Andrea Dworkin RIP

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You made me feel very, very guilty, Andrea.

Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 17:44 (twenty years ago)

http://www.guardian.co.uk/international/story/0,3604,1457220,00.html

Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 17:45 (twenty years ago)

wow, that's surprising, only 59. rip.

mark p (Mark P), Monday, 11 April 2005 17:53 (twenty years ago)

I hope someone tells me where she's buried so I can piss on her grave. An awful, miserable, facist person. An abuser of people and an abuser of facts. Good riddance. Thankfully, feminism continued to thrive even with Dworkin continually working to further marginalize it.

shookout (shookout), Monday, 11 April 2005 17:53 (twenty years ago)

she was MARRIED?!?

weird.

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 17:53 (twenty years ago)

Yup. It was something often ignored.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 11 April 2005 17:54 (twenty years ago)

one can only wonder at their sex life...

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 17:55 (twenty years ago)

Interesting. I don't think she could have died at a time when she seemed less relevant. In another 10-15 years, when we get a full reconsideration of the '60s-'70s women's movement, she'll seem more concretely part of something important (albeit maybe one of the less appealing manifestations of it). Right now, she just seems kind of ludicrous.

gypsy mothra (gypsy mothra), Monday, 11 April 2005 17:59 (twenty years ago)

I had no idea what she looked like. I think I was subconsciously confusing her with Marilyn Vos Savant.

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:00 (twenty years ago)

I'm sure Callum will be along to pay tribute.

Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:02 (twenty years ago)

now let's compare her with the pope

Sym Sym (sym), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:03 (twenty years ago)

one can only wonder at their sex life...

I'm pretty sure it was non-penetrative. Can't remember where I heard that, but obviously it was consistent with her philosophies.

jaymc (jaymc), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:03 (twenty years ago)

sounds very fulfilling.

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:05 (twenty years ago)

I'm sure Callum will be along to pay tribute

Their sexual ethics seem strangely similar at times.

Ferlin Husky (noodle vague), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:06 (twenty years ago)

"obviously"? in many political lives the biggest gulf falls between philosophy and sexual practice

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:06 (twenty years ago)

rest in peace

cozen (Cozen), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:08 (twenty years ago)

From the Guardian:

"In my own life, I don't have intercourse. That is my choice."

jaymc (jaymc), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:09 (twenty years ago)

where does this idea that you'll never have sex or be in a relationship OR be randomly fancied again come from?

Ferlin Husky (noodle vague), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:11 (twenty years ago)

provided no shortage of fun in my philo 355 class: "Contemporary Moral Problems".

kingfish, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:11 (twenty years ago)

Her husband MUST have had porn around? If they didn't do it.

andy --, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:12 (twenty years ago)

I'm still a booster of her book of fiction, Mercy. Makes most so-called "transgressive" lit look like rebecca of sunnybrook farm. it fits nicely on the shelf next to acker or selby.

scott seward (scott seward), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:12 (twenty years ago)

wow. RIP, ms dworkin.

g e o f f (gcannon), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:14 (twenty years ago)

mark s: I didn't mean "obviously" like you think I meant it! I meant "that practice is entirely plausible, since obviously [i.e., as you can all see] that practice accords with her philosophy."

jaymc (jaymc), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:14 (twenty years ago)

I read an interview with her husband once - an unassuming bespectacled type who was fiercely supportive of her as campaigner and intellect.

Tom (Groke), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:15 (twenty years ago)

"You made me feel very, very guilty, Andrea."
ditto

Felonious Drunk (Felcher), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:15 (twenty years ago)

apologies jaymc i am v.tired at the moment

(i do think speculation abt the HAPPINESS of her sexlife w.her husband is a bit pointless: what couples end up gettin up to and what they get out of one another = the untellable mystery)

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:17 (twenty years ago)

"In my own life, I don't have intercourse. That is my choice."

Not exactly gonna win a lot of converts promoting that lifestyle...

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:18 (twenty years ago)

she was MARRIED?!?

weird.

Actually, I'm surprised she got married to him, because her partner was a homosexual, as I recall.

Vestigial Appendages, Esq. (King Kobra), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:19 (twenty years ago)

Not exactly gonna win a lot of converts promoting that lifestyle...

The Catholic Church seems to do alright.

Ferlin Husky (noodle vague), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:20 (twenty years ago)

uh, the Catholics promote sex like there's no tomorrow - except for priests, and yeah that seems to be working out REALLY well for them lately, doesn't it?

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:21 (twenty years ago)

Priests and Nuns. You know why they call them Nuns, don't you? Because they get nun.

Ferlin Husky (noodle vague), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:25 (twenty years ago)

*cymbal crash*

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:25 (twenty years ago)

Anyway, I had a kind of Foucaultian irritation at the suggestion that, like, everybody thinks fucking is the greatest thing.

Ferlin Husky (noodle vague), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:26 (twenty years ago)

Any reaction yet from Elaine Showalter, who memorably said a few years back she doubted anybody would get up at 4 AM to watch Dworkin's funeral?

rasheed wallace (rasheed wallace), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:27 (twenty years ago)

Dworkin's husband is a gay feminist.

http://dir.salon.com/books/feature/2000/09/20/dworkin/index.html

Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:28 (twenty years ago)

why is it being held at 4am?

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:28 (twenty years ago)

That's Showalter's way of doubting Dworkin's global reach.

rasheed wallace (rasheed wallace), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:29 (twenty years ago)

"Anyway, I had a kind of Foucaultian irritation at the suggestion that, like, everybody thinks fucking is the greatest thing."

uh, look around you. see all those bazillions of people? obviously humanity's pretty fond of fucking, on the whole.

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 18:32 (twenty years ago)

"Would you jump off a cliff if humanity told you to?"

Ferlin Husky (noodle vague), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:34 (twenty years ago)

ferlin/foucault otm: there's a kind of anxious conformist bullying at the root of it, courtesy ppl apparently made nervous that not everyone shares their tastes and drives

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:36 (twenty years ago)

antifeminists lose their strawwoman, hurrah.

xpost yes, i thought her marriage sounded wonderful, frankly. and i like getting laid.

g e o f f (gcannon), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:37 (twenty years ago)

obviously humanity's pretty fond of fucking, on the whole.

It's also depressingly fond of territorial invasion, which is what Dworkin compared it to in the hope that fucking would go away. Her book Scapegoat compared women to the Jews as universal scapegoats, and ended up advocating that women found a sort of Gender Israel. Salon:

"Dworkin's most original and controversial conclusion to all this is that "women need land and guns." Women must reject pacifism and literally create their own militant, separatist territory (or Lebensraum?). As a practical concept, of course, the idea is nothing short of nuts. But even as an exercise in rhetoric it is unconvincing, mainly because it is unclear why Dworkin believes that Womanland would be immune to the temptations of structural power she has just been at such pains to illustrate. If the Israelis are practicing the sadism they learned from anti-Semites on the Palestinians, won't women also find their own scapegoats?"

Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:38 (twenty years ago)

that salon piece makes it sound like will and grace!!

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:38 (twenty years ago)

(her marriage, i mean)

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:39 (twenty years ago)

susie bright can be a bit glib, but the dworkin piece that salon links to is pretty good, i think

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:47 (twenty years ago)

hmmmpf

Eisbär (llamasfur), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:48 (twenty years ago)

I had a close encounter with Dworkin at the Edinburgh Book Festival in 2000.

"Wandering past the marquees, I paused to read an events blackboard. Sitting next to it was an American woman of enormous girth, a sort of greying mannish hippy with a touch of Jerry Garcia about her. I realised with a start that it was Andrea Dworkin, the ultra-feminist who shook me to my core when, in my late 20s, I read her book 'Intercourse' with its thesis that all penetration of women by men is -- while the sexes remain unequal -- violation, and all literature a graph of rape. I eavesdropped long enough to hear her say '...it would probably just play into my megalomaniacal passion for...' She sounded like a much nicer person than her books suggest, although later I read in The Scotsman that she advocates total separation of the genders and a mother's right to execute paedophiles.

"I went to sit on the grass. The sun was shining and some children were playing. An attractive girl came and sat down right between me and Andrea. I never know what to do in situations like this. Do you look admiringly at a sunbathing girl or do you pretend indifference? This time it was much worse, because Andrea Dworkin was sitting right behind the object of my lust! Thank god my 'male gaze' was hidden behind big bulbous blue ski shades."

Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:54 (twenty years ago)

I don't think her marriage was all that different, frankly — at least based on my experience talking to older friends about their marriages. As you get older, I think that sex slides down the priority scale for most.

If she was happy, then I think that sounds pretty great.

sugarpants: bea arthur's secret lover (sugarpants), Monday, 11 April 2005 18:59 (twenty years ago)

Sex sliding down the priority scale is one of the more depressing facts of marriage but it's hardly the same as one partner abstaining because she thinks any act of interercourse/penetration equals rape.

If she was happy, I'd rather be miserable.

m coleman (lovebug starski), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:04 (twenty years ago)

She was really fucked up. That's my honest feeling. As with any fucked up person you end up pitying them and - to be honest - one wonders if she would have been happier if she was physically attractive and not the second coming of King Kong in baggy trousers.

NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:05 (twenty years ago)

As a college freshman I found her quite ridiculous. As a 40something sodomite who can do quite well without penetrative intercourse, I think maybe she had a point now and then.

Dr Morbius (Dr Morbius), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:09 (twenty years ago)

Sex sliding down the priority scale is one of the more depressing facts of marriage but it's hardly the same as one partner abstaining because she thinks any act of interercourse/penetration equals rape.

If she was happy, I'd rather be miserable.

-- m coleman (lovebugstarsk...), April 11th, 2005 4:04 PM.

Not that I agree with her politics, but if I'd come from her backgroud, I'd probably equate sex with rape as well.

sugarpants: bea arthur's secret lover (sugarpants), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:09 (twenty years ago)

Additionally, her idea of sex equalling rape came with the qualifier that this was true as long as the sexes were unequal. Of course, that opens up all sorts of speculation about what equality means.

sugarpants: bea arthur's secret lover (sugarpants), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:11 (twenty years ago)

I understand her intercourse/rape equation as a victim's reaction (and survival mechanism) but offering it up as some sort of social model doesn't seem so healthy to me.

m coleman (lovebug starski), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:17 (twenty years ago)

shakey, in a way as a writer AD belongs on yr "is science fiction gay?" thread = dedicated to a hermetic political sexual utopian speculation designed to fashion a world that never yet existed

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:17 (twenty years ago)

FWIW, a clarification on the "sex is rape" issue from an old interview:

Michael Moorcock: After "Right-Wing Women" and "Ice and Fire" you wrote "Intercourse". Another book which helped me clarify confusions about my own sexual relationships. You argue that attitudes to conventional sexual intercourse enshrine and perpetuate sexual inequality. Several reviewers accused you of saying that all intercourse was rape. I haven't found a hint of that anywhere in the book. Is that what you are saying?

Andrea Dworkin: No, I wasn't saying that and I didn't say that, then or ever. There is a long section in Right-Wing Women on intercourse in marriage. My point was that as long as the law allows statutory exemption for a husband from rape charges, no married woman has legal protection from rape. I also argued, based on a reading of our laws, that marriage mandated intercourse--it was compulsory, part of the marriage contract. Under the circumstances, I said, it was impossible to view sexual intercourse in marriage as the free act of a free woman. I said that when we look at sexual liberation and the law, we need to look not only at which sexual acts are forbidden, but which are compelled.

The whole issue of intercourse as this culture's penultimate expression of male dominance became more and more interesting to me. In Intercourse I decided to approach the subject as a social practice, material reality. This may be my history, but I think the social explanation of the "all sex is rape" slander is different and probably simple. Most men and a good number of women experience sexual pleasure in inequality. Since the paradigm for sex has been one of conquest, possession, and violation, I think many men believe they need an unfair advantage, which at its extreme would be called rape. I don't think they need it. I think both intercourse and sexual pleasure can and will survive equality.

It's important to say, too, that the pornographers, especially Playboy, have published the "all sex is rape" slander repeatedly over the years, and it's been taken up by others like Time who, when challenged, cannot cite a source in my work.

The entire interview can be found here: http://www.nostatusquo.com/ACLU/dworkin/MoorcockInterview.html

Again, I don't agree with everything she said, but I think some of her arguments have been vastly oversimplified.

sugarpants: bea arthur's secret lover (sugarpants), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:22 (twenty years ago)

Moorcock

jaymc (jaymc), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:25 (twenty years ago)

"Would you jump off a cliff if humanity told you to?"

I would if I was genetically programmed to do so... biological imperatives run pretty deep.

"ferlin/foucault otm: there's a kind of anxious conformist bullying at the root of it, courtesy ppl apparently made nervous that not everyone shares their tastes and drives"

this has nothing to do with my tastes and drives - I was just pointing up the fact that since the reproductive act is so deeply rooted in the human animal, arguing that it should be completely done away with is inherently marginalizing. This is not a "good"/"bad" value judgment thing on my part - its an observation of statistical reality. Whatever segment of society there is that's willing to/desires to abstain from sex for political reasons is gonna be really, really, REALLY tiny.

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:25 (twenty years ago)

hee! i noticed it after I posted.

sugarpants: bea arthur's secret lover (sugarpants), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:25 (twenty years ago)

i wz just abt to post that moorcock wz a sympathetic critic!

(as a follow-up to my SF suggestion)

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:25 (twenty years ago)

After Linda Boorman (Lovelace) had been beaten by that abusive fuck Chuck Traynor and left him, Dworkin and Catharine McKinnon exploited her for their own means. They victimised Lovelace too - and for that they are both unforgiveable.

NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:28 (twenty years ago)

yeah that Moorcock interview is really good. fascinating chap, Michael.

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:30 (twenty years ago)

http://semiskimmed.net/pix/viz_millietant.gif

David Merryweather (DavidM), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:36 (twenty years ago)

** I found this cute little book they'd missed called Guerilla Warfare by Che Guevara. I read it a million times. I'd plan attacks on the local shopping mall. I got a lot of practice in strategising real rebellion. It may be why I refuse to think that rebellion against the oppressors of women should be less real, less material, less serious.**

This was long before she was raped and victimized as a prostitute. Sounds like she had an anti-social streak a mile wide. If she'd been born a generation later, she could've shot up a highschool Columbine-style. And that line quoted earlier, "woman need guns and land," echoed vintage Black Panther rhetoric. Another boomer generational voice still trapped in the 60s.

m coleman (lovebug starski), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:43 (twenty years ago)

I am now wishing that Andrea was a recurring Don Martin cartoon character.

x-post

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:45 (twenty years ago)

the conformist bullying comes at the point where everyone is supposed to worship sex as the BEST THING EVER, and anyone who says that it comes elsewhere on the scale for them than the TOP is mocked (by the bullies) as a sad deviant, their story pitied and ignored

i wasn't accusin you of doin this shakey

(millie tant has uber-kewl shoes!) (in fact she is v.stylish all over!!)

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 19:46 (twenty years ago)

i was thinking about this, and you know--dwarkin, in how she connected sex to power, and made every sexual encounter a negotion of status, was v. much like foccualt.

i mean one said, all right--thats the case, lets be all transgressive and hott about it and one said, well we need to stop--but there is something almost creepy, and v. obv. violently powerful about the cock in cunt fucking---something in that phallocentrism that keeps women in place.

anthony, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:51 (twenty years ago)

&i am talking as a post queer faggot who would prefer handjobs to anal, and also as someone w. a history of rape directly and indirectly--and who loves porn.

(has anyone been following the exuses and the lack of discourse, and the forgiving of the soliders and the blaming of the victims that has occured wrt to the ca 150 rapes in colorado--that should be on the cover of the new york times.)

anthony, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:53 (twenty years ago)

"post queer"?
"150 rapes"?

buh?

"v. obv. violently powerful about the cock in cunt fucking---something in that phallocentrism that keeps women in place. "

this is baloney. a physical act developed long before the advent of consciousness (much less ideology) doesnt have any inherent political meaning. get one biology book.

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 19:58 (twenty years ago)

dworkin's analysis of power is way more naive than foucault's, not least bcz she never seems to have allowed for her own specific access to power, as a writer

eg i'm not exactly sure what events calum's charge of exploitation (re linda lovelace) refers to, but one possible way in which AD "exploited" LL is by ventriloquising her, by converting LL's story into grist for AD's mill, into fuel for her movement and nothing more (instead of giving LL a voice, she silences her) (i've no idea if this represents the facts in the case)

anyway, this ventriloquising/silencing as a power strong writers have - and whatever else she is, dworkin was a very strong writer (hence the intensity of reactions against her)

but i don't think she ever really addressed that

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:01 (twenty years ago)

but there is something almost creepy, and v. obv. violently powerful about the cock in cunt fucking---something in that phallocentrism that keeps women in place.

