as confused and conflicted as, say, france, with its petains and cocteaus.
― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:36 (twenty years ago)
― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:37 (twenty years ago)
― M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:41 (twenty years ago)
― M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:42 (twenty years ago)
― Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:42 (twenty years ago)
― Shakey Mo Collier, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:46 (twenty years ago)
― Shakey Mo Collier, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:48 (twenty years ago)
For instance, Katharine Viner's piece in the Guardian, which says that, in a world where getting Botox treatment passes as a feminist gesture, Dworkin was a "bedrock": "even when you disagreed with her, her arguments were infuriating, fascinating, hard to forget. Feminism needs those who won't compromise..."
― Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:48 (twenty years ago)
― Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:50 (twenty years ago)
Suggestions:- Make sure all words are spelled correctly.- Try different keywords.- Try more general keywords.- Try fewer keywords.
:( :( :(
― kingfish, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:54 (twenty years ago)
― M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:55 (twenty years ago)
26,000 for British prude
13,000 for Scottish stingy
5,120 for Etats Unis puritaine
― The Mad Puffin (The Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:55 (twenty years ago)
― j blount (papa la bas), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:57 (twenty years ago)
― j blount (papa la bas), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:01 (twenty years ago)
― Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:01 (twenty years ago)
blount, i think to give dworkin even credit as something to "move beyond" is insulting to the much more interesting and thoughtful feminists that came before and after her!
― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:02 (twenty years ago)
ok, now this thread = grudge match between two diehard sophists = i'll back out quietly
― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:03 (twenty years ago)
― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:04 (twenty years ago)
― M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:18 (twenty years ago)
― j blount (papa la bas), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:31 (twenty years ago)
― Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:38 (twenty years ago)
It's amazing how she both served as a convenient strawman for right-wing talk show hosts and made common cause with them.
― Sym Sym (sym), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 22:43 (twenty years ago)
I wouldn't have touched her with yours.
― NamC, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 03:40 (twenty years ago)
― Sym Sym (sym), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 04:07 (twenty years ago)
― Tyrone Willie Demetrius DeAndre DeShawn (deangulberry), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 05:03 (twenty years ago)
― Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 07:37 (twenty years ago)
― kelsey (kelstarry), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 15:40 (twenty years ago)
Some misogynist does a drawing of a woman as meat. The drawing gets out into the world with its message that "women are just meat". Andrea Dworkin sees the image and decides to use it for her book, whose thesis is "in this rotten scummy world women are just meat". Meanwhile, apart from the misogynist and Andrea Dworkin, the great majority of people don't for a minute believe that women are just meat. What a strange alliance between the misogynists and the misogyprojectionists!
― Momus (Momus), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 16:36 (twenty years ago)
I recently bought Deep Throat - curiousity got the better of me and I'd wanted to see it for a while. Watched it in the company of a female and another guy. We had a good chuckle at it, as it is kinda funny - though such a shame about Linda Lovelace. I told me gfriend I picked it up and she couldn't care.
The real misogyny, in my opinion, comes from certain people on this forum whose attitude seems to be that women should never be lusted over or spoken about in a sexual content and that - in doing so - the person is somehow a mad woman hater. I really long for the day when we are all as liberated as somewhere like San Francisco. Having spent a few days in the city's gay district and bars and seen how no one gives a shit about sexual orientation, heavy petting on the streets etc I really wish we could all take that lead. I swear that one day I'm moving there.
― NamC, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:05 (twenty years ago)
― Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:11 (twenty years ago)
― M. White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:14 (twenty years ago)
― NamC, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:15 (twenty years ago)
― Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:18 (twenty years ago)
― Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:19 (twenty years ago)
― M. White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:20 (twenty years ago)
Upon what information have you based this? Why do think this matters? Why do you think I'd care?
Actually, I'm prepared to concede that you may have more. Who knows? Pure egotism on my part inclines me to believe that my friends, though putatively less numerous, are far superior in quality.
― M. White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:31 (twenty years ago)
TEARS OF LAUGHTER
― The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 14 April 2005 01:28 (twenty years ago)
― Pashmina (Pashmina), Thursday, 14 April 2005 08:34 (twenty years ago)
― Pashmina (Pashmina), Thursday, 14 April 2005 08:38 (twenty years ago)
Dworkin always struck me as someone brilliant who wasn't aware enough of how her own particular experiences affected/skewed her insights. Then again, judging from her popularity among women at the time, she obviously touched a nerve, so perhaps many women felt their experiences were similar.
― Hurting (Hurting), Tuesday, 19 April 2005 13:49 (twenty years ago)
from
Is it even expected today that a woman should just be okay with pornography? Like we've 'progressed' to the point where no one should get upset by it? Was Ariel Levy RIGHT???-- Abbott, Monday, February 4, 2008 12:57 AM (1 hour ago) Bookmark LinkIt's not my obsession with porn, babe, it's your reaction to it!-- wanko ergo sum, Monday, February 4, 2008 12:59 AM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Link
-- Abbott, Monday, February 4, 2008 12:57 AM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Link
It's not my obsession with porn, babe, it's your reaction to it!
-- wanko ergo sum, Monday, February 4, 2008 12:59 AM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Link
I totally do get this vibe from modren non-'square/straight' society (can't think of any terms that would work outside West Side Story) that a chick's just supposed to accept men jerk it to .mpegs and such, her man jerks it, so it goes. Her opinion doesn't matter, unless she's for it. 1. Is this true and 2. how did it happen and 3. is this a good or bad thing?
― Abbott, Monday, 4 February 2008 02:57 (eighteen years ago)
I was gonna respond to your questions regarding this on the eharmony thread where you invoked Ariel Levy. Anyhow, my impressions: 1. True: Yes, I think this has become increasingly the case over the past several years, esp. in the eyes of many younger i.e., early-20's/late-teens dudes 2. The Hows: Internet presumably removing the "shame factor" previously associated with pornography; plus the media push towards "porn chic", "hey porn's gone mainstream"; plus an x factor (pun not intended) of sorts of women going along with it for whatever reasons...like kinda what Levy talks about in her writings 3. Good or bad? Hmmm. Well, I don't wanna live in a society in which porn is illegal, but I can find enough objectionable things about the contemporary porn biz such that the added factor of women feeling like they are uptight or something if they are not cool with their boyfriends/husbands gettin' down w/the porn is pretty sad...actually, I think it's a sad situation for both women and men.
Part of me thinks that porn will eventually "mellow out" from what it's become, and return largely to the comparatively "innocent" Playboy/Penthouse-type sutff of decades past...I'm not sure why I think that, other then that it seems like things have swung to such an extreme that it's hard for me not to imagine it as part of a cyclical thing that must eventually revert back to something more balanced and sane.
So for whatever reasons, my attempt at answering this question is informed in no small part by me personally being skeeved out by what porn has become in the past few years. But more to the point of your inquiry, it's something that obv. needs to be worked out by individuals/couples... and the fact that societal pressures exist to such a degree that people would feel like there is something wrong with them if they are not down with the current climate, well, again that seems sad to me. 3.
― dell, Monday, 4 February 2008 03:54 (eighteen years ago)
looks like she won, ultimately
― images of war violence and historical smoking (Dr Morbius), Friday, 14 February 2014 14:35 (twelve years ago)
Really good overview of her thought and writings: https://www.bookforum.com/inprint/025_05/20623
― xyzzzz__, Wednesday, 30 January 2019 22:55 (seven years ago)
yeah great piece. always found her relationship w Moorcock very interesting.
― Οὖτις, Wednesday, 30 January 2019 23:23 (seven years ago)