Kinda depends on position and style, no? Man tied up on a bed, woman straddling him: This does not preserve that role for the cock.

That's an interpretive framework, a way of reading the movement of the cock, one that is interesting but does not nec. have any "real" quality to it. It's like associating "green" with "money" and noting how nature displays a lot of green when it thrives and how this indicates that it is natural to accumulate money and wealth.

Casuistry (Chris P), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:02 (twenty years ago)

And that line quoted earlier, "woman need guns and land," echoed vintage Black Panther rhetoric. Another boomer generational voice still trapped in the 60s.

Needing guns and land is a theme that resonates through the whole of American history. It fits with so many American tropes and tragedies: radical individualism, right wing libertarianism, the gun lobby, "the security state", litigation culture, Waco, the Unabomber, sexual prudishness, even suburban sprawl and the sprawling American body shape... It's all about post-protestant non-conformity, the rhetorical passion of an extreme (and finally fatal) form of individualism.

Maybe Dworkin was more typically American than even people like Twain and Whitman. This idea that you have to fight all the time, that society is your enemy, that you have to split off and form a radical-puritan-utopian community somewhere because normal folks doing normal things are evil and persecute you. She's there on the Mayflower, speeding away from sex and society, she's there at Salem witch-hunting, victimising and then claiming, in turn, to be the ultimate victim. And there's even a bit of Oprah in her strategic compassion.

Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:03 (twenty years ago)

"I was just pointing up the fact that since the reproductive act is so deeply rooted in the human animal, arguing that it should be completely done away with is inherently marginalizing"

"a physical act developed long before the advent of consciousness (much less ideology) doesnt have any inherent political meaning"

get one logic book!!

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:03 (twenty years ago)

:D

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:04 (twenty years ago)

uh... what? I don't see a contradiction there.

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 20:07 (twenty years ago)

in the moorcock interview, she places sexual power only in the nexus of economic power (and i suppose somewhat bodily power), she doesn't really ever address the question of cultural power

(which is like the most insanely complicated question, but still needed to be addressed)

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:08 (twenty years ago)

this is baloney. a physical act developed long before the advent of consciousness (much less ideology) doesnt have any inherent political meaning. get one biology book

I think it's pointless to argue about which came first: sex, politics, or consciousness. Just because a sexual act has a biological basis doesn't mean that it can't also be political.

Kinda depends on position and style, no? Man tied up on a bed, woman straddling him: This does not preserve that role for the cock.

Yes, but how many people have sex that way? Not many. But even in the less extreme case of the woman on top, certainly the woman has a lot more agency/initiative than Dworkin is giving her credit for.

o. nate (onate), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:12 (twenty years ago)

dworkin's kind of an interesting case given my vague knowledge of her and info from this thread. sexual abuse can give you a really altered reality. and it's interesting how all ideologies, theories, political/social movements are (arguabley) just the result of the originator's pathologies, unleashing their obsessive personal mishagas on the world. some are seen as more positive or more palatable or more intellectualized/depersonalized than others. but here might be the other extreme showing it more for what it is. though i guess we now know her answer for At what point do you finally stop being angry?

lolita corpus (lolitacorpus), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:17 (twenty years ago)

if arguing that sex be completing done away with is inherently marginalising, then any discussion of changes in the given social order of reproductive sex occurs under the shadow of the threat of marginalisation, which is clearly a political threat

implication of the first sentence: that human society will be therefore stratified by the degree to which reproductive sex is deemed present, acceptably contained, in control, out of control etc etc, by those with the ability to deem

the sentences aren't opposites exactly, but they do step on each other's toes

"inherent political meaning" - obv not, if this implies republican vs democrat or whatever - but anthony's point that you were objecting to wz that cock-and-cunt fucking has a deep cultural power to it, and if THAT'S what yr calling an "inherent political meaning", then i think the sentences clash

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:19 (twenty years ago)

i have to say i can't work out in anthony's first post where he's just summarising dworkin and where he's assenting

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:22 (twenty years ago)

The more I think about the inherent biological inequalities in heterosexual vaginal sex though, the less I feel that it has anything to do with sexual positions, and the more that it has to do with the nature of reproduction - ie., who impregnates whom. However, the advent of reliable contraception (esp. the pill) has removed the natural asymmetry.

o. nate (onate), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:24 (twenty years ago)

momus what do you mean by "post-protestant"? "post" as in "now that protestnatnism is over" or "post" as in "now that protestnatnism is everywhere"

most of what yr describin just IS protestantism!! (i'm too tired to look it up but tom paulin says somewhere that autobiography is the exemplary form of the protestant political text)

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:35 (twenty years ago)

(also i have no idea what "more american than whitman/twain" means, unless yr arguin that americanism is in essence ultra-protestantism)

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:37 (twenty years ago)

(ie that whitman/twain AREN'T particuarly american)

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:37 (twenty years ago)

momus what do you mean by "post-protestant"?

I"m just using "post-protestant" to mean "has now or ever been protestant". But you're right, the US is not very post its protestantism. My use follows Geert Hofstede's in his cultural dimensions studies, but actually he restricts the term to places like Germany and Sweden, which are culturally protestant without being very religiously so these days.

Whitman and Twain are seen as the essence of America, but they lack that protestant extremism we see in Dworkin, the Mayflower, Salem, etc. Whitman's sensuality, in particular, seems particularly un-American, don't you think?

Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:47 (twenty years ago)

you confuse me mark.

"inherent biological inequalities in heterosexual vaginal sex "

there is no inherent "inequality" here - the perception of inequality comes later with the development of a specific point of view. matriarchal societies still managed to exist and reinforce themselves and still "relied" (as much as any political system relies on perpetuation of the species) on ye olde in-n-out. the sexual act can certainly have political connotations, has been used to reinforce power structures, etc., but the sexual act developed as it did for practical biological reasons that are quite separate from any ideology (ie, it is the most efficient way for the human organism to transfer DNA).

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 20:50 (twenty years ago)

i think my defn of american might START w.whitman!!

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:51 (twenty years ago)

yeah sorry shakey - as noted, i am actually v.tired and not writin very clearly as a result

if i have time tomorrow (= mum's illness and work nightmares permitting) and if this thread has not gone all ghastly, i shall and say it more clearly

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:55 (twenty years ago)

it may be prudent to note here that the fixation to characterize the penis as a tool of force, "invasive", stabbing, etc. can easily be inverted and transposed onto the vagina as a tool of absorption, consumption, devouring, etc. Both models are predicated strictly on FEAR of the OTHER, and don't have anything to do with the particular biological mechanics in action.

x-post

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 20:55 (twenty years ago)

I'd say Whitman & Twain define a parallel tradition of Americanism that extends to disparate 20th century figures like HL Mencken and the Beats. Not the hippies, though, they were Protestant at heart.

m coleman (lovebug starski), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:55 (twenty years ago)

Well, perhaps Walt Whitman and John Ashcroft are two sides of the same coin. Sing the body electric, and tap its telephone while you're at it.

Do you see Dworkin as an American writer?

Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:56 (twenty years ago)

Reproductive mammalian sex may predate modern humans but mothers and babies are notoriously dependent compared to other mammals. Babies can't even hang on or reliably move about and our bipedal stance has made childbirth rather perecarious for mothers. We were probably highly evolved social animals well before we became Homo sapiens sapiens and there are new proofs of it all the time (remains of crippled and toothless elders). Part of that society and much of the basis of early patriarchy is precisely to guarantee that fathers knew who's offspring they were helping to raise. This is surely not just a subconscious biological desire to have one's lineage continued but also the rational choice of men to have some control over reproduction (in a pre-contraceptive world). Do human males have a built in biological impetus to spread their wild oats? Perhaps. But the biological advantages of exogamy apply to females as well provided they have a social structure (clan, family, mate, friends) to help raise their progeny. I don't see the wild hormonal insanity or the cold economic calculation that has led most people to have sex and hence babies as based on any inherent biological inequality. That inequality, where it exists, is the result of individual and/or societal ignorance.

M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:56 (twenty years ago)

was the 60s a protestant or an anti-protestant convulsion? (ans = both at once i think)

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 20:57 (twenty years ago)

i basically agree with that whole post, momus: but it's a particular TYPE of american voice that she represents, i don't think she's "more american" than whitman ("i contain multitudes")

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:01 (twenty years ago)

If Protestant becaome a lazy catch-all for all kinds of different individualism, then yes it was both.

xpost

M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:01 (twenty years ago)

xxx post

As American as violence and apple pie. And I think you're absolutely right about the Janus face of American culture: Whitman greeting the dawn naked and Ashcroft covering up nude statues in the capitol.

m coleman (lovebug starski), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:04 (twenty years ago)

Well, I guess I just invoked Twain and Whitman as people who get called 'great American writers', but I think if you were doing a kind of Noah's Ark thing and wanted to preserve American cultural DNA, you'd be quite wise to select Dworkin. And she could go in, oh, just for fun, with PT Barnum.

Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:05 (twenty years ago)

see i think the specific cultural expression of the 60s in anti-atomised forms (eg rock bands, rock audiences, rock culture) (other things too) contains a deep yearning to sway away from individualism, albeit one which is crusted w.all kinds of compromises w.indvidualism

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:06 (twenty years ago)

she had a great style. i think i really learned something about writing by reading her stuff. she could be funny too.

scott seward (scott seward), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:07 (twenty years ago)

Not the hippies, though, they were Protestant at heart.

Protestant is an awfully lazy term here, but there is something very pre-industrial and Jeffersonian in their desire for connection to the land, manageable local democracy, and for homespun simplicity which has always made me think that part of the hippy impulse is rather nostalgic and reactionary.

see i think the specific cultural expression of the 60s in anti-atomised forms (eg rock bands, rock audiences, rock culture)

This desire for community at the cost of individuality has always scared me at concerts. There is oftimes the echo there of fascist rallies or mobs.

M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:11 (twenty years ago)

Identifying w/The Movement/counterculture/My Generation
VS.
"Doing Your Own Thing"

I think the first impulse won out more often in the 60s convulsions, despite mucho lip service paid to the latter.

m coleman (lovebug starski), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:15 (twenty years ago)

one of the main things i wz thinkin of is exactly the opposite of the fascism deal though, which is rock culture takes it as read that members of the audience WILL cross the footlights and become the artist; plus also the audience now and then becomes the "show"

ie it is anti-hierarchical, and expressive rather than submissive

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:27 (twenty years ago)

Not for the majority of the people in the audience.

M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:30 (twenty years ago)

individualism is such a sad religion

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:37 (twenty years ago)

So is communitarianism.

M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:38 (twenty years ago)

That is to say that ideology taken too far and too seriously is a grim thing.

M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:38 (twenty years ago)

commununitarianism is worse i think!! not sad, but def scary

(ps i didn't mean sad in the "loser" sense, which i hate: i mean genuinely struck-to-its-depth w.something sorrowful - that everything shared is tainted amd corrupting)

rock culture's dream of itself wz that this wz a vast joyful unity taken on as an active choice: rockbands as little marriages, band-and-audience as a two-way lovematch etc etc

mark s (mark s), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:42 (twenty years ago)

I find myself getting more and more 'conservative' about humanity's ability to radically transform itself. Little ameliorative changes may be accomplished, but the second some unforeseen conjuncture like a plague, an economic collapse, or even the sinking of a ship or a fire in theater come along and, despite some indiviual nobility, there's a good chance most people will revert to their animal selves.

M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:49 (twenty years ago)

A talent for metaphor can be a dangerous thing. Dworkin's metaphorical linkage of intercourse with invasion prepared us for stuff like Carol J. Adams' The Sexual Politics of Meat and The Pornography of Meat, which make the metaphorical daisy chain:

Meat eating = objectification = pornography and women = cattle

It's as if she's saying "It's much worse than you think. Women are even more abject than anybody imagined. Cattle. Offal. Hamburgers." I mean, who does that analysis help? Where does that metaphor lead? It makes the image of a leggy hamburger on her book jacket look positively chivalric in comparison.

Momus (Momus), Monday, 11 April 2005 21:50 (twenty years ago)

http://www.dailykos.com/story/2005/3/25/165734/959
http://afterschoolsnack.blogspot.com/2005/03/outrage-ad-nauseam.html


but the bondage scenario above is queer sex--or at least sex informed by knowledge of power dialectics.

anthony, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:05 (twenty years ago)

I'm not saying the military is right (are they ever?) but I can't say I ever expect them to behave in any other way either.

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:09 (twenty years ago)

Over the past 10 years, twice as many accused Army sex offenders were given administrative punishment as were court-martialed. In the civilian world, four of five people arrested for rape are prosecuted. Nearly 5,000 accused sex offenders in the military, including rapists, have avoided prosecution, and the possibility of prison time, since 1992, according to Army records."

WTMFF?

M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:12 (twenty years ago)

Andrea Dworkin makes me think of a woman I've seen around NYC for 20+ years. She's a lone protestor, sets up her table on street corners and harrangues people about her cause. For many years her crusade was Stop Pornography. She sat behind a huge photo blow-up of that infamous Hustler cover -- a nude woman shimmying into a meat grinder, putting the sex as hamburger metaphor right in your face. She's little, but her sharp voice echoes down the sidewalk. FIGHT BACK WOMEN!! SIGN THE PA-TISH-UN!! Cantakerous and crazed, she'd eventually scare off anybody who wasn't repelled by the Hustler photos. (In 1983-85 I worked around the corner from Bloomingdale's department store where she was stationed week in/week out.) Every couple years since I'll see her again, though recently her cause has switched to Animal Rights -- she waves another gruesome poster of puppies being tortured and gathering signatures for the eternally unfinsihed pa-tish-un. One day in stroller-infested upper Manhattan, she bellowed in frustration: "STOP BREEDING, PEOPLE!"

m coleman (lovebug starski), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:18 (twenty years ago)

haha - man, those late 70s/early 80s Hustler covers are AMAZING.

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:21 (twenty years ago)

(and by "amazing" I mean in the same way Chuck Eddy calls Montgomery Gentry videos "amazing" - ie, still offensive and frightening but strangely unique and compelling nonetheless)

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:24 (twenty years ago)

and i dont know, i would like to trust dwarkin on the evil of heterosexual men and their engorged penises, her biography is close enough to mine for affection

but i realize i cant be seduced.

anthony, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:25 (twenty years ago)

Women have all the control. Go out to a club and just see who has to approach whom. Do women come to men? No. Because the hot ones know that by blinking their eyes and swinging their butt they will have men at their feet.

Dworkin just never got any. That was her problem - who would go down on THAT?

NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:25 (twenty years ago)

namc this is the kind of offenisve phallocentric, hatred of women dworkin spent her life fighting...and people found her fuckable, people thot she had sexual power--reducing all of womens sexual power to nubile morons

anthony, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:29 (twenty years ago)

surely someone has already made a "calum = c. paglia" joke these long years past...

g e o f f (gcannon), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:30 (twenty years ago)

i think (sex) victim ideologies in feminism were some of it's most problematic features. it was perhaps started to give a voice to women who went through physical or sexual abuse and raise awareness of their situations, which was definitely needed. but instead of bringing hope and healing to people who were hurt, it sometimes just ended up assimilating a victim's bitterness, anger, and paranoia to the larger (perhaps otherwise healthier) group.

lolita corpus (lolitacorpus), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:32 (twenty years ago)

I'd rather read Dworkin than Paglia any day of the week.

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:33 (twenty years ago)

Paglia at least makes funny, pithy insults. Calum's never said anything funny as far as I can tell.

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:34 (twenty years ago)

namc this is the kind of offenisve phallocentric, hatred of women dworkin spent her life fighting...and people found her fuckable, people thot she had sexual power--reducing all of womens sexual power to nubile morons
-- anthony (anthony.easto...), April 11th, 2005.

Blah blah blah 'hatred of women' blah blah blah. Never met a woman who hated me as a person funnily enough and have plenty of them as friends and, shockingly, was brought up by them too. Blah blah blah - this is nonsense. Dworkin was a pig ugly obese nutcase and if someone only laid her back and gave her some fine oral she'd probably have revised her views a long time ago. As it is she was no worse than a KKK member telling us all blacks are the spawn of satan - only her enemy had a penis.

NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:35 (twenty years ago)

What a subtle and intriguing retort.

M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:37 (twenty years ago)

Calum, you have no clue what you are talking about (it's obvious you've never read a sentence of Dworkin.) Stick to horror flicks.

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:39 (twenty years ago)

gaze not into the abyss here, people...

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:41 (twenty years ago)

But Alex you're wrong. I have read Dworkin. And coming from SF where my SF buds are fellow lovers of T and A and splatter cinema and all things that make life worth living I am shocked and horrified that you'd defend this woman.

What makes SF great is just how sexually liberated it is. The Castro district is - like - now one of my fave places ever.

NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:42 (twenty years ago)

I'd be rather surprised if she didn't get a fair amount of tongue, though I doubt it was from men.

M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:43 (twenty years ago)

Calum I'm from SF too ya schmuck. AND I like T&A AND I like splatter films.

oddly, I still find yr sub-literate masturbatory fantasies really really REALLY boring.

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:44 (twenty years ago)

(and by sub-literate masturbatory fantasies, I mean every ILX thread you've ever started EVER)

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:45 (twenty years ago)

While I certainly don't agree with everything that Dworkin wrote (which even if you have read, Calum, you are clearly showing you were/are incapable of grasping) I would defend anyone from your infantile character assassination and insults.

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:46 (twenty years ago)

Well then that is up to you - you can find them boring if you want. But at least I'm memorable. I can't say I've ever:

A) Noticed you on this board the whole time I've been here

And/ Or

B) Could tell you one post you've made.

So you're clearly a very memorable guy.

NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:47 (twenty years ago)

That's like a serial killer's defense, right?

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:48 (twenty years ago)

"infantile character assassination and insults"

All I can say to that is that I'm glad you didn't crash our party in SF after all because if you can't join in on such things then you gotta be freaking boring.

NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:48 (twenty years ago)

Yawn. Keep your excitement, Calum.

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:49 (twenty years ago)

"I don't even know you" Hahahaha!

M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:50 (twenty years ago)

*snore*

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:50 (twenty years ago)

She sat behind a huge photo blow-up of that infamous Hustler cover -- a nude woman shimmying into a meat grinder, putting the sex as hamburger metaphor right in your face. She's little, but her sharp voice echoes down the sidewalk. FIGHT BACK WOMEN!! SIGN THE PA-TISH-UN!! Cantakerous and crazed, she'd eventually scare off anybody who wasn't repelled by the Hustler photos.

Whoa! This very person is caricatured in the first issue of Bob Fingerman's brilliant Minimum Wage. I knew the comic was drawn from a lot of things in his life but I hadn't realized that person was one of them.

Anyway, back to Calum's attempt to think. Oh wait never mind.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:50 (twenty years ago)

Oh don't worry about me.

By the way - you'll find the nastiest post was at the top when someone volunteered 'pissing on her grave' but I said far worse than that clearly.

Or maybe it's just open fire on me again season. Let me break it to you bozos - if Dworkin had managed to change laws, which IS what she campaigned for, then you'd be living in a very sorry society indeed. Hilariously, everything about ILX's "right on" psuedo left-leaning BS is proven exactly that - because Dworkin really stood for sexual regression.

But never mind eh?

Oh - and if she had listened to my advice and lost some weight - as any doctor will advise anyone of her size - maybe she wouldn't be dead. Cos looking like THAT is not healthy.

P.S. Ned - are you still sitting behind your PC in LA?? Sheesh man, do you want some of my party invites? Get you out and stuff?

NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:54 (twenty years ago)

Ah, sweetums. You don't snort Drano by the way.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:56 (twenty years ago)

Seriously Ned, drop me a line. It cannot be good being in the coolest city ever and having as your claim to fame, "Guy from ILX".

In three months I had invites to all the cool shit. What have you been doing wrong man?

NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:57 (twenty years ago)

If your mother looked like mine you'd snort Drano!

NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 22:58 (twenty years ago)

Darling, SWEETIE. (You know, hearing Calum's every post now as Eddie or Patsy makes a certain perfect sense.)

Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:59 (twenty years ago)

Is it working?

M. White (Miguelito), Monday, 11 April 2005 22:59 (twenty years ago)

"All my friends are HORROR FILM STARS, darling, ALL MY FRIENDS ARE HORROR FILM STARS!"

Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 11 April 2005 23:00 (twenty years ago)

From the forum that is so hip with greatness and cool shit it brought you:

"Is suicide a rational decision"

Comes... Ned Raggett. Online 24 hours a day.

NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 23:01 (twenty years ago)

Are you in there, Calum...burning joss sticks?

Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 11 April 2005 23:02 (twenty years ago)

And before anyone scofs at my notin that Los Angeles is the coolest city ever I suggest you loosers get out from behind your computers and get one party invite. If your life was filled with one tenth the excitment of mine your tiny little heads wuold explode. Los Angeles has anything anyone could ask for and before someone reterts "except culture" may I remind you that books and musseums are for loser types like who can't even get out from behind their computer and get invited to cool horror film fest parties and the like. Once again you facists expose your insecurity and complete inferirity to my intelligence and jetset lifestyle. And Alex I can't say I'm surprised to find you a bore considering you reside in San Francisco where a considerable portion of the city are like you if you catch my drift which you probably don't because you aren't as smart as me.

NamC, Monday, 11 April 2005 23:04 (twenty years ago)

Thanks to the thousands of you who entered our competition to win a rather special prize - the chance to go to the UK premiere of Peter Pan, which is released later this month.

Our congratulations go to the winner, Danielle Fitzpatrick, who lives in Middlesex.

Well done also to the runners up, who are: Charlotte White from Leicestershire, Joseph Matthews from Merseyside, Amy Fieldhouse from Humberside, Alex Sanderson from Suffolk, Callum Waddell from Aberdeen, Jake Baudet from the West Midlands, Lauren McFarland from Cumbria, Jamie Black from County Down, Ailsa Floyd from Argyll, Alexander Strettle from Tyne and Wear, Pippa Jolly from Devon, Sara Chan from Merseyside, Raisa Tariq from Surrey, Anoushka Patel from London and Andrew Gofton from Hertfordshire.

Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Monday, 11 April 2005 23:05 (twenty years ago)

I'm up late writing some pretty cool shit Ned. Of course I'm here. Like I said man, anything I can do for you - I'm scared you'll hang yourself or something from lack of a life.

P.S. Someone else posting as "NamC" - obviously - though the confusion rocks.

Dom - wrong spelling, wrong city. Not me. Sorry.

Namc, Monday, 11 April 2005 23:06 (twenty years ago)

P.S. Someone else posting as "NamC" - obviously - though the confusion rocks.

Pretty poor imitation of the real one here.

Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 11 April 2005 23:07 (twenty years ago)

If my name is not removed from this thread within the hour I am going to sue each and every one of you. I mean it!

Namc, Monday, 11 April 2005 23:08 (twenty years ago)

you sound like a pretty sad and insecure chap, CMan.

Inferir Musseum Facist, Monday, 11 April 2005 23:08 (twenty years ago)

Calum tonight:

"I've got lots of fabulous press flacks who ADORE me...*heaves sobs*...I'm sorry but I just moved myself."

Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 11 April 2005 23:10 (twenty years ago)

If any of you can read which I doubt because I doubt any of you facists have gone to school unlike me who has gone to school and is smart than you tiny headed lot than I invite you to read this - http://calumwaddell.blogspot.com/ - and you will see just what an exciting life I have if you can read which I doubt.

Namc, Monday, 11 April 2005 23:26 (twenty years ago)

Dworkin was a pig ugly obese nutcase and if someone only laid her back and gave her some fine oral she'd probably have revised her views a long time ago.

I don't guess this is really worth responding to, but I figured I'd state the obvious: If all Dworkin needed was "some fine oral," I don't think it would've done anything except reinforce her core beliefs. In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if she were an oral sex fan! I'm not well-read as far as her work goes, but I'm fairly sure her problem wasn't with individuals' sex drives. (Although if anyone can refute/elaborate on this, feel free.)

sugarpants: bea arthur's secret lover (sugarpants), Monday, 11 April 2005 23:40 (twenty years ago)

she's had a horrible effect on the always fragile Canadian free speech laws, and is the reason why gay bookstores have spent zillions of money battling customs. the most famous story is that of her own book "pornography" being confiscated by customs, because of the anti-porn laws she helped create.

I'll always remeber the book's argument that a gay porn book was offensive because (among other things) it "presents male-male sex as superior". Like, what else is it supposed to do?

Sym Sym (sym), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 00:29 (twenty years ago)

...And the shit she pulled in Minneapolis is notorious as well.

As I said above:

"If Dworkin had managed to change laws, which IS what she campaigned for, then you'd be living in a very sorry society indeed. Hilariously, everything about ILX's "right on" psuedo left-leaning BS is proven exactly that - because Dworkin really stood for sexual regression."

But no one listens on ILX. As usual.

NamC, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 00:40 (twenty years ago)

she had a great style. i think i really learned something about writing by reading her stuff. she could be funny too.

Yes! After rereading her stuff a few years ago, it reminded me a lot of dave q.

I like her more now than I did when when in college. I am rather saddened to hear about this.

tokyo nursery school: afternoon session (rosemary), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 00:53 (twenty years ago)

Here's my fave quote over at the Yahoo discussion about it. Fecking hilarious:

"Iraq was way better than the West, it is where the first civlizations were. Separation of Chruch and State is different son. Pornography doens't have to do anything with that. It is clear: It is against women. In porn, women aren't paid that much either. They are treated worse than animals in porn. The guys make them do anything, very nasty things. And all the poor women get is money to go to college. I feel sorry for those women. I wish I could send everone of them to college."

GIVE THIS MAN A ROSE SOMEONE! HE FUNNY!

NamC, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 01:00 (twenty years ago)

Is this Calum or someone trying to be funny? Whatever one thinks of his views I thought we all had copyright over content posted? If the imitator wasn’t so clumsy and dull witted this illegal behaviour could have some merit. It doesn’t.

Lurker23, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 01:28 (twenty years ago)

I wonder if Momus has ever heard of Cromwell.

hstencil (hstencil), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 02:53 (twenty years ago)

that hustler cover wz by paul krassner

mark s (mark s), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 06:31 (twenty years ago)

maybe it's best to see dworkin as a challenge to sense. a lone voice in the wilderness. maybe best to concentrate on her occasional humour and humanity and take it from there. after all she just died, and her life was not easy.

in any case, this speculation on her sex life is fucking pea brained, and that's a charitable interpretation (actually it could be seen as a bullying, nastly frat style attempt to discredit her and not have to think coherently about her ideas)

debden, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 07:59 (twenty years ago)

http://www.nostatusquo.com/ACLU/dworkin/LieDetect.html

k3wl, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 08:18 (twenty years ago)

There was quite a bizarre article in the Guardian a few years back in which Dworkin described being raped in a Paris hotel by a hotel employee. It rang completely false to my ears.

http://books.guardian.co.uk/departments/politicsphilosophyandsociety/story/0,6000,327399,00.html

Jonathan Z. (Joanthan Z.), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 08:59 (twenty years ago)

Even her own husband didn't believe the story. Salon's article has all the details:

http://dir.salon.com/books/feature/2000/09/20/dworkin/index.html

Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 09:20 (twenty years ago)

"I don't know why the world didn't stop right then, when the creatures drugged and raped me. I don't know how the earth can still turn. I don't believe that it should be possible. I don't. I think everyone should have stopped everything because I was 52 and this happened to me. I think every person should have been in mourning. I think no one should work or spend money or love anyone ever again. I ask: "Why me?" I say: "It can't have happened to me." I say: "My bad pheromones or karma brought the rapist pigs to me." I blame me no matter what it takes. I go down the checklist: no short skirt; it was daylight; I didn't drink a lot even though it was alcohol and I rarely drink, but so what? It could have been Wild Turkey or coffee. I didn't drink with a man, I sat alone and read a book, I didn't go somewhere I shouldn't have been, wherever that might be when you are 52, I didn't flirt, I didn't want it to happen. I wasn't hungry for a good, hard fuck that would leave me pummelled with pain inside."

Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 09:22 (twenty years ago)

:-( that's so sad.

nathalie doing a soft foot shuffle (stevie nixed), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 10:17 (twenty years ago)

momus writes: Whitman's sensuality, in particular, seems particularly un-American, don't you think?

only if it's necessary for you to define "american" as that which you can comfortably loathe and mock. what was it whitman said about multitudes? perhaps america is that, too. but it wouldn't make as facile of a subject for a blog entry if it were!

seriously, momus, what so persistently bugs me about you is that you're smarter than this! you're engaging in reductionism quite wilfully... why?!?!


also momus: A talent for metaphor can be a dangerous thing.

indeed.

anyway, dworkin, yeah. i ignored her while she was alive so...

Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 16:56 (twenty years ago)

only if it's necessary for you to define "american" as that which you can comfortably loathe and mock

All I was saying there was that on a scale that runs from Puritan to Sensualist, America would be seen by most people in the world as at the Puritan end. (Perhaps not Americans, however. But you need to be outside America to see these sorts of perceptions. Google "Etats Unis puritaine" and you'll get a lot of results.) So a writer as sensual as Whitman would be a strange candidate to be "typically" or "archetypally" American", although that's what he gets called. I think Dworkin fits the bill much better, although I haven't seen her early writings, which apparently have some quite sexy scenes. She's like a politician who found that she could move her electorate with raw and emotive issues tied up with humiliation, fear and disgust. Some kind of Milosovic of the gender Balkans.

Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:05 (twenty years ago)

All I was saying there was that on a scale that runs from Puritan to Sensualist, America would be seen by most people in the world as at the Puritan end.

perhaps, this was all you MEANT, but as usual, your *rhetoric* had more than a hint of the essentialist.

i'm not sure why it should be of any interest to define a "typical" American at all. are you writing a travelogue for a latvian tourist magazine?

Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:09 (twenty years ago)

Leave the Latvians out of this.

As a francophile, I feel particularly entitled to say that I'm not particularly interested in what the French may think of us. The real issue regarding Whitman is not whether he's an important American writer or whether he's a 'typical' American writer but how broad and deep hin influence is on America. There is certainly an America out there that doesn't give a rat's ass about Walt and would despise him if they knew more anything about him, especially that he was an Oscar Wilde kissing, opera crazy queer from New York.

M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:16 (twenty years ago)

I think it's a legitimate observation of a writer who concluded that "women need land and guns" to escape oppression that her nation was founded on the same premise, Amateurist!

Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:16 (twenty years ago)

that's a reductionist (not to say glibly cynical) reading of the founding of the usa.

so you're saying that dworkin in some sense is upholding a certain strain in american thought? ok, sure. you express yourself in hyperbolic terms, though, which you're now carefully backing away from.

Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:19 (twenty years ago)

I find her argument that she wasn't doing anything to deserve being raped in Paris (just sitting there reading, etc.) quite detrimental to her own opinions of sexuality, by inadvertently providing a category in which there are actions that women do that will cause rape.

jocelyn (Jocelyn), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:21 (twenty years ago)

It's also a certain strain in Jewish thought, and why Israel was founded, and it's in the context of a sustained metaphor about women and Jews that Dworkin (a woman and a Jew) made the remark about women needing guns and land.

Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:24 (twenty years ago)

There is certainly an America out there that doesn't give a rat's ass about Walt

Isn't this true of just about anyone, including Mark Twain? Not least because there isn't just one America out there.

Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:25 (twenty years ago)

Google "Etats Unis puritaine" and you'll get a lot of results.

Google "French smelly" and you'll get a lot of results also.

The Mad Puffin (The Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:25 (twenty years ago)

momus: what's your point? zionism is essential american?

can you agree that you were stating things hyperbolically earlier? or am i asking too much?

Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:26 (twenty years ago)

essentially amercian

(sorry for typo)

Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:26 (twenty years ago)

I made the observation about Dworkin's "americanness" in the context of someone else saying that Dworkin was a typical product of the 1960s. I completely disagree. The 1960s solution to problems was "peace love and understanding" not "land and guns". It was inclusiveness and reconciliation, not separatism and the security state.

Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:26 (twenty years ago)

by inadvertently providing a category in which there are actions that women do that will cause rape.

I too was shocked by this but I think she was simply pointing out that she had not been engaged in any risky behavior as a way of pointing out that this doesn't just happen to foolhardy risk takers but can happen to any woman.

M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:26 (twenty years ago)

and look at what a wonderful success Israel has been... (almost as much of a success as Dworkin's brand of feminism)

Momus is being insanely reductive about both american puritanism (which includes the pacifistic free-thinkin Roger Williams AND Cotton Mather) and the reasons for the foundation of the country.

x-post

Shakey Mo Collier, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:27 (twenty years ago)

"It was inclusiveness and reconciliation, not separatism and the security state. "

uh, Black Panthers, the Weathermen, Nation of Islam, separatist cults...

Shakey Mo Collier, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:29 (twenty years ago)

The 1960s solution to problems was "peace love and understanding" not "land and guns". It was inclusiveness and reconciliation, not separatism and the security state.

Tell that to the Weather Underground, Malcolm X and the Black Panthers.

Shakey, OMG!

M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:30 (twenty years ago)

momus, i don't think our minds work the same way.

you seem to have a strong interest in taxonomies: creating them, reformulating them. i rarely apprehend what you're getting at besides the pleasing symmetry of a well-ordered taxonomy though.

Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:30 (twenty years ago)

The reason I had Dworkin going into Noah's ark as an "American" alongside PT Barnum is that I think her positions were (especially towards the end) showbiz positions. The solution to bad relations between the sexes -- if you're really interested in that -- is clearly reconciliation and all the virtuous circles you can get going. But Dworkin's real interest was rhetorical power. She was a very powerful speaker, deeply emotional, capable of making whole audiences weep. She got carried away with her own political power, and developed positions the way a melodrama writer makes plots. The "rape" in the Paris hotel room was the culmination of this, but she took it too far and, literally, lost the plot.

Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:33 (twenty years ago)

Manson Family wanted land and guns too... (see also John Birch Society = roots of modern right-wing militia movements)

Shakey Mo Collier, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:33 (twenty years ago)

"American" alongside PT Barnum is that I think her positions were (especially towards the end) showbiz positions.

now we're into a "showbiz = american" meme, i see.

to clarify: i *do* think the correspondence between dworkin's radical views and certain puritan/radical individualist ideas that form a big part of american history is interesting (and it's been noted by a lot of people!). i wouldn't posit those ideas as *the* american ideas nor would i posit dworkin or her ideas as "typically american."

please allow america to be as confused and conflicted as, say, france, with its petains and cocteaus.

Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:36 (twenty years ago)

i.e. momus you keep taking your "argument" in new directions (or rather, in the direction of new essentialisms and dichotomies) when i'm objecting to the form of your RHETORIC, which remains dismayingly consistent.

Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:37 (twenty years ago)

[more banging-head-against-a-brick-wall posts here]

Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:37 (twenty years ago)

Land and guns may very well be a wise path to take but not in every circumstance. I think it's fair to say that land and guns were important to the founding of Anglo-America. Guns helped Protestant (or at least 'anti-Papist') North Americans to take the land of Quebec, they allowed the colonies to defend themselves against Britain during the Revolution and during the War of 1812, and they helped us take the western states from Mexico and 'pacify' the indigenous people living all across the continent. Neither racial minorities nor women are likely to take and keep land (and hence autonomy) by force. It's a silly, nostalgic fantasy worthy of a teenager but its real application is zilch.

M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:41 (twenty years ago)

Amateurist, FWIW, I don't think much of Petain's music or movies.

M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:42 (twenty years ago)

Well, all this proves is that I'm more like Andrea Dworkin than you are, Amateurist. We're both metaphorical thinkers, and therefore dangerous. Sure, you can say "But all men are not like that!" It's where the metaphor takes you that's interesting. I find myself agreeing with those obituaries which see her as a kind of literary troll. A troll is "wrong", of course, but takes us somewhere interesting by making us re-examine very fundamental positions.

Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:42 (twenty years ago)

haha Momus you're as dangerous as a fuzzy little bunny.

Shakey Mo Collier, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:46 (twenty years ago)

(whereas the Panthers really *were* perceived as dangerous w/their "land and guns" rhetoric - see completely insane and violent US gov't campaign to disassemble/kill them)

Shakey Mo Collier, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:48 (twenty years ago)

. I find myself agreeing with those obituaries which see her as a kind of literary troll

For instance, Katharine Viner's piece in the Guardian, which says that, in a world where getting Botox treatment passes as a feminist gesture, Dworkin was a "bedrock": "even when you disagreed with her, her arguments were infuriating, fascinating, hard to forget. Feminism needs those who won't compromise..."

Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:48 (twenty years ago)

(Andrea Dworkin as the George Galloway of feminism, ha!)

Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:50 (twenty years ago)

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kingfish, Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:54 (twenty years ago)

Shakey, are you talking about COINTELPRO, or whatever it was called?

M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:55 (twenty years ago)

282,000 results for French smelly

26,000 for British prude

13,000 for Scottish stingy

5,120 for Etats Unis puritaine

The Mad Puffin (The Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:55 (twenty years ago)

there is this strange intersection with cultural conservatism with both of you. i think it's somewhat unfair how much the right's exploitation of her arguments is being held against her, be it with anti-porn laws in canada (which she apparently opposed anyway) that in any case she hardly passed or with 'creating an image of feminists as angry radicals' (god forbid). i've seen more scorn directed at her than i've ever seen directed at ralph nader or al gore. i guess people get very sentimental about their skin mags. i also wish that when people proposed moving beyond her, either absorbing her or ignoring her, it didn't so often involve a move back the cave (or further into it rather than further out of it).

j blount (papa la bas), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 17:57 (twenty years ago)

ie. i wish a read more criticisms of feminism that were more than defenses of the author's privilege.

j blount (papa la bas), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:01 (twenty years ago)

Blount accuses someone of conservatism = Stereolab to release new album

Momus (Momus), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:01 (twenty years ago)

where, exactly, has this thread "got us" momus? what revelations does it contain?

blount, i think to give dworkin even credit as something to "move beyond" is insulting to the much more interesting and thoughtful feminists that came before and after her!

Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:02 (twenty years ago)

xpost

ok, now this thread = grudge match between two diehard sophists = i'll back out quietly

Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:03 (twenty years ago)

(ok, one last thing: what i mean, blount, is that i don't think dworkin even really needs to be "dealt with." i think she's pretty safely ignored or dismissed. as retrogressive as that may be.)

Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:04 (twenty years ago)

The sympathy with prostitutes I commend as well as the concern over the exploitation of porn actresses. But to say that pornography is a denial of women's civil rights is to deny individual women their own moral agency. It's better-wiser-than-thou 'maternalism' and I'm not sure where she gets off telling people what they do with their bodies and what the exact content of their sexuality should be. She didn't say that it should be regulated or ameliorated. She made a blanket, one-size-fits-all statement that it denies women their civil rights.

M. White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:18 (twenty years ago)

fair enough amster, it's just so often when i see her dismissed or ignored (and while i didn't agree with her the more i read of her i find her ideas interesting at least as something to deal with. for some reason she did provoke very strong reactions - momus' reading of her as a 'troll' is right, even if his definition of 'troll' is slightly off - to the extent that that is as much her legacy as anything else. she reminds of what someone once said of ethan in that she'd construct these strawmen but the strawmen would inevitably pop up to attack her) it involve very nearly a complete dismissal of feminism, or at least to the extent that the social norm allows it nowadays, you don't hear too many arguments against women having the vote so much anymore, but 'women in the workplace' and god knows 'equal pay for equal work' remain reliable boogeymen for rightwing talk radio on a slow day, and most often the feminazi they rally against is dworkin. i don't think it's unfair to suggest she's a primary reason you'll meet women who'll say 'i'm for equal rights but i'm not a feminist' (ok probably she's a secondary reason, the right's rebranding of the word 'feminist' a la their rebranding of the word 'liberal' is probably why some shirk from that label even when they agree with its principles) and nearly every discussion of feminism on ilx does inevitably get around to dworkin, albeit usually thru prompting from an anti-feminist. i think for better or worse she has to be dealt with.

j blount (papa la bas), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:31 (twenty years ago)

yeah, you're right in that she's become a nearly inescapable part of the cultural landscape when it comes to "feminism"--and perhaps i'm being really complacent in my "oh, she's just a nut, here, read these folks..." stance.....

Amateur(ist) (Amateur(ist)), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 18:38 (twenty years ago)

david frum writes article about what he and dworkin had in common:
http://www.nationalreview.com/frum/frum-diary.asp

It's amazing how she both served as a convenient strawman for right-wing talk show hosts and made common cause with them.

Sym Sym (sym), Tuesday, 12 April 2005 22:43 (twenty years ago)

I think one thing all guys are united on when it comes to Dworkin:

I wouldn't have touched her with yours.

NamC, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 03:40 (twenty years ago)

what the fuck does that even mean?

Sym Sym (sym), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 04:07 (twenty years ago)

Why are you thinking about mine, Calum?

Tyrone Willie Demetrius DeAndre DeShawn (deangulberry), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 05:03 (twenty years ago)

The article by David Frum contains a link to NY Sun article, which conatins an ad for http://www.destinajapan.us/ , which may be all that's needed to finally push this thread over the edge!

Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 07:37 (twenty years ago)

I only just found out this morning that she died & not that she is someone that i have felt great affection for, I am surprised at my mixed reactions. My first encounter with her was in college, I lived in the Women's Resource Center & we had a library with all kinds of feminist books. The most disturbing one was this book with a woman on the cover. She had lines throughout her body & various meat cuts labeled on her. Andrea Dworkin. One of my housemates asked if I knew who she was . . . I had only heard her mentioned before . . . and when I said "no" she went on & on about how wonderful she was & what she did for women. Mostly, she talked about the porn stuff. i was confused. i never really thought too much about pornography. it surprises me now, but i guess i was never really that exposed to it. i had never seen a movie, barely a magazine & i think i was more in tune with my own personal/sexual reactions to what i was seeing rather than analyzing what it meant for Women. I am sometimes still confused as to how I feel about porn. But, on the other hand, I just read Susie Bright's essay about Dworkin & it's quite touching in a way. Just the idea that thinking critically about pornography & sex is credited to Dworkin. She paved the road for that kind of critical thinking & though I found Dworkin to be melodramatic & extreme, it's kind of amazing when you think about the very idea that one person is able to transform how a society percieves, questions and analyzes itself.

kelsey (kelstarry), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 15:40 (twenty years ago)

The most disturbing one was this book with a woman on the cover. She had lines throughout her body & various meat cuts labeled on her.

Some misogynist does a drawing of a woman as meat. The drawing gets out into the world with its message that "women are just meat". Andrea Dworkin sees the image and decides to use it for her book, whose thesis is "in this rotten scummy world women are just meat". Meanwhile, apart from the misogynist and Andrea Dworkin, the great majority of people don't for a minute believe that women are just meat. What a strange alliance between the misogynists and the misogyprojectionists!

Momus (Momus), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 16:36 (twenty years ago)

Well said Momus. Anyone who, realistically, believes that women are inferior to men is obviously not going to be reading Dworkin's work anyway. It's how I always felt about Spike Lee - who the fuck was he preaching to? Racists are hardly going to be watching his work - so whose opinions was he trying to change?

I recently bought Deep Throat - curiousity got the better of me and I'd wanted to see it for a while. Watched it in the company of a female and another guy. We had a good chuckle at it, as it is kinda funny - though such a shame about Linda Lovelace. I told me gfriend I picked it up and she couldn't care.

The real misogyny, in my opinion, comes from certain people on this forum whose attitude seems to be that women should never be lusted over or spoken about in a sexual content and that - in doing so - the person is somehow a mad woman hater. I really long for the day when we are all as liberated as somewhere like San Francisco. Having spent a few days in the city's gay district and bars and seen how no one gives a shit about sexual orientation, heavy petting on the streets etc I really wish we could all take that lead. I swear that one day I'm moving there.

NamC, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:05 (twenty years ago)

calum please don't diminish our fair city by moving here.

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:11 (twenty years ago)

Gollum Calum, please move here and initiate warfare with Chris Daly and/or Tony Hall.

M. White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:14 (twenty years ago)

I dunno man, probably have more friends there than you do. It'll be there or LA. That's where most of m best friends are scattered now. And there's good parties every freaking night in LA. Damn, I miss that.

NamC, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:15 (twenty years ago)

maybe people would believe you were "cool"/popular/sexy/interesting/smart if you could go five seconds without talking about how "cool"/popular/sexy/interesting/smart. it's really kind of sad, it's like yr a hyper-insecure 12 year old boy.

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:18 (twenty years ago)

maybe people would believe you were "cool"/popular/sexy/interesting/smart if you could go five seconds without talking about how "cool"/popular/sexy/interesting/smart you are. it's really kind of sad, it's like yr a hyper-insecure 12 year old boy.

Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:19 (twenty years ago)

Yeah, but the sex talk, Shakey, is straight up 16 year old.

M. White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:20 (twenty years ago)

I dunno man, probably have more friends there than you do.

Upon what information have you based this? Why do think this matters? Why do you think I'd care?

Actually, I'm prepared to concede that you may have more. Who knows? Pure egotism on my part inclines me to believe that my friends, though putatively less numerous, are far superior in quality.

M. White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 13 April 2005 17:31 (twenty years ago)

heavy petting on the streets

TEARS OF LAUGHTER

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 14 April 2005 01:28 (twenty years ago)

Calum, dude, I've got to ROFFLE @ yr comments about A. Dworkin's appearance, coming as they do from SOMEONE WHO LOOKS EXACTLY LIKE BRANDON IN "GALAXY QUEST"!!!!1!

Pashmina (Pashmina), Thursday, 14 April 2005 08:34 (twenty years ago)

Yeah, and J Blount's para starting w/"fair enough amster" is some fucking good & insightful stuff, esp the line about the right's rebranding of the word "feminist" & the bit abt her straw men inevitably popping up to attack her.

Pashmina (Pashmina), Thursday, 14 April 2005 08:38 (twenty years ago)

I always thought the whole penis-as-inherently-violent or dominant thing came from this retroactive metaphor of a weapon. Yes, the penis is long and thin like a spear or a missile, but it also doesn't have a sharp pointy end and doesn't explode on impact. Not all acts of sticking something into something else are inherently violent. The vagina could just as easily be seen as a net, as jaws, as a trap or whatever.

Dworkin always struck me as someone brilliant who wasn't aware enough of how her own particular experiences affected/skewed her insights. Then again, judging from her popularity among women at the time, she obviously touched a nerve, so perhaps many women felt their experiences were similar.

Hurting (Hurting), Tuesday, 19 April 2005 13:49 (twenty years ago)

two years pass...

from

Is it even expected today that a woman should just be okay with pornography? Like we've 'progressed' to the point where no one should get upset by it? Was Ariel Levy RIGHT???

-- Abbott, Monday, February 4, 2008 12:57 AM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Link

It's not my obsession with porn, babe, it's your reaction to it!

-- wanko ergo sum, Monday, February 4, 2008 12:59 AM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Link

I totally do get this vibe from modren non-'square/straight' society (can't think of any terms that would work outside West Side Story) that a chick's just supposed to accept men jerk it to .mpegs and such, her man jerks it, so it goes. Her opinion doesn't matter, unless she's for it.
1. Is this true and
2. how did it happen and
3. is this a good or bad thing?

Abbott, Monday, 4 February 2008 02:57 (eighteen years ago)

I was gonna respond to your questions regarding this on the eharmony thread where you invoked Ariel Levy. Anyhow, my impressions:
1. True: Yes, I think this has become increasingly the case over the past several years, esp. in the eyes of many younger i.e., early-20's/late-teens dudes
2. The Hows: Internet presumably removing the "shame factor" previously associated with pornography; plus the media push towards "porn chic", "hey porn's gone mainstream"; plus an x factor (pun not intended) of sorts of women going along with it for whatever reasons...like kinda what Levy talks about in her writings
3. Good or bad? Hmmm. Well, I don't wanna live in a society in which porn is illegal, but I can find enough objectionable things about the contemporary porn biz such that the added factor of women feeling like they are uptight or something if they are not cool with their boyfriends/husbands gettin' down w/the porn is pretty sad...actually, I think it's a sad situation for both women and men.

Part of me thinks that porn will eventually "mellow out" from what it's become, and return largely to the comparatively "innocent" Playboy/Penthouse-type sutff of decades past...I'm not sure why I think that, other then that it seems like things have swung to such an extreme that it's hard for me not to imagine it as part of a cyclical thing that must eventually revert back to something more balanced and sane.

So for whatever reasons, my attempt at answering this question is informed in no small part by me personally being skeeved out by what porn has become in the past few years. But more to the point of your inquiry, it's something that obv. needs to be worked out by individuals/couples... and the fact that societal pressures exist to such a degree that people would feel like there is something wrong with them if they are not down with the current climate, well, again that seems sad to me.
3.

dell, Monday, 4 February 2008 03:54 (eighteen years ago)

six years pass...

looks like she won, ultimately

images of war violence and historical smoking (Dr Morbius), Friday, 14 February 2014 14:35 (twelve years ago)

four years pass...

Really good overview of her thought and writings: https://www.bookforum.com/inprint/025_05/20623

xyzzzz__, Wednesday, 30 January 2019 22:55 (seven years ago)

yeah great piece. always found her relationship w Moorcock very interesting.

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 30 January 2019 23:23 (seven years ago)


